The biggest lie ever told: It gets better

The biggest lie ever told: It gets better

It fucking doesn't. It actually just gets worse and worse.

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It will get better*.

>*Terms and conditions will apply.

It gets worst if you don't do anything to change
It gets better if you try to change things and keep doing it no matter how shitty it gets

The night is darkest just before the dawn. And i promise you, the dawn is coming

but you die eventually, so everything ends on a positive note

false. I tried all my life to improve. Got a good education, good fashion style, got fit, got my own apartment. Now Im 30, no GF, and basically its all downhill from here because you need to be a massive chad to hook up with girls that are younger than 25 and I hate all the wall-hitting roasties my age.

Meanwhile thad is homeless fat and fucks 6/10's every night.
Some of us are just meant to rot alone user.

There is something you are doing wrong
When you are fit and dress well you are above most men
Do you have a job? How much cash per year?

Tell that to my brother, who shot himself seven years ago.

Has nothing to do with money. It has mostly to do with looks and your ability to give her the tingle and how well you vibe with her.

Just don't be an autist lmao.

IT HAS ALL TO DO WITH MONEY
So you have no job. Here is your answer.

It does get better. Eventually you stop caring so much you're in a Buddhist detached bliss

The only thing that you can do is try to overcome.

so now just because your brother committed suicide you're going to give up?

Oh, it gets better. It's just when you finally get to die

I ought to punch you in the face, and stab in your the god damn neck, for that, asshole.

when i was in middle school, i told myself things would be better in high school
when i was in high school, i told myself things would be better in college
when i was in colelge, i told myself things would be better when i got a job and lived on my own
now....i dont know what to tell myself. im 25 and living alone and im still just a total social failure. maybe a small part of me still believes i might "blossom" and find a good network of friends. but it's not looking good

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You have to try to make it better and in the words of my therapist really try to be happy

If you have to "try" and be happy, instead of being it by default, you're doing it wrong.

If you expect happieness to fall from the sky you're delusional. It's a reward for hard work, not a default state of human existence. The default state of any living bering is constant insufferable agony which has to constantly be avoided.

>It's a reward for hard work, not a default state of human existence.
You've completely failed at what it means to be happy, and have a naive, and utterly fucked up view on the whole manner. As proven by:
>The default state of any living bering is constant insufferable agony which has to constantly be avoided.

hard work as nothing to do with happiness, or lack therefore of. it's reactionary. if you actually have to put work in to achieve any emotion like that, that's a sign of something wrong. :/

Have you realized the constant through those phases has been the one and only YOU?

You are the only one to blame for not actively seeking progress on whatever goal you desire.

Been telling myself that since 2008 aka when everything went to shit

Now it's 2018 and I'm 29 years old and things have gotten so much worse, it makes me terrified of the future. Most of the bad parts are things that are totally out of my control so le self improvement meme doesn't apply.

>If you expect happieness to fall from the sky you're delusional. It's a reward for hard work, not a default state of human existence. The default state of any living bering is constant insufferable agony which has to constantly be avoided.
honestly OP is right on this one. Default state of man is misery. And happiness comes from an effort made
>You've completely failed at what it means to be happy,

>just be happy bro

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i've suffered with anxiety and panic attacks for so long i've started to get suicidal. my family and friends notice in my voice that i'm fucking desperate for change. neither my psychologist nor doctor has given me any viable help. i see my future as a dark hole of drugs and suicide. whenever i got free time i spend it drinking and smoking weed because being in a moment of not feeling like i'm dying is complete bliss. it's the best.

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The actual saying is that it gets worse before it gets better. Which is true. But the part they don't tell you about is that your pain doesn't magically go away with time, it just becomes tolerable after a while.

Sorry user. I know that probably wasn't the answer you wanted to hear.

>tfw constantly lied to by family and told "x will be better than what you're doing now!" only to find out it was the same or worse
>family wonder why i don't trust them
Anyone telling you it gets better is a liar and probably acting maliciously, this is a simple fact of life.