Who here /holds grudges forever and ever/

I'd like to introduce a similar topic.
How do you get people to take you more seriously, in social settings?

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Are you a grudge holder, Akari user?

Never forget or forgive. Why should I? I've waited for 10 years before.

do you forgive minor mistakes/honest mistakes, op? or does any little thing set you off?

Sounds like autism, either that or you have the emotional capability of a five year old.

Not op, but I think it honestly depends. If someone seriously hurts you, malicious or they just do it repeatedly, you can tell they dont give a fuck about you and are using you and taking advantage of your forgiveness. It is better to be selective/stingy with who you forgive and spend your time with.

Honest mistakes, of course I overlook. Minor mistakes I don't cut ties over, but I do stay angry over them for weeks or months and give the occasional snippy, vindictive remark over.

Anything of significance or that can be described as 'betrayal,' though, I never forgive. I'm 24 and just received a message from this one ex-friend who screwed me over six years ago. He wanted to start over and be friends again, but I told him that I had no interest in that.

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I do. I still hate and don't talk to kids that treated me bad in elementary school

thats understandable. what did the friend do? its always wise to never forgive betrayals, because if they hurt you once they will hurt you again. it shows what they are capable of and shows they completely lack respect for you, so they shouldnt be considered friends in the first place.

He stole my PS3 from my house while it was empty and pawned it for drug money.

I also had a friend from ages 10 through 17 who became a huge jerk to me for a couple of years because he was really bitter and depressed and insulted/bullied me a lot. It really crushed me. He's turned over a new leaf and mutual friends say I should forgive him since it was years ago, but I never will. We work at the same place now, unfortunately. I think he's hoping that means we can kiss and make up, but nope. Not. Gonna. Happen. I never speak with him unless I have to. We can be co-workers there for the next 10 years and I'll still be cold to him, he's very mistaken if he thinks I'm forgiving him or that he can make the slightest hint of progress towards that goal.

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I genuinely can understand where youre coming from desu, especially since if youre forgiving youre just seen as a doormat and people go out of their way to fuck you over and abuse you. even when forgiving seemingly minor mistakes, ive found that theyll just do it again, and eventually it evolves into bigger and worse things.
cutting people off at the first sign of disloyalty is your best bet

Cute user is cute. I want to be mean and have you forgive me!

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I hold grudges forever, but at the same time I can't be bothered to act pissed over minor things, and no one's ever done anything major and tried coming back from it, so in practice it makes no difference in my life.

I get it, I probably just haven't experienced something of the magnitude that I'll hold a grudge for it, hopefully I never will. I don't even hold one against my old bullies that made my life miserable for years, who emasculated and publicly embarassed me many times. I'm probably just an incredible beta in the end.

Don't be too mean or I'll feel sad.

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What's your MBTI? You seem pretty feminine.

Hot. Are you a girl?

What if he really goes out of his way to make you up for it and win you over?

Absolutely. I always remember the pain others cause me.

>Don't be too mean or I'll feel sad.
I will be really mean but I promise I will comfort you once you forgive me.

INTJ, and I'm not feminine at all. I can see how you'd get that from my posts though.

What's the point in being really mean to people?

Don't tell anyone, but yes I am.

Nope. Never worked with people who hurt me in the past, not going to work now. People underestimate how coldhearted I can be after being hurt. The number of apologies don't matter, the amount of effort invested doesn't matter. If I hate you, I hate you. Move on to someone else, because you aren't getting anywhere with me.

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>What's the point in being really mean to people?
It's more meaningful when you get forgiven. Now forgive me, you piece of shit.

>emasculated
>animeposter
>girl

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>Don't tell anyone, but yes I am.
Hot. How old are you?
>Nope
Now I want to do something shitty to you so I can be the first person to earn your forgiveness.

>/holds grudges forever and ever/
Right here bruv.

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>It's more meaningful when you get forgiven. Now forgive me, you piece of shit.
Alright you're forgiven for that remark.

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I'm 24. October 31st 1994. :3

I'm 25. We're both too old to still come here. Anyway. I do get it. I hold grudges forever too and for very small things. I'm not as cold about my grudges as you though.

Do you wanna talk on discord or something?

I thought only guys liked Manga Time Kirara anime like Gakkou Gurashi, despite casts chock-full of girls leading you to believe otherwise.

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I deleted my Discord last month because certain r9k users pissed me off too much rofl
What's yours?

No point in giving it to you if you can't add me.

This is a good thread. I don't typically hold grudges, but I have before in the past. There's really only a few people I don't think I'll ever forgive. I could probably count them on one hand. Off the top of my head, the only person who comes to mind is my biological father, though I'm certain I wouldn't be kind to any of my former bullies either.

