>see skinny beautiful girl >admire her beauty but feel no sexual attraction, not even a real desire to cuddle her or hold hands, at most I want to be her friend >see frumpy chubby girl >spend the rest of the day thinking about slapping her ass, pinching her lovehandles, kneading her belly, sucking her tits, cumming inside of her, cuddling up with her or trying to think about something else to get the image out of my head, always eventually boils down to masturbating to make myself stop thinking about her
She can't be too fat though, the venus statues are gross. she's gotta hit the right softness level. I just want to melt into a girl like this and become part of her forever.
>tfw have never been brave enough to even ask a girl to do anything outside of work/class and so much of a shutin that you have no social life outside of school and work and as such no opportunities to meet cute soft girls to hold hands with and cuddle before marrying them and ravaging their fecund bodies every night why is it that most guys are supposedly so scared of commitment yet have dozens of ex girlfriends while I've only ever wanted to date then marry one girl and be with her for the rest of my life?
I once heard a story about a guy who's gf was upset at him for putting pics of her in his "chubby" folder. Would fembots be upset if their boyfriends called them chubby, even knowing that being chubby is what gives them a chubby?
and i just find the chubby ones really gross. i don't mean any offense to guys who like them or the girls who are. life would be so much easier if i wasn't repulsed by fat girls. ;-;
Benjamin Stewart
why's it so hard to meet girls outside of the internet these days? I just feel like on the internet it's always like 10 guys pursuing one girl, and the second a girl outs herself as a girl there are tons of hounds all over her trying to get a taste so a lot of girls remain crypto-females to avoid the attention.
I mean really, it's not appropriate to go looking for girls at school or work. IRL social activities are mostly dead or arranged around peer groups that are established in high school or earlier, it just feels if you didn't end up tossed in the right basket early on in life your chances are really low unless you're god tier attractive, in which case you attract all kinds of shitty people male and female who don't actually care about who you are as a person.
I think that's part of why girls that are too pretty are instinctively not attractive to me for a relationship, I just find that most of them have little to no personality because being beautiful just makes most of humanity automatically care about them, they never have to do anything to distinguish themselves.
Fuckin difficult ay. My one and only ex left my when I was 16. Haven't been in a relationship since.
Asher Ward
Fuck I want to kill myself
Mason Foster
Do you see yourself in a loving relationship with her though. No of course you don't. It's just wanting to fuck someone you think is below you.
Christopher Morgan
>hard to meet girls outside of the internet these days After making several dozen fake accounts on various dating site over the years, I'm pretty certain that it's easier to meet girls IRL than on the Internet.
Evan Allen
>>see skinny beautiful girl >>admire her beauty but feel no sexual attraction, not even a real desire to cuddle her or hold hands, at most I want to be her friend >>see frumpy chubby girl >>spend the rest of the day thinking about slapping her ass, pinching her lovehandles, kneading her belly, sucking her tits, cumming inside of her, cuddling up with her or trying to think about something else to get the image out of my head, always eventually boils down to masturbating to make myself stop thinking about her I am literally 100% the same, what is wrong with me. I think I've subconsciously lowered my standards.
Charles Moore
I wouldn't like bring sorted into a catagory like that. Even if I am a bit chubby. I'd rather it was unsaid.
Sebastian Reyes
>what is wrong with me Nothing dude, you know that ancient statue depicting a fertile female human? That was morbidly obese. If men thousands of years ago found that so attractive that they made sculptures after it, there can't be anything wrong with it.
Yes, and actually I wouldn't have penetrative sex with her before marriage because I don't believe in that, though we could cuddle. As for the seeing someone lower than me, you don't understand how low my opinion of myself really is. Really I just want someone in my life who makes me feel good about myself because over the years I've just continuously lost those people. I don't have it in me to maintain a bunch of different relationships so I think that it'd be ideal to just find one other person who can be everything for me and vice versa. As much as the bitter loner in me wants to take the blackpill I find myself unable to give up hope that there's someone out there who feels the same way and is waiting for me to save her as much as I want to be saved by her.
