I see a lot of normies talking about how most perma virgins don't deserve gfs. What exactly is the minimum requirements to "deserve" romantic love?
I see a lot of normies talking about how most perma virgins don't deserve gfs...
I think it's a misconception, assuming that perma virgins are virgins because they don't actually like people and are happy being single thus not deserving a gf because if they wanted one they would have had one already
6ft+
attractive
has friends
if you don't fill these minimum requirements you don't deserve romantic love
Being a woman.
Originellt.
contribute to society instead of detracting from it.
>Normies say you don't deserve a gf because you don't try
>Tell other people who try to get a gf they are not owed a gf
It's all bullshit OP. The clearest sign that you deserve a GF to them is that you already have one.
I work and pay taxes if that's enough
Oh no
Oh no
Be good looking and confident. If you don't have one of these attributes you are at a big disadvantage. If you don't have either, you are fucked.
>Lack confidence because I do poorly with women
>Need confidence to do well with women
This is the sexual market just a reskin of the job market?
There really isn't one...
Serial killers have hoards of women willing to fuck them and/or marry them..
What does that tell you about people?
And these women arn't all just lonely women who can't get any.
they just kind shit like that hot
Yup you've explained the problem exactly.
Confidence comes from within, it needs no external validation. Your problem is you let others bring you down.
you opened up pandoras box here
do you really want the whole manuscript on male requirements for dating in 2018?
I mean, do you even have time or the energy to read all of it?
So basically you only deserve to be loved if woman decide you are, and if they don't it's automatically all your fault?
yep, that's it
the modern world anno 2018 is a complete catch 22
either you are on the inside or the outside
mobility between the castes is near impossible
> Killed lot's of people (excludes all other requirements)
> Sexy
> smart
>rich
> big dick
> fit
> funny
> interesting
>x/y *10000000 = toMany
basically if your some what interesting user
Women control the world OP, it's just that they are too stupid to realize it.
that really is it
we are effectively a matriarchy in most of the west
countries like sweden, germany, britain, canada are completely matriarchical and the male is just a pawn
>Confidence comes from within
I mean yeah you could delude yourself into thinking you are the best in the world at something but if all your attempts end in failure you are going to need some strenuous mental gymnastics to justify that belief.
Idk how practical what i'm about to say will be for you, take it for what it is. If you want a girlfriend and friends you have to realise that it's not the flesh and bones that make people like you, neither is it your actions. What people fall in love with and befriends is the idea of you. Just like yourself others interpret you so if you can't change the idea of yourself you're pretty fucked.
Confidence is instinctive, no mental gymnastics or thinking involved. It means remaining calm in social situations and being able to assert yourself. How you can achieve this, not sure. SNRI's worked for me.
A good start is to not be inferior to the person you want to date
I think the word deserve is a bit problematic, but I would agree that you have to have something to offer whoever you want to date. If you are a total loser with no prospects and no money, why would you expect anyone to date you? You dont need to be some kind of turbochad or anything, you just need to have something going for you. I didnt get a gf until I was 25, and at the time I weighed over 300 lbs, worked in a warehouse and was poor as shit, but I had steady employment, lived on my own and was back in school so she was willing to give me a chance. If youre trying to make yourself a better person its much easier to attract women, dont just expect them to love you for who you are if youre a piece of shit.
>dont just expect them to love you for who you are if youre a piece of shit.
I don't think you should expect anyone to love you for who you are period.
False/deluded confidence is 100x better than having no confidence at all. I see it work on dipshits flawlessly. You ever met a guy that was just cocky or arrogant for no reason? They do way better with women. Someday he will get buttfucked by reality, but until then..
Basically, if you as a person does not inspire feelings of love then you do not deserve love because you did not generate those feelings within someone.
And no, there isn't a set rule of what does and doesn't, only general patterns that needs to be adapted to your specific individuality.
"But that will not work for everyone."
Well no shit, how can there by improvement unless you remove the worst and keep the better?
>killed a lot of people
No
>sexy
No
>smart
Academically I'm smart but I can't function in the real world
>big dick
No
>fit
I'm a skelly
>funny
I can make my mom laugh
>interesting
Not really
Oh, well. Dying alone won't be too bad.
So how does one accept that they're undeserving of love? It hurts real bad