how is life going?
are you making process in the gym and life in general?
How is life going?
how is life going?
i broke my foot trying to climb a building while blackout drunk in new orleans
Started school last week,started mma and went 6 times this week,been playing bass at least 1hours for 2 weeks now.On the downside I'm becoming even more antisocial and I'm losing interest in meeting new people seeing them as a waste of time(except for a few)
process in gym
process in life
idk, women approach me in the cold more often than ever and I'm the lone wolf type that doesn't give a shit about anyone
is this a sing that I'm attractive?
I'm becoming even more antisocial and I'm losing interest in meeting new people
I have the same problem.
I find it very hard talking about superficial things like movies and food or whatever else people talk about all the time.
How do I change? I dont wanna be alone but its so hard to talk to people when every subject they talk about just doesnt interest me at all.
I am always processing
Like always my life still sucks
Drinking too much, but yeah, other than that I'm good.
The few people I hang out with are misfits who are trying to move forward in one way or another.Most normie are self loathing faggot without any ambition and I can only feel disgust toward this way of thinking
Better. Got a job interview tomorrow. Anyone got some advice for the fucking "got any questions?" question? I figured asking about their own experience about the place, their expectations of me, the culture of the job, how does success look like and shit. Eh.
As far as gym goes I recovered from tendionisis or whatever that's called on my wrist. Back to lifting, but taking it easy.
I guess a very important one is just asking how the advancement opportunities are.
If there is a future in the company and if you can learn to become something like a manager one day, if they offer special programs and stuff.
You need to show that you are a person who can get ahead, someone this company can develop into a higher position.
Seriously looking at buying a house this year which gives me optimism for the future. Work is going well, some of my coworkers are standoffish but fuck em. Been going to the gym pretty regularly for about 3 years now. I don't get out much and I'm desperately craving a gf. What's a good way for an introvert to meet people?
i really improved my body these past couple of years so gym is doing real fine, also ill start finally looking for a trainee job, but my dumbass done fell for a girl who doesnt like me romantically, and i cant stop seeing her because we share a group of friends and have classes together so im feeling like crap, what do lads
Thanks for the help user, but it's just a job waiting tables. I suppose you could advance to supervisor but eh. I'm definitely working on my programming at the side.
Honestly I've been waiting tables for 3 years so I do feel I kinda lost the "impression" edge. It's like being anxious of the gym at first but then increasing your weight and stuff, you stop giving a fuck.
Thanks anyway. Wish me well, and I wish well for you too user. A bit early for that but hope you'll be banging well at valentine's.
What's a good way for an introvert to meet people?
seriously just dating or meeting up with people from the internet.
avoid groups at all cost.
focus on a single person.
So I check my gym's instagram location every now and then to see, and watch some of the videos people post of themselves at the gym. Ok, so there's this fine ass chick doing dumbell rows on a bench right next to mine. And during my rest period, I momentarily glance at her ass and then resume my workout.
However, I later find out that she was recording her workout for her instagram and she has like 21k followers. A bunch of people are laughing at me staring at her ass. I'll probably change the hours I go just to avoid her or go to a new gym entirely.
meeting up with people from the internet
You mean like Tinder?
I'm not dead yet.
So that's good.
Also completely undoing decades of poisoning from media and porn through meditation, self awareness trainging, and going back and rewatching the media that I consumed while growing up to pinpoint the emotional fingerprints that were left and erase them or make myself more aware of them.
Hard but it's rewarding, and I'm learning a lot about myself.
In a few weeks, once I'm done and written down and recorded enough thoughts on the matter, I'm going to go full monk mode and begin to unmake myself as I am now.
I suspect that I won't be recognizable anymore...or exactly sane. LOL
Like I'm sane now.
Don't feel bad user, take it with stride. If she says something tell her she got a sexy ass but you like her eyes more. Don't let the thots thot you.
fwiw I always take a look at the gym, don't stare though. Just a look.
Here's a funny vid you'll probably like (fucking file size limit)
i mean there are different apps and websites.
you can just go on facebook and join a group to find friends.
there are groups for lifting, traveling and other hobbies.
Moved to new town, got a new job, massive strength gains, 10 lbs until I get over goal weight of 200 after living life as a lanklet for so long. I’m still bulking though for at least 2-3 months so I’m worried about cutting out fat for summer. Almost all my fat is stored on my ass, which is good cause my abs will show easy, but it’s getting to be alarmingly big
Hey user, totally get where you're coming from but you're replacing one faggotry with another. You don't go from brainwashed to thoughtmaster in a second.
This blog post helped me in the past and I hope it might help you too:
Starting a new job in February with a good raise in salary. Slowly making strength gains in the gym and improving my endurance. Still no gf.
I just left a job I liked working, IT helpdesk / desktop support, which became unbearable due to how much of a fucking farce the place was... Mainly because the management didn't actually know the first fucking thing about anything IT related and neither did 80% of the staff, all secondee staff.
Now I am in a nice simple office job where I am 1 of 3 men out of an office of 20-25 total. This new job is 1.2 mile walk from home and my gym is on the way and workload is 30 minute less per day for same money. The people work together and I think the only reason I got it is because of my previous good attendance and working the same agency and telling them I was going to quit the IT job.