I mean you can meet and talk to them a little but holding their attention is just impossible. I've had girls say I'm like an 8/10 to them end up ghosting me because "idk i guess i was just bored?"
i dont know whats wrong with this chubby girls like in the pic arent too big most of them are pretty eas y to get and probably wont leave you because they are finally happy to get someone and they can be pretty cute too
the way i got my current chubby girlfriend is through a slutty girl i met at a gaming camp (basically just a week long lanparty) she hooked me up with her because she thought we would fit well together and i just started chatting with her and calling on discord and thats how i got my first ever girlfriend going steady for 10 monthjs now
Nathan Collins
Same. I can appreciate beauty but its quirks and flaws that make people interesting. That's literally what loving someone is. As cheesy as it sounds.
It's a shame that the top half of her face is kinda bad though, I actually went on a quest to find the uncropped pic and figured out why it was cropped like that. I'm down with the homely sorta look but iirc it was just ogress tier.
I haven't been to a lan since 2006 man, the time just falls through your fingers like sand, the tighter you grip it the faster you lose it.
>I just want someone in my life who makes me feel good about myself The only person who can do that is you > is waiting for me to save her as much as I want to be saved by her So here's the real blackpill for ya: if you found a person like that you'd just end up trying to unload your baggage on each other and make yourselves twice as miserable
Jason Ortiz
so what, I should like leave a trail of m&m's to my door step and just bag her then? thanks wile e. rkanine
Levi Gomez
>I'm depressed and have a perpetual negative outlook on life. Yeah, we get it, not everyone is as mopey and sad as you.
Austin Perez
Dude, come on, the true depressed people are those who dream of their perfect personality pixie girl to uplift them from their shitty life for zero effort If anything the tought that only you can save yourself is a positive outlook, giving you responsibility over your own life will also give you the power to change it, instead of living an escapist fantasy
Connor Morales
It's a wicked world. Girls want emotions and those guys who pump+dump them certainly give them that.
Josiah Sanchez
1. normie tier just b urself advice
2. I don't actually have that much baggage aside from having a hard time trusting people and being unable to initiate relationships. Like I had a happy childhood, almost idyllic really, a lot of the people I loved in life have died and I just haven't found anyone to help simulate what they used to do for me in terms of making me actively want to wake up and face the day. Really, I'm convinced that it wouldn't take much in a person to get me back to that place.
Maybe the right girl for me isn't in the same place as I am, maybe she needs something different out of me, but honestly a big part of the need I have is to be needed, to feel desired and have the sense that someone, just one other person would really give a care if I vanished tomorrow. I can't claim to be an expert on stuff like this but I do know quack advice when I see it.
The modern notion that you must be a complete and independent human being in order to engage in a relationship seems critically flawed. Were I a complete man without a woman, with no issues, needs or desires outside of myself, there wouldn't be a point in seeking out a relationship with another person.
I can confirm this. It started out with me "venting" and listening to her "vent", which was alright, but then I went full psycho and unloaded all my problems all the time and it turned into a nightmare.
Tyler Garcia
I need that bush on my face right now
Charles Jones
It's your lack of experience that makes you have that faggot mindset
Adam Reed
Is it really that strange to just want to have one sexual partner for your entire life? Seems to me like this was relatively normal behavior a few generations ago. Granted there were always exceptions, but it was held as the ideal.
>Seems to me like this was relatively normal behavior a few generations ago. And you would know from growing up a couple of generations ago, right?
Joshua Cox
Its weird how lust and attraction work, I have certainly been guilty of wanting to mud wrestle with slam pigs as opposed to the cute pretty girl. Whores have that effect, because you know you can get away with doing anything to them and treating them however you want and thats sometimes more arousing.
Austin Harris
your post is not only wise, but also underrated
Angel Flores
Femanon here I'd mostly be upset that I'm just another file in his jack off folder.
Colton Cooper
No, I would know because I know a lot of old people, hence the statement about how most of the people that made me love living life are now dead or will be soonish. Aside from my great grandmother, who was an absolute slut, most people usually had one or two romantic relationships in their lives, sometimes three. Then you find the right one and settle down with them, have 3-4 kids and stay married for 50-60 years until they die, usually one after the other.
Yeah that's kind of what my reaction was to it. I wouldn't even want naked pictures of my gf/wife in a digital format. Why would I jack off to pictures of the girl that I loved and the one who I was with? My pictures of naked girls really just feel like a stopgap or an imperfect solution to the lusts that well up in me on occasion, What they aren't, and what they never can be, are a replacement for the sensation of love.
