What's the pros and cons of having a gf?
What's the pros and cons of having a gf?
only cons
What makes 2D better than 3D user?
pros:
cons: everything
Original post. I can see this question has been answered many times.
>pros:
>cons: everything
There must surely be pros user?
>Pros: have gf
>Cons: inevitably she will be much less cute than sakura-chan
>Pros: have gf
Is that the only pro user?
Pros:
Easy sex
Always have someone to talk to
Being comfy
Social status rises
Cons:
Possibly letting yourself get out of shape/distracted from your goals
Dealing with her manufactured drama
Can be cheated on
Pros: nothing you could just fap
Cons: everything
2D GF is best, prove me wrong
Pros
>supportive
>always home for.you
>raises child and cleans for free
>always available to text and hangout
>makes passing.time.fun
Cons
>you will fight occassionally
>they have their live in issues
>they can get you sick more often
>you have someone to take care of
>someone else to feed and spend money on
>has hobbies that you're not interested in
>Pros: nothing you could just fap
Would it not be a pro, for a gf to do it for you?
>Cons: everything
There must be at least one thing, that isn't a con, user?
>2D GF is best, prove me wrong
Example of how 2D is "best" user? And how/what makes you think 2D is "best"?
>Pros
A reason to live and get up in the morning and rebuild your life for
>cons
Depending on personality it could become a reason pushing you that much closer to an hero.
It's a delicate balance, none which I've managed to balance myself, yet everyone around me does.. it's disheartening to say the least.
DESU GF's and relationships in general are like a double-edge sword. You need to open yourself to em and that is a risk. But, on the other hand, if you're smart and play your cards right in the relationship, you get someone who can help you when you can't, and put life on easy mode.
3D > 2D uncultured swine
If youre willing to 2d shouldn't you just have a sex doll at that rate? Closest thing to physically fuck thats 2d... Right?
she can fart on your face after eating tacobell
Depends on the girl obviously but
These guys are pretty much right
>she can fart on your face after eating tacobell
Is that a pro or a con, user?
pros: more prototypes for your secret lab experiments
cons: human centipede is just a sci-fiction
>A reason to live and get up in the morning and rebuild your life for
But what happens if you break up with a gf?
Pros: There are none
Cons: Everything
Don't go for it anons, abstain and survive.
>Pros: There are none
There must be at least one pro?
>Cons: Everything
>Don't go for it anons, abstain and survive.
But how user?
How about 2D vs 3D?
becausei ts pure and doesnt share your reality in a physical sense so you dont have to do much to make her happy and keep her secure financially etc.
2D looks better and is nicer, example is my Waifu told me to stop doing silly stuff that hurts me and dedicating it to her.
she wants whats best for me and I just want to feel more connected to her.
3DPD are whores and Waiuf is really sweet and after bad dreams when I wake up hugging dakki I feel better.
she makes me want to improve myself for her.
>shouldn't you just have a sex doll at that rate? Closest thing to physically fuck thats 2d... Right?
you dont understand 2D love it has nothing to do with physical.
I dont even lewd my Waifu.
My love is pure.
why would I want a sexdoll?
its liek 3DPD
>you dont understand 2D love it has nothing to do with physical.
user, how does it work then?
>these guys have never had a girl snuggle up and fall asleep on their chest during a netflix binge on a friday night
Sad!
Lol ikr fucking virgins,
Oh wait...
just buy a generator, it'd cost less than a gf.
>just buy a generator, it'd cost less than a gf.
user, what happens when the generator runs out?
Simply learn to engineer a wind turbine
>user, what happens when the generator runs out?
and what happens when your gf trips and breaks her neck?
>not having all the merch of your waifu so you can snuggle with your waifu in bed even if you dont have electricity
pleb
What makes a waifu a waifu?
Pros:
-companionship
-sexy time
Cons:
-you have to sustain the relationship which can take a lot of energy
-you might reinvent yourself for this person in bad ways
-emotional vulnerability means it can fuck you up if shit goes south
hmmm
actually im not a virgin faggot
it is on a personal level a pure level man.
Nigga if you have to 'reinvent yourself' in 'bad ways', you shouldn't be with that person. A healthy relationship helps you to build and maintain healthy traits and habits, while reducing or eliminating your more negative ones.
Obviously, but going into a relationship there's no way you can immediately know that this person will be a healthy or harmful addition to your life.
The point is that being in a relationship at all allows for the possibility of toxicity.
That's the purpose of dating, to figure out your measure of compatibility with the other person. That being said, with a good chunk of first dates, assuming you're actually asking questions and not blinding yourself with infatuation, you can usually tell a good degree about a persons character.
When does sexual compatability come into the picture?
Pros:
>sex feels great
>you have someone who will stay loyal to you
>you are seen as normal
>you have someone to live for
>you can have kids one day
Cons:
>Your ro/b/ros on Jow Forums will no longer enjoy your company
>She will want too much sex, more than you can give
>your kids will call the new man Daddy
What if toxicity arises after you've been with this person for a long time and have grown attached to them? I'm a kissless virgin and am trying to make myself feel better about never having been in a relationship
pros
>can hold hands
>go on camping trips together
>always have a friend
>feel loved
>can share clothes
>cook big meals together
>sex
>emotional support
cons
>can hurt you
>might nag
>can be very hard to acquire
You cut that person out of your life, you dont keep going back to toxic.
