>manage to get a date with a girl
>suddenly everything on this board seems stupid, misinformed, and harmful
I really didn't expect such a sudden change. I thought becoming a normie was a slow process.
Manage to get a date with a girl
need more deets
About which part my doggy
Momentary cloudiness. Once I managed to start talking to girls and trying, I stopped coming here. But every few months I'll get depressed or bored and come back. In the moment it seems like everything is great but once things end, inevitably they will, I find myself back here and everything making more sense than ever.
Nah you just got very lucky
So you fuck, you got a second date, how's it goin my man.
But are most things on this board posting women hate overexaggerated? 100%. Most have had 0 encounters with women so they are bitter about all of them, then the others have dealt with shitty break ups which also left them bitter.
Normie roasties who just want money and a big dick do exist, but if someone is going on a date with someone from here they are more often than not gonna be a good girl.
She is a really good girl. She loves her family, kids, traditional pastimes, and seems to really just want someone to love that isn't rude or trashy. She's just a peaceful person that wants a peaceful life.
Sorry I must specify, she doesn't have kids. I meant that she really likes kids because she talks about spending time with the kids in her family a lot.
So you lined up that second date or what then.
Don't leave a brother hanging
I need to know you are gonna make it
We haven't had the first one yet, it's on Friday but she keeps implying that she wants this to be a relationship so I'm assuming things will work out. We haven't even gone on a date and we already have a few ideas for another one. I even went out of my way to include stuff about "the future" as a whole to see how she would respond and only once did she pull back. It was after I made a joke about when I'm available after she said that she wanted to go to a certain place with me. So really as long as I don't completely ruin everything after this it should turn into a second date.
Good shit user. I only just recently had my first date last month as well. Being in a relationship is cozy
You have all the same signs and doing same shit we do. Talking about hundreds of different date ideas and things we want to do while we only just started going out. It's nice and fun to think about and then even more fun to actually do them. I hope you find happiness with her
Thanks man, it was nice to get the monkey off of my back. I've wanted to ask her out for a while now but a few different things held me back. I also had a few bad experiences with other girls and it was holding me back because I was convinced that it would probably be fruitless. It's not my first date ever but I haven't been on a ton and I feel a lot more confident about how this one will go than the others. I'm just really surprised with how well we actually match up. As far as I know we really only share one common interest but it's a big one and neither of us have offensive hobbies. She also didn't show any disdain towards video games and seemed somewhat interested in them, even though it did seem like she was kind of just trying to be nice about it. Once we got onto stuff she liked she was very talkative. Sorry for blogging, I'm just excited because I've dealt with being used, hidden side relationships, being lead on, etc. without even getting into an actual relationship. It doesn't seem like any of that stuff will happen here. She just seems to want to be around me and that's all I want.
You're a slave. I bet you think marriage is worth it.
If anything I can probably relate to you better than anyone. Going through exactly how I was before the first date. For me while I had dated a few girls before it had been 8 years ago. So I never even thought about entering the dating scene again and had accepted I was gonna be an observer. So when this all hit me out of the blue I could do nothing but be excited. I was nervous and felt like I couldn't trust another woman cause of my previous failed relationships, but with her I feel like she actually wants the both of us to be happy. Feels like the first time I've really loved someone.
Having a gf is great until the fun period is over. Then she starts "testing" you. It usually starts after a few months.
>how far can I push him until he goes over the edge?
>when he goes over the edge, what will he do?
>how much can I control him until he calls me out?
>what will happen when I try to make him jealous?
>am I ok with the level of control I have? does he let me control him so much that I lose respect for him?
The real reason why women do this is because they are assessing your "fitness" to be the father of their children, whether they realize it on a conscious level or not. This is why the final test is often getting a dog together. The problem is that all this testing is a royal pain in the ass and if you don't act exactly the way they want then they'll cheat etc. The tests always come without warning which means they are constantly, continuously testing and judging you.
>gets something 90% percent of us will never have
>comes back to brag about it
>calls robots here stupid and misinformed
You were always a normalfag, you were just a failed one who came here to feel better about yourself, but now that you succeeded now you think we suck.
I always had a hard time relating with most people here, it's somewhat nice to meet someone else who's dealt with true difficulties instead of just being bitter. It's a strange being a man after facing challenges and disappointments in dating outside of just being rejected. You feel as if you could try again but you also know that you are more than capable enough to just be alone.
That makes sense though I guess, other than the cheating part which I doubt would happen. If they are truly considering you for life past being butt buddies then wouldn't she want to make sure that you're right for it?
This shit only happens with people who are shit. Be smart and find a good person to be your couple.
more power to ya lad. Some women are worse than others though. Some have a genius level ability to figure out what angers you and they will nag and nag at it and the testing will just never end.
>everything on this board seems stupid, misinformed, and harmful
well be more specific, how are we wrong?
You literally went on a "date" in 2018. If you did not at least go in for a kiss at the end, congratulations, you're now her "friend". Good lord. Did you go out for icecream too?
Shut the actual fuck up user.