Who else /crybaby/ here?
>someone compliments you, whole day is sunshine
>say something stupid or awkward, the pain lasts for a week
>a guy shits on you in a joking way expecting a comeback, it stings and you can't respond
How do you form human relationships when even the smallest things make you feel way too much?
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Social isolation friend, but that comes with a lot of side effects.
infps males are the most pathetic pieces of shit
are you in high school or something? interactions like that don't normally happen outside of hs or maybe a really juvenile fraternity
I relate to this but I get intj every time.
Based and redpilled.
Just hide in your room or something
Tried going down this road. Wasn't a good idea. Just made things worse. Don't go down that road
basically all you have to do is realize most humans function on an animalistic level. It's not their fault they cant cope with reality.
>a guy shits on you in a joking way expecting a comeback, it stings and you can't respond
am i socially retarded for hating banter and hardly ever using it in face to face conversation while i still used to meet my friends? i wouldnt survive a minute in UK.
Imagine unironically being a literal fucking fairy.
infps are usually gays
compliments, saying stupid things, and banter are the domain of highschool and fraternities? well alright
always thought it was boring. feel like it's just a socially-acceptable way to indulge in being an asshole
im a conservative nacionalist infp
i hate faggots with passion
is that Eric Baudour
doubt you are either of those things.
Then you truly didnt because its impossible to go back.
>Being antisocial is feminine
It's not fair guys,we can't answer back
Stop offending us please,it's not our fault being Infp
I dont like being a INFP
Eh better then being an intj desu
I wish
But also same which is weird cause we're not meant to be nationalist conservatives but whatever
>Personality test calling me INFP because it doesn't want to hurt my feeling by telling me I'm just a beta
Thanks test
i agree with this sentiment.
i hate masculinity. i want to do and feel whatever I want. i dont judge others but i hide my true nature from everyone because i know it is unacceptable
>tfw INTP but the margin between T and F is always the closest on every test which explains a lot.
Also just for fun I took these two tests on idrlabs to really confirm I am INTP, the results were very interesting
>test 1
>test 2
Origigigiignal
yet the number of extremely celebrated musicians, artists, and thinkers who are INFP males is overwhelming
unfortunately most people are not great. they're just average, mediocre. and if you're going to be average or a loser, INFP ain't the best personality to be doing it with. the sense of isolation is horrifying.
Isolation doesn't feel that bad to me, but that's probably because I've gotten pretty good at keeping my mind busy all the time.
>tfw INTP but I hate STEM shit and prefer to come up with stories
Am I an honorary INFP?
STEM is shit and creativity is fun, so why not?
>tfw INFP that did a STEM degree
I enjoyed quite a bit of it though so am I an honourary INTP?
are you any of those three things? i doubt it. do you take pride in knowing kurt cobain or whomever also had similar dominate cognitive function as you?
I honestly enjoy both STEM(mainly the computer/tech component) and drawing/art, it doesn't matter too much I guess
Who here has come to terms with the fact you'll be alone forever and will never have the same life experience as everyone else?
I just want to be comfy and escape into my movies and video games. It's okay.
THreadly reminder you are all ISFJs
INFP here, check out this mini guide to INFP, it has helped me a lot.
>use logic and reason
>filter everything through the scientific method
>if you are feeling bad talk with yourself through the Socratic method, why am I feeling this? Is it possible to stop feeling like this? How? And so on
>things only matter to you and nobody else, because nothing really matters, you are insignificant in the grand scheme of the universe
>nobody has the obligation nor the responsability to take care of your feelings, YOU and only YOU have that responsability
>embrace pain ...No matter how strong the pain is, its our duty to move forward. Youre wrong for running away from reality...
>the meaning of life is life itself
>you are not special, you are a slave of your emotions, even if you think you are not
>dont take things personally, most people dont have bad intentions, and even if they do, why are you allowed them to hurt you?
I think learning to lucid dream will be especially helpful, you can't ask for greater escapism than that.
>>someone compliments you, whole day is sunshine
More like whole day is filled with questioning their intentions.
>>say something stupid or awkward, the pain lasts for a week
A lifetime*
>>a guy shits on you in a joking way expecting a comeback, it stings and you can't respond
or you stutter out a meek response then walk away and apologizing later.
>How do you form human relationships when even the smallest things make you feel way too much?
I don't.
