>been dating a girl for 3 months
>pretty cool
>her car broke down and needs $1,000 of repairs but she only has $500
>user, please loan me $500
>no
>but I've loaned you money before, user
>yes, like $20 which I paid back
>$500 is too much
>she gets angry and isn't talking to me right now
Am I doing the right thing?
Femanon here. If I were her, I would have broken up with you on the spot. There's no point in a relationship if one partner isn't willing to help out the other one when they're in need
L O L
entertaining story, op
absolutely yes. based and redpilled my friend
Good work OP now just don't speak to her until she starts speaking to you again. You can't let your bitch pimp you or next thing she will be fucking Chad.
not a surprisingly response, actually.
>mfw this roastie slut thinks after 3 months of dating you're her paypig and should cover all of her shortfalls
how the fuck do you not have $500 saved
go find another beta cuck to leech off of
In a proper relationship it isn't his mine or my money, but our money. Plus it's not like she's spending it on a pair of fancy shoes. She's using it to fix her car which is a necessity. It's like if your gf didn't have any food and asked for one of your fifty packs of ramen noodles and you tell her no
>our money
when youre married
>3 months of dating
>our money
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
HAHAHAHAHA
>Plus it's not like she's spending it on a pair of fancy shoes. She's using it to fix her car which is a necessity.
so why the fuck doesn't she have $500 in the bank you dumb bitch
Of course. If you don't have any guarantees, never loan such large amount of money.
w8 m8 I think this is b8
Theyve been dating for 3 months which is not long enough to be giving out $500 even in an emergency. If anything the fact that she needs help with something like this so early in their relationship is a huge red flag and OP should forget about her. But OP is probably a faggy beta cuck who worships any woman that is willing to make eye contact with him.
>OUR money
>but HER car
Bitch your services AIN'T SHIT
If you have the money give it to her or as much as you can. Even if its only 100 dollars. Say , babe i dont have much right now i can only spare 100 sorry babe.
You are damaging your relationship and you are failing to show trust. Yea its only been 3 months , but you are ruining the relationship that you have no idea how long it could last.
NIGGUH NIGGURRRRH
Don't give that bitch ANYTHING.
If she's in a real jam, consider signing a contract.
I have been burned before when lending money, you don't even know this bitch (really).
FUCK THAT BITCH NIGGURHHHH
that couple is so cute!
also you're a piece of shit OP
SRSLY GET THE FUCK OUT YOU PIECE OF SHIT!!!!! JUST LEAVE, LEAVE YOU PIECE OF SHIT NPC FAGGOT!
YOU COME TO A PLACE TO BRAG ABOUT YOUR FUCKING AND YOUR GF WHILE WE SLOWLY ROT AWAY IN OUR ROOMS WHILE YOU FAGGOTS ARE LIVING IT UP AND LETTING EVERYONE KNOW HOW YOUR DICK NEVER TRIES BUT IT'S OK SINCE THERE ARE SOME SITUATIONAL PROBLEMS, SO GUYESES IT'S AN HASSLE HAVING AN GF LOLOLOLOLOL
You're literally trying to make us suicide one post at a time. Well I'm much better type of person than your npc faggot ass, people like me, people with autism get grinded down to dust and we never recover meanwhile npcs like you just go on bullying people into dark places.
Why would I marry a guy who wouldn't help me at all while we're dating?
bullshit. women lose respect for you when you give in to their bullshit. always stand your ground and abide by your principles.
if the woman wont stick with a principled, masculine man, she was never worth it.
>dating for three months
>thinks she can just grab $500
She's a stupid girl. I'd just ditch her and move on.
>huge red flag
How?
why the fuck would he marry you lmao
there are boys and beta bux for you to marry, not men. run along roastie and go make some goblin children with tony the accountant
>marry
who has actually asked you to marry ?
If I ever heard your kind say that in a identifiable or public capacity here's what I'd do:
1) Take you on an unplanned trip to my kitchen table.