I leave the job everyday with a clear head because I've not has some co-worker cretin in my ear all day complaining about how fucking shit their life was or offering me lifting advice from the Arnie documentary they watched at the weekend.
I am not cycling in 20 minutes each way too which is actually helping with big 4 compound gains.
pic related, my manager at old job, a 24st she-unit who's only purpose in life was to inhale doritios. Just rustled multiple 150g bags of the fuckers all day which she hid out of sight, for the first 3 days I thought it was static from a fucking light or something. First day she came in was with a 5kg!!! bag of chewy fruity sweets an amusements arcade would fill a prize machine with. Where would you even buy those? I swear she could have just opened a bag of doritos, threw them in the air and they would have just orbited her and been sucked into her gob when she opened it between chewing due to the salty corn based neutron star that resided in her stomach.
Good riddin's Michelle.
Gym progress is going pretty well. Went from skinnyfat untrained weakling to almost intermediate DYEL in a year, looking better than I ever have in my life. Switched from full body 3x a week to PPLPPLx and I am loving all the extra volume. Gonna keep bulking for another month or two and then cut and see how I look for summer.
Life in general is okay. I'm nearly done with nursing school, graduate in August. Broke up with gf a year ago after she tried to cuck me and still having a hard time with it. Her life became a trainwreck after we broke up and she's now with a jobless auschwitz escapee, which is funny, but I still just feel nothing but sadness and anger when I think of her and I'm trying like fuck to let it go.
We had a dog together who we were still sharing after we broke up, but I recently told her to fuck off and keep him since she finally tried to threaten me with not letting me see him. I'm not gonna stand for that shit.
Fucked a few girls over the last year but none were new gf material.
Looking forward to becoming a nurse and moving out of my parents' again.
My grandma just told me that she doesn't like my face.
My parents and her want me to be a conformist cuck who works 40 hours a week,shaves every day,leases a car,has a mortgage,and a family that I provide for. I'm not going down that route so they don't like that
process in gym
Gotten over my fear of squatting, now I just have to live with it being weak as fuck for a few weeks
process in life
where do you live?
Give granny a cunt punt and tell her that back your day women kept their mouths shut except when it was time to lodge a cock in it.
thanks for asking user
starting to see abs for the first time in my life now that it's been several months since I filtered out all the bullshit information about dieting and actually managed to stay with good 'ol cutting while actively counting all calories
inb4 it's bulking season
I know, I'm starting to bulk on Feb 1st
all in all, it's going well
Who cares? Nobody is going to recognize you and if anyone confronts you about glancing at a booty they're obviously retarded
Ask them what does a typical day at the job looks like?
What made them choose that job?
This one is gutsy, but worth it if you think the interview went well...
Based on everything you see on my resume/our conversation, is there anything that would keep me from being a perfect candidate for this position.?
ABC(always be closing)
yeah its totally a sing
My life is going much better thanks.
Been engaged for a few months
Quit smoking weed 3 weeks ago.
Applied for fasfa, and to community college. Going back to school for physical therapist assistant.
The gym could be better though. Making good strength gains, but mass is difficult to put on. Going to start tracking calories again to make aure im eating enough
shit but alot better than it used to be.
4 years ago was a hopeless neet on the verge of suicide, still a miserable fuck, but now I'm about to graduate from a decent uni after dropping out of hs so I guess future isn't so bleak anymore.
kek but fuck phoneposting desu
went to crush's house
met her mom
spend the afternoon studying
flirting all the time
about to leave
last time we were together I tried kissing her and she dodged, but later said she regretted it
already at the front door
"So, you're gonna let me leave? Will there be more regrets today?"
she starts rambling about emotional bullshit
grab her waist and kiss her
she kisses back
Life's good lads, and I think I landed a potential gf
Got rejected by a girl who I thought was a sure thing today and I've spent the last hour watching jpop videos to try and forget
until it turns out that she has a dick
I’m supposed to go bang a thicc black girl tonight I’m so hyped.
Started taking capoeira classes. They're super intense and I can't keep up on most of the stuff other than the shit that relies on my arms.
Pretty frustrating, but at least I'm moving on from my complacency
So far so good. Got a qt 19 year old gf while I am a 28 year old dude. Moved back to my country and will be starting a course in IT which will land me a job in the industry. Have enough money saved up to live comfortably, but still I am a bit hung up over the money issue. I work over the web 4-6 hours a day and get good money, but still I am not sure if this will work out. I have a semblance of doubt as getting a new flat ate up a lot of my resources, even though it went according to plan. I will probably sell my gaming PC and get something just to watch bullshit on the down low and keep working on my laptop. I don't really enjoy gaming since I stopped jerking my dick.
You are doing great user. Look deep within and find who is behind all the bullshit.
WHERE IS PART 5 MAN
The guy does an interesting and long analysis and yes I agree with the whole diagnosis, but how the fuck do you fix that shit.
"Address your deeper issues" is too vague to explain shit.
Lifts increasing, but although I feel like I see improvement, I haven't gone up in weight and my diet is all over the place ( some days eat a bunch of junk food, some days healthy, others not enough food). Overall I'm enjoying the noob gains again.
In terms of life, Should I go out alone tonight? Went out alone on new years to some mexican nightclub but didn't meet anyone. Should I try going to a bar alone? Also not sure if I am enjoying research or if it is just the lab I am in. Wondering if grad school is for me