I just don't understand how someone can be an involuntary virgin in today's day. I mean if you're doing it voluntarily, props to you. Saving it for marriage is pretty commendable. But wanting to lose it and being unable to? LMFAO. Girls are figuratively and sometimes literally throwing themselves into bed in 2018.
Pic unrelated, just picked it because of the big NYY win last night
What if I don't give a fuck about getting laid
So you're voluntarily a virgin?
I'm too much of an autistic loser to approach women
I guess lol
Originality
Than you're fine. Nothing wrong with not getting sex when you don't want it.
It's just the people who want it and act like it's an impossible task in 2018.
This. They also think getting pussy is the most worthwhile thing in life. Fucking losers kek
I can guarantee that I could get anyone on this board laid, no matter how fat or ugly he may be (pending his standards are realistic)
The thing is these fucking neets want a virgin 10/10 blonde girl with huge tits and a great ass. They don't wanna settle for anything else. Everyone can hit an ugly whale.
>I could get anyone on this board laid
how?
>I just don't understand how someone can be an involuntary virgin
okay here's the easy three-step wizard program:
>be a loser in high school
it's simple to not get laid in high school if you're unpopular, girls are very conscious of who they're seen around and will avoid you. Being bullied is optional, just being the outcast nobody talks to works as well.
>be a commuter student in college
this ensures that you won't be going to any parties or having any girls stop by or anything since that shit only happens in the dorms. as soon as classes are over you'll be gone because you don't want to miss your train or hit rush hour traffic, do you?
>after college, don't work with women near your own age
The most straightforward case is to fail to get a job and be a neet, but you could also just work in a male-dominated field or at a place where your coworkers are older (and thus if there are any women among them, they'll be married, uninterested, or bot)
Implying most have realistic standards. But yeah, getting laid isn't hard at all. I haven't had sex yet, but I have hooked up with a couple of chicks. Just doing that is easy asf
stop self-posting norman, leave.
sage
Let's say first that you have certain standards. Not talking about only going with a #/10, we're talking about not wanting to stick your dick is someone you don't care about. So you want an actual relationship with whoever you would fuck.
But...
You're ugly or otherwise not particularly attractive.
Also you're awkward and have little confidence due to past experiences. Hell, maybe you have serious anxiety issues as well.
So you want to date that one girl. She's nothing special (though she thinks she is) but you think she's cute.
Let's say you do manage to talk to her and ask her out. That took a lit of effort , but you did it even if you came across as a total loser because of the anxiety and general lack of confidence.
Obviously she says no. On top of saying no she actually recoiled from you with a genuine disgusted look on her face.
Well, better luck next time, right? I mean the previous dozen times you asked a girl out had similar results but it can't always be that way. Too bad you don't actually believe that and all the cumulative rejections make you even more awkward with each attempt.
I guess you could finally confess to that one girl you get along with. You have known her for years and feel comfortable around her. She's a good friend and you can totally see yourself with her as something more. Might as well.
Lol, you didn't really think you were going to hear anything but "I don't want to lose you as a friend". I means that is the pattern...... so, what now?
Yeah. Not like we had this thread yesterday. And the day before. And on hundreds of other days. GTFO
See, the thing is the awkwardness, anxiety and self esteem issues are things that can be fixed. If you aren't good looking you can compensate for that with money, clothes or confidence. Find a bitch, talk, smile and laugh with her and ask her if you want to hang out at your place. Easy.
I mean if I knew you in real life I could get you laid. You'd actually have to leave your room though
Yeah that's the main issue. Guys here want girls leagues above their own.
> the awkwardness, anxiety and self esteem issues are things that can be fixed
Much easier said than done, trust me.
>ask her if you want to hang out at your place. Easy.
Oh, BTW. Don't mind my mom with COPD, my dad with dementia, and my trumptard brother....
I do know its easier said than done, I was socially awkward and anxious all the time. That's why you gotta work at it. Its worth it. If you can't take the girl to your place, then go to hers. I don't even want to put you down user, its just frustrating to see people with desires not taking steps to fulfill them.
Honestly the reason for me is most women around my age where I am are taken, and i've met a few who turned out were fine with being cheaters when they showed serious interest, I might be desperate but I don't condone hooking up with cheating girls. They didn't do very good in covering it up. After about twice it happened, if I came across a girl who was "into me", I had to research into her to see what came with it. If I had evidence and a way to find her bf, i'd go to him for it, sometimes it ended well with the guy and others they wanted to cave my skull in for "chatting shit".
I don't condone being with cheaters, but there must be some non-cheatinh single girls in your area.
They've been surprisingly far and few, the latest try I thought was going really well but I got ghosted like 3 meets in, we got to foreplay but she said that whole "lets not rush it". I know i'm doing something wrong, just not sure what
>marriage
l mao
>very physically strong
>decent face
>kind of fat though
>highly educated, 3 degrees and several licensures and certifications
>good job, well respected
>own car
>own apartment
>keep everything clean and furnished tastefully
>hobbies like kayaking, writing, and playing piano
>turning 31 soon, khv
I take steps all the time, they're just apparently not in the right direction. I'm too cognizant of myself to pretend to be someone I'm not for the sake of sex, and were I successful because of that I wouldn't be able to enjoy it. The point is that someone finds me, the actual me, worthy.
It doesn't matter, you won't be able to take a page from my book and you're going to fill in all the unknowns with your preconceptions about the romantically unsuccessful anyway. If I knew the answer I wouldn't be here bitching about it.
I understand what you Mean, people talk to each other no Matter what, irregardless if someone's doesn't want to participate in society.
I'm a virgin still, but I'm actually happy that I'm left alone. I dont enjoy people