Different guy, but I'll just drop my disco down because why not. gammaflux#3862

Very poor display folks.

>leaving your contact just because OP is female even when you don't share her love for grudges and she doesn't have an account to add you
You're too thirsty, user.

Thats to be expected from you, INFJ bro

Wait are you just a faggot or a girl?

This shit is top cringe. Guys thinking they can "manipulate" women into having sex with them over discord by acting "alpha". Jesus

Oh, you're just a typical roastie. It's why you lot should never be put in charge of anything important.

I don't necessarily care if she adds me in particular. It can be a random other user. I mostly just wanted to talk to someone. I will say though that now that I think about it I probably shouldn't have just posted my discord down when this wasn't a thread specifically asking for it though...

What? I didn't want to have sex with anyone. You're making assumptions about me just off of one post because I happened to (stupidly) throw out my discord. I just wanted someone to talk too.

I literally hate women like fuck but what in her post made her come off as a typical roastie? Her holding grudges against scumfucks that have betrayed her trust is not an unreasonable thing to do, you retard.

Please be my gf, INFJ-femanon

t. ISTPbro

Are you that same user who forgives too easily? Because you come out as a huge fag just like him.

You fuckers all got thirsty and now OP bailed before I had my chance of smoothly asking for her contact.

We aren't constantly on the lookout for weakness, you know...
Honestly, it makes me uncomfortable whenever guys listen to PUA stuff so much and treat us like we're sharks sniffing the water for blood. Just treat us like normal human beings and friends, I can respect or even be attracted to people that aren't Rambo.

I think I'll have to leave it at that, it's time for work.

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All right then. If you want it so much then here you have it throwaway#9778

Why even state your gender if you are just going to toy with robots loneliness and affection and then disappear on a whim? Go fuck yourself you worthless thot.

Kek
Im incapable of feeling hate so I dont hold grudges

No I'm not him. I just entered the thread a little while ago and enjoyed reading the posts. That's all there is too it really.

You sound like a shrill bitch I'd unironically fucking punch you for giving me snide remarks.

Yeah, it was a good thread before you came and started asking for contact even when you hadn't been a part of the conversation at all. Look what you did. Are you proud now?

No, not at all. Sorry for shutting it down anons.

Of course not. Now we will have to keep the thread alive until OP comes back from work to try to get her contact.

oldfags don't belong here

leave my board

So what you're saying is you actually want to get her discord? How is that my fault then? It's not like I made her work schedule. She was bound to head to work regardless. Just because I stupidly drop a discord doesn't mean that I in any way changed the outcome of her staying if that's what you're implying.

>I can
>or even
>that aren't Rambo
Does that mean your type is Rambo but you're willing to make exceptions?

I might be paranoid but I swear those dudes who got really pissed off at me and then called a truce and became my friends are plotting something against me
that's why I stopped talking to and hanging out with them

do you have a fucking hitlist lol

I'm saying I was getting there just before you came and ruined the thread.

WITH A BANG, STRAIGHT AN HERO,
THEY SEE YOU NEAR YO,
THEY BETTER DUCK,
CUZ YOU STANDING SIX FOOT TWO WITH A GLUCK,

I wouldn't say that I hold grudges, but I do cut people out. It takes a lot for someone to get to the point that we don't talk anymore, but it happens.

I feel you bro.
I'ts fucking hilarious because I had horrific acne in high school.
Now a bunch of roasters that shit on me publicly come up to me when they see me in the wild talking like we're friends and shit, even take the time to leave me their numbers to call them.
Never bother contacting them, even make minimal contact when they're trying to talk to me, just look completely disinterested, but to be honest I'm ecstatic because now I hold the cards and they're starting to know what it feels like to be ignored by someone you're trying to catch the attention of.
Not to mention 80% of them either have a kid or gained 50 pounds, it's pretty grodey.

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Hmm...

Yeah, okay I'll accept that. I concede on your point then user. Though I will say there is still the possibility she may have left for work before you were able to get her discord, but of course I can't prove that at all.

Prove me, user. What shitty thing I have to do for you to stop talking to me?

>Yeah, okay I'll accept that. I concede on your point then user.
No, user. Asking for forgiveness won't cut it. I will have a grudge on you until I die. Now I will never get to talk with OP about all the grudges we have and it's your fault.

Yes, though this will to not take shit from anyone has grown on me just recently. The person who pushed me that far still doesn't get why I hate them so much despite my explanation, which is fine. I get a kick off hurting that person and breaking whatever perception they've had of me or any sort of dependency they may have had on me.