Homeless in new street. Crack whore being annoying as fuck on other side of the street, I call her a stupid bitch; she apologizes to me. lol
Couple nights ago see crack whore maybe same one and punches this super heavyweight black guy in the skull! lol
My banter gets me jumped and attacked by cops.
I never asked for this. Just fucking kill me.
You are high on Fi with unhealthy Fe for sure, it's not that weird.
i am one of those things and you can be too. Jow Forums is a terrible breeding ground for it, though.
>Implying that Intuitive types and those who prefer it over sensation are never dysfunctional or even just plain stupid.
I'm a literal baby as well... So embarassing :(
solidarity fellow feelbro. this ain't easy and you never get any credit for moving forward. at least we understand each other's struggle
It comes in waves. For months I'll be perfectly content with my isolation, as my few hobbies are enough to satisfy me for life. But occasionally I'll have a day or week filled with despair, where I realize I'm stuck in this hermit life I had made for myself, and wish that I had gone to parties, had relationships, and kept up with old friends.
is that the youtube guy who did the self driving car prank and that one girl from the one show?
>tfw first test gave me INFP but every test after that gave me INTP
feelsbad I went from edgy emo artist chad to computer science cuck
>the youtube guy who did the self driving car prank
wut?
Its the ogre from Game of thrones making fun of a clueless pajeet. You can see the reflection of the other redhead actress as well.
Thanks actually. I don't think I can take too many of these to heart, but I'll have it saved somewhere in case I can unfuck myself.
>when you're the quiet one that even the sperg can shut up by clowning on
if it was acceptable to fight back, I would, but no, they're like "user that's clearly premeditated murder."
Ill screensshot this as a remind not to be infp in front of people.
no but the type of person to browse r9k is definately an ISFJ
Post what you're listening to crybaby bros
youtube.com
you forgot
>regretting literally everything you've ever done even if its pretty normal.
oh god this hits too close too home
That's me to a tee, user. I also constantly think if what I'm doing is socially awkward or not and will try and plan out social situations to avoid potential cringe moments.
I can never feel natural in a social situation.
I want to be a gay pornstar and just get fucked by giant mem and never have to think about anything, just be a fuck toy. Just experience extremes of pleasure and pain all the time without having to make any statement or learn anything.
You're a weak sissy pussy ass bitch. You'd be too scared to kill yourself, let alone another person
Absolutely hedonistic and lewd desu
Just came here to say I'm an INTP, ye superior memebti
But the feely counters to us do make gamergirl pets
He who makes a beast out of himself gets rid of the pain of being a man.
Just keep plugging my holes
>got into argument with dad in texts
>said we will talk when he gets home
>spent the entire day in bed dreading it and can't find motivation to do anything productive I needed to do today
Going to have to try to defend my position and shit. I'm just so sick of this. I can't wait when I live alone.
Reminder that INFPs and INFJs shall inherit the Earth while all others destroy themselves.
I think that infp's are really cute desu,i wish i had a infp bf
What would you think about a ENFP bf? It's like INFP, but they are happier and more social.
INTJ here
I hate my pathetic life
stuck in flesh prison: the MBTI label.
most male INFPs are straight though, contrary to what is perhaps popular belief
Hang in there guys. Everything's coming up roses for us eventually, lads.
INTJ here. I'd fuck you, INFP. I just wouldn't want to stay with you.
INFPs want love though. Sorry. I've had sex before, it's overrated and would be triply so if there were no genuine connection or admiration behind it.
Pls give an explanation.
infp but I get more depressed and angry and sad as the years go by
That's actually very fucking hot
Creative, impulsive, emotional types can be exciting short term. After that their reactivity gets to be too much.
What website is thaat
sheeeit we're INFP not ENFP. impulsive doesn't really describe us. more like "have intense feelings we have to suppress and stuff deep down lest everyone think we're gay or corny or pathetic or too sensitive." there's nothing particularly exciting about us, otherwise we'd be pussy magnets. we're basically girls in boys' bodies, except without the body dysmorphia of trangenders
>be schizophrenic INFJ
>essentially became crazy mix between INFJ, INFP and INTP
as you can imagine my life is hell, i am alone 24/7, i don't have any friends, and if you asked me what's in my head at any moment it would be suicidal depression with paranoia, delusions, and an extreme fantasy life that nobody will ever know about. also feels. when i'm not completely apathetic i feel a lot of feels that regularly bring me to tears.
Dont think Im very impulsive desu I always like to play things pretty safe.