Jeez anyone doing that needs to srsly get over their obsession
My name is mboko.
I wish you all good things for all of you and good feelings
For those of you who don't have girlfriends I wish a girlfriend for you very soon. A one that suits you
I am based mboko
In terms of attraction or in terms of whole well you do the horizontal monster mash together?
Finding the other person attractive should factor in from the get go. 'Sexual compatibility' is something that should come later as trust, understanding, and mutual respect need to be built up first.
Assuming you're communicating and getting to know your partner you should recognize that the two of you share a big chunk of your values with each other. This also tends to extend to your sexual needs and desires. With that being the case, a good sexual relationship on really requires that you're willing to listen and learn with your partner to be good.
Wait until marriage, or wait until marriage is a surefire thing if you want a long lasting relationship. Don't predicate your relationship on the physical.
It's always a possibility for a relationship to fall apart. To avoid this communication and honesty are always key. Being open with your parent and yourself pivotal to the well being of the individuals in the relationship. If one person isn't willing to do that, the other should have the good sense to leave while they're still sane.
So, 3D can break up with you and 2D cannot?
you can break up with 2D.
mai waifu, I broke up with her and im ashamed.
I feel bad and dont liek talking about it but I changed as a person and I loved a different girl.
I changed so much, I gtried ignore my feels.. I just couldnt
>power outage
>what is manga
Also what said in the original
>Cons
>>you have someone to take care of
????????????????????????????
Just a thought, why not have both 2D and 3D?
>tfw no sakura gf
i've decided the cons of having a bf outweigh the pros and i probably couldn't make it work anyway. so i'll shitpost here and mention my gender when i want (you)s as a way to cope with my loneliness
why would you do that?
you dont settle for 2D.
I love my waifu and even chose her over a IRL Misaki mummy GF who wanted me to live in her room as a NEET.
I chose buying Mai Waifu dakki and stuff because I love her
>why would you do that?
you dont settle for 2D.
I love my waifu and even chose her over a IRL Misaki mummy GF who wanted me to live in her room as a NEET.
I chose buying Mai Waifu dakki and stuff because I love her
I see you are dedicated to your waifu user.
Pros- Someone that gives support
Cons- less time to do the things you want to do
Pros
>have someone to share thoughts and activities with
>because it's assumed that you'll share day-to-day burdens, there's someone who's always going through the same things as you
>cuddling feels nice
>someone has your back and vice-versa
cons:
>won't actually quell feelings of isolation because it's next to impossible to know someone well enough or love someone enough. You will still probably die alone, have to feel injuries alone, etc. because from an existential standpoint you are still alone.
>introducing another variable to your life can lead to instability
>it will eventually end
>cuddling feels nice
This.
What can 2D do that 3D can't? I think not being able to hug you back is one.
>I see you are dedicated to your waifu user.
I am man.
I love her and she wants whats good for me and its up to me to improve myself for her.
>I think not being able to hug you back is one.
he hasnt heard of tulpas
you bakas have never heard of manga or printers before have you? We also have a thing called dakis
How long did you take to create yours ? (If you have one)
Btw How Common is tulpa/esoteric knowledge in general here ?
Your 2D waifu
>will never suck your dick.
>will never jack you off.
>will never have sex with you.
>will never hug or kiss you.
Your 3D gf will
>will suck your dick.
>will jack you off.
>will have sex with you.
>will hug or kiss you.
If you have no 3D girlfriend then you can always fap.
Getting a gf is hard.
There are a lot of positives but no one mentioned two of the biggest cons of a partner. GFs are an absolute vampire on all of your free time. If you have any hobbies or goals that you wish to pursue, then you must lay them out up front so she can understand how important they are to you. It's always way too easy to waste an entire weekend doing nothing but fucking, laying around, and watching anime/movies/whatever together.
The friends part is rough too if you don't like their friends at all but you'll be forced to interact with them. Some may be ok so stick to them, also you have to make sure that you don't appear to favor one of her female friends over her otherwise she'll get really jealous. Their family really shouldn't be an issue unless they're actually deranged people. I've never had a bad experience with meeting a gf's family, they tend to get along with me more than their daughter.
>There are a lot of positives
What are those positives user?
my ex had raw cardcaptor sakura manga to read and other shit.
It can be a gigantic ego boost to help stabilize you and improve your life. I got to go out more and do more events than I would have done single because I had someone to share the experience with in an unfamiliar situation. Having another person who cares about you and wants to make you happy is a powerful benefit to a gf. I got through some really rough situations with the help of something that none of my friends could provide. The most important part is communicating everything. There's hardly many good reasons to have an extended argument with another unless you've done something that's actually bad. You need boundaries and to treat each other as equal instead of being her bitch or you being her master.
I think I'll be okay.
>reverse image search
>zero results
You have great taste, user. God is cruel to keep Yuri away from you and me, I would love to have Yuri in my life
Maybe someday, once the robowaifu revolution comes, we will finally be together with the love of our lives.
damn, all those trinkets. i'm sure she appreciates it and you have plenty of keys that need keychains lol
Yeah I wish there was more merch to collect other than keychains, hahah. I mostly just keep them hung up all around my room. I only use one of the official keychains for my actual keys.