He asked me if I dyed my hair, and I can't dye my hair because he keeps the house keys from me.
He then told me I had to take a shower if I wanted the house keys, he knows that I have legitmate depression and not the joke kind, too.
god damn it, at least be lucky you're not being kept as a joke by your own parents
>legitimate depression
>wants to act out by dying your hair
yeah I'm sure you have it so bad
Read again, I can't dye my hair because I'm not allowed to leave the home on my own.
he power tripped, knowing I can't leave my home to go dye my hair, he asked me a question knowing the answer
so you don't want to dye your hair?
fuck off r9k already
OP here, I don't have thre freedom to dye my hair. my dad knew this and mocked me, retracting the question if I dyed my hair, since I can't leave the home to do that
I don't have the freedom. my dad denies me freedom and says I have to earn it when he knows I was dxed with depression at age eight.
it all correlates, he knows I can't take care of myself because of my depression and blames me for my lack of freedom when its his choice if I get freedom or not
user, i'm really grateful that you posted enough info in your OP that i recognized you without wasting a few replies. you should do that more often. thanks.
bye
rhymes with rage
No, my dad knows I can't dye my hair on my own, I don't have the house keys, I need to ask my own parents to unlock my home so i can leave. meaning I can't dye my hair even if I wanted to
how else am I gonna make friends? might as well pay me to move to the middle of nowhere smart ass.
>my dad denies me freedom
>I had to take a shower if I wanted the house keys
what you have is autism, go get re-diagnosed
my own dad powertrips, I said in the OP
I already know I have autism, and depression. I didnt mention it because I was upset at my dad powertripping over me because he knows I'm helpless.
the point is my own dad won't stop powertripping over me being completely helpless
just shower? I don't see the issue
I'm literally autistic and literally depressed, I was diagnoised before I was even a teenager.
I am incapable of showering, my own dad even accuses me of even though he has known me my entire life and knows I can't do it as easily as other people
how are you incapable of showering? you're not allergic to water or standing still
I already explained it, I am incapable of self-care due to be autistic, my dad knows this and blames this on me, saying I have to earn my freedom even though he knows I'm incapable
this thread is about my dad being horrible, not me and my literal autism
no stop bringing up your dad
how can you literally not step into the shower and stand still for 1 minute?
Whatever who cares, my own dad talks down to me, I made this thread to expose my dad and I get talked down to, I'm incapable of self-care and I still have zero freedom. my own dad can't even talk to me normally and he power trips on it, knowing I don't have freedom because of him
you're not going to understand because of you' re mental condition, but take this from an outsider's perspective : you're wrong, your father's right and all you're doing right now is the equivalent of a brat throwing a tantrum
you're centering your problems around your dad when reality is that you're just not putting in any effort on self-improvement, instead you're crying on anonymous forum where nobody cares
Just move out. The solution to all problems with your parents.
What is stopping you from taking a shower right now?
I explained myself, I can't take a shower because I'm mentally incapable, everything my dad asks me to do to prove my freedom is incapable for me to do, therefore I will never learn how to use keys when everyone else already does.
I'm professionally dxed with autism and can't move out, the "state" decides, and I don't even have the house keys because I'm incapable of showering
I already explained, I have non-meme depression, its actually real and not me making it up.
depression doesn't stop you from taking a shower
and if your autism was so severe that you couldn't possibly do it you wouldn't be able to post here either
take a shower you fucking retarded stinky little shit
i'd also recommend not using the internet for a few months because you're clearly in need of a change of routine if your biggest problem is the inability to shower. just wait till you're all on your own without a dad to pay your bills and fill your plate
you ungrateful little cunt. lemme clue you in on something: alot of parents fucking hate their kids, and with good reason. you think your pain is unique? you think your dad hasnt suffered like you're suffering right now tenfold over? eat a dick and wakeup
don't dye your hair fag
If your depression is so severe that you can't take a shower then why do you even want to leave the house?
If the state is really preventing you from leaving you need to consult a lawyer. You obviously have access to the internet, so get in touch with one now.
Jeez, no need to use the R slur,
and I know my dad isn't suffering, I heard him enjoying himself and laughing one time when I called him, he's happy for himself. on his own freedom. I'm a non-issue to him
I don't understand how it works either, which is why I can't get help, I'm just forced.. to stay in my room forever.
>I dont understand how it works
THATS WHAT A LAWYER IS FOR
I only have "Natural" motivation to cope, I want to leave the house so I can get my copes.
my life is so horrible I have to do everything I can to cope with how horrible it is, and I'm dead serious
Take a fucking shower you legitimate joke, jesus fuck it takes like not even 5 minutes you stinky son of a bitch.
I forgot to mention I'm in a program for "mentally disabled" people like me and the adults in charge talk down to me and I want out. but I can't; because they decide my freedom.
Can't, I am actually too autistic to shower. I'm mentally incapable of it, I'm too dissociated to
why are you as an adult letting your father restrict whether or not you dye your hair
imagine being this pathetic
but why do you wanna dye your hair?
pre sure this is bait anons no one is this dumb
Okay so your goal is to leave the house. Your dad won't let you leave the house until you bathe. The solution is simple; go shower.
