Anybody down to talk feels?

like replying with whats bothering you. help others with their feels etc.

come on! dont be shy guys! i thought the internet was for sharing knowledge and humor! lets be wholesome for once and help eachother out!

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I'm fairly sure I'm asexual and I'm afraid of being alone for my whole life.

I was in love with this best friend of mine. we had this fight over a situation with my brother. she has some bad blood with him and 2 days ago she sended a wall of text, saying how no matter what I do ill always be his brother and she can't stand having him in her life. cried everyday since.

well thats okay man, being asexual [which if i remember, means not being sexually attracted to anybody] doesnt mean you cant have close friends or be in a relationship but w/o sex.

>im sure you will find another ace person who isnt really into sex and is more into actual love and affection.

>Wed
I've had a few relationship (2) that ended because I refused to have sex and they assumed I wasn't into them. I also feel very weird discussing my feelings because in a strange way they feel almost fake. Like I could have sex but something inside me is so repulsed by it. I'm still young (19) so maybe with time things will change but for now I'm miserable.

I just want a fucking job.
I don't understand why the kike overlords won't give me one.
I GIVE UP YOU FUCKING JEWS GIVE ME MONEY FOR FOOD HOLY SHIT

ill try my best to help bro. *ahem*
>doctor feels is in the house
so heres what i see, you miss your Bestie because of some problems between your brother and how you reminded her of him.

do not, i repeat NOT, think that this is your fault in any time, place, dimension, or hour.

you feel down user? well, i dont really have a guranteed cure but heres a list of things that my patients reccomended:
>try to remember that it wasnt your fault and that you need to be proactive and turn this L into a W
>partake in working out, it raises your self esteem and it will also help in a better you in the future.
>ride a bike, smell the roses! studies (and patient letters) have shown that simple bike riding or exploring helps release endorphins and other dopamine-like chemicals in your brain.
>play some quiet, chill, open world games like minecraft for a little while. coming from personal experience, playing these types of games really does take the stress outta you.
>never partake in any addictive or harmful coping mechanisms like pornography, drugs, alcohol, or self harm

hope this helps!

I hate the fact that having a oneitis is the only way to keep myself motivated enough to get out of bed in the morning

maybe explore a little!
this world is a sexy place. try out some stuff! see if being lesbian/gay is your thing! yknow?

where are you applying to? most jobs in arizona (like being a cashier or serving food) usually need a little bit of experience in youre applying for

holy fuck that actually helped. gonna buy a bike and learn how to ride it now. not being ironic here, it really helped.

well youre welcome! im going to log off for the night now.
dont worry, i will be looking at your problems in the morning so dont fret to talk!

as for now...
>goodnight spacebots

I live in WV.
I don't have a degree.
WV has the lowest college degrees in the nation.
WV has 1.8 mil pop
Around 1.4 Mil (or 77% of the state) do not have a degree
Only 700k "low-tier" open jobs recorded last month, for the entire fucking state
WV high school graduates rising, but only 22% of those grads will earn a bachelors or up, & will probably leave the state as well.
WV does have one of the most people leaving the state in the nation, but it's only 18,000 people in the last decade, again, hs grads are rising regardless.

This is fucking bullshit.

i'm just bored whaddup

Having flashbacks to my middle school and early high school years. They were pretty much hell. Almost no friends, I did retarded things for attention, and I hated my boomer dad so much. I wish I could change all the retarded things I did, but I know I can't. I try to leave it in the past, but it follows me around like a ball and chain on my mind.

That you Gunjy?
I hate myself immensely.
I start work later this month and I hope I don't get fired.
I really hope to hold onto this job for quite awhile.

>haven't had sex since april
>lost a lot of weight, somewhat muscular and can see my abs if I flex hard
>have a pretty decent face
>only get checked out by underage girls
>girls my age are taken or single mums
>hate talking to people so I'll probably never meet someone anyway
I miss being in a relationship.

LETS TALK ABOUT GLOBAL WARMING

>tfw you get that feel but there's no where to post it cause no one will relate

I've been having a really hard time connecting with people on a personal level, over the past few years I lost almost all my friends and I started really disliking the few I have left, I don't know why but when I go out to have fun with the few friends I have I just come back home wishing that I never even left my room, I can't relate to anyone anymore and all of the people I know are insufferable normalfags who only care about sex and drinking, what can I do to fix this? I know I'm the problem but am I destined to just become loner

>haven't had sex since april
oh no user i feel so sorry for you if it makes you feel better im a 20 year old virgin

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My self worth is in the gutter, and I have no idea how to fix it. Because of that I don't think that anybody genuinely likes me or wants to have contact with me.

theres a girl that i talk to most days and she is my exact height she said she's insecure about being so tall but i think it's cute i really want to be with her and make her feel special but i just don't know where to begin
>the feels r hitting hard tonight

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Why would that make me feel better? Besides, I remember what it was like as a virgin at 16/17, thinking how I'd always be alone and nobody would want me, being ashamed of my virginity and thinking it would repulse girls. I was 100% wrong but I never realised that until afterwards. You'll find someone if you're a chill dude and put yourself out there, you can do it.

