Gf constantly complains about everything thats going on in her life

she wouldn't make a good mother the way she is, and that's the primary criteria you need to use to evaluate whether or not you stay or go.

Noted

experience

Same but without the
>Sex is amazing though, and I can tell she really does love me
part

fuck me...

>pointing out that mentally unstable women are usually not loyal means you hate women

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>starves herself instead of going to the gym to maintain her body, rejects the notion of going to the gym
>never gets herself tested for anxiety and depression because shes too afraid to go by herself
>every time i suggest that she she should improve herself she rejects it
Make her read these, then dump her
>chaosandpain.blogspot.com/2010/02/just-because-you-have-vagina.html
>chaosandpain.blogspot.com/2011/01/just-because-you-have-vagina-second.html

>Stop trying to change people to fit your ideals faggot
don't be a retard, there's nothing wrong with trying to help people to improve themselves for their own benefit.

A decent portion of Jow Forums got into it after a bad break-up and a toxic experience regarding relationships and women in general.
Add to this some shit like Peterson fans, FPH threads ( always targetted at women), TRP theories and Jow Forums's tradition to shit on feminists and there you have it.

> loyal
> sex is amazing
IMO as you age those may very well be the only two things you should look for in a relationship with a girl. As you've mentioned, you can't get them to admit responsibility and commit top change so you should basically do what they like to complain about men : tune her out and lead your life as best and freely as you can without indulging in her bullshit.
Be always ready to break-up if one of those two points start falling off, but there's no need for you to go back to jacking off alone in a hard room eating cold leftovers if you know she'll suck your dick and yours only.
Most women out there have the same meme problems as yours, and they're not even loyal, so you could in a way think you have it as good as it can almost get.
If Men had the ability to fuck around as easily as women have it, we would endlessly cycle between 6 months relationships. Those are always the best and after that there's always some shit that starts going dowN.

dump her. dont date someone you cant respect. itll kill you slowly.

Dump her. Get out.

> Loyal

This is already extremely rare among sane females..... So it's utterly impossible that she has deep psychological issues and is loyal at the same time.

Sooner or later she'll bounce on Jamal's cock to feel validated and that "she's worth it".

It has nothing to do with hate, it's just a simple truth.

Guys who hate women are the ones who grew up thinking women are unironically "the fairer sex" and will love you for who you are bla bla.... until reality hits them on the face. They "hate" women, but ultimately hate having their world view shattered.

Guys who already accepted the true nature of women don't hate them at all, they just know what really goes on.

I texted her and told her this morning that im tired of the constant pity parties and talking her talking about shit that really doesnt matter at all. The other day she went on an almost 2 hour rant about how she felt bloated and so she took laxatives. Shes always thinking that shes either gained 20 pounds or lost 10 every week. Anyways, she only replied with "alright" after I told her that I'll gladly help her out with real issues but that im sick of her whining over nothing.

And then of course there are the tons of delusional men that still view women as naturally amazing humans (more so than men) and thus don't hate them because they're living the hype.

Eventually they'll go through the "hate" phase and, if they're not fucked in the head, they'll grow to accept the nature of women and live well with it without believing in BS like romantic love and female loyalty to her partner (as opposed to their offspring, to which most women are capable of true, selfless love).

Or, if they're fucked in the head, they'll become life time misogynists.

This a hundred times over. If your lifestyles are that different and she’s that wishy washy it’s just going to turn into resentment eventually regardless of the sex.

Well props to you for having the balls to tell a woman some hard truths in 2018.
However chances are that, while she gave you the one-word answer "alright", she's probably going mental right now and is probably resenting you like crazy (rejecting responsibility and blame-shifting, remember ?) So if I were you I would expect some shitstorm incoming about this and some unrelated emotional blackmail attempts to spice it up.
Just hold your ground to the very end and don't allow her to get sidetracked, girls usually try to move from the topic to go on some topic where they'll know they'll have the upper hand, even if said topic is utterly unrelated. As I've said, the key is to always accept the possibility of the relationship ending - it's like accepting that death may reap you at any moment.

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How did she respond?

Not him but he literaly said she answered with a "alright" user. Cmon, pay more attention and read bettet.

Your gonna have to sit down and talk to her about this shit bro. Whatever she has going on obviously isn’t going away anytime soon so just know it’ll be a while before she’s better. If you really love her you’ll be ok with that. If she doesn’t want to get better though you know what to do.

