Need advice please. >23, gf is 22. We live at my parents house. >She acts like a bitch quite often and it upsets me. >I've told her before that if she keeps it up I'll kick her out for a couple of days as she stresses me out. >I've just had a couple of days of shit from her, so I've told her she's leaving. >She's fully moved in and works next to my house. >Her mum's house is 90 minutes away by bus, and she will have to bus to work, or get a taxi. >She's mad at me, and apparently I'm the worst person in the world.
I think I'm in the right. Being at my house is a privilege, not a right. I've told her what would happen, and now I'm following through.
Thoughts/advice?
>inb4 reee >this board was my only friend from 17-22yo.
You're in the right, you own the house you get the rules. >This board was was my only friend 17-22 Same here user, except I still dont have friends
Jonathan Gray
as long as she has somewhere else to stay i do not see the problem
Michael Miller
You could always exploit her situation and let her stay as long as she pays you.
Ethan Sullivan
>Thoughts/advice? Man I wonder what it's like to have had romantic validation from a girl like this. I can't even fucking wrap my mind around shit like this anymore
Carter Diaz
If you are feeling bad its a sign you're kind, and therefore probably justified. If she's complaining about your actions instead of hers for the situation, you are 110% justified.
I have to live with my ex and she frequently acts like im the bad one for asking her to pay for her share of the bills, and be clean. Today she refused to clean up her rotting bananas and oranges at the bottom of the bin. If it goes on for two more weeks im changing the wifi password, and undoubtedly I'll be the bad one.
Parker Peterson
People like you ruined this board.
Luke Harris
That's what I'm thinking. She's had many opportunities to think about her actions and correct them.
I can see why normies say girls aren't worth it, but that's only because they haven't suffered years of emotional neglect.
I'm happier than before I had her, but I sometimes wish i had one that was nicer to me.
Since being with her, I don't fear being alone as much. I know that I could probably get a girlfriend again and live a half decent life.
Ryan Green
It depends, try to do what's best. Don't get stepped over but don't be megalomaniac. Without more details it's hard to say. What did she do ?
Jace Miller
She has her mum's, but it is quite far away and she doesn't drive.
She pays a small amount of rent already.
Matthew Phillips
it sounds justified, if she continued treating you badly in your own house even after you warning her, she had it coming. good job standing up for yourself user
Jonathan Lewis
kill her then kill yourself, make sure to use a bat.
Aiden Torres
That's her fault.
Jack Richardson
Just lots of dumb things.
>Getting angry at me that the bottom bed sheet isn't dry in time after it was washed. >Angry that I asked her to pay a small amount of rent. >Slamming doors because she's hungry and randomly expects to come home to a prepared meal despite me working too. >Mad because I didn't check my phone and she had to wait in the cold for 10 minutes when she wanted me to drop what I was doing, drive to her and take her home. >angry because I asked her to move her knee in bed as it was pushing into me.
Lots of dumb stuff, but it's her attitude and the way she does it that upsets me.
I don't ask a single thing from her. I never raise my voice, get angry, slam doors or get annoyed. I react to her bullshit by being distant and quiet whilst seething inside.
Dominic Jones
She hasn't tried to defend herself against anything I've said, she's only attacked things I've done.
She's currently at work, but I'll hopefully be taking her to her mums afterwards.
Noah Young
U weak
Evan Williams
From what I've read you should completely drop her because she's a crazy person.
Noah Wright
finish that toxic relationship
Adam Campbell
>gf leave this board
Brayden Powell
sounds like a classic spoiled daddy's little princess that expects you to do everything for her because she's that special and you should feel lucky for being with her. they are terrible people.
Carson Green
sounds like my gf and me you need to realise that you're either going to have to put up with her behaviour for the rest of your life, or leave her. she won't change. you can't expect her to. you can tell her as many times as nicely or harshly as you want. it's impossible for someone to change unless they want to, and even then it's very hard.
I would just tell you to enjoy the time with her as much as possible. I see this relationship ending like mine is ending - both of you unsatisfied and afraid.
Angel Ward
In what way? Getting upset at relatively trivial things, or my response to this? Or something else?
Her dad ditched her as a kid. Her step dad adopted her, but her mum cheated on him when she was 10 or so. Her mum's next boyfriend was a creep who tried and failed to abuse her when she was 14.
Red flags everywhere, including many big ones.
Her mum is weak af and doesn't discipline.
Jack James
Stop pretending you're the man of the house. You're a 23 year old child still living in mommy's house. If your gf was living with you at your apartment where you pay the rent, you'd have a point, but mommy's house is not your house, and you don't get to make the rules.
Parker Smith
I feel like it's inevitable this is what it will come to.
I want it to last and for us to be happy, but I can't see a long term future with her. She's my first girlfriend, so I've learnt a lot and changed drastically as a person since we started living together 14 months ago.
All I'm holding on to is that she will change. She's much better than she was, but she's completely worn away my patience and tolerance, and I feel resentment as often as happiness.
Jack Taylor
It's not my house, but it's more mine than hers.
She has a parents house that she can go to. I have nowhere else to go to get away from her. If I did, she'd spend a lot more time alone.
Adrian Ross
>asking your gf to pay you rent so that she can live at your parents house Your dad could ask her for rent. You don't get to charge her rent for living in a place you don't own.
Connor Howard
you're a colossal faggot if you can't stand her, dump her. There is no point to dating if you don't get married. And it sounds like a marriage between you two would go south
Parker Edwards
You're definitely doing the right thing OP. The relationship sounds toxic as fuck. Let that bitch go. Just a word of caution though, if you live in burgerland, she may have tenant's rights since she's lived there for more than 30 days even if she has no lease or ownership of the property. Just make sure you have access to an attorney in case she decides to sue but chances are she'll just fuck off quietly.
Jaxon Campbell
Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with a person like that? If the answer is no then you're wasting both your and her time
Tyler Long
In what world are you in the wrong? If she has given you perfect grounds to dump her then dump her entirely and kick her out. If you don't follow through with kicking her out this time it will look like you threatened to manipulate her and your relationship is fucked
Angel Jackson
You're weak in your response to all this. By becoming emotionally withdrawn you're only encouraging her behavior and destroying your dignity. Grow a spine and get rid of her >you're a colossal faggot This user is right. Dump your gf, you'll be happier and you'll get your dignity back
Carson Wright
You're of course in the right but the end result, as always, will unironically be her riding other dudes cock, then probbaly some sadistic shit like coming home and kissing and fucking and telling you she loves yoj.
