Should I dump my GF for not being a virgin?
Heres the story
>be 20
>meet girl in college
>become gf and bf
>she tells me about her past bfs
>literally hooked up with 2 dudes on tinder
>they pump and dumped her
>proceed to date
>suddenly feel disgusted/degraded because of this
>cant respect her fully due to her past (I was a virgin when I met her)
What do?
don't fuck this up. you cannot do better. just look at yourself.
It depends if she is committed now or not, if you know her well or what not. If shes too easy, then id back off
Get the FUCK out of this board. That's what you should do you disgusting normie scum. GET. THE. FUCK. OUT. OUT. OUT. O. U. T.
I ain't gonna act like I'm an expert and shit, but do what feels right, trust your guts, don't go for a thot, most likely she will leave you, see if she really enjoys spending time with you, even if its something she doesn't like to do.
Actually, I was bleesed with decent facial aesthetics. I also go to the gym. I am a autistic shy loser however so it will be somewhat hard to find another girl but not impossible
she is very loyal and clingy. but shes easy with the person she is dating. i think the last guy she dated she fucked in less than a week.
just the idea of my gf- soon to be mother of my children getting fucked by another dude makes me shake with anxiety and rage desu
Bro it's not that deep as long as she doesn't have any std's your golden
like i said, shes very clingy and definately not a thot. the problem is more with me than her.
shes literally the only girl ive ever dated or given me any attention
>I am a autistic shy loser
decent looks will not overcome this. stay with the girl.
a girl at work is always flirting/touching me. I dont think Im a total lost cause. plus, shes chubby, and I go to the gym. dont I deserve better?
>Should I dump my GF for not being a virgin?
that is fucking disgusting don't kiss cum tainted lips.
i know that feel bro. if they were 2 hookups it's better. my ex had 2 guys as well but they were fwb so she had sex hundreds of times before meeting me, very bad feeling. 2 times is nothing, really, you don't have to imagine all the positions and the different moans for every intimate occasion, just two 10 min hookups. it's nothing really
Hmmmm lets see... a decent looking girl you can 100% bang anytime you want or some roastie at work who teases you.
I swear...people on this board get more retarded about making simple life decisions with every passing week.
are you the same guy that posted this thread on Jow Forums? if so then you're just pathetic. look at yourself. be happy she's here with you. two hookups isn't cause for concern. if you're going to be such a faggot about it then neck yourself. you don't deserve sloppy seconds if all you do is complain.
The majority are young and stupid.
shut the fuck up you fucking idiot
life is not some cuck porn you jerk off to
fuck off
OP please leave that girl if she is easy on you then imagine how easy she is with other guys
If she will fuck a guy in a week then imagine what she will do when you are gone for a week
Please save yourself from the heartbreak rage betrayal and further depression of finding out that she has cheated on you
look at you mr fucking wise guy trying to tell other people not to complain
on r9k
shut your fucking bitchass up and pull the cactus out of your ass
This logic is what makes you stay a virgin.
>decent looking
actually shes chubby
>or some roastie at work who teases you
the funny thing is, im pretty sure said girl is a virgin (korean, religious, pretty shy/reclusive). do you see where im coming from now?
it wasnt a one night thing. she had sex with both guys multiple times. one of them was an MMA fighter. fml
I just dont want a monagomous relationship with a sloppy seconds. Fwb is fine, whatever, I just dont want to be entirely committed to someone whos been degraded in such ways
simple life decisions
Man I wonder how many simple life decisions you made to end up here
And I am going to cut you off right now before you say you are a totally cool dude with a great life
If you are here it means you have nothing more fun or better to do
Shut the fuck up and stop encouraging people to be cucks
what the fuck do I do I just want a virgin qt gf
OP don't listen to the pathetic cuckold faggots and dump that bitch right now. you deserve better then a used up slut. she has no virtue and will probably cheat on you.
Makes me stay a virgin? And bitch who the fuck are you to point that out to anyone
Go fucking kill yourself like that other user in the suicide thread is encouraging
Your dumbass thinks being a cuck is better than being a virgin
Eating shit for a snack because you are hungry is not better than holding and waiting for a proper meal
Bro just tell her how you are uncomfortable with her lifestyle and how she does not give you confidence she will be loyal
>that samefag who calls everything "cuck" in 2018 despite still not knowing what it means
get a sex doll. 10/10 supermodel virgin. women are all sluts and whores now. also they will cheat on you and they don't respect you.
Why the fuck would you let her tell you about past relationships?
Honestly bro. Thats why you fucked up. You should never ever have asked or let her tell you those things.
Look man, all I can say is do what you gotta do. If I was you i would be fucking sick to my gut too. I dont really even want a virgin, but to actually know about it?
Girls are fucking whores man. Why the fuck would you want to know that shit.
Just be honest with her.
Yes. Kick the roastie to the curb
>hurr if I didnt hear about it it didnt happen
about what
Yeah that's true.
What you dont know wont hurt you.
You didnt somehow sense it before right? Thats why you made this thread after you found out.
You fucking virgin retard.
I would, but you need to accept the possibility that you wont get another one.
Kek, if her count is under 40 you scored big my friend
she just told me unprovoked. we were laying in bed and she told me, this was early on in ouir relationship. at the time I didnt care because i didnt think we would date so long, but now its been almost 2 years and its been eating away at me
ahaaha are you fucking kidding me
u r a fag
2 years
2 years
saged
like I said, she treats me well, buys me dinners, worships me in bed etc. The problem is me and how I feel about her past
fuck her in the ass then you'll probably feel better
>was bleesed with decent facial aesthetics. I also go to the gym. I am a autistic shy loser however so it will be somewhat hard to find another girl but not impossible
dude. i am the same and i'm telling you, don't fucking do it. keep her. her partner count is low enough to live with. the autism makes it really fucking challenging to get a new girl, and you never know when your luck will run out. i thought i could find another girl too. that was over 6 years ago.