I can't leave my home to dye my hair, even if I wanted to. my dad asked me when he knew its impossible for me to dye my hair.
I don't want to dye it, my dad asked me if I dyed and I had a breakdown because he knew I couldn't dye it. that requires being able to leave the home on my own. and having the house keys.
Not bait, my dad powertrips on me not having freedom
I feel bad for you dad to be honest.
Obviously you can take a shower if you have the ability to operate a computer.
i get it now user and i feel you. hope you have someone to talk to about this stuff
I'm autistic and depressed and schizophrenic and I took a shower today.
depression is no joke
Thanks for understanding, I'm dxed autistic so people don't believe me and assume I'm a brat, when in reality I don't even have the freedom to "Work" even for myself
none of this is bait or fake, but I do have a impersonator going around making parodies of me, so be wary of that person and report thme
Wait so the point of the thread is just to complain about your dad not letting you leave the house? Would you even leave if you could?
dude you can say all you want but if you can use a computer and express yourself in good english, you can take a shower. You don't want to for whatever reason you came up with and your dad is trying everything he can think of to make you change
its my own dad, everyone takes his side and he even beat my leg and says I deserved it
if he wanted me to have freedom he would have given me the keys so I can leave on my own and be naturally motivated.
I'm so tired, its everyone else's fault, I need to ask my own parents for consent to leave my own home. I did nothing but be born with dxed autism
Sounds like you're in a really tough situation then. How old are you?
I'm a adult, over eighteen.
I also have malicious online impersonators who make parodies of me, people can't stop their own need for morbidity I guess.
theres nothing I can do because people love drama and negative tension
>malicious online impersonators who make parodies of me
post one
So youre in a cycle just go around it lol since youre eighteen and all and not underage if you want to never worry about it again go get a job and rent somewhere else. See how big of a deal it is to you to dye your hair then
I can't, they're real people and will be alerted if I say something and it will start the drama again.
I can't even get a job and improve for myself because I know that everyone hates me.
blame them for thinking its cute and funny to bully someone who can only be a victim and I was almost locked up in the psych ward because I can't get away from what they did to me
I already explained, the "State" keeps me down and won't let me move out, there's too many things going on. dying my hair is a big deal because I don't have the freedom to do so, if I had my own freedom then dying my hair would be natural and something I can show people out of my own choice.
but my dad ruined it. now I will remember my entire life as a captive.
Damn man that's rough. You really need to straighten things out with your father. He only seems to be making things worse for you. Where do you live?
Not gonna say where I live
it just sucks that everyone forces me to remain a victim and lives their best life, making cute and quirky jokes about me while I suffer eternally.
Yeah you've already been dealt a shitty hand in life and they're just making it worse. Hope everything works out for you.
you should kill yourself, that would be really effective
you useless weak cunt. let the depression subsume you and just end it you autistic waste of space
self absorbed wankstain
Dude, stop. If you have working arms and legs you are objectively capable of self-care. Stop blaming depression and autism for your own lack of willpower. I know willpower and energy are both heavily affected by depression, but that only makes taking care of yourself more difficult, not impossible. You owe it to yourself to make an earnest effort in your life, and being lazy and deferential only makes everything worse even if it feels good. Take some responsibility and start taking care of yourself. If you got angry while reading this it's because you know I'm right.
My dad has known me my entire life, he knows I'm incapable. what you said is irrelvant, that still changes nothing. I'm still helpless. I still don't have the house keys and can't do anything
Bullshit, you can take a shower and then you'll be able to leave the house. You said so yourself. The only thing preventing you from getting what you want right now is your own laziness and you're blaming it on other people. Walk to the bathroom, turn on the faucet, and stand there for five minutes. You literally cannot tell me you're incapable of that. I don't believe it and neither do you.
its still not a "proper" shower, its still half-hearted, you should be complaining to my dad for not letting me have freedom, none of this is my fault. by your logic that means people who slip on a rock should be murdered for hurting themselves because that's bs
You could have taken that shower twice by now, you lazy moron. Maybe it's a good thing that your dad doesn't let you out of the house. You have zero comprehension of responsibility, blame everyone and everything else for your mistakes, and play up your autism to the degree that you do less to take care of yourself than someone who is legitimately physically paralyzed. You're acting like an immature retard and nothing is going to change if you keep this up.
so your depression dosent allow you to shower but you still want to dye your hair? why the fuck dont you just shower and do what you faggot father wants and kys after that
stop giving a teenage cunt attention you fucking retarded cucks
>I'm mentally incapable of it, I'm too dissociated to
tell that your father and ask him to help you shower. Is that so difficult you piece off autistic shit?
The schizo is at it again?
He sounds abusive either way
How old are you OP?
So you're mentally capable of operating a computer, typing, and forming thoughts on an online forum, but not turning a knob, taking your clothes off and standing still for a few minutes.
You're also capable of dying your hair apparently...
What the fuck? Are you trolling?
> I'm so tired, its everyone else's fault, I need to ask my own parents for consent to leave my own home. I did nothing but be born with dxed autism
Wew lad, there you go blaming everyone but yourself for your issues. Just take a fucking shower, even my incredibly depressed BPD ex could take a shower...
Autistic people aren't incapable of taking a shower...
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