Convince me why I need a real woman to be my gf or wife instead of just investing in dolls. I'm 36 and options are getting short as I grow old.
Convince me why I need a real woman to be my gf or wife instead of just investing in dolls...
I mean, I really like dolls. They make me happy because I know they'll be here when I come home from work. I can play with them and dress them up as I like anytime I want.
Sure they don't cook or clean, but that's not something you put on a resume to win someone over.
I took the final dive last month and got a doll. Honestly at first I kind of regretted it but it slowly grew on me. As a 28 KV it greatly reduced my depression over >tfw no gf. I like buying clothes for it, even if figuring out what size it takes for certain clothes is a pain
If I had the money and privacy, I would buy a doll.
They do cure that lonely feeling you get. They make great companions besides having a dog or cat. Aesthetically, they're extremely pleasing. And when I look at them, they make me smile for some unknown reason.
What dolls are the besst to buy?
Those dolls don't even look realistic. She looks so pale. You should invest more money in dolls.
Saving up for one took me a year. But by then, more options and choices and better material silicone was made. So it might not be a bad idea to save up and wait to see what comes out.
im 34 bro im gonna catch up to you sooner than later
godspeed dude
Man, I'd love to get a doll someday.
I really like the dsdoll series. Their silicone platinum base and super ultra easy to clean and take care of. More durable than TPE dolls. I just prefer their body type in the long run.
where did you get that dress?
Its the lighting, they're not as pale as you would think. The blue tint in these photos is just my flash going off with a high level of white balance.
Um.. that's the same question I'm asking. Hence, why I'm asking?
As an experimentalist I'd like to get one just to know what it's like, but the limited options, the cost and the fact I'd end up alone are solid deterrents.
The purple hair is nice though, I'm way jealous of her. Mine is too curly so I keep it way short.
Thanks, it took awhile. I hope you'll be able to find a stable income and place to live by yourself so you can just have your dolls never hidden.
How much did it cost? Originalloo
If budget and space is an issue, you can always start with a cheaper ball jointed doll, this one is a Volks Miku with different hair.
I mean, I'm not actually considering getting a doll ever, but I'm fascinated by the psychological impact it might have on people ever since I made a research on sex bots for university.
Wtf? What makes you think you aim for "real" with this? If I ever get a doll I'm going as anime-ideal as I can. Fuck manjawed dolls.
Wait, so you are legit content with having a doll OP? Like, you don't care about getting a real woman anymore?
I am a 30 year old virgin user. I never had a gf in my whole life. If I want to drop money on sex doll. Atleast, it should look real. To fill the empty pain inside me
Cost is minor if you think about the long term. Like if you save up $100 a month, or $50 a month, you could have one in a little over a year. This includes shipping.
But the social aspect of it all, being alone, the doll is actually what helps me with my own anxiety with real people. So I don't feel alone.
How much did you bought the doll for??
And, how's the sex? Is it great? Do you sleep with her, maybe cuddle? How's that feel?
Well, I first started out with a Obitsu BJD, naked back in 2008. And that cost me $400.
Then I bought a 160cm silicone doll from Japan, that cost me $3000, mostly because of shipping. Thing weighed 70lbs.
And my DSdoll cost me $2100 with shipping. Best purchase by far. Got her this year. And love her to death.
pls respond its a cute dress and would look fine on my doll
Thanks. Man. I've been also saving up for a sex doll. I have 5k right now. I was hoping to buy a car but, I can't cope with loneliness anymore. I can survive without a car .
Well, all the research about over population didn't add in the variable of "social evolution". We now how the MeToo movement and multiple allegations of rape that ruin people's lives out of spite.
Now look at what's happening in Japan, men being used and abused has lead to this reliance on a new outlet. Humans are socially fragile. So this was a logical conclusion to going for a more surrogate form of affection.
Oh fuck! I hadn't realized I wasn't posting as Anonymous. Welp, I'm glad I realized now and not before posting something extremely personal x)
I meant it's expensive for something I don't really want. I'm only curious because I wrote a paper on the moral and legal implications of sex bots for a class. Still, good for you if it helps!
I care.
I use to have the touch of a real person, that was nice. The kindness of a person was so great, but trying to maintain it was tough. It didn't last, it degrades and you would need to find someone new to replace it. Then the distrust, the yelling, the betrayals.
Psychologically, its taxing. But if the opportunity arrises where a woman would find me attractive and I find her attractive, then I won't pass up that opportunity.
But still, I don't see a problem with having a doll over a woman. Convince me otherwise.
Its fine. Reminds me of my first time. The girl just laid there screaming like a banshee though. The doll pretty much lays there. Sex isn't as fun as you would think. Its over rated.
This user is very wise. A true robot
Thrift store. Made by some fashion company called "soda blu"
Buy a car online, dealerships tend to rip you off. You get better prices online too.
