>Been talking to a really cute girl
>Conversation for the past couple of days has been really interesting
>We reached a logical conclusion to what we were talking about
>Not sure how to transition into something else
Help, this is the first time I've really had a shot with someone and I'm too autistic to figure out how to start up a new conversation without just retardedly asking a question or something
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If you figure it out lemme know, this has been an issue of mine for years.
ask her out, if she says no it was never meant to be
What was this conversation about ?
I already did, we're getting lunch this saturday
We were talking about the difference between stem majors and liberal arts majors, she was saying that she never thinks things through, i was saying i overthink everything. She ended with a pretty concise statement
Find related topics and poke around for interest?
>She ended with a pretty concise statement
go on then fag, what did she say?
"yeah over analyzing doesn't really work"
Normally she'll type out entire paragraphs, she's never sent such a short message before. Not sure what that means at all
that means she doesnt have much more to contribute to the topic at hand
no need to force conversation just wait out a few days until you think of something good/something cool happens or the best option she tries to start a conversation
honestly OP, unless you're a normie in real life, don't bother
>be a kissless virgin
>meet a french girl on interpals in Feb 17
>spend the next year and a half texting, flirting and sexting (my first ever)
>she moves to the UK for a teaching job 40 mins away from me
>eventually go see her
>go out for drinks, get back to hers, kissing and groping
>somehow remained calm and was 'myself TM'
>meet her the next weekend (last saturday)
>take her out for dinner
>back at hers
>time to get it on
>get naked
>my dick doesn't work
>spend the next 20 mins trying to get it to work
>still doesn't work
>cuddled in her bed for 15 mins
>left
>thought about driving into oncoming traffic on the way home
>she messages me 3 days later saying we should just be friends
>cried at work
>cried whilst driving home from work
>considering suicide
>pic related
You could always come back to what you were discussing but insert a story/anecdote of when you overthink things. See if she engages with a story of her own and take things from there.
Don't do this shit as she will just move on if you leave things on a discussion about STEM majors or whatever.
I assume this is over social media user and not irl?
You just watch too much porn user or weren't ready. nothing to consider suicide over. If you can get that far with a girl you have hope, try again there
we've been texting since we met a couple of days ago. I'll try the personal anecdote idea, that sounds pretty solid. Thanks, if this works I'm forever in your debt.
She lives 20 minutes away from me, so I really don't think this will happen. I've also been rejected enough times to not care if it happens again, so i'll be taking my chances whenever I can. Good luck with life, you'll gettem next time
user.... it's called sildenafil.
You got this user. Try and not sound too desperate if you can i.e. give her the impression of >this is the first time I've really had a shot with someone
No one wants something they can have that easy. Just see how things go, if it doesn't work or she ghosts you then move on.
gl my friend
I've read that it only works 70% of the time, besides, the girl finished with me. She wanted to remain friends but in an effort to save face I said we shouldn't. I really want to message her telling her that I miss her, but I know it's no use. I acted too alpha by texts than what I really am in person, and that in hindsight led to my downfall. She could see right through my facade
ha one time i was hooking up with an ex from hs years later, i don't remember how many years ago but i was like 25 or so, and i couldn't get it up. it was really embarrassing. but life goes on man.
my advice is to kill yourself before nature does its course on you. thank me later.
>my dick doesn't work
so it was your fault all along, not the evil women this time, huh?
Thanks friend, I've been trying my best. I'll keep you in my thoughts
You're a weak person. Fuck off. Nature can come and get me. It's already given me borderline personality disorder, tourette's, and plenty of other physical illnesses. Not gonna quit now.
it'll get you, alright. it'll get you a virgin, even. enjoy!
Say you're sorry if something you said upset her in some way
Or ask if she is ok
You got way too nervous and anxious, dipshit. Get yourself together next time and relax a little bit.
Thanks lads, she's started talking again. Safe for another day