Thats not necesarily true though. Because I havent had sex with a girl in 7 years and I dont regret dumping her at all. She was really fucki annoying.
did that, didnt work
OK well Im fine with dating her but I know she wants to get married and I absolutely DO NOT want to marry an non-virgin woman under any circumstance so should I tell her this? I dont think its right to date her if i have no intention of marrying and she does
no hymen no diamondd. roasties cant have their cake and eat it too
You are absolutely retarded and should break up with her because you don't deserve human companionship for being such a sperg
-t. no standards reddit soiboy who kisses the ground women walk on just for the faintest breadcrumbs of the chance to get some pussy
>tfw no qt virgin waifu
>just the idea of my gf- soon to be mother of my children getting fucked by another dude makes me shake with anxiety and rage desu
I don't want to minimize your feelings, but you're going to have to get over it. Everyone has feelings of jealousy sometimes.
Sure, other people may have fucked her, but who did she choose? YOU, you idiot.
>I absolutely DO NOT want to marry an non-virgin woman under any circumstance
Do you have any concrete reasoning behind this other than your own insecurity? Why the fuck would you date a non-virgin, then???
If you turn down a woman because of her past sexual partners, you are quite literally letting those guys cuck you.
>Should I dump my GF for not being a virgin?
Not for that alone.
This:
>literally hooked up with 2 dudes on tinder
>they pump and dumped her
should be concerning though.
t. has never had a girlfriend
theyve already cucked him, they literally fucked his gf
spineless beta bux that will marry a cock carousel whore.also OP don't make this comic your life story for the love of god.
Struck a nerve didn't I? Sorry bot
whats the difference between her cheating on you and having sexual partners in the past?
The only thing is time. she still sucked those cocks. she still swallowed that sperm, she still got fucked and likely had semen busted in her. if you think just her not knowing you makes this okay, you are a cuck
I give no fucks about you. I just want to save OP from cock carousel sluts that could give him STDs. Also very likely she has STDs because she was a whore from Tinder.
If you keep following that logic after you dump her, believe me, you will keep dumping girls or not getting girls forever. Like, c'mon, ppl have lives and you dont expect them to pump and dump from time to time with someone else?
Good luck user
You are literally her third """""choice""""". Dump the roastie.
>You are literally her third """""choice"""""
what do you mean by this
>you dont expect them to pump and dump from time to time with someone else?
This shouldn't be an unreasonable standard.
thats fine, but theres no reason to GF them. just stay FWB or something
No, don't contribute to the culture that is creating this problem.
if you have sex with a virgin, you must marry her. even the bible says this
if you fuck a non-virgin, nothing of value is lost. proceed to pump and dump
>a girl at work is always flirting/touching me. I dont think Im a total lost cause. plus, shes chubby, and I go to the gym. dont I deserve better?
Chubby today is obese in ten years. Remember that.
>what do?
get off Jow Forums asap. you and ur gf might not last forever (and thats okay) but dont listen to the retards here talking about women.
been there, OP. sounds cliche but there will be a point where it won't hurt so much. when she tells you things like how much she regrets it and wishes she only were with you, there comes a point where it kinda clicks like "yeah i can't even go back and change it, but i love her as she is." it's a random thing but time really does help on this one.
>25 going nowhere in life
>meet 21 year old girl
>not a virgin
>has had 3 boyfriends
>has her shit together
>she asks me out
>becomes my girlfriend
>helps me get my life in order
>gives me a social life
>puts me back in college
>now going somewhere in life
>parents are happy for me
>still wonder if dating her is a good idea
>will never have a virgin gf
>god knows what nasty shit all her past bf have done to her
Holy shit I can relate to everything in this thread.
>23 khv
>find a cutie off tinder
>non-virgin
>whatever just practise gf her
>3 years go by and I realized I'm stuck in a relationship with a used up whore who
>she expects me to marry her
>Thisiswhatmylifebecame.gif
I mean, I will say she's loyal and fun to have around, but seriously, why must girls ruin themselves? She'd been perfect otherwise
Thats me wtf. What should we do
its obvious she will dump you sooner or later for a better looking dude, dont get to that situation dump her first, if you think she finds the relationship special you are delusional, relationships are casual shit for girls, they dont suffer or feel the same as men
dunno brah, I'm just taking it as it comes & avoiding the marriage talk as much as possible but I think she's getting to that age, coz she doesn't shut the fuck up about kids & weddings.
Don't know if I could go through any of it, either dumping her/marrying her both seem like regrettable decisions, so I'll probs kill myself before then desu
If you do that, then the next guy who fucks her will think shes a slut because of you. He might keep fuckin her too
Who gives a fuck? Orijinal
She is tainted user
Pump and dump her,
If your future virgin gf asks, just say you're also a virgin
You're so fucking stupid. I have to crack open a fresh, early internet meme for you: lol
Unless you make her lose weight, but this is playing with fire. If you can't hold a thin girl down, she will probably leave you once she realizes you aren't good enough. Only thin your woman if you're quality enough to deserve a thin woman
Same goes for the other 2 guys she fucked idiot. Retards all of you.
Literally an hour or so after of posting this a broke up with my gf. Gotta say lads, I'm feeling pretty good not dedicating my life to hoe, now going to download tinder & nail some sluts till I find one worthwhile.
If girls act like whores, treat them like it
gee I wonder why would the 2 blokes pump and dump her
HMMMMMMMmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
>Doesn't want a girl who's fucked dudes while in a relationship
>Fucks girls outside of a relationship
Why are men such sluts?