Keep chatting with her and deepening the friendship.

I'm lonely and worried I'm wasting my life doing nothing, I feel miserable and pathetic constantly. I wish I had a brother or someone to talk to.

How tall are you?

This

Why don't you two talk to each other? You both could raise each other up and help each other feel better.

I'm staying at my aunt's for a couple weeks while I'm inbetween places, desperately searching for a place while not telling her I don't have anywhere to go. I work retail and just graduated with my Bachelor's but I feel as aimless and depressed as ever. The older I get, the lonelier and sadder I get, and the less weed and alcohol give me comfort. I don't want to live this life, I want something much better. I need to get back on my feet and move on.

My only 'feel' rn is a huge amount of lust for a certain phallic object and it won't go away and it's I honestly couldn't care less but my body keeps pushing me to it so aaaaaaa.

yeah ok all i need to do is be myself thank you for making this board such a great place full of cool individuals who are totally not normalfags

im too tired and lazy to go out with my friends but i dont want be left out

Who said be yourself? Point to where in my post I tell you to be yourself.

this is one of my most common feels
to add to this when i hang out with friends im always irritable because i would rather be at home

Adding on
Don't be afraid to playfully tease. Don't say genuinely mean shit or poke at proper insecurities but also don't just throw compliments at her all the time. Let's be honest, if you're only going to throw compliments, she will just see you as a friend wholesome friend at best (Not bad depending on your aims) or a complete tool, who is trying to hard to get his rocks off.

Either way great luck man!

>You'll find someone if you're a chill dude and put yourself out there
yeah bro i cant wait to meet cool new people and be a chill guy maybe if im lucky a girl will like me for who i really am

The funny thing is you shouldn't just be yourself unless you're also relatively confident, and outgoing.
You don't have to pretend to be some fundamentally different dude. Just sort of be the person you are but more confident.

I realised recently that all my friends see me as an airhead but they try to cushion it by also saying shit like "The reason why you're so calm is because you probably don't think much about anything, be glad about it!!" and they think I'm genuinely stupid. This has made me start to feel more shy around them, so I start stuttering more and they make fun of that which just created this feedback loop of me becoming more shy and doing more of the behaviour they make fun of. On top of that I've also realised that I've always been the ugly one (out of the girls atleast) in all my friendship groups which just makes me even less confident.

The most annoying thing is that I can tell that my seasonal sad times are making it's way back (obviously because it's mid autumn but whatever) and I'm just scared about what shitty things it's gonna make me do this year.

On the bright side my chilie seeds have started to sprout so that's neat

My story begins a while back when I was just a young lad. I used to be alone and I pushed everyone else from my life because I was stabbed in the back a few times and didn't want to deal with it anymore. But then, one day. A nice girl in her 20' invited me to a place where everyone can be equal, and no one is judged by their color or race or anything really, how it should be. She saw I was alone and tried to help me, naturally, I refused, but she never gave up on me. Eventually I gave in and said "fuck it, what's the worst that can happen right?". I went there and it was quite nice, everyone is friendly, active, and pretty normal. Surprisingly I was the only black one there. One day she told us that we were going to stay in the forest for a while, being the house dweller I was, I didn't want to go. They convinced me and I went with them. I had a lot of fun surprisingly. I met new people, I learnt stuff about myself that I didn't even know, and I became more social. And I fell in love with a girl for the first time in 7 years, I felt wonderful. Sadly, she fell in love with another girl (She's bisexual btw), I was sad, and it hurt to see them together, but I did my best to make them happy together because it was the right thing to do (Sidenote: the girl she fell in love with was In a different city, so they couldn't keep a long term relationship). After the trip, I hanged out with my crush more often and we had fun. After a week, she invited me to drink with some of her friends and I gladly accepted. When the day came and we got drunk, she actually confessed to me, apparently she fell in love with me too but didn't say anything about it. I confessed to, she leaned in for a kiss but I stopped her, I didn't want her to regret the kiss the next day. I just started thinking "what if she is just throwing herself at me because she thought it would make her happy?". We kept hanging out until one night I will never forget. Part 1.

ok man too bad most people dont even bother to know that im in the room and nobody really cares enough to invite me to events i just love being the odd one out in every social situation im in but hay thats not a big deal i mean you didn't have sex since April what a tragedy!

I like loneliness and I don't care about have a gf. I like being alone. And I don't care too much about other people besides me.

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How low is your self-esteem that you don't think a girl could like you for who you are? Not even trying to be rude, just genuinely curious.

This. Fake it till you make it is a proven thing in psychology. Men who achieved victory over a rival, however small the victory was, were shown to have increased confidence and were more likely to be victorious in their next encounter whereas the loser was shown to be more likely to lose again and experienced a loss in self-confidence.

