>be me
>never had gf, literal 20 yr old Doomer meme personified
>one day cute girl with common internet friends adds me on fb, think nothing much of it, probably just some attention whore
>fast forward a few weeks and she messages me with "hi ur cute, do u have an insta"
>very suspicious at first because although I'm actually kinda cute, I'm not used to being approached
>we hit it off rly good and I find out she has an amazing taste in music (post punk, shoegaze etc..) and memes
>several months go by and we're basically in a relationship, we text everyday and call at least a few times a week. Nudes have been shared etc..
>however last weekend I notice that she's taking a long time before replying to my messages even though she's online
>confront her about it and she gives me the excuse that she isn't in a talkative mood.
>next day same shit, except she takes literal hours only to make brief replies
>confront her about it again, ask her if I did anything wrong and if she wants to stop talking to me, which she answers no to both. Bother her again until she finally tells me to "omg leave me alone can't you see I don't wanna talk rn"
>I'm absolutely shook
>few days go by and I figure I should give her some space
>this morning I apologize and try to start a conversation about my recent job interview, and I ask her how she's been
>*seen*
>I am mad by this point
>few hours later I confront her about it and she's ignoring me again
>get off work and start spamming her with pleas of desperation bc I'm obviously very confused and just want to know what's wrong, tell her how much pain I'm in and that I wanna kms, tried calling her until she fucking blocks me from facebook, instagram, snapchat, my texts and even fucking last.fm
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I'm in absolute despair right now and don't have anyone to talk to about it. Did I fuck up? Should have I been less pushy? Well it doesn't matter anymore I guess. I'm just afraid that I lost her forever but there's a small part of me that hopes she'll come back and she just needed a break. I mean we were completely fine, I might've fucked it up being such an asshole though. Idk.someone please shoot me
retard she doesn't want to talk to you, why do you keep trying to get a fucking response are you autistic
>she has an amazing taste in music
>post punk, shoegaze etc..
Pick one
Honestly I think you should've just left her alone. And even if she did lose interest at this point who gives a shit ? All you need to do is be confident and do whatever the hell you want. Make her regret ever leaving you while living your life to the fullest
Stop caring about women. Just