>ignore your bullies and they will stop
Where did this meme came from? Why do every authority figure propagates it? do they do it on purpose?
>ignore your bullies and they will stop
Where did this meme came from? Why do every authority figure propagates it? do they do it on purpose?
yeah schools do it because they don't want to get sued if some autist defends himself from a bully with a lock in a sock
it came from "people do things for reactions/attention"
people propagate it because its probably the easiest legitimate blanket solution that a figure in authority can provide
not saying it's because it works, infact it doesnt work a whole lot, but inevitably there's that one prick kid picking another just to get a ruse and ignoring them is just a way to get them to fuck off to someone else or get bored
That picture is triggering some very horrible memories.
If someone's saying something to you verbally it's better just to ignore it unless they continue then tell them to fuck off and if they don't they start a fight.
If you ever get """cyberbullied""" just ignoring them is the easiest thing to do unless you're autistic or they're trying to doxx you.
If someone is being physical to you it's better to try to fighting back is better for you even if you lose.
You know people who attack you do it because they don't expect you to fight back? They will get shocked when you first hit back and that can be an advantage.
I'm not that good at fighting but as long as you're not a complete onions and do some basic practice by yourself you should be able to fight and lose in a "respectable" way, and they might know that you don't take shit and leave you alone, doing nothing and taking it won't help you.
And if they still continue to bully you just find that weak tag along in the group no one cares about and specifically target him. That pussy submissive bitch fucking deserves it.
>onions
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>>ignore your bullies and they will stop
This is hilarious, this is showing legitimate weakness no matter how much you try to not show it if you """""ignore""""" them while they do whatever they want to you they will see your weakness and probably feel even more disgusted/hate you and do it even more
Better advice would be to transition at an early age if you think you have a chance of passing, then if you're lucky just have guys compliment you daily and treat you like you either don't exist (a huge bonus) or treat you like a princess. Girls are non threatening compared to being bullied by men
The way I've thought about it is that you just have to one up, makes them warier of continuing.
They insult you, you insult them back better, of course, this takes wit, confidence, etc.
With physicality, it's a bit different. For example, if they barge you ignoring them is probably best. If it's continuous you have to appeal to the crowd, "hey dude that's not cool, you got to stop that". Make sure the crowd is aware of what is happening. From here they will either back down or escalate if they escalate a fight is about to break out and it would no longer be considered a sucker punch to attack them (never suck punch unless absolutely necessary).
If you beat him in the fair fight he will most likely leave you alone due to public embarrassment and not wanting to get his ass kicked again. Or he might escalate it further (I'll get onto that).
If you lose however an honorable person sucks it up and deals with it, it was a fair fight after all. Hopefully, this satisfies the guy and he will respect you more for standing your ground as will other and leave you alone. He might not, however.
If he continues to physically harass you when it's already known he can beat your ass it is now no longer a fair fight. Depending on how crazy you are there are different ways to deal with it. You can get the authorities involved at this point and probably get them serious jail time. How I'd deal with it is probably take a baseball bat or another blunt object and beat his ass with it the next time he assaults you, hopefully, I wouldn't get jail time.
Anyway, the only way I feel like he could escalate it further from that point is to gang assault you or attack you with a weapon. In both of these scenarios, it's clear a fair fight is definitely not what they want which means I would no longer fight fair. I won't tell you what I'd do in this scenario but you can imagine.
Anyway, I'm a small guy but I've never been bullied, if you get bullied you're stupid.
>yes just fucking become a girl and mentally fuck yourself so the same kids who bully you will not think twice before bullying someone else.
>ruinning your manhood because of others
>letting (((them))) win
I know this is ironic but fucking hell.
Idk I had two bullies. Made them both feel like such shit that they went into depression spells. Attack their character and who they are. I am a bigger piece of shit than they are / were so it worked out for me.
If you want to be the bigger man then yeah. Learn to defend yourself but largely ignore them. Just know that after high school bullies are more prevalent and come in all types so if you do not know how to deal with them you will be in a cycle. You either get bullied or follow them like a sick puppy. Just know you should work on your ability to make verbal comebacks or -strike from the shadows-. Outright beating someone up is just jail time and being too much of a prick is a good way to fuck yourself from jobs.
this is god advice
You know man I honestly doubt someone with a lot of influence and "clout" [unless he's a stupid nigger] would even take time and form a gang to fuck with some beta kid they bully but there's a possibility.
He'll probably just continue to fuck with you, maybe in a small group
>if you get bullied you're stupid.
elaborate
>>ruinning your manhood because of others
What if there was no manhood to ruin in the first place? At least if you're an attractive girl you will always have a guy willing to marry you if you are under 35 and pay for you every need, so long as no one discovers you are a tranny or just doesn't care because you pass they would treat you like any other girl, the only peers who would """""""bully""""""" you would be other girls and they're as threatening as a fucking kitten.
You could regularly go out with multiple guys until you get married and each one would take care of you and wouldn't let anyone hurt you, they'd be like fathers to you despite you being an adult
You would never be bullied again
EVERY MALE GOTTA STAND UP FOR HIMSELF AT LEAST ONCE IN HIS LIFE
AT LEAST ONCE IN HIS LIFE
THE EARLIER, THE EASIER
LIFE IS GONNA PUT YOU DOWN MOTHERFUCKER, IT'S GONNA MAKE YOU BEND YOUR KNEES SOONER OR LATER. YOU GOTTA STAND UP
Not even going to fucking read all of that but women are shallow creatures and you don't want to become one, trust me.
If it's simply you get insulted all the time then you either are an easily insultable person which means you lack self-awareness or you're incapable of the wit required to hurt their feelings back. I mean it really isn't hard, athletic chad call you ugly you call him a retard.
If you're getting your ass beat then you either don't give off enough of a crazy vibe (you give them the I'll burn down your house with a molotov cocktail look), you're a dyel peace loving faggot hippy (grow up and learn to defend yourself) or you have some sort of mental disorder evidenced by you being incapable of getting authorities involved (maybe you were abused as a child or something and have low self worth).
Basically, anyone with high intelligence can easily handle some bully.
I wonder why self-defense is universally demonized. Who benefits from that? It's so bad that you aren't even allowed to defend yourself on the internet, the moderators will shut you down right away.
you're okay user, everything is over, they can't hurt you ever again
>be me in my HS days
>bunch if guys were picking on me
>I decide to not ignore it and stand up for my self
>look them in the eye
>speak out proud in my high pitched stuttery lisp autist voice
>"stop it you guys, you're not being very nice"
>they all erupt with laughter
>now everyone around is laughing too
>everyone keeps repeating what I said imitating my ridiculous voice to mock me
I wish I ignored them.
Because the people propagating that want to have a passive population that they can easily control.
>we can't solve the issue but it seems like you're already easy to keep down
why are you writing all this...it's too late. high school is over.
when i was in high school one guy ended up stabbing his bully, after that surprise there was no more bullying that entire year for anyone
>High School
>Kid calls me ugly
>Decide im not gonna take it anymore
>Punch him in the mouth
>He immediately throws me to the ground and starts bashing my face in
>No one stopped him as he beat the living shit out of me
>Next day the first thing he does is call me ugly
The only solution is not going to high school
>ignore your bullies and they will stop
No one ever said that tho, the general rule is that you fight your bullies once so they know you're not a limp dick faggot, they will stop picking on you right after.
I always help weak guys against bullies.
But i usually don't find a lot of guys being bullied
>one guy ended up stabbing his bully
So he went to prison and became pic related?