How do you get over oneitis robots?

She was my gf. That's what makes it more difficult to forget her. I've had oneitises in the past but since I never dated them or even touched them, it's easier to forget them and lust after someone else like you said

I like this psychological technique and will try to give it a go

You will. Might take years but one day you won't like her anymore and someone else will come along and repeat the cycle of depression

understandable, you held her, kissed her, made love to her,
give it time is the only thing I can say.

all women are like that bro

you have to stop caring

Thanks anons. I will have to tough it out a bit longer

First step is the same as anything recognising that you not only have it, but that you are a man capable of it. I've met so many men who cannot comprehend the idea that you "hone in" in one girl. That perspective in my opinion (NOT HONING IN) is a strength for a man. Women who you have Oneitis over if they do not engage with you or get in a relationship will think your Oneitis is desperation or obsession and in a way it is.

Here is how I am getting over it.

1. Realise that the situation you are in is SHIT. Theres nothing instant about it to stop this if you cut her out of your life completely you will still think, dwell and dream about her.

2. Cut her out completely if you can. It's the first actual step to take or else you will keep the fabrication of the possibility of something happening always within reach, when you know its not.

3. Contextualise her as just another woman nothing special nothing magical. Shes just another girl who you like and want to fuck really. Theres so many more out there that you could be in the exact same situation over.

4. Be realistic about the girl. when you have Oneitis most of what you think or think you know about her isnt even true you build it up in your head.

5. Visualise that one day you will look back at her and be bewildered that you had an obsession over her. This will help you positively reinforce the idea that you can be better without Oneitis.

6. Move on. Do something else. Distract yourself. Help others with the same shit. That's why I'm doing this.

Hope any of this helps. If Im unclear on anything ask me Ill keep this thread open because all memes aside I think its a fucking mentally destroying issue for men and incels like us

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Thanks for typing this out. Initially I was pretty fucking wrecked and I found it difficult to eat, sleep, or be a lone. I would ust lay in bed all day thinking of her and what I could have done differently and blamed myself when I think it is not my fault and I acted decently.

Now I am much better but there are some days, especially the weekends, that I can start to feel those shitty feelings and thoughts coming back. I do not know when I will be able to move on completely. I have given myself until just after the new year and I am hoping to make progress slowly until then.

Did you go through trying to get over a oneitis recently?

Normalshit ideology states that to get over someone in any capacity you meed to have sex with SEVERAL people.
That's why nobody here is able to get iver their oneitis. If life is a blemish, humanity is a blight

I appreciate you reading. If theres ANY tips or advice you come across anywhere write it in your own words save it to your phone or somewhere accessible as a reminder.

Dont lay there dwelling and feeling sorry for yourself. Its weak. You know it and I know it and some people tough love works others not so much.

If tough love is for you: Stop it dont be a bitch no wonder the girl isnt into you if thats how as a man you are acting because a woman rejected you. Get over it.

If harsh reality isnt for you then: Sadness is part of the process. If its too much talk to a professional there may be underlaying issues. Dont worry you'll get through it.

And to answer the question, yes. She looked like pic related. I worked in a shop with her and we both flirted but then she ghosted me. Fuck her. If it doesnt kill you it makes you stronger.

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Ghosting is bullshit. Just reply and say you are busy or something. Even one word replies are acknowledgment

Mine left me forever. I actually am autistic so I assume he didn't want to deal with the reality of a autistic person, and I had a ex who is actually autistic but "normal" so I was worried I was projecting, but this one I was right...?

>inb4 I get called a nutjob
>I actually am autistic, it defines me wether or not I ignore it or don't mention it

No I mean the girl ghosted. Ignores you etc. Blanks you when she encounters you and things

Yes. I understood. I meant she should have at least replied to you because ghosting is bullshit

What is this? I cannot view it on my phone it seems

What the father fucking fuck is this?!

My gf of 3 years left me and won't even reply to my messages anymore.

Real lonely feels

Thats women for you. They'll just wake up one day and thats the fucking end of it for them.

Marriage is a meme

one word replies make fucking horrible conversation

Honestly really shattered my perception of women. You really can't trust anyone.

I really don't get how they can do it. I've never completely dropped someone that I've known for months/years. It's usually a gradual thing if we go our separate ways.

Definitely for the best. It'll help you move on more quickly.
I broke up with my gf of 8 years because it was beyond time and one of us had to initiate it. We talked for a few weeks and it slowly tapered off. Six months later I found out she had gotten married. Insanity.

Exactly thats why she sends Chad paragraphs and you just "ok"

Trust me, if you are the kind of sensitive romantic chump that falls in love then it never goes away. Even when your oneitis tells you she never thought of you as a man and you genuinely consider suicide and part of you does hate her. If you are like me there is a part of you that will never get over it.

Daily reminder that women are a joke

Few months ago I talked to a girl online, we were really getting along and spend hours talking. She said that she really likes me and that she likes talking to me. Then out of nowhere she ghosted me for literally no reason, didn't even say anything

ask her out and ask her to be explicit if she gives a cop out answer
if she likes you back you get what you want
if she doesn't like you there is no point in obsessing over her so my mind usually stops obsessing doing so