>user, could you please answer this:
>"Okay, well-"
>staceys start talking
EVERY. SINGLE. TIME.
EVERY. SINGLE. CLASS.
NEVER HAPPENS TO ANYONE ELSE WHO ANSWERS A QUESTION.
WHY?
User, could you please answer this:
I KNOW THIS! EVERY TIME!
It's not even just in classes and stuff, a lot of the time it's in games too. Played never have I ever last night and when it was my turn everyone immediately started talking. All throughout my years in school people would talk over me even when I'm presenting too. It's ridiculous and I don't understand why they do it, I'm generally pretty well liked, funny, and no one there really dislikes me or anything, yet people have always talked over me regardless of my social status. Maybe we're just not assertive enough.
Same wtf. And when professor says its correct and the normies go "woooo!" the staceys join in as if they even fucki g listened to what i said
>I'm generally pretty well liked, funny, and no one there really dislikes
why are you on this board?
>2016
>playing uno with a few pals at school
>this roastie always joins us
>try to start a conversation
>roastie immediately interrupts
>every fucking time
she legitimately hated me for no reason, even talked to my pals how fucking annoying she is, they claimed i'm imagining it.
She was rude the entire 2years that i knew her for no reason.
are you:
less attractive than your mates (be honest)
different race?
wasn't part of the same groups/clubs they were in?
well liked =/= well tolerated
how does tolerance not come with being well liked?
from person point of view i think i look good/ok
i'm white (baltic/eastern european)
literally part of the same group, knew them before the roastie joined in.
I've had the same experience but I live in england as a eastern european (polish). Maybe that was the reason since I had a VERY similar experience to yours.
i feel like some assholes just want to piss you off to feel good about themselves. to be fair i was part of many edgy jokes. Some joked about me being a school shooter. probably because i was mostly quiet, which was a result of being bullied in middle school, but to be fair i was quite a retard then, as in before high-school.
in my case I wasn't user, so I'm not sure - the only outlier was the fact that I was a bit socially awkward but not enough to seem like a sperg - did my best to hide that. fucking roasts.
that's what i mean by quiet, never really opened up that much to anyone.
that wouldn't warrant being shitty to you or me though; they disliked us for different reasons. if they found you normal/cute they'd definetly try and include you in the conversation - or am I wrong?
barely anyone knew anything about me, just bare minimum, such as my interests. And literally no one else was a such a complete dick out of classmates generally friendly with everyone. Never said i was normal. but enough to know how not to stand out. maybe they thought because i was nice i would be an easy target to bully, too bad for them that literally has no effect on me anymore
I see well sorry for generalising my experiences to yours user. thanks for talking to me - hope you have a good one.
i mean i might be able to relate somewhat to yours as well. if you want tell me about it
I got on with the lads well enough, but whenever a girl would go and try the group I'd be the only one to get ignored. They knew where I was from (since I'm not a faggot who will hide his nationality, I'm proud of it).
you think it's because you're a foreigner? at least from their perspective that is
girls do this as they feel that they cannot elevate their status through interactions with you. Reasons cannot only be because you are of lower status and therefore undesirable, but also because they feel that they have low chances of gaining your favor versus how much effort they would have to put in. They can also see you as a hindrance to gaining the attention to and favor of the rest of the group. In short, you were a main target to eliminate for all their social aspirations in that setting.
Honestly I don't know. Some threads are fun, I just avoid the people wallowing in their own self pity.
I am well liked though. Just about everyone either likes me or tolerates me. I can be annoying at times, but generally I do improve the mood and make things more fun when I'm comfortable.
yeah polacks were pretty openly hated by some of the popular english girls. fuck knows why mate.
thanks for x2 (You)s user!
that sounds like a really nice explanation at face value, thank you!
that actually makes a lot of sense.
guess some females are just pricks like user above explains
Talk over them. I literally did that in class today.
>Some threads are fun
If I ever see you in person and recognize you as the creator of this post I will antagonize you into a fistfight
You're welcome. Those arrows can be quite difficult to deal with but keep in mind that they are shot from women, or people, who see you as a threat that cannot be dealt with fair means (no need to be afraid).
he's not the OP, desu.
they see me as a threat due to them seeing me as below them, though. sucks to feel like that, user.
I read it as thread not post. ahhh.
This. Literally just keep talking as if no one else was saying anything, or you can also say something like "whoa calm down, I know your ideas are good but wait a bit" in a loud and clear voice. They will get embarrassed as fuck most likely. Just don't let them have their way and don't look too irritated about it.
You're probably some beta loser manlet living in his mother's basement, and you think you stand a chance against me? You'd fucking die.
spoiler alert, you are not going to recognize him as the creator of that post and even if you did you will not antagonize him into a fistfight
I'll give this a shot. Usually I just say "I would appreciate it if people would stop talking over me" in a louder-than-normal voice and it gets the job done, but just continuing with what I was going to say to begin with would probably work better.
When they do it, raise your voice and say do you look like an [insert your male name here]. Or you can just stand up, point at her and tell her to shut up. I did both, the second option worked because everyone liked me though.
Sarcasm seems like it could work well, especially when combined with shame, as long as they hear what you say. "I'm sorry, did I speak over you when it was /your/ turn to talk?"