I haven't had more than an occasional handshake since I became to old to cuddle with my mother at night. The irony is that when the lustful thoughts are out of the way it's that which I want more than anything. I can get off to nudie pictures but none of them can hold me, I can't feel their warmth.
I'm personally really against pornography in a relationship. I view it as very, very similar to cheating. I wouldn't mind if my boyfriend/husband had pictures or videos of me, just as long as it was only of me. If he couldn't stop using pornography, I wouldn't want him to have pictures or videos of me at all - bad enough not feeling special enough for him to only want sexual relations with me, but worse for me to just be another image in his collection.
Jackson Kelly
Shoutout to the chubby girls that have small tits. Also very cute when they're B range
Robert Ramirez
No, it's probrably ideal, really. What I mean about your mindset is that you still have that "These other guys are assholes with commitment issues, I would treat her right" worldview which comes from having never actually had female attention ever
James Jenkins
>if my boyfriend/husband Pls be my gf, thanks
Lincoln Stewart
>These other guys are assholes with commitment issues, I would treat her right" worldview which comes from having never actually had female attention ever not him, but i also have this mindset, even though i know it's false. i have quite a lot of experience. it's just something weird in the way my brain is wired, like a knee-jerk reaction. i try to use logic to rationalize it away, but it only works to a certain extent.
Grayson White
It's kinda hard to avoid pornography entirely these days, it's all over the internet blasting at you full force, even on "sfw" sites there are tons of ads for titty games. I think if I ever got a gf I'd probably zip up my 3d porn (which is mostly just stills of amateurs) and dump it on mega or something.
I think 2d isn't the same thing in terms of being unfaithful though since 2d girls doesn't real. If it really bothered her I'd do the same with it, but I'd also be kinda wary about a girl who feels sexually threatened/invalidated by a cartoon. I could see if its like some really weird shit like hardcore loli shit that makes you wonder whether the guy's fucked in the head though.
>never having had female attention I have had 3 girls in my life flat out offer to take my virginity. I refused them. They didn't have interest in a relationship with me, just fulfilling some succubus virgin stealing sex fetish. I've just seen so many great girls (many of whom are firmly in the "beautiful skinny girls that I myself have no attraction to" category, so it's not just salt on my part) with just shit tier men who fuck around on them, and they tolerate it. Deadbeats with no job mooching off of girls way prettier and more intelligent than them, I just don't get how they sit back and take it. Does sex with chad really feel so good that you're willing to let him exploit and abuse your generosity constantly?
>I don't actually have that much baggage aside from having a hard time trusting people and being unable to initiate relationships. Like I had a happy childhood, almost idyllic really You had an unhappy childhood you dumbo
Mason Watson
Not really. I had way more friends when I was a kid than I do now. Everyone's gonna have their mixture of good and bad happenings, their sob story, ect but I think looking back objectively I got about as good of a youth as I could have reasonably hoped for. No young love or anything but I can't say I ever really wanted it. Never was interested in flings and flirtations, always just wanted a wife and never ran into any girls through high school or middle school that I could have seen myself being with forever.
I don't want to have sex until after marriage and despite being stricken with lusts like every man is I can control my urges enough to turn down people trying to pull me away from walking the path I've set out down.
That and they were all fucking nuts if you couldn't tell by the fact that they were women with deflowering fetishes. I cut my hand on a broken glass on a glass at a party once and one of these girls grabbed it and licked all of the blood off of it.
I still think sexual interaction should be reserved for your partner. It's not so much that I feel "threatened" by a cartoon, it's just that I don't think someone should be seeking sexual release outside of the relationship, whether it's 2d or 3d. Attraction is one thing, but actively pleasuring yourself to the idea/image of anyone other than your partner is kind of fucked to me, personally.
Zachary Adams
>I don't want to have sex until after marriage i thought that too, until after my divorce. waiting to have sex was probably the dumbest decision i've ever made in my life.
not trying to derail here, but if you feel that way, you sort of have an obligation to keep your man's sexual appetite satiated.
Juan Ortiz
What if you and your partner are compatible in every way except he has a higher libido than you do? I mean ideally you'd be synchronized on that too, but what's a proper outlet for those times when you're not there or have a headache? nudie pics of you?