Thanks, sometimes the older and more experience you get, the wiser you become.
I've considered it, but I don't particularly like them. I'd like to get one like OP's, which is very cute. My issue is mainly monetary so I guess I just have to start saving.
Although I'm not a very good financial advisor, as everyone's situation is different, you have to look at your resources available to you and options that they give you.
For example, a car can help you become a uber driver on the side of your main job.
A extra bedroom can be a rentable air bnb.
Selling old things you own or selling things you make. A little girl made $100,000 just selling bows she made on esty.
So once you sit and look at all the things you have, your skills, and your time, you can save.
Don't you ever feel lonely? Like you had a real GF instead of a big bag of silicon
>A little girl made $100,000 just selling bows she made on esty.
>tfw a little girl made more money than you could in your entire life
Someone asked a similar question. If you read the original post, I also asked a similar question.
I had 2 gf's in my life so far, both ended up crazy and someone vengeful. I wouldn't mind a gf, but have social anxiety and end up looking like a creep/predator. So that never turns out well.
And the point of having a silicone bag is to replace that need for human affection.
Do I feel lonely? Yeah, I do. But then the rage of the past burns it away knowing that giving away who you are can be used against you in a firery mess where you're instantly called a pedophile, racist, and creep. Because of vengeful people, they turn all your friends against you. Socially outcasting you into the abyss. The community you sought to join is now shunning you and wishes you to be killed off.
In the long run, I'm not lonely, only when I forget how I got to where I am I get lonely.
That's some good advice, thanks user. I don't make much and any money that doesn't go to pay my necessary living expenses, go to books, booze and cigarettes. I'm pretty sure I can start cutting back on those and start saving some money, slowly but surely.
Dolls don't love back
Neither do women
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Hello anons, 20-year-old kv here. I'm currently making plans for the future. At first, I made a promise to myself that when I turn 30 and I'm still a kv, then I'd go fuck a prostitute. Now, I'm having double thoughts. Should I just get a doll in the future? I'm already saving up money for the future prostitute, should I just invest in dolls instead?
So like, are these dolls the type that you can have sex with? Like, do they have a vagina and a butthole? Can their mouths open and are their tongues soft (I'd like to practice kissing)?
You're going to save for 10 years just to fuck a prostitute? Unless you're saving pennies, I think you'll be able to pay for both a prostitute and a doll with that kind of money.
Love really does fade if not taken care of. Things in life tend to cause bumps for that feeling with another person.
They're too busy to spend time with you, or distance or work hours.
This kind of relationship can sour that "love".
But with a doll, I love her, and it reflects that feeling back in a "feedback" loop. So I'm basically loving myself. Its loss-less. So that won't convince me. You're going to need a solid foundation to put up a good argument.
Pathetic robots. You will all die a virgin. Having a sex doll is one of the most disgusting things a man can do!
It's like a little jar that I occasionally stuff coins and 1 dollar bills into. Not really doing it actively, just when I have spares.
no one cares. you don't understand. no one cares
Sex is overrated. But you can do both. Prostitutes just want you to cum then they leave. Its a rush job for them. So you don't really get the full experience of a relationship. Start off small, get a BJD, then work your way up to a sex doll. If you don't like the ball jointed doll, not a big loss and it can hide in your closet forever or be resold on ebay. Selling a used sex doll is not ideal and would only cause regrets.
I would say avoid the prostitute route as long as you can. Its not genuine and you'd feel ripped off after spending $100 for a 10 minute blowjob.
She's a roastie lad. Ignore her. Waifu bots are the future
Yes, its a sex doll. all 3 holes work. I kiss mine every day before work.
Well, if that's the case, I don't know. It's a really personal question. I wouldn't like losing my virginity with a prostitute, but that's me. I'd go for the doll but then again, I've never had one but I'd like to. If we take into considerations the pros and cons of both, I'd say the doll still wins. You'd be able to use her many times and you'd able to buy clothes for her and stuff like that. With the prostitute, you'd actually be losing your virginity and having sex with a real woman but I'd only once and just for some time. There's also the added risk of getting some weird disease from said prostitute or something like that.
You're based user. I wish we could be friends. All my normie friends keep insisting me to have sex. Even, one normie friend paid for a prostitute, but I ended up playing vidya with her.
I've always wondered, how do you get rid of a full-size fuckdoll without it looking like a murder?
>but I ended up playing vidya with her.
Green text?
This doesn't convince me into swaying towards getting a gf/wife. In fact, it actually makes me not want to spend any time with another person because they are capable of this name calling and belittling. Sorry not into that. Dolls +1.
So, all this talk about dolls has got me thinking about androids/sex bots. In the (far) future, would you want your android to feel actual emotions or would you prefer her to be a husk that merely emulates emotion?
