I think I'm a-sexual guys but there is no standardized testing for such a thing.
I'm not sexually attracted to other people at all. I don't like sex at all. I don't really fap and when I do it seems like it's more because I'm really bored but I feel a desire to be with someone, it's like a catch-22. I'm lonely and want affection but I don't want sex at all.
This is true robot suffering.
Well your not alone.
You could always just find a friend!
That's even harder. Idk if this applies to you but, you know how most little children will change themselves to make others like them? I'm no sure exactly how to explain it, but little kids don't really have fully formed personalities yet.
I find it really hard to make friends because I'm constantly trying to change myself to fit what the person wants me to be which leads to a lot of stress and anxiety. Eventually I will just ghost the person (I've ghosted many IRL people) because it's too hard to put up the facade.
I feel like I don't even have a personality. I'm just constantly changing to be what I think people like.
yeah i'm like that too. i've had interactions but that shit isn't important. i'd rather just be alone and fap if i need to get one out when i'm bored-
>something something children
you fucking lost me.
you shouldn't change yourself for others. your true colors will eventually show one day.
What do you think of when you fap?
I don't think I have true colors.
Honestly. It's weird. I fap to the idea of blackmail and 80% of the time I fap to pictures of myself. About half the time I can't actually cum and I just stop. I've never once had "morning wood" either, I thought there was something wrong with me so I had my testosterone tested and I have normie testosterone.
I told one irl person that and he called me a narcissist.
I feel the same, I rarely feel attraction to people, I feel like if I had sex or made it into a habit it would be forced and not something I would be naturally motivated to do.
Have you ever had sexual feeling for
Other people before in your life or has this always been the case?
It's not true robot suffering, that's something else.
Many times robot suffering ends after they're done jizzing all over themselves so for you to ignore that step is something unusual.
It's not robot suffering, it's more.
Even a robot has a slight chance of winning as they offer a full experience, sex and all that, but you claim to not be interested in one of the driving forces of humanity.
So you're done.
>it would be forced and not something I would be naturally motivated to do
This is exactly how actual sex feels to me. Even having my dick sucked is a very unpleasurable experience. It's like I'm doing it for someone else.
I thought I had strong sexual attraction to the only girl I've ever dated but she was a party girl so most of the time we were together I was on drugs. When we did get down to being sexual even when I was on drugs it did not feel natural. It felt like you're in class or something and you know you have to write 10 pages of notes so you just get it done and over with, just going through the motions.
I have also had sex with two different hookers because of how obsessed with my sexuality I became and one was 100x worse because I felt I had to "preform" for her which caused anxiety and the other who was in her late 30s again just felt unnatural, but I really liked kissing her so we literally sat for half an hour making out and talking.
I know
>he made out with a hooker
Yeah :L. She was really beautiful though. I have a definite thing for french kissing but that's it.
I could easily marry a girl who only wanted to passionately french kiss. I'm such a fag.
>Even a robot has a slight chance of winning as they offer a full experience, sex and all that, but you claim to not be interested in one of the driving forces of humanity.
>So you're done.
That's honestly how I feel. Nothing motivates me. Like nothing.
...well there is a possibility that you'll find a woman with the exact same condition as yours, but I guess It would be hard to recognize whether it's just a phase for them.
And also it would be hard to find out whether there even are women like that in your city/state.
If youre libido is alright then you probably are asexual. It is alright to develop romantic feelings or craving affection, asexuality is only a sexual orientation. Also welcome to the family lad :D
Damn that sucks man do you think this stops you from being an actual normalfag and making it? I was feeling the same way as you like a month ago, I guess it was some sort of phase. every time I decided to fap it just felt like a chore, but I do remember fapping to myself during that time. now it seems like I cant go a day without fapping.
Don't worry user I told someone else im panromantic asexual, and while it just sounds like tumblr shit thats exactly how I feel. I want to show someone I love them but sex is not wanted anywhere along the line.
Apathy can be a sign of depression and its got nothing to do with your asexuality. Seek help.
Yeah, but what if myself at a natural state is a fucking retard?
If it wasn't for the love and affection of my kitty cat I would probably be depressed over this.
Hopefully. There are meant to be far more female a-sexuals than men from what I've read. I'd probably have better luck just going for a girl who was abused and therefore hates sex or something.
Lol thanks.
I'll never be normal because I'm just too weird. I don't seem to have my own personality. I think I'm slightly autistic but not enough to get any real diagnosis, I've tried. I'm the product of being raised by a computer. My parents divorced when I was young and my mother would let me skip school, I skipped years of school which is now illegal and never got to see how my father interacting with people leading me to become socially inept.
I first started using Jow Forums when I was 11. I was literally illiterate, spelling every word wrong, like really bad cringe spelling but talking with people on Jow Forums is how I learned how to spell correctly and it's why I use words like "literally" all the time.
It sounds like Tumblr shit until it perfectly describes you ;-;
I meant in the context of relationships. I have no drive to pursue a partner because I feel no sexual attraction I should have clarified. I'm not depressed. I work out each day. Stand in the sun every day to get my natural vitamin D... lol it's true.. Cook, clean, etc.
>Hopefully. There are meant to be far more female a-sexuals than men from what I've read. I'd probably have better luck just going for a girl who was abused and therefore hates sex or something.
Was meant to reply to
This might be a weird question, but as an asexual would you be okay with dating someone who masturbates regularly? Like, with sex toys and everything? No obligation for you to join, just would you be cool with them not being purely sex repulsed?
You sound more normal than me, atleast you managed to go to parties, do drugs and have a gf. Those this just arent attainable for a socially inept person such as myself.
Not op but im the other one who claims to be asexual and I dont see a problem with someone i'm dating masturbating because I mean I still do it for that feeeeel good. And I rather them masturbate than look outside the relationship for sex
I sound it because I can literally manipulate a person into anything via text chat.
Get me in person and you'll soon realize there is nothing going on behind my eyes.
My drug use got to the point I was using MDMA just so I could act normal. I saw it more as medication.