You probably know that you can't get a skinny girl, so you managed to psychologically abuse yourself into ignoring them entitely, knowing that fat girls have lower value. Personally, I only try to date retarded welfare recipients that make me want to kill myself, because I shouldn't be wasting my time anywhere else
Nolan Clark
I understand that, and I am generally willing even if I'm not in the mood. I tend to have a higher libido than most so it probably wouldn't be too much of an issue, but even if not, nothing a bit of lube can't solve.
I wouldn't mind if he had images or videos of me exclusively for when I'm unavailable. Would feel mildly uncomfortable, but much less so than if he was jerking it to other women.
Justin Garcia
i'm the complete opposite. if the girl doesn't have a real dick (dildos are unacceptable) in one or more of her holes, it's not fapworthy to me.>am generally willing even if I'm not in the mood. >I tend to have a higher libido good girl
Jaxon Morales
you dont get to complain, i have an entire vore fetish and i cant jack off to anything that isnt fat in some way. belly needs to be mildly extended or no go
also dicks gross me out but im male so that part doesnt matter anyway cuz i'm not fuckin gay but i have a worse situation than you
Samuel Butler
I went over this, only one of the three girls that wanted to steal my virginity was overweight. In fact most of the girls who've been attracted to me (usually I learn from someone saying something like 3-4 years after the fact like "oh lol I had such a crush why didn't u do anything XDD??") have been skinny. I'm pretty socially unaware/retarded so I basically never recognize that someone is attracted to me unless it's spelled out directly, and no girl has ever done that until the feeling has already passed. Which makes me wonder why they'd tell me in the first place, like are you trying to get revenge on me for not pursuing you because I can't pick up on the signals?
I'm not physically unattractive or undesirable in all honesty. I'm not an incel, just socially ignorant and idealistic.
for some reason the idea of a woman who's in the "yeah i don't really want to have sex right now but you're my husband so I'll let you use my body" is extremely attractive. I'd just hope it stays that way. I know my dad basically never got sex again after I was born, my mom has an extremely low libido and basically only wanted to have sex so she could have a child so I guess my idea of the necessity of porn is kind of shaped by that.
A few weeks ago my dad had major dental surgery and was blasted out of his mind on painkillers and i saw him watching big booty black girls in the living room on his laptop, barely stopped myself from laughing.
I really hope my opinions on that don't change when I get older. I find the idea of a sexless marriage really depressing, and I really wouldn't want to do that to my future boyfriend/husband. Might also help that one of my fetishes is being used while I'm asleep or drunk/drugged/otherwise inebriated. So if it somehow comes to that, definitely wouldn't complain.
Benjamin Foster
>Might also help that one of my fetishes is being used while I'm asleep or drunk/drugged/otherwise inebriated. S this is the part where you think i'm fishing, but i love the idea of using my wife when she's asleep and i'm so horny for her i can't wait for her to wake
Ayden Cox
My mom was always that way though, I recall a conversation between my mother, my grandmother, and my great grandmother where they started talking about exes and how many men they'd been with, my grandma mocked my mom for never using her pussy and my great grandma said "That's it?" when my mom said she only had 3 partners and my grandma only had 4. I think part of my mom's issue was her parents being very sexual, they had her in their teens and were constantly fucking according to her, but it didn't stop her dad from cheating on her mother which caused constant fights and to tune out the fighting she'd put in a disney VHS and rock back and forth pounding her head against the wall watching Cinderella.
In retrospect there were some kinda fucked up things in my childhood but it was good compared to my mom's so I guess I don't feel that it was bad at all. I also avoide being raped.
There's a fembot I talk to regularly and there was this thread that made a lot of fembots super angry a few months ago about this guy who said he couldn't stop raping his wife, and whenever he went to apologize for raping her he just raped her again and felt bad about it. She saved the thread and said its basically her biggest fantasy, ie, get in a relationship with a guy that she likes and that guy just uses her body whenever he feels like it.
That's some fucked up stuff, man. My childhood was a bit messed up, didn't manage to avoid being raped as a wee lass but feel like I turned out as good as I could despite everything.
I'd love to wake up to my partner fucking me, or in the morning sore and covered/filled with cum. One of my biggest fantasies.
