>psychiatrist asks if I love my parents
>say yeah of course
>he looks at me for a long time and says no you don't then changes the topic
What did he mean by this? It still eats at me over a year later.
Psychiatrist asks if I love my parents
What mental disorder do you have?
Are you a neet? Original reply
Means he is bad at his job
>>he looks at me for a long time and says no you don't
people have been saying they know what i think and feel better than i do my entire life and it's the most aggravating thing.
holy shit.
when people do it now, i just return the favor and tell them how they really feel.
they don't like it.
i wonder why.
He's fucking with you.
Oriorigggginal
Yeah of course sounds like you think everyone loves their parents by default
Dang user. Your therapists is crazy.
I'm glad it sounds weird to anons too. Just don't know what to make of that.
I don't think I have one, don't even know what my formal diagnosis right now. Think it's technically schizophrenia schizoaffective or psychotic depression on paper though.
Yeah, but they don't struggle to support me. I was hospitalized at the time
I think he doesn't like you and thinks that your lifestyle/actions means you don't love your parents, and he might be right but then again hes not supposed to say that and you do love your parents.
it's just your neet lifestyle forces them to work for your survival when a grown kid should be helping the families survival ,but idk ur situations so im just guessing
He was probably butthurt boomer angry that you were neet. They always measure love in money
Maybe that you're a narcissist and incapable of genuinely loving others? Should have asked him about it.
What the fuck. Fucking sue that boomer nigger. Hell so sorry for you man.
Should have spat in his face for attempting to gaslight you and probably get you hooked on some pills you don't actually need until the constant mind-alteration drives your psyche off a cliff, turning you into a whack-job that'll shoot up a local Denny's because you thought the manager was sending gangstalkers to follow you around all day. Some therapists will do that to you if it means earning Pharma more money.
It means he's being unprofessional projecting
it might be true but why would he have such a sook about it
Don't even bother with shrinks. Most of them don't actually want to solve your problems, they just want to take your money and keep you dependent on meds forever so the industry can thrive with your hard earned cash.
Therapist and The Rapist are spelt the same.
I was already being involuntarily injected with drugs. He didn't have to say anything to me at all really, that's the part that concerns me about it.
>Involuntarily injected with drugs
Your therapist sounds like a sociopath, you might want to consider seeking alternative help.
Fuck outta here with your reiki, chiropractors and all your "alternative" bullshit. They're about as effective as therapy, i.e. not at all.
I don't mean pseudo-science you pleb, I mean another therapist who isn't a freak.
It was in the hospital, involuntary injections is not uncommon at all. The fact he decided to say that just eats at me even now when it's been longer than a year since I've even seen a professional.
What were you talking about before he asked that?
I forget, sorry.
medfag here
psychology and therapy are complete shams
He's trying to make you feel guilty for still living with them, this in spite of the fact that it was the norm for thousands of years and still is in most countries outside of the west.
He is probably trying to guilt trip you into changeing some of your habits/actions in relation to your parents.
>Yes therapist i do love my parents
>No user you do not,if you REALLY LOVED your parents you wouldnt do X,Y and Z you would instead do A,B and C.
He is probably gonna drop this line of thinking on you on the next session or the one after that i think.
I wasn't even living with my parents at the time. This was a while ago and I was involuntarily committed. There was no guilt trip, he never mentioned it again. He just gave me a sad look and gave up on the topic. He literally had no obligation to speak to me or perform therapy.
Four years ago I decided I'll try therapy. Looked over a list of therapists and read their reviews. One of them was highly recommended by most people and it was relatively affordable ($25/h). The first meeting was a disaster. I was a NEET for around eight years then and I told her all about it. She started talking about my mother and I mentioned that she had a miscarriage before she had me and while being pregnant with me she developed chronic depression and after I was born it 'evolved' into full blown paranoid schizophrenia. So she asked me if I felt guilty for my mother's chronic depression and schizophrenia, and I have never in my life even considered or felt that before I went to this session. Since that meeting I've started feeling extreme guilt for living. She basically made my situation x10 worse. To say the least I didn't come back or ever plan to go to 'therapy' again.
he's a quack
This is why I don't pursue psychological help. People in that field are fucked up
This is honestly why I only speak to my psychiatrist only for my ADHD medication. Psychology and therapy is quack science. I'll never ever open up to them.
