I've never had a girlfriend and I'm desperately lonely, but at the same time I'm terrified to get one.
I see so many horror stories about bad relationships and how girls no matter how nice at first always seem to end up cheating or doing some other horrible shit and fuck they guy over for life. I'm afraid to open myself up to another person like that because I feel that I will inevitably be betrayed and possible even financially ruined. I also feel like that I'd fuck up any relationship I was in anyway, that I'm simply not adequate enough. All of my friends and family have told me that I could pretty easily find a girlfriend because I'm handsome, but I think they are just trying to make me feel better because I'm a 6/10 face at best.
I just feel like I'm destined to be alone but it's a better alternative than letting a women destroy my life.
I'm not scared of them. I can talk to them normally without fear and interact with them the same way I interact with a man. But I am afraid of what they would do to me If I opened up to them emotionally are started a relationship with one. A women doesn't have any power over you if you don't give a fuck about her and aren't trying to get into her pants. I have a conflict with my desire for a relationship verses my fear of a women breaking my heart.
Josiah Thomas
>I-i'm not scared of girls >proceeds to explains how he is afraid of girls
Colton Mitchell
Yeah OP I was like you and wouldn't trust girls. Then I got a really cute gf and realized maybe it's not all like they make it out to be here on r9k. And then she ripped my heart out, fuck her, fuck that fucking bitch. You're completely right, anyone who tells you otherwise hasn't been burned yet. It's like there are two types of men in the world, those who know the truth and those who cope it away.
Justin Long
checked. OP those are dubs of truth. otherwise you'll end up like this fella what a coincidence, isn't it?
Bentley Jackson
Being afraid of girls implies that you cannot interact with them out of fear of rejection. As I already explained that's not the issue at all. I don't have any problems talking to girls or interacting with them. It's the fear of being hurt in a relationship. I don't trust them. But I'm sure it doesn't matter what I'll post because you'll reply with a 1-2 line meme response equivalent of "you mad" that doesn't really address anything for the sole purpose of shitting up the thread.
Easton Turner
God, there just isn't any hope in this world is there
I didn't admit to that nor did I imply that, you're deliberately misconstruing what I'm saying.
I don't know how many times I have to reiterate this, but I'm afraid of being betrayed/cheated on/extorted for money/exetera. I'm not afraid of men but I'm afraid of being murdered by one. That doesn't mean I live my life in fear of every person around me because one of them might kill me and chop of my dick. You're just trying to force this "haha incel afraid of girls and he's a virgin that's the real reason he's upset, not that women have actually ever done anything wrong" angle.
Jacob Scott
He wants a relationship with a woman and he thinks women are inherently untrustworthy. Women are the thing that causes him to fear being in a relationship. Wow the level of projection here is astronomical
Grayson Collins
>idiotic logical leaps >complete non-argument get better bait fag
Adam Edwards
yeah, this is totally true, had the same shit happen to me. ive been an emotionless shell for the past 3 years. trust means nothing to women even if you give them everything you can and more. you'll be used as just another stepping stone in their life, hopping between man after man so they dont have to get their feet wet in the muddy river that is life.
I'm simply paraphrasing OP What do you want me to say? >DAE think women are bad? How does that help? Problem is you faggots just want a pity party so you can lick your imaginary wounds and jerk each other off.
he's scared of the power society gives them, not women themselves
Joseph Hill
I'm in the same boat. It's not the fear of rejection or even the pain of heartbreak that I'm afraid of though. I'm pretty ok with being hurt in that way. It's women as a whole I've lost faith in and why I avoid them. It really seems that despite what kind of person they are, whatever virtues they may have, and how much they hate themselves for acting that way they'll still always let you down if someone who has more come along. I avoid women becuase it hurts to see people with so many positive qualities fucking up again and again and again and again betraying not only the people they care about but often even their own morals. Female nature is fucked and it's tragic from all sides.
Christopher Ross
And then there's the third guy, who knows the truth, but cope it away anyway because the alternative is worse..