2) cut off both your hand's and feet.
3) Keep you on a leesh, take your stumpy body on walks when you're all nice and healed.
4) Then tattoo your body all brown.
5) Put butter on my cock (you know what that means).
>Femanon here
Nope
OP here. She just said she's going to ask her guy friend for the money and figure out a way to pay him back if I don't loan it to her first. I think I'll just give in. I'll spend way more time and energy trying to get another gf anyway
>our money
Nigger, she's a gold digger. Stop being disabled and move on.
Being a man means to be able to provide for your own.
You have a r9k beta skewed view on what being a man or alpha is. Its not being an asshole all the time trying to show how big your dick is. You are so afraid from being shown as weak or getting used or beta, its sad. Its sad that giving your gf money beccause she needs help is considered a sign of submission
redpill: stop blaming everyone else and get your shit together
bluepill: just do it already you fag
Lol . we know exactly what that means. good luck chuck
Sad music is playing in my head. If you were going to give in anyway, it would have been infinitely better just to give her the money straight up instead of causing an argument.
R.I.P
Gimme her number. I'll give her $500
Her mechanic is bullshitting and overcharging. Just tell them what part needs replacing buy it online replace it yourself. Saves 700 hunderd dollar
>just give her your money bro, its not even your money its our money
....AHHHHAAAHHHAAAHHAA!!
lmfao.
waaah waaaaaah, you're not a real man if it's not OUR money
you're a skank if you don't have at least $500 in emergency funds, period. show some intellect & responsibility and stop trying to be a leech
OP you should definitely can her ass ASAP, she probably has the same attitude as this one
>Implying OP knows how to fix a car
This is the same dude who gets manipulated out of $500 by some slut and posts on r9k about it.
>ask her guy friend for the money and figure out a way to pay him back
100% a porn plot
>Can't afford to lend your significant other $500 so they can repair a car they probably need to function is pretty pathetic.
>Expecting your significant other to help you pay for $500 in car repairs after only dating them for 3 months is pathetic
>MFW both clauses are true.
I don't have a face.
I found my wife crying one day after we had been dating for 4ish years. When I asked her what was wrong she refused to tell me. After calming her down and coaxing her to tell me she finally said she didn't know what she was going to do because she couldn't afford her half of the rent due to car issues earlier in the month. She said it was already a couple weeks past due and the landlord was going to throw her out.
I insisted on paying it and I insisted that she didn't pay me back (although she tried like hell.)
That is how a relationship should be.
Fuck entitled women in this thread thinking she should have broken up with him for not lending the money. She shouldn't have asked, period.
Entitlement has ruined this nation.
Has this thread been done before? Got a serious case of deja Vu, especially after this post Fuck, it's a really serious sense of it too, feels kinda nice
Why would I want to marry a dumb cunt who can't even save 500 dollars?
What the fuck are you still doing with her after 3 months if you wouldn't spot her 500 bucks?
Unless youre 16 I don't get it.
Imagine not having even $1000 for emergencies lmao
You do know there are stay at home mom's with no income of their own, right?
yeah but they should have the father of their children provide for them.
>marrying a stay at home mom
wouldn't even TALK to a stay at home mom, let alone marry one
>Dating a women for 3 months is akin to dating a stay at home mom
Wew lad, why do contrarians have to devolve the conversation into something that fits their mental narrative? Like your example has absolutely nothing to do with the conversation, you realize that right?
>3 months
>she is already asking you for lump sums of money
leave this whore. it's only going to get worse.
Welp, she's going to cheat on you regardless now, so best to drop her now and save the money. Any woman who openly tells you she has a backup guy is a fucking whore. Best of luck.