This is the psychological principle explaining why some people continually win and others continually lose. You need to create an environment wherein you can make constant, easy, small victories to boost your confidence and self-worth. I'd wager most people here are actively doing the opposite, creating an environment where they constantly put themselves down and revel in information that proves their negative thoughts right.

You're talking to multiple people. As I said, this post is odd in that it's self-flagellating for your perceived negative social status. How are you supposed to find people to connect with if even when you're trying to shit on someone else you shit on yourself too? You have to stop that.

i dont know man maybe its because i have serious mental issues but its cool you normans are welcome to shit up this board all you want

What have you done to sort your mental issues? Have you spoken to your family about how you feel?

>I have serious mental issues

Yeah, you need the Normans.

im out with my friends only because today is his birthday. i rather be at home

Part2: She invited me to hang out with her stacy friend that she really loved. (I'll keep it short because I don't want to re live that) My crush told her friend I was gonna look at her ass (as a joke)(probably) and she got pretty mad, autism kicks in and I start roasting her looks, after she leaves my crush told me that stacy is insecure about how she looks, and I felt really bad. (Unrelated but that night, my instincts told me not to go outside, but it wasn't just a feeling of "something is off" no, my instincts were going wild, it felt like sharp pain all over my face and I even saw a bit of red in my sight, it felt like an alarm was going off in my head. Didn't listen to my instincts though). After a month, I wanted to talk about that night (the one we got drunk and confessed). When I said "I want to stay friends, because I don't think your mental state is ready for a relationship". She deadass looked at me in the eyes and said "You think this was going somewhere?", Oof. Oh yeah, When I was listening to her problems I felt like my problems were nothing compared to what she went through and now I feel like shit help.

i just have rough anxiety problems and mild paranoia i just keep it to myself
i love normalfags you guys make this board so great

>tfw no real life fight club

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Right because the board is that much better when it's just bitching self pitying and moaning.

sure at least its more interesting and unique, but really i dont care normalfags are always full of great advice and fantastic worthwhile feels

>i just have rough anxiety problems and mild paranoia i just keep it to myself
If you can't manage by yourself you should really reach out to someone whether a psychiatrist or a family member you trust. If you get on meds you'll at least be able to function without anxiety until you learn coping mechanisms and solutions for the cause/s of your anxiety.

I dream about my ex almost every day and when I wake up it really hurts. It was a long distance relationship and she was the first girl I fell in love with. The relationship ended 4 years ago and I always dream about meeting her everything goes well. I miss her so much and I don't know what to do. Going through my old e-mails gives me a bitter-sweet feeling. I feel like my only purpose in life is to be with her, I was born just to meet her.

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>Going through my old e-mails gives me a bitter-sweet feeling.
DELET THESE

>I feel like my only purpose in life is to be with her, I was born just to meet her
Stop convincing yourself of this bullshit. Are you stupid? No? Then you know, deep down, that this isn't true.

Hate to make you feel worse but long distance relationships aren't really a thing m8 if you've never met her it doesn't really count.
Life goes on and so should you.

>tfw just hit that sweet spot of sleep deprivation caused euphoria

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Is it weird to find oneself suddenly curious about what life their unrequited freshman year HS crush is living now, After almost a decade has pasted since you last interacted?

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Nope, wonder that all the time. Looked her up, found out she's depressed and fat. She led me on hard, too. Dunno how to feel about that.

I made a post about bestiality that sparked a lot of interesting debate about sentience, consent, property, law, etc. Then I got a 30 day ban for posting about something illegal. Now I'm worried that that I'll shitpost and get another ban.

Plus, those 30 days made me realize how hooked I am on Jow Forums, which is even more concerning.

>She led me on hard, too. Dunno how to feel about that.
Dam that sucks, What made you look her up again in the first place?

What's gotten me curious about by unrequited crush is that she suddenly friended me on facebook using an account with almost no personal info including a complete absence of images.
One of the details that ramps up my curiosity and speculation the most is the fact I am her only friend on facebook besides 1 woman I haven't met before, Yet it's been months and nothing has changed about her normiebook nor has she contacted me through facebook.

I am interested enough to want to ask her how her life has been but if you read you might agree with me and others that there is no good reason for me to do so.

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Fucking nigger. You deserve this. A woman handed herself over to you on an erotic platter and you turned her down. You could have groomed her per your ideas or at least have had a fling but no, your moralfag autism acted up.
LDR is a meme, my man.

underage? like what we talking? 16? 15?
idk man. if you wanna get extreme with relationships. you can wait til theyre legal and shoot your shot

>be degenerate femboy trapfag
>have bf
>I don't actually enjoy sex that much
>he has a high libido
>feel like human garbage because I can't take care of his needs

It's so bad I've unironically considered becoming a cuck so he can actually have sex regularly. I love the bastard and this is nothing but a me problem.
How do I fix myself.

Yeah like 15/16. 16 is legal age here but I'm not interested. It'd feel wrong imo.