Basically, do you want her to love you back or to pretend to love you. Of course, the benefit of the latter is that they can never betray you or fall out of love with you.
>I ended up playing vidya with her.
Story time.
>be me
>27 year old khv
>co-workers know that I am a virgin
>keep insisting me to get laid, often invite me to bars, clubs but, I refure
>one day normie co-workers tells me he feels bad for me
>"hey bud, I got a surprise for you!'
>i get confused
>get to home
>11PM
>someone knocks at my door
>you're Daniel right? One of your friends paid me to have sex with you. I am here for your service for 1 hour
>shit.jpg
>tell her I do not want to have sex with her
>ask her how much he paid
>she tells me 200$
>mfw
>feel bad, tell her to come inside
>she know I am virgin. She herself isn't much interested in having sex
>isnt it obvious.jpg
>later that night play vidya with her, tell her to lie to my friend that I had sex
>she agrees
>she leaves
>next day my friends congratulate me for becoming a man and losing my viriginity
>mfw my normie friend paid 200$ to a prostitute so, I could play vidya with her
Thanks. I'm on the extreme side of anti-social. Prefer to spend most of my time online and away from people who has the ability to destroy all I built with a single word. Its the fear and paranoia that keeps me locked away in my corner of the world, but I have been through the social circles of the war in Iraq, the cosplay community, and the college life. So that kind of experience helps me with coping with who I am.
And normies are just brainwashed to reproduce. Thanks to media, movies, and stories, we are bred from birth to follow that law. To be sheep. If you let sex be your master, you'll never be free in your mind.
Is there a page or something like that in which I can see some nice photos of dolls in cute clothing? This thread made me want to see some.
is it because you know you could never get a girl this attractive irl?
sorry, but dolls will always be static. they'll never moan or pump their hips or tell you how badly they need to cum inside of them. it's a pale imitation of a real gf. but for what it's worth, i hope you find pleasure in fucking a piece of plastic.
this is a patrician taste and I second this user's inquiry
Unlike most, I don't plan on getting rid of any of my dolls. As a former cosplayer, I learned a thing or two about crafting. So when the silicone is stained or torn beyond repair, I can replace it with smooth-on products and cast a new "outer layer skin" for my dolls making them good as new.
i'm not even a virgin but i wouldn't mind fucking one of these
>feel actual emotions
>emulates emotion
Aside from original intentionality vs. derived intentionality, what's the difference? If the observed phenomena is the same, does its origin matter?
I want JOI from blade runner. That's the ideal cyber wife to have.
Man, that's a tough question. Of course I'd prefer she felt actual emotions because I'd like to think that if she falls in love with me, she wouldn't fall out but I guess that could happen. Unless they're programmed in some sort of way not to do that but if such is the case, I guess there's no difference from her just emulating emotion. So I'll go with the latter.
Eh. You can find women who are amazing at everything but sex, or amazing at sex but not at everything. A doll is like having a girl thats bad at sex, but also has none of the possible negative personality traits.
What did you play? Did you have fun?
But, can you tell the difference between real and doll vagina
Yeah but what if you just get tired of it, or get a massively upgraded android model?
Its good you stuck to your morals and ethics. Means you won't have regrets in the long run. Keep doing what you're doing and karma is going to reward you properly.
Just keep improving yourself aswell, working out, educating yourself, and be an asset, not a liability.
so you'd prefer a woman who's a dead fish in bed and had none of the possible benefits of a gf (i.e. cooking, cleaning, complimenting you, cuddling actively) as long as she's a receptacle for your semen. got it.
Good point. Didn't think think about it.
where did you get that doll? link please? Also is it possible to just buy heads to swap around instead of buying a new doll?
We played Smash on GC. Have some pizza and root beer. She was terrible at smash. i had to teach her how to play. She felt bad for me that I am still a virgin. She insisted on give me a blowjob, or handjob even cuddle with me but, I refused. She was kinda interesting. I asked her how her life, profession is. Does she really enjoy sex. She said it's just ok, and makes lots of money. She called me cute when she left.
What a waste...
baka
She goes on as a mannequin then, I don't resell things I love. She'll be on display with cosplays I make in the future. Like a big ol' figurine.
Sounds like fun. Makes me happy that you stuck to your guns.
I'm getting my own place in a year after living with some flatmates those past years. Then I'm getting one, fuck it, no woman will ever love me. I'll post about it online too.
Serious question. Are you religious? Are you waiting for the right person? Then get married or have sex?
Sadly, they don't have the model I have on display. But I got her here: www.dsdoll.us
She's a 145 cm regular with Sakura Head.
Thanks. But, I am not a gun owner lol.
No. I am not religious. I was born in a Muslim family then became atheist.
>Thanks. But, I am not a gun owner lol.
Silly user, that's not what it means.