Anybody else here feels like all their mental illnesses would be cured if you could atleast get laid once?

I think I actually developed a mental illness after I got laid. That bitch completely broke my self esteem and crushed any sense of hope for the future.

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I got laid once. It didn't solve my mental illness, but my self-esteem is pretty solid now. I can interact with people like a normal person. Co-workers say I'm less weird. Women talk to me. My life is 100% better after one lay.

No maybe help a bit with some of my sexual insecurities but the issues run deeper than that. I do believe being a realtionship would help me work past a fuck ton of my problems but I don't think it would go well and I wouldn't want to inflict my fucked up self on someone I care about anyway. 26 is way too late to make up for all those missed milestones.

I got laid and it just made me realize I wasted too many years obsessing over something so dumb. Everyone over 21 knows this, and so when some robot brags about sex we just shake our head.

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Man I swear this brainlet boomers nowadays.

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>once
Youre in for a terrible surprise my dude

No, not really.

t. schizoidblahblahblah

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What u mean?
Origano

No, but at least I wouldn't feel bad missing out on a fairly common life experience. At this point it feels like it's the last "new" thing the world has to offer me. I'm planning on sleeping with a hooker before I die if it gets to that point.

definitely not, the only thing that could cure my mental illness is to be good looking. even then i'd still have massive trust issues because of my insights from being ugly. if i was born good looking i'd have no problems.

No I have anxiety so it would actually make things far worse as on top of all my other issues I would constantly be worrying about
>what if I got a disease
>what if I knocked her up
>What if she lies and says I raped her
>what if she has a boyfriend and he tries to murder me
And any other of a million things that have even the slimmest, most insignificant chance of happening

hope she burns in hell user :)

I really hate to say this but out of the 2 late blooming virgins I knew personally (from teen years to 24/25) both were mopey and depressed until they got laid.

One didn't even get a gf, he begged a girl on the internet to come fuck him and suddenly boom he's unironically confident and doesn't act depressed at all. He even has friends now he hangs out with all the time and can now easily talk to girls. I believe it's something deeply psychological on a evolutionary level, they're finally told "hey you aren't worthless, you have value to your species, you are not a biological failure." And trust me, its not like they changed out of nowhere and then girls started showing them attention, I've spoken to these guys almost every day for years and nothing of the sort happened.

Of course I had to stop talking to them as much because it was obnoxious to hear them brag all the time and their new Chad-lite confidence was nauseating, especially when I'm 4 years older than them and unlike them no girl ever saw me worthy of saving.

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This. Orginalio

It doesn't go away. The validation is fleeting. It's gotten worse for me. I feel cheated. I need to fuck to feel validated, then I feel disgusted with the girl for sleeping with me so easily. Who else has she fucked? Completely negates the validation and the cycle repeats. I know it's fucking weird and unhealthy. I'm going to see a therapist or something because I hate living like this. I feel like I lost my virginity too late. I was raised around too many women. I fucking hate women. All they do is take and they still want more.

What would fix it for me would be money. If I won the lottery my confidence would go through the ceiling. The main reason I lack confidence is because I feel like a failure financially, and it makes me ashamed.

Ive been laid a few times and it doesnt really change much, having a gf might help be prepared for her to leave you at a moments notice

Yeah. If the effects of good sex could be put into a pill it would be the strongest antidepressant

I feel you. I'm trying myself, but it's been 5 years and I'm loosing hope.

Also, did your psychiatrist told you that >it wouldnt happen
or was that just you adding to their comment?

Why user? Was she bullying you for your low performance?

Considering that most of my depression and self hatred stems from a lack of self worth and crippling loneliness, it wouldn't surprise me if it didn't improve my mental state tremendously. But, that's never going to happen. The big 30 is right around the corner, and I plan on killing myself the moment my wizard powers kick in.

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Nah im extremely insecure because i have a kicropenis
Getting laid would make things worse

I got 'laid' once when I had gf and came instantly after we started fucking. I just told her that the condom is rolling off and we shouldn't do it without. Few days after that she started to fall in love with me and I panicked and broke up with her. Alone since.
>tfw too scared to engage in sex because I think I suffer from premature ejaculation

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No my life will never change, because the problem isn't that I don't get laid, my problem is that I'm a complete mess

>The big 30 is right around the corner, and I plan on killing myself the moment my wizard powers kick in.
don't do it. there are ways to have sex and enjoy life too without sex sometimes

Dont do the easy way out. Maybe you should try before you brush off. It's not like you exceeded every option.

You know if she really loved you she'd help you train your quick dick

If that's all it takes to cure your problems why not just get a hooker?

Hookers are gross and from what i've read, people walk off feeling worse that how they came in. I'd rather get a doll, honestly don't see a difference.

I've fucked hookers but I don't think I could fuck a doll since that might make me depressed. many people fuck hookers so it's more "accepted". if you fuck a real doll, people will think you're a loser or even worse

Why would anybody had to know about it? If you live alone and have a good place to hide her then there's no problem.
>more "accepted"
I think that dolls are more and more accepted now that the awareness is spreading.

>people walk off feeling worse that how they came in

And what does that tell you? Do you need me to spell it out for you?

Getting laid won't magically fix your problems. You have to deal with those problems first, and THEN you focus on getting laid. All going to a hooker does is make you realize that sex, by itself, really isn't a magical quick-fix for all your mental problems. It's not about the destination, it's about the journey.

no but maybe if I did it with Agatha it would help me a little

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I'm not OP i was just sayin'. I actually don't think I'd help and I myself desire more than sex. If I could I'd get rid off this .. what do you call it, libido, natures' calling.

but then you'd know, so there's shame in that and you'd act differently about it.

like when I never had a gf and had never had sex that wasn't with a hooker, I was so fucking anxious around others because I felt like a loser. so I'm thinking doing things like cuddling with a doll would only make the depression symptoms worse, not better. it's one of the major reasons I never bought one of those dakki pillows or whatever they're called

if your mental illness can be cured through getting laid you're not mentally ill fuckwit

Maybe look into chemical castration?

what a sexy fucking bitch god imagine ejaculating hard in that pussy while she look into ur eyes

Did you make sure to jack one out earlier in the day?

Lmao and what if she also had a penis haha

>Anybody else here feels like all their mental illnesses would be cured if you could atleast get laid once?
if you feel this you need to fuck off from R9K you incel faggots

Ear sardines it litterarly cures depression and is the ultimate redpill

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No, he actually said it. The old bastard was sincere, thats why I liked him.

You can get a girl to fall in love with you if you hate yourself. Getting a gf is a lot like a job interview: you have to sell yourself to the other party. If you hate yourself, how the hell can you convince a girl that you would a good partner for her?
Maybe if you are attractive you can get a gf while having low self steem, but Im a 4/10 manlet that always falls into "that funny friend I have".

Asperger's and Social anxiety disorder I have a girlfriend of 3 months now who I've had sex with twice and I'm still retarded when it comes to talking to others and I am still autistic

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No, and that's how you tell whose a robot or not.