People always say growing up without a father is just the worst thing imaginable, how come nobody grows talks about mommy issues?
Your romantic pursuits are fucked because you're going to be constantly searching for a mother figure/extreme emotional attachment
how the fuck can any man cope with this burden?
I didn't grow up with a father but I am going to say that if I didn't grow up with my mom I'd probably be in a worse spot now. It's hard to know, though.
My mum died when I was a toddler and my dad was a depressed emotionally unavailable alcoholic who left me to raise myself on video games. Needless to say my upbringing has made me a total wreck wih crippling depression/anxiety and who can't connect with women at all.
This. Life was difficult as it was with my dad constantly dropping in and out from our lives, but our mom at least made a bit of an effort before her drug addiction took her.
Not true. You actually don't need a mother figure in your life because women are all useless cunts who do nothing and live life on easy mode. You lose a lot less without a mother. Fathers are much more important because they teach you to be men. And men are the ones who build, who do great things, who live life to the fullest. That's why kids raised by single fathers always turn out better.
My mother fled the country when I was only a year old. I practically grew up without ever having a mother figure in my life. I never really needed one. I talked to plenty girls growing up so I never had issues with women. I can also fap to mother incest porn without a single feeling of guilt. Though I do fetishise mother figures and women spoiling me, which is weird because I don't see how I can have urges for something I never had, or ever realized I was missing growing up.
I grew up without a mother. Can confirm that it had a pretty negative impact on me. I can't interact with women and desperately wish I had a motherly gf. It's never going to happen, so I don't know why I bother continuing to live. Also I didn't have much of a father, I'm a pretty dysfunctional person. Not having parents fucks you up pretty bad.
>which is weird because I don't see how I can have urges for something I never had, or ever realized I was missing growing up.
you're trying to convince yourself of this, you know that right?
I'd believe you if it weren't for the fact that I didn't know kids had moms until I was 7. If I crave anything, it's because I was told I should crave so. Not because I have some biological urge to seek two parents instead of one.
Moved away from mom when I was 8, hated her and lived with my father. I grew up just fine, I had a good dad who taught me things about life and put genuine effort in on understanding me, even if he's an aspie. I can talk to girls just fine and have no wish to be dominated in any way. In fact, I think my mom being in my life would have made it worse, because she shills gays like there's no tomorrow.
>I'd believe you if it weren't for the fact that I didn't know kids had moms until I was 7
Youre right, I'm surprised you remember to breathe back in with how fuckin dumb you are, I doubt you capable of any thoughts complex enough to warrant introspection or the need to convince yourself of shit.
Damn dude, that came out of nowhere. Wanna talk about something?
>had both parents but just didn't spend much time with them
weird feel
>Coddled by mother until middleschool
>Divorce suddenly stripped her away and face complete opposite problems
>Romantic and friendship both need extreme emotional attachment, am giant fan of gfd because of the doting natute of love felt
At least straight up mommy shit was never my interest
There is literally nothing wrong with gentle femdom
Please tell me that this is from a doujin
My mom didnt give a shit about me. I used to fall off my skateboard on purpose to try and get her to take care of me or show me any affection at all but she never once did. Now I fantasize daily about having a girl to comfort me and be affectionate. She ruined me, I'll probably scare off any girl I even have a chance with now. Dad left when I was 14 so I'm mostly normal there, at least he put some effort into caring for me before he left.
She could tell you were falling on purpose and wanted a son who wasn't so obsessed with being coddled he'd go through the theatrics you did
lol do you get turned on by mommy porn?
With such an anti constructivist attitude, why the fuck would he even need a mother after childbirth and breastfeeding?
What?
I'm saying she could tell he was being a weirdo and bailing off his skateboard on purpose so she would tell him its gonna be okay and kiss his boo boo to make it better, and could smell the beta on him so she stopped thinking of him as viable offspring and started ignoring him, then probably got bitter at him for not being chad mcmanly and being beta mccrybaby
I9 got what you're just fine, you're just a bit slow so Ill just rephrase it.
He's a weak faggot, nobody disagree with that, but if his psychological development is his own making, or was pre determined, why the fuck does he even need a mother after ~3 years of age? Or anyone for that matter? Why does society value them so much after they become so fucking useless?
I'm starting to think it's you who has the mommy problem
>you're a bit slow
>but also I'm gonna base a whole argument around me making up the fact that you said his psychological development was his own fault
Where did I imply that I thought he was fated to be this beta?
I literally just said his mom could tell he was faking it for sympathy and it made her think he was a little fruitcake so she wanted to focus on stuff that wasn't her fruity son
Because you don't like the fact that women turn on their own kids if they aren't 'manly' enough? I know for a fact I've seen a bunch of examples of it all stitched together but I didn't save it, but it does happen.
>Where did I imply that I thought he was fated to be this beta?
By replying in the first place. Unless you're blaming him for turning out to be a faggot, your reply has no content because everyone knows he's a beta faggot, BECAUSE of his mom. That's the point.