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>posting anime pics in r9k
You really showed them who was the real winner after all, user! Fuck them for bullying you though.

Eh, I wasn't exactly looking for your forgiveness, so feel free to hold onto that grudge. Sure, I'll admit that I may have indirectly ruined your chances by destroying the thread, but I'm not going to ask for forgiveness because you happened to lose your chance to talk to OP.

I dunno, I think a lot of success is how you interpret it, even though I'll probably never find love because I'm bitter as fuck, I'm happy shitposting on Jow Forums and discussing shit with kindred spirits, as gay as most faggots are, they're here because they're damaged in some way, I'm damaged because I got ruthlessly bullied for being an ugly autist, I'm lucky enough to have grown to be halfway decent looking and can smite down the cunts that mocked me, will it fix my raging autism and get me a girlfriend? No.
Will it give me personal satisfaction? Hell yeah

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Where did he imply that posting anime pics on r9k was "showing them"? Are you brainded?

It's an expression you fucking moron. Are you too fucking autistic not to understand non descriptive language?

Mind if I ask how they bullied you user? Do you have any good examples, and/or any examples of how you smote them down? Perhaps any experiences that you particularly hated or enjoyed?

I'm sorry for making you feel bad, user. Please forgive me.

I'm mostly just teasing you bur you truly are insufferable. No wonder you're so lonely you have to throw your contact almost at random hoping someone will pity you enough to make of being your friend a work of charity.

Oh you mean beyond the typical "Oh user likes you" "EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW" or the "Lmao I'll ask him out and then tell him I was joking"
Not too much, I do remember getting my soul crushed asking a girl out and her going "What would people think" as though I was some radioactive waste, never did get to see her again, although I'd probably act like an edgy sperg just to piss her off.
I remember one time I was eating with my father, and one of the girls I knew worked at the place, she sent someone else to confirm my identity, and then came up herself, acting all bashful and left me her number, my dad was even all "Give her yours dumbass" completely unaware of the circumstances because you don't tell your parents you get bullied unless you want to worry them.
Another one I met at a movie theater, I just didn't say anything and pretended not to know her at all.

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OP has a penis anyway.

>I remember one time I was eating with my father, and one of the girls I knew worked at the place, she sent someone else to confirm my identity, and then came up herself, acting all bashful and left me her number, my dad was even all "Give her yours dumbass" completely unaware of the circumstances because you don't tell your parents you get bullied unless you want to worry them.
This is really tough. Now I unironically hold a grudge against your bullies too and hope they live miserable lives.

lol, I'm using my phone at work. You guys are silly.

[email protected]

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A part of me wants to ask if you're just teasing me now, but I'm pretty sure I know the answer to that already.
That being said though, you hardly even know me, and I hardly even know you. I don't typically like throwing down my discord, but I did it anyways just today. (and now I won't be doing that again for a long time.)
Either way though, my point is I've only seen a fraction of what you're like and you've only seen a fraction of what I'm like. It's kind of hard to make generalizations and think they'll stick, but who knows, you might be right. Maybe I am insufferable. I mean, as weird as it may sound I actually am enjoying this conversation, even if you perhaps think I'm not.

You shouldnt be so quick to jump to forever, my girlfriend of 4 years got back together with me after we had already dated and we're still going strong. We'll probably wind up getting married eventually

>phoneposter
What a fag

>as weird as it may sound I actually am enjoying this conversation, even if you perhaps think I'm not.
Okay. You won me over. You're just too nice. I can't keep holding a grudge against you. Do you mind if I add you to discord?

Don't worry, the one that stuck out to me the most ended up marrying a guy who looks worse than I do.
So it makes me extra smug

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Why do you feel the need to tell us this? Nobody cares

most females are vapid whores

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Looks like the day is saved my man. Now go and unleash your righteous flame unto the world! OP hath returned.

Dang, that one where your father and you were eating at a restaurant cuts deep. I'm sorry that happened to you. What ended up happening in the end? Did you ever explain it to your pops?

Sure, if you want to talk to me, then let's go and do that. Who am I to reject you?

>Who am I to reject you?
What is it then? You like talking to me or not?

Here's your thread

What? I do like talking to you. Oh, my bad, maybe my choice of words was poor, but yeah I do enjoy talking to you. If I was actually angry or upset I probably would have ended this conversation a long time ago. Go ahead and add me.

Sorry to disappoint, I'm not gay.

Nah, I didn't bother with her, I just forgot about it, and whenever my dad brings it up I just say she gained too much weight.
It did serve to cushion my already shattered sense of self worth though.
I may not be ugly anymore but I'm still way too socially inept to actually talk to girls.

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