I broke up with my grilfirned because she told me someone raped her.
I broke up with my grilfirned because she told me someone raped her
You're gonna get crucified by NPCs for it, but you did the best thing for your future. You simply cannot wife a rape victim. It's baggage that you cannot fix.
based pilled and red
I know right, everyone hates me for it. Somehow I'm worse than a rapist.
I'm sure she's ok for someone else to have as a wife I just don't want to date her anymore. I had nothing to do with the issue, that's her life and body.
wtf dude I really liked her
u ..double rapist!
>someone raped her.
How did it happen?
If she got drunk at a party then it was mostly on her. I don't know if it should even be called rape in that case.
Not enough to deal with whatever psychological issues she has. But jokes aside I can't blame you, most people can't handle such cases without going nuts themselves. And that's assuming said person doesn't turn on you or something
Fucking based af OP, made me kek hard. Ain't nobody got time to fix a broken bitch when you can find someone else.
>How did it happen?
I don't know. I assume it wasn't her fault.
I didn't consider most of that. If she tries to contact me should I google psychologists for her to talk to and just give her links to counseling?
I don't want to find someone else. This was awful why are you laughing about it? I had no intentions of finding someone else. Things just didn't work out. She'll find someone else. I probably won't.
>should I google psychologists for her to talk to and just give her links to counseling?
Yes
>I didn't consider most of that
Then why did you break up with her upon hearing that she was raped? Also do you believe her or not?
>Then why did you break up with her upon hearing that she was raped?
She wants to live her life doing things like that, she's going to find a guy that wants to do all that or settle down later. I'm just going to get blamed for letting it happen when I had nothing to do with it. Never happened when I was around.
>Also do you believe her or not?
Yes I do believe her. What difference should that make? I wasn't involved with what happened. That's her life and choices. Why should I have to deal with it?
>What difference should that make?
I was asking in general
>doing things like that
Elaborate
I second this opinion.
If people ask, just say things didn't work out between you two. Not worth the baggage of her acting like a retard for a decade.
Does it make a difference in general?
I don't know how to elaborate on that, she's a big girl and makes big girl decisions for herself.
They don't ask anything directly, just things that could sound like it's related to that. Hyperbole kind of stuff and I find out later it's related to something she said to someone.
why? that doesn't make sense to me.
What made you break up with her since you didn't consider the emotional baggage she might have from that event as you said?
where do you live, user? the most successful relationships i ever had were with girls who were raped. i can take her off your hands if you're close enough.
Did she actually get raped or was is another "omg Chad raped me in the hot tub after we got wasted. I was only showing him what I learned in my twerking class in a non sexual way"
What do you mean?
Nothing made me break up with her. I just don't think we have compatible life styles. Baggage sounds like the kind of thing old single cat ladies worry about.
>successful ralationships
If that's what you want to call it.
What difference does that make? It was a thing that happened that she couldn't stop. It really doesn't matter if she provoked it or not. It happened either way.
Then what's the op, my attention whore?
>you are not allowed to have an opinion or talk about anything
dumb npc poster
>threads like this
>'why do le toastie roasties hate our guts?fucking whores'
Good job
I broke up with my gf because I got bored of her
>why do roasties hate us
Obviously you don't lurk. We don't ask this, we just hate roasties. Fuck off normalnigger
>what do you mean?
it kinda sounds like you wanted to break up with her anyway and the rape thing just seemed like a good place to dump her. kind of was not, but there never really is a "good" time to bring up breaking up.
Good choice. Fuck that noise.
Good call, OP. Not worth the stress. Just worry about yourself.
roasties, leave anytime please
what the fuck do you mean it sounds like? you're projecting your own thoughts into OPs posts. dont read inbetween the lines you dumbass
well i asked "why" and he couldn't give me an answer and posted lukewarm responses when asked by other anons about the girl.
Isn't the dumb npc poster? Broke up with gf just because she told her what had once happened to her.
If he stayed with that girl, she would have made his life a terrible escort sidequest where you follow a dumbass around all day.
>>threads like this
What's that suppose to mean?
I didn't want to break up. She was probably too good for me. I was a lot better off with her in the long run.
It probably was a bad call. I'm a loser and probably won't find another gf.
My question wasn't hot enough for you? What are you goldilocks?
If she wasn't honest about it and lied it'd be reason for me to break up with her about it. Why does it matter if I dumped her even if she was forth coming about it?
>It probably was a bad call. I'm a loser and probably won't find another gf.
I thought the same thing too when I left my gf of 2 years. It takes time to feel okay about being alone, user. It takes even longer to feel okay about getting back out there and dating again. Its a constant struggle, but you should stick to your decision and never look back.
This thread is bait. Stop posting in it. OP will respond to this post with something dumb
Thanks man but this will always end up being my fault somehow. I'm not entitled to a relationship. I don't expect another one. I didn't intend to change my mind even people that don't really know anything about it still seem to be blaming me.
>something dumb
So why the fuck did you break up with her?
Is it because she wasn't a virgin?
Is it because you blame her for what someone else did to her?
Is it because you were scared of how she'd treat you?
Is it because you thought she should just keep shtum?
Or is it just because you're larping?
REVERSE RAPIST
legendary picture OP
based and redpilled
These sound like loaded questions intended to make me look bad for answering. It wasn't my fault that happened to her. Why is it suppose to be my responsibility to deal with?
>Thanks man but this will always end up being my fault somehow
Its not your fault. You don't need her, you can do shit on your own user. Just take your time and heal, but don't forget about your goals. Be it work, school, or both. You want to live a good life without her. You absolutely can.