gf: i got full credit on the quiz without studyin one bit
me: well done EZ
gf: it was ez ye
but the weird thing is when i said i did sth well, u dont say im smart
just EZ
me: you need to relax
i already know youre smart
>gf stops responding
did i say something wrong r9k?
>you need to relax
right there. Why you gotta invalidate her feelings bruh? just say "you're obviously brilliant, i didn't think I had to point it out". You don't lose face and you give her the compliment she was fishing for.
what?
what is this stupid game...
it's pretty simple, you don't tell people they're wrong.
thats fucked
not in this relationship fuck that
You didn't say I'm smart you just said the quiz was easy?
LMAO RELAX!
Just say I thought you knew I find you smart
would you rather win every argument or would you rather both be happy and still get your way?
Well this is how it went down with my gf last week when she got a good grade on her quiz?
>gf: hey I got a 90% on my quiz.
>me: Good job I'm proud of you.
And that's it about that. See the difference?
now shes telling me im not allowed to say EZ anymore what do i do?
what's her problem with EZ?
Say ok you'll stop using it and to also come over and hop on your dick because you need her pussy.
Tell her that lolis are better then dump her and post screencaps
she doesnt know what twitch is and im autistic
not happening
also not happening
You haven't had sex with her yet?
yes i have but that wont help the situation right now
how long has this girl been your gf?
also call her a classist for shitting on your vernacular
2 months
classist? is that even a thing? isnt that usual hierarchy?
the problem is your gf is a vapid cunt who has zero self confidence and needs validation for something as mundane as a fucking quiz
All women have zero self-confidence though.
eh all women have problems, at least shes a cute traditional asian.
i was kinda joking
in all seriousness though, you should probably just say that you don't understand why she's upset, then if she doesn't explain it clearly, tell her you'll talk to her later when she's cooled off.
Are you upset right now? Probably a little more than you'll admit. She's got you defensive. You need to cool off too, you're probably not being your best self right now either, and I bet you're making it worse by continuing to argue with her.
no im very calm in every conflict
its a gift and a curse cause people hate me for it
okay, but is she getting more upset as your conflict continues? If so, you're making it worse. Stop fanning the flames, let it burn out and come back later when she's put some distance between herself and what upset her.
shes calmed down for the most part
but she definitely has an issue with the way i use my vocab
okay, well just excuse yourself. You don't really have to change it.
anyways, try to improve from this. Your girl told her what she likes, so remember it.
>tell guy I did good at something
>he says that thing is easy
Woulda ghosted you on the spot for at least a day if I were her.
not OP, and those were my thoughts exactly, but TO BE FAIR TO OP, the thing must've been easy if she got full credit without preparing for it.
Women are stupid bitches, what do you expect?
They say they want you to "be honest" and "communicate", but what they really want is for you to tell them what they want to hear. Fucking retarded.
What's gotten you so mad, hun?
yeah, but we're not seeing the shitshow of a conversation OP is having with this girl. For all we know he's only telling us the parts that make her look like a stupid bitch.
Even from his biased point of view he's coming off as the idiot.
but imagine how much worse it really is
So if you somehow ever manage to get a gf and she comes to you proud of an accomplishment you'd just belittle her achievement?
Yeah dude he should totally lie just to prop up some dumb bitch's ego. BTW when she tells him to be honest with her, he should remember to always lie because women have no fucking clue what the fuck they want because they're retarded
yeah but he's a gamer sperglord with literally no social awareness so he should forgive her issues in gratitiude for her forgiving his
im surprised anyone is even responding to that heinous OP that reeks of underage /b/ user. filthy normals.
Are you guys fucking retarded? Normie newfags who don't know EZ?
GG EZ. It's basically shorthand for 'no problem'. So in this case OP was trying to say 'Of course you passed the quiz no problem'
Getting offended is a fucking choice. I'd just ask him 'what do you mean EZ' instead of assuming the fucking worst and doing this self pitying mental gymnastics.
gg ez is short hand for "my opponents were bad", not "no problem"
You're diminishing her accomplishment, not building her up. You might not have meant it that way, but that's what your words mean. OP's girl called him out on it, and gave him an opportunity to get rid of her unease, and he told her that her emotions are wrong.
If I was a girl I wouldn't want a bf who pulls that shit. It sounds like OP isn't really aware that he's an asshole, which is better than the alternative, but he should try to be more careful in the future.
It's a shit test. Of course you'd say EZ, she herself said that she didn't study one bit. If she brings it up again call her out on being arrogant or something, but don't be the first to mention it. Say that you don't have time for that kind of drama.
Why should she be complimented if she didn't study? What did she really prove? That it's ez?
Redpilled af
Last part is the most important.
>why should i compliment my gf?
so she doesn't start asking other guys to start complimenting her.
Complimenting someone , especially your girlfriend, isn't a bad thing. Use your brain idiot, she's clearly asking for a compliment and there's nothing wrong with that.
You sound like a shit bf
Neck yourself
Reply "ok, shud bee EZ"