>still think about that time someone yelled at you 3 years ago
why the fuck am I so thin skinned
I can't keep living like this
>Used to be INFP
>Went through massive trauma, and came out an INFJ after a year
Being an INFJ is way better. It's nice to be able to be empathetic, but be able to use your head instead of being an emotional mess all the time.
>Then you truly didnt because its impossible to go back.
It's not impossible, but it's certainly tough.
t. trying to make friends and hang out with people I just met after about 8 years of going to school/work and home without talking to anyone.
>tfw INFP
>tfw had internal dialogue with myself recently
>came to the conclusion that it is my responsibility to change stuff in my life
>i should go to class
>i should get out of bed
>DO IT
>DO IT
>i eventually don't do shit and stay in bed thinking about stuff lmao
why am I like this? basically i see the solution to my problems very clearly and I still don't do it. Also I can't get out of my room because i hear someone's outside watching the tv, and i don't want them to see me. This is fucking hell. I don't want to be like this.
>am i socially retarded for hating banter and hardly ever using it
No, banter itself is stupid and breaks tranquil silence (which is preferable to banter) in a rude way.
I take banter as a personal insult because I would never "jokingly" insult others because I'm not an immature third grader, I expect people to, at the very least, not be immature third graders themselves.
If you're going to joke, joke.
If you're going to insult, insult.
If you're going to compliment, compliment.
Don't fucking banter because it compiles all that into one and it's a disgusting mess of words that is neither a joke, insult or compliment.
I dont know man, every time I try I end up going back to isolating myself again.
I do this all too often, but it's always late at night when I can't actually do any of it right away. But I think procrastination is found in all sorts of people, not just us unfortunate INFPs.
this, I don't get how banter is supposed to be part of comradery
it just makes you seem insincere, like you want to insult someone but say it's just banter so they don't get mad at you
i do it at night too, i lose a lot of sleep because of this. Sometimes my mind decides to make me face my problems and it won't shut up. I find the solution and the next morning i don't do shit and I spend the day shitposting and playing vidya.
At least I'm lucky, I still manage to cheese my way through uni with pretty good results, I'm actually one of the top students in my class lmao. But it still feels like shit because I feel like I'm wasting my potential. I might eventually go to therapy, I think i need it. I can't fucking sleep it's making me crazy.
>it just makes you seem insincere, like you want to insult someone but say it's just banter so they don't get mad at you
I know.
If you're going to point out a few flaws in someone and you aren't looking to insult them, then point it out casually, but without addressing it loudly like they when they throw le bantz xDD
You weren't hit enough as a kid or you didn't get into enough fights. Also, you've lead a very comfy, safe life.
Had you gotten punched in the face enough times or had you dealt with actual problems, things like these would seem ridiculous.
I Can only banter with people if theyre my friends, i hate when random people just banter around idk what todo
I used to be really good at banter and it was genuinely fun to shit on each with my friends back in high school. But once everyone started losing their virginities and the amount of sex you've had decided your worth I became too self-conscious to shoot the shit, and eventually isolated from everyone I knew.
>got into plenty of fistfights as a kid
>got called down plenty of times to the office as a kid
>was that weird fighty kid everyone hated
>still an infp
disproved.
I've realised that 90% of male on male interaction is shooting the shit. something I'm completely unable to do even if I forced myself to try.
I was always the guy in friend groups who never had jokes directed at me because it clearly made me uncomfortable. which meant I was always on the outskirts
I remember fighting a kid when I was pretty young, but I think violence is a stupid and unnecessary way to solve problems.
that... is not how mbti works in any way. but whatever
>stared out the window for 3 hours straight trying to spot a pokemon when I was 7 because I wanted them to be real so badly
is this an INFP thing?
I used to be an INFP, now I don't feel much at all
sounds right, yeah. I was majorly autistic when younger, had all sorts of video game and pokemon fantasies
Same feel user
I usually dont banter with people until I feel closer to them. Banting right off the bat is just trying to be edgy
What i found is that guys generally Always bant even when they dont know the person while grills only do it if theyre close enough for this reason i kinda always had more friend grills then guys but theyve never been more then friends because i think they Can smell my autism and weakness, there was a thick stacey who called me pretty but her friend knew me already and probably told her about how i was and so she never showed more interest, its hard to be a male infp man no grill want to be the conforter while were expected to be one, grill infp must have really good love lives