Do the unthinkable: Rate yourself out of 10.
Use this scale.
>Looks: Rate your appearance out of 10, from the perspective of a girl if possible. A 5 would be attractive enough to not likely be a khv, but unattractive enough to likely not have had too many sexual experiences.
>Intelligence: Rate your intelligence out of 10. A 5 is about a 100IQ.
>Public display: Rate your ability to behave like a normal human being in front of others. A 5 neither pushes people away by being autistic, nor draws people in due to charisma.
>Temperament: How fun are you to be around from the perspective of your friends? A 5 would have your friends find you enjoyable enough to be friends, but not exceptionally more than that.
>Kindness: Are you a selfless, or hateful person? A 5 is never angry at women or society, but still is not an advocate of social justice or things that do not concern him.
>Sanity: How clean of mental illness are you? A 5 does not have autism, schizophrenia, or depression, but does not necessarily have a perfectly healthy mind. A 5 sometimes has days where you feel a little down, or fixed on something.
>Mannerisms: Do you have good manners? Do you hold the door for women? Do you wash your hands after using the bathroom? A 5 has enough manners that no one would ever comment, even behind your back.
Dirty potential: How much sex appeal do you have? A 5 would not be overtly sexually attractive, but in a physical sexual situation the user has no problem stimulating a girl and having her enjoy her time with you.
Selflessness: How much do you care about other people? A 5 would at least sacrifice themselves for other people? In most cases, a 5 would sacrifice themselves for family only.
Husbandability: How beneficial would it be to a girl to marry you? A 5 would have at least 80k/year and a house by 30.
Add these numbers up and divide by 100 for your score.
This score is the equivalent score of the quality of girl society wants you to go for.