If you're considering making a lifetime commitment to this woman
>If you became incapacitated, would you trust her judgement to take care of the finances and the household, or would you be worried that she'd fuck things up due to carelessness or stupidity?
>If you died and left her a widow with your children, do you trust her judgement enough to be confident that she would raise them properly? That she would be discerning enough to choose a good stepfather if she remarried?
Sounds like a no.

I told her that I was sorry if I came off like an asshole but I wanted to tell her as it is and she replied "thank you for expressing how you feel."

The thing is that I know that she's aware of how much she bitches and complains, yet she still does it because im convinced she's incapable of just keeping certain things to herself. So when she says that, its half serious-half bitter towards me pointing it out. This isnt the first time ive had to bring this to her attention.

already planning it
to bad her family is really into me tightly
the only person I dont want to hurt is her father
I most likely have to "break up" with her father while having a drink, or five .

Good on you mate. Try your best to explain everything to him and his wife so she doesnt demonize you, that shit sucks.

> Guys who already accepted the true nature of women don't hate them at all, they just know what really goes on.
This
Imagine your grandfather / father is telling you women stories, how to deal with them to have a happy marriage the good way.

It is understanding the behaviour of women if you let them do whatever you want and don't handle them accordingly.

>FPH threads are a bad thing
Explain to me whats bad about hating delusional fatties.

>The thing is that I know that she's aware of how much she bitches and complains, yet she still does
It's called an unhealthy coping mechanism and 98% of people have them : drinking, smoking, complaining, spending money on useless things, etc ...
You shouldn't force people to get rid of their coping mechanism though, due to the very nature and necessity of what is a...well, a COPING mechanism. It may be annoying and self-destructive, but as you've seen, she needs it and it's not entirely rational.
What you CAN do and what is absolutely manly is to enforce your limits : "I'm here for you whenever you want to try to change, I love you, but this aspect of you is something I can no longer endure as it is starting to threaten my own peace of mind and it's putting a strain on my relationship" (saying something like this is actually girl talk because it's validating while at the same time setting boundaries).

>I most likely have to "break up" with her father
Remember to say "no homo" when you do otherwise he'll think that his daughter will have been dating a faggot all this time.

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> Reading comprehension
I simply said FPH participated it what can be seen as "woman hating posting" on this board, never said it was a bad thing.
Just that FPH fall under the "let's trash women" shitposting category.

Honest advice:

Most of the time, women don't want to solve the problems they complain about. If you want to try to end the complaining, the last thing you want to do is try to fix the problem or talk her through it. Just say the dumbest and least helpful thing you can think of like "that must be so hard" or something like that. Just listen and offer the worst platitudes imaginable and she'll shut up faster.

If you try to help or solve the problem, you'll just extend the length of the complaining.

The exception is if you can solve the issue completely on your own. If she's complaining that the dishwasher isn't fully rinsing the dishes or some shit, repair the dishwasher without saying anything.

If the above fails, kick her to the curb.

> Adivising Dexposting IRL
"That's hard...That's really hard."

He's a liberal, so of couse the moment /fph/ dares to show a fat woman alongside a fat man as a monument to the sin of failure, he kneejerks thinking its 100% misogyny.

Reject woman. Purchase dog. Hire hooked when you want sex. You're paying for sex with your gf in the terms of presents and dinner and shit anyway.

if you don't understand that women vent and don't change whilst men do the opposite you haven't spent enough time round them to be talking on the subject

Honestly, user... this is almost all women these days.They're almost all emotional, lazy and self-destructive. This is how the modern educational system pumps them out and you're likely never going to do any better without finding yourself a woman who didn't grow up in the western world or at minimum was just heavily influenced by solid parents.

lose the emotional attachment, put in zero effort towards fixing her problems and enjoy the sex until she gets chubby and then dump her.

My GF was diagnosed with bipolarism, schizophrenia and Aspergers... but she has a tiny waist, 32D titties and starts playing with my dick at random 5-10x per day. I can deal with how crazy she is because the amount of great sex I get from her would cost a fortune in hookers.

nice full house

>If you try to help or solve the problem, you'll just extend the length of the complaining.
There is a screencap from an user explaining this.
As soon as one problem is solved, they come up with a new one, mostly more idiotic problem.
Don't waste your time on that issue.

get a child, raise it alone as single father so the mother won't fuck it up and spoil it?
Is this an option anons?

All good answers in my book. I told her that if we're going to last, I need to be open with her. I told her that theres probably shit I do that pisses her off too and I expect her to be open with me about that.

Basically just told her to complain when its worth complaining

>Lift people up
How much do I need to lift to be able to do this to a 6' 180lbs man?