Loneliness

it's called a social life.
In discord you may have a small group of friends consisting of 6 people like I do, you may know 4 of them really personally and may have been talking to them for several years. I value them and it's the only thing keeping me from committing suicide. But having an online friend group and an actual friend group in real life, like in workspace, is so different it's not even comparable and it's ridiculous if you don't see the differences, or even benefits.

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What more do you want, you laugh with them, talk with them, know them really well. You even said it's the only thing stopping you from killing yourself. In other words these people are literally keeping you alive apparently, and you still can't even value them properly. I genuinely feel sorry for your so called friends.

I relate. I only talk to like 2 people on discord. I just feel like Its too painful to get close to anyone, I just can't help but question why anyone would want to be around me

feeling lonely and not valuing friends are different shite.
It's like saying;
>"hey you have everything you need and could want, why are you sad and depressed? be happy you ungrateful fuck"
having close friends online doesn't cease the feeling of loneliness, unless you have friends in real life. Most of my friends on discord live across the globe, so the timezone is fucked as well. This wasn't the case a couple of months ago when I had to travel abroad.
>just don't feel lonely 4head

I don't even talk to people on discord, I lost all my online friends years ago. Mostly because they grew out or stopping caring about what once united us.
Now this site is pretty much all the social life I have left, and I'm kinda ok with it. I just learned to live with the loneliness.

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that's a dumb way to look at it. we're social beings, staring at a screen and hearing them speak is incredibly recent tech and is not face to face conversation however deluded you are. I haven't had real friends and years and only speak to people online, my best friends are online, but i understand the yearning i have for a real face to face friend.
unfortunately i also understand I have incredibly high standards, because I have maybe 5 people I really like speaking to, and they are spread across the nation, even the world. Chances of finding people like this in my area are slim.

sorry, boomer
did you know penis loses it's elasticity and shrinks over the years? the new cells become rigid

ok, nice to know

>is so different it's not even comparable and it's ridiculous if you don't see the differences, or even benefits.
I avoid social contact, I guess some of us arent cut out for the loner life.
Stop feeling sorry for yourself and either.
>change your life
or
>take the black pill.

100%, taht guy is just a cry baby normalfag.
Wahah waahhaha no friends IRL.
Dude you have friends online man jesus...

>understand the yearning i have for a real face to face friend.
I literally do not

Ever considered that some people have different needs?

>Ever considered that some people have different needs?
I do not have the need for irl interaction.
But he is saying his online friends dont really count, sounds like mean poster

I disagree with him on that. I've had some of my most memorable times online with others, but when the screen is off I'm still lonely, just kinda gotten used to it I guess.

well im sorry you feel lonely friend.
would you like to be freinds?
drop your thingy user

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he just said online friends mean nothing to him m8 it's useless trying.

I disagree.
I ditched everyone I used to talk to online and found some people I actually like.
maybe he just doesnt have the right friends.

I didn't say that, fucker. I mean that there's a difference.

I hope so, maybe user can find frend robot

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Are you a oldfag or did you start browsing here this summer? not really interested in nu-r9k posters

how you gonna judge my nigga like that

How the hell are you even able to get a meaningful interaction out of something like discord? I just get ignored and lost in the ocean of chats. Do you like PM people or something? Maybe I'm just too autistic even for that.

Hahaha what is this? What are you talking about, dude? Haha Just be yourself, you know, man? Haha

comfy server is pretty slow soo

I am not nu R9K.
It is up to you, I am halfway to 50,

>How the hell are you even able to get a meaningful interaction out of something like discord?
want to know the secret?
You have to make your own discord and ban everyone nearly.
You keep only a few good people.

I actually run shell discord servers with the sole intent on finding good people for my real one.
Finding good people on R9K is very hard

link to shell so i can be drafted pls friend

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guess i'll give it a shot, I don't want to post my username so I made a server G45yyq

Hey OP i'm in the same boat. A small consolation is I have a therapist who I talk to and a psychiatrist that prescribes me medication for my mental illnesses. Both have helped a little bit. At least I don't think I'm gonna kill myself like I did before I started seeing them. I think it could help you as well to at least see a therapist.

/towhow

>tfw your in the same boat too
except my friends aren't on discord anymore

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You just have to either let it take over your life and embrace it or fight against it one small step at a time. Nothing else I can tell you, hombre.

And if you need a crutch to help you, take it but don't let it take you. I used drugs to become more outgoing and eventually just became the persona I put on. I still fuck up HUGELY and am still pretty awkward in some cases, but hey I'm trying and I've progressed from being a NEET of 4 years in the same situation as you(OP and to whomever else needs this).

I'm surrounded by normies at uni, some people just out of high school and they already have bf/gf and I'm 3 years older than I should be without a SINGLE FRIEND. Not girlfriend, mind you, any friend.
Fun fact; I was sitting in the library today doing work and then two little bitches sat across from me and after a while tried take a picture of me, laughing. Naturally I left, but was actually get ready to go anyhow

>tfw I don't even have people to talk to on discord
I do match up with all the other things though. I don't know how I ended like this.

hey join my server if youre so lonely
/xjNSPJy

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