what is worse?
>having felt real love and lost it forever
or
>always been alone
What is worse?
Ryan Gomez
Zachary Gutierrez
>having felt real love and lost it forever
Michael Martinez
>having felt real love and lost it forever
Is actually far worse, but those that have not been there will always feel otherwise.
Blake Ward
I don't know and can't speak for those that have always been alone. I imagine that's torturous in its own right and absolute self esteem destroying. But having felt real love and lost it forever is soul crushing and its own Hell.
Nathaniel Bell
>always being alone
Anyone that says its worse to have loved and lost are moronic normies. The pain of never experiencing something which is essential for good mental health, that everyone else gets to experience is greater, not to mention the fact that you dont mature emotionally past highschool if you've never loved. Also, if you've loved and lost you have fond memories to look back on in times of loneliness. Without those memories it's easy to fall into a black pit of constantly asking yourself why you're not good enough and contemplate suicide because you feel like such a failure. The best part is that not being loved for long enough actually makes it more difficult to attract someone because you turn into a negative, bitter person with a hurting heart.
Thomas Gray
>what is worse?
knowing you could have gotten real love but you missed out on it because you fucked up
Oliver Moore
The secondo one but losing the love of your life is worse
Cameron Ward
Absolutely this. I had a few relationships in HS, but only one since. I really thought she could have been the one and I thought the WORLD of her. But she cheated on me and left me instead. I had so much more in common with her than anyone else I've ever met and I just haven't been the same since. It's been 4 years now since and all these people complain about begin virgins, but having sex with just anybody is fucking miserable. You'll just feel like shit because you realize nobody is ever going to love you like her ever again and you are still a lonely piece of shit. So what's the point.?
Taryn you fucking whore
Dominic Miller
>having felt real love and lost it forever
>real love
>he falls for the vaginal jew
Levi Rogers
>so socially isolated he can't even love a dog
Sounds like something a NPC would say.
Lucas Gray
>he thinks this is real love
dogs and cats like you because they want litterally food you brainlet
Aaron Cook
>women only like you because they want literally food, shelter, and dick you brainlet.
Sounds like you fell for a jew trick.
Nicholas Lopez
there is a little chance that girls still love you for what you are but they are in a small groups, most women today just want chad
Blake Cruz
I did, yes. what about it? we were naive teenagers and loved each other
source on that?
Xavier Jones
Dogs don't choose you, you enslave them. Any love they feel towards you is by definition stockholm syndrome
Brody Rivera
look at it however you like man, but you just went from "they want you for food" to "it's just stockholm syndrome love"
that's some hard backpedaling
Wyatt Hernandez
She never loved you. Move on faggot
Xavier Kelly
The second one.
At least if you lived it once, you know it can still happen once more.
If were always alone, it means none find you worthy of personal affection. You are little more that a monster in the eyes of females.
Nathaniel Jackson
Always being alone, obviously
If you've been loved you know you have the capability to find it again. If you have never been loved there is a permanent blackness in your life that will never be brightened.
Brayden Hernandez
The "having felt real love and lost it forever"
At least on the second option, you know you will never have a chance so coping with it is kinda easier
Alexander Scott
>having felt real love and lost it forever
More suffering.
>always been alone
Less suffering but much worse, because you have only one life to experience everything this world has to offer.
It's better when anything happens in your life, both good and bad, rather than everyday being always the same.
Julian Roberts
Third option
>Had the chance to love but missed it
Carson Smith
This resonates with me deeply.
Jace Carter
I was 30 when I had my first real relationship, and then lost it.
That was really hard. But it feels good to me to know that I am not (or at least was not) hopeless.
Not knowing romantic love is worse. Its not like a drug. Its like a human need. Without food your body shrivels and wastes away. Without love your soul withers.