>figure out a way to pay him back
Welcome back to the market user, hopefully your next gf won't be a total bitch.
goldiganon
>why would i marry someone that can't save $500
>durrrrrr stay at home moms don't have income
>i wouldn't marry a stay at home mom
you literally brought up the stay at home moms you daft cunt
HUGE red flag. After that short of a time she is asking you for 500$ and getting upset over you not caving, then she says she's going to get it from another guy. Get the fuck out of there.
Firstly, I'm not the OP you were responding to.
Secondly it sounds like you are agreeing with my post which negates the one I'm responding to, so what the fuck are you talking about?
If I had to give you money every time you need it in exchange of your holes, why I shouldn't just get escorts?
You are useless.
Because escorts wont cook for you and cuddle you
They will cuddle and I can cook for myself, not like women are any good at cooking either, vast majority of professional chefs are male.
They will, some offer the "gf experience"
t. guy who frequently uses escorts
>not like women are any good at cooking either
Sounds like you only date vapid whores user. There are plenty of good girls out there that will make you dinner and suck your dick
Why would you pay $2-300 for the gf experience when you can hop on a dating app for a night and get the same experience for free??
I'm disabled from Asperger's. That's why I need to borrow money.
Pahahaha you got played you dumb faggot she knew all along she could just act that way and leech off you.
Imagine being this fucking cucked. Take the red pill you pathetic stain.
Who the hell asks their boyfriend/girlfriend for money instead of their parents?
I'm the same only she wants 2000 british pounds hahaha
She was slightly upset when I wanted a legal document to ensure i get it back. I can afford it so I'm lending her it but it'll do our relationship no good. I know that much.
Actual femanon here. I would NEVER ask someone I was dating for 3 months for money. Not even $5. Holy fuck manage yourself.
Also kek at cagefaggots. $1000 is more than all my lyfts and public transit tickets and bike repairs for an entire year. I could pay 1k cash right now if I had to. Feels good to spend less than I earn so I never get in a pinch and have to beg for gibs from the latest fucktoy. Cagetards btfo.
When you say bike do you mean a motorbike?
I want one but seems like throwing money away from the amount of fucked broken stories.
A bicycle you fatfuck. Motorcycles also fall to the gasoline and insurance jews.
a real man would take her 500, fix her car, then when she was glazing her pussy over your manliness, you fuck her on the hood.
This is how you establish gender roles in a relationship. Have her bring you snacks while you fix the car.
Source: Im a mechanic and i do this all the time. Still ends up being like 30 bucks an hour too.
Why not just buy her a new car?
That way she can drive to her fuck buddies house in style while you foot the bill!
Asks for big amounts of money with some bullshit reason.
Haha, personally I'm much more likely to leech a bit, sometimes a lot, on the woman. I won't feel good about a break up if I don't owe her some.
Absolute madman. She's gonna remember this, y'know. Remember how unhelpful user was? This'll be part of the reason she breaks up with you.
Likely a bait scenario anyway. Still sad how some think this was a constructive way to assert your dominance.
Quite likely bait, but if not, if he has any hint of self respect, it was 100% over with
>figure out a way to pay him back
from
This is where their true nature shows.
If he is a beta orbiter you should 100% let him. My gf used to get free weed and money all the time from dudes and id spend it and smoke it with her. She worshiped my cock.
>She worshiped my cock
>figure out a way to pay him back
doesn't sound like your situation
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Perfectly reasonable user. You've known this girl for 3 months maybe a bit longer so loaning $500 is a bit risky, understandable to any adult right? This is your first glimpse into how childish women can be. She should respect your decision. Ignore that bitch until she realizes how childish she's being.
this. op's girl is childish, imature and emotional and unstable
also fuck op for being a normie with his stupid normie problems, r9k should be for virgins only
Guy who pays for hookers here, I do use dating apps on occasion but girls always want something from you; your company, affection, money directly and immediately for services rendered or money over a long period of time for the same. 200 dollars isn't really all that much compared to monthly child support or other expenses. I'd rather pay the girl and be done with it instead of having to give my time and emotion which are far more valuable to me.