There's this plain looking girl with a speech impediment who keeps looking at me at work
How do I make her my gf? We've never spoken to each other before and I have no idea how to talk to people
H-help
There's this plain looking girl with a speech impediment who keeps looking at me at work
Also I'm a 29 year old man and her age is unknown but likely in her 20's
I've been looking for this type of girl for a while now and I always shy away from them. Just seems like the type of girl who would play vidya and watch anime with me
What the hell do I do
Does she hang around with anyone else?
I don't think so, there are sometimes meetings in the morning and we all stand around and wait for a bit. We both stand in the same area and don't talk to anybody. I guess I should say hi? But wouldn't that be weird since I don't talk to anybody else? Kinda like I'm singleing her out or something.
THIS IS SERIOUS GUYS
I NEED HELP
AHHHHHHHHHHHH
Just be yourself desu, user-kun
I don't know how to help you man but this is super cute
If I bee myself then I'm just going to not talk to her ever and start actively avoiding her
ask her out after work user
good luck
>asking out a girl you've never spoken to once
Even I know that's a bad idea
Besides I only see her at the beginning of work since we get off at different times
So should I just try talking to her if she starts looking at me when I settle into the meeting area? It's going to be so awkward but I want my homely gf god dammit
I had noticed her before when I heard her talking and then today she was really laying eyes on me and I couldn't get her out of my head
Is it weird to have a thing for girls who probably have autistic traits?
Immediately after the meeting, or if you meet in the break room, say "hey im user", she'll say "hey", possbily followed by "i'm X", if she doesnt say her name, say "So what's your name?" if she doesnt say it, or looks down, you can either leave or persist by saying "come on, everyone has a name".
afterwards complement her hair, doesnt matter what style it is, complement it, say "yo you're hair's nice, i've always liked ponytails or cropped or whatever the fuck you have"
Next bring up pop culture, ask what music she likes or ask if she watches netflix or TV, talk about that shit.
Now, that you've got some small talk out of the way, move in and say "so yeah you're kinda a cool chick, let's hang out after work sometime, lemme get your number and ill text you the details."
DO NOT "ASK" FOR THE NUMBER, its a subtle demand, "Give me your number" and pull out your phone, look down and open up your contacts, this does not give the opportunity for her to reject, most women will just go with it and say their number and ghost you if they change your mind, but at least your have the number instead of a heartbreaking "No thanks"
what's wrong with her speech?
Seems pretty close to what I was thinking about doing except I was gonna bring up video games since I'm a huge dork. I dunno about the complimenting though, seems too forward and she has a pretty plain hairstyle. Also we're not allowed to have phones where we work due to security reasons, I'd have to write it down or some shit (guess I gotta come equipped with a pen and paper)
She just has sort of a lisp, it's cute
Make up some bullshit question to ask her ("when's the next meeting", "is the company website up? Ive had trouble with it at tge end of my shift yesterday" etc.) and proceed it with "my name's user btw, nice to meet you"
It's a good start
That sounds a bit brash for someone like OP
ask her out or youll regret it for the rest of your life
same guy here
>video games
NO
never vidya. Even if by some miracle she plays vidya, the chances are miniscule. Go for music instead, you at least listen to that yeah? Talk about genres if you really dont know any pop artists, even metal can be interesting if you dont sperg out. "Yeah im really into progressive rock, the heavy chords and melodic progressions really interest me" The point is to make yourself seem interesting and knowledged, which is hard with vidya, much easier with music and television.
>what i said
>brash
Nope, even if he's a true robot, this is BASIC shit, its just asking for a name, simple physical compliment, small talk about interests, phone number. Formulaic and generic.
t. Black introverted normie who is really adept at acting extroverted
I gotta go to work now, but if this thread's still up in an hour or 2 ill walk you through any questions you ask if you think my advice is genuine and could work, otherwise dismiss it, do what you like and b urself :^)
I barely listen to music nowadays, unless she's really into Jamiroquai lol, also I don't really watch TV besides certain shows I've downloaded and really what are the odds she's into Twin Peaks?
At least with video games my tastes span across many generations and platforms and I have a collection to back it up, it's basically my main interest and odds are if she's played any video games at all I've played them too.
Do you really ask for the phone number during the first interaction though? It really does seem a bit forward although I do wanna move things forward if there is a chance to do so.
add her on facebook
orignal
>implying I have any form of social media
It might be useful to approach the girl. consider that.
With any luck she's the type not to have a social media presence either
Reread my post, you don't have to talk about artist you can just talk about genres.
If you really want to go to the video game route then you have to do it with confidence. " yeah i play vidya A LOT, I'm really into like puzzle and strategy games, you know stuff that stimulates my mind and... Really makes you think :^)" sure youre b'ing yourself, but its the confidence, the self assurance that you like what you like that makes you interesting to women. If she's as shy as youre portraying the simple fact that youre talking to her and think shes worthy of sharing your interests to will keep her captivated.
And yes, normies really do ask for phone numbers within 5-10 minutes. You need to ditch your romanticized view of it, shit is not that important.