Relationships born from cheating don't last

Cheating is wrong, no matter what.
If you are about to cheat or if you cheated, make a step back, stay single for a while.
Don't let the attraction from another person influence your relationship.
Tell me why you think he is a shitty person to you.
At least he is loyal and respectuful, not as you or the new bf are.
Have you been honest with your ex at least?
A good guy would never accept to have sex with you if you're engaged, once can happen, we are humans.
If it happend more times you're just selfish and weak.
I think that saying that your ex is a shitty person is just a way for you to feel less bad with yourself.

there are no exceptions...
was he really a shitty person?
I think you're trying to feel good with this burden.

What has he done to you girl?
if you were together there were some reasons no? So he wasn't that shitty

Cared more about smoking weed and playing video games than he did me. It was the first and last thing he would do in a day. We we're only having sex twice a week. When I hinted to him he totally didn't get it. The new bf gives me the attention I longed for and is in better shape

That doesn't give you the right to cheat. If he was a shitty person, you should've just broken up with him. Now you're a tainted whore who can't be trusted ever. Doesn't matter if you like your current guy, he knows now that you're not beyond cheating and are willing to do it. I don't know how anyone can start a relationship with someone like that. I feel bad for both guys for being inflicted with a cunt like you.

why didn't you break up with him then? Cheating on someone is one of the most hurtful things you can do to someone.
Also
>being able to get a bf
>being able to cheat on him
these are things that only a normie is able to do, and normies do not belong here.

You are stating that he cared more about that than he did for you.

>We we're only having sex twice a week.
with your exbf? did you live together? if not i think is quite normal, sometimes you just don't have time or ways to have sex.

>When I hinted to him he totally didn't get it.
i'm not getting it. You hinted your bf you were cheating on him? if he didn't get it was because he trusted you maybe?

>the attention i longed for
You wanted those attentions from your ex, so you had to insist more with him.

you're the shitty person, you played with his heart while he just was chilled with you, in a positive way.
He just had is intetests as you probably have, you just didn't respect him.

Bella ? I hope this isn't you....

did he something to take you back with him after you dumped him?

Why not just break up first and then go for the other guy?
If the guy you cheated your ex with did it knowing you had a boyfriend, just pray so that he won't do it with someone else now that he's with you. Remember he didn't care about you having a boyfriend, he might not care about someone else having one or himself having a girlfriend.
The problem with relationships starting with cheating is that now you know how capable the other person is to cheat.

Relationships born from cheating are mostly doomed to fail
them are born from the difficulties of another relationship, from the sadness derived from the problems of another relationship.
Ok there is mutual attraction.
But there are no respect and loyality.
Even with a lot of commitment and attentions you will end up having arguing and shit like that as all couple do but you will totally lack of respect and trust.
there are no strong feelings involved, there is no trust.

>What if I cheated because my ex was a shitty person?
Rationalization to excuse doing something you know is wrong. You're a shitty person yourself, a selfish, two-faced coward.
>What if the guy I cheated(now bf) with is a good guy?
Can't be that good a person if he cheated with you.

You're completely right.
Imagine being with someone you know fully well can simply go and have sex with someone else because you two did it in the first place.
There's no trust. It might end without someone having to cheat just because the doubt will consume both parties involved.

Doesn't change the fact that people are shit who only care about themselves and what they can take from others. Commitment is the mask people wear while they rob you blind.

not all people are shitty selfish being
commitment and loyality are important things that together with "tuning" will let the love grow stronger even when the beauty will fade

doomed to fail, no matter what.
They will always think to be special and different, is just an excuse to not admit they are shitty person.
They both are capable of cheating and knowing this will eat them from the inside, the trust is based on the mutual attraction, is a no-lasting trust.

>not all people are shitty selfish being
You need to leave your room if you honestly believe that.
Commitment and loyalty only exist as long as it's convenient.

i'm talking from personal experience
i truly love my partner
i'm mad about a girl that cheated on a friend of mine
you've a ill view of the world

That's adorable. Reality is going to hurt you so much when the fantasy fades away.

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Then you have jepordized your future relationship bu planting the seeds of doubt in the new guy. Congratulations, be an adult and break up next time.

I want a true and healthy relationship, but I feel like my view on romance is childish and unrealistic.

This girl that I have sex with on occasion tells me that the couple are exploring their sexuality by fucking other people. She says she really loves him, but I really don't understand this mindset.

I'm a terrible person, but the fact that she wants to have sex with me of all people makes me happy. It's sad but I feel like I'll never be in a normal relationship because I cant talk to people in general.

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we've been together for 11 years now

Based trips for the hope of Everlasting Love.

sometimes it comes and goes
sometimes is hard
but i don't regret any moment in which i didn't give up

I hope I can find love like you did user. I feel like I've come close only to lose it all. I've definitely thought about giving up. But something is keeping me going.

>Opinions?
I think you only hear about cheaters leaving one another because they did something to piss the other person off and they don't want to save face and protect the other person from letting others know things about them which they might not be great for their reputation.

On the other hand the ones you don't hear about are still couples. They don't want to bother telling people that they got together when cheating.

It's likely you have a confirmation bias hearing the ones that don't work.

personally and by hearsay I do not know any couple who got together by cheating and that is still working

The longest one i know lasted like 8 months

at least near to me there are no couples born by a cheating.

if they don't say that their "love" born like that, is because they're still ashamed by that.

Any relationship that is only based on sexual pleasure won't last, especially those where one person already had more than one sexual partner.
Sexual intercourse between a man and a woman should emerge from love between those people, not the other way around

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completely agree with that

my second ex ran off with another girl, they got married and have been together for 4+ years so idk

"Love is not a victory march, it's a cold and it's a broken hallelujah."

>Opinions?
relationships end, when you become bored/fall out of love/stop being attracted to your SO, doesn't necessarily have to be from a relationship born out of cheating, can happen in any kind of relationship, the best thing to do is be honest to your partner and move on, just don't cheat.
but ya I would never date a cheater.

What type of retard dates a person whos cheating with you?

literally irrational since if they cheat once they're likely to do it again

>if someone cheated he could do that again,or it couldn't be the first time he has done it

>if you date the person you cheated your partner with you're really dumb, you already know it isn't loyal nor trustwhorty

the fact that it's so common for this to happen says a lot about the abundance of desperate men in the world

if I got dumped for a backup guy, I would be relieved I was rid of some triflin hoe instead of her just fucking him behind my back.