Psychiatrists do not make such statements during a session. They do not make assertions and they do not infer that the patient is lying.
You are either larping or the psychiatrist is liable for a malpractise suit. Both DSM-V and ICD-10 have clauses and you have to agree to everything in order to be granted a license.
t. I work in a tangential field.
That fucker probably thinks he has the ability to read people, and he must have thought you were lying based on your reaction. Very unprofessional to be honest. Should have told him to fuck off.
Not a LARP, I think I made him angry or something.
You should of went back and said " I have never in my life even considered or felt that before I went to this session. Since that meeting I've started feeling extreme guilt for living. She basically made my situation x10 worse" to her
Confront the fucker about it. What gives hi. The right to say that shit?
You absolute fool.
Their job is to help you develop emotional awareness. She did exactly what she's suppose to do.
What did you expect her to do?
Get your guilty ass back to therapy.
>Confront the fucker about it. What gives hi. The right to say that shit?
I really think you guys don't get the situation well. I was involuntarily committed, didn't want psychiatric medicine of any kind, and never bothered to learn his name. I do not like the field in any way, just worried that I still don't understand why he said that to me.
His reasoning is sound though. Being a neet is generally a shitty thing to do to your parents in the long term.
Maybe you should have just asked him.
Maybe he wanted to see howd you react.
shhh, we don't need common sense answers in here, it has to be some grand conspiracy
He might just not like you. If he works in an involuntary clinic he probably has to deal with some real characters who aren't actually looking for help and openly disrespect him.
I saw him for 5 minutes once a week, it's really easy to forget.
I guess, seems weird though
That makes sense. I guess he's just a guy who went to school, so his word isn't gospel. Just shook me up, don't know why really.
Some psychiatrist thinking there are Gods and now everything by looking at u and it's bad because they can decide if your future looks great or bad .
I hope you get better at least.
Why did you get committed?
How are you doing?
People who study psychology can be grouped in four categories:
1. women, who look for prolonged high-school, i.e. they want a major where they can make lots of female friends
2. people looking for self therapy (aka Jordan Peterson)
3. crazy freaks who like to prey on weak people
4. actually competent and interested students
If you get 4. that's good. If you get 2. or 1. that's still okay, just don't expect too much. If you get 3., tough luck.
god that makes me want to fucking kill someone
If it eats at you a whole year later, I think you know what that means. If you truly do love your parents, you'd see his comment as just unprofessional and that would be that. The fact it's literally eating at you a WHOLE year later tells me he touched on something you truly don't, or can't, admit to yourself.
So I'll ask you again; do you truly love your parents?
>tfw I don't love my parents
>they asked me if I did and I just gave them silence in return until they changed the subject
I didn't choose who my parents were. What a stupid concept, that you have to love them just because you were the result of the sperm accident.
>Why did you get committed?
tried to kill myself lol
>How are you doing?
Not gonna lie I'm pissed because I opened a packet of skittles and inside were 3 red 1 green and 9 purples.
I think so. How can you tell?
no you fucking idiot, even i as an outsider feel my bloody boiling because of that comment. It's disrespectful and being told what you think is insulting. He's a retard and so are you
I swear half of them are secretly evil like those shrinks from shows like Dexter and Law and Order who get people to kill themselves or harm themselves in some way. They have no reason to give a shit about their patients. The whole field needs to be nuked, let them flip burgers and see how they like that life.
Why is the onus on you to love your parents when it's their iob to teach you how to love yourself? If they did a shitty job raising you and all you've experienced were the consequences of that, you'd eventually think they didn't love *you* and withdraw affection from them naturally.
Heh, you have it wrong. Idgaf whether they love me or not. They're retarded dicks and they can keep their toxicity to themselves. I'm not playing the game.
Familial "ties" are a spook.
It isn't quack science.
Unless, do you think the Milgram Obedience study and the Stanford Prison experiments were fruitless exercises...? Because they weren't user.