Daniel Allen
>I'd love to wake up to my partner fucking me, or in the morning sore and covered/filled with cum fuck... i might have to fap now
Jackson Hernandez
>A few weeks ago my dad had major dental surgery and was blasted out of his mind on painkillers and i saw him watching big booty black girls in the living room on his laptop, barely stopped myself from laughing. lmao
Elijah Allen
source please
very orignaile
Jason Smith
My mom also got almost raped, she lived above a bar and one of the patrons slid into bed with her when she was 7 or 8 and started running his hand up her leg and touching her groin. Only happened once but the guy never got in trouble for it even after she told her parents.
Funny/sad thing is she has all of this fucked up shit in her childhood and she looks back and says she was blessed. Meanwhile my aunt (dad's side), who had no molestation, a stable home, basically the perfect mother, ect looks back on her childhood and sees nothing but problems, suffering, abuse and misery. One of the weird paradoxes of life is the better you have it the better you expect it to be in most cases.
Yeah. I was molested by a neighbor for maybe a year back when I was 5 or 6. I didn't talk to my parents much back then so I had no one to tell, and the most fucked up part is that I had no idea what was going on and didn't immediately assume it was a bad thing at the time. Only started realizing how fucked up it was when I was maybe 11 or 12. Makes me sick to think about. My dad was also a heavy alcoholic, so that sucked too.
I consider my childhood to be one of the better parts of my life despite that.
Kevin Watson
Yeah my mom said the same things about it, she knew it was wrong instantly but didn't grasp the gravity of what had happened until years later when people started actually talking about sexual abuse in the media. But she's not the type to get all retrospectively angry over the past and hold on to it. Her thoughts were that the guy had a daughter at home and she felt worse knowing that than she did over what happened to her, knowing that he probable molested her more.
Anyone got pics of this? Or chubby chicks that are flat-chested? I'm interested for reasons.
Jeremiah Martin
chestlet chubbies are pretty rare. I remember knowing one in high school though, she was a total degenerate, multiple abortions at 15, all the drugs, ect but she had such pretty eyes. It's a real shame knowing people like that.
>chubby chicks that are flat-chested? i always thought that was the strangest body type. i'm not hating, but i don't get it at all
Bentley Jenkins
I'm way more than chubby unfortunately. Pretty damned obese with barely B-cups. My weight distribution is weird in general.
There's always a slim chance that the guy sought to fulfill his pedo fantasies outside of his home, so his daughter was spared from it. Not a huge chance, but something to hope for maybe.
I do wish I realized what was going on back then and could tell someone, because it happened so early I don't even remember the man's face or name. Never brought attention to it, so the guy probably went on molesting others, or worse.
Thomas Gray
I think it's rare to find girls like that that look good desu which is why you don't see so many pics of them. They're out there though, I think a well shaped belly can offset lack of boobs, though ideally both are present imo.
Well I find that most fembots tend to have body image issues and think they're much less attractive than they truly are, so even if you don't feel attractive you'd better believe there are some guys out there that would find you beautiful. Sadly there are a lot of bitter incels on this board who just want the rest of the world to be as miserable as they are so they'll try to exploit the insecurities of others instead of trying to heal them, and heal themselves as well.
>see skinny beautiful girl >feels nothing >see frumpy chubby girl >feels everything Try thinking about turning a skinny beautiful girl into a frumpy chubby girl and you can be attracted to everyone.
>that's like corruption or something. So chubby girls are hot, but girls becoming chubby(hot) is not hot, but most chubby girls were skinny girls at some point... user, I think you're wrong.
There's no mystery to this, OP. Your dick gets hard for women you know you could potentially have sex with. You've had sex with the frump chubby girls before, and now you're habituated to feel turned on whenever you see them, because a part of you understands that if you made the effort, her wet walls would be grabbing hold of you in due time.
Carter Davis
tfw I cannot score fat girls bc I am too large, but the only girls I have ever been able too pull were skinny. Do fat chicks only like skinny and short dudes?
lol this isn't how it works. the only guys that say this are borderline virgins that think just because they're attracted to top tier women makes them somewhere around top tier themselves.
C O P E
Tyler Jenkins
If you read the thread you'd see that 1. I'm a virgin 2. I've had opportunities to fuck skinny girls and have turned them down on the basis that they were thots and I want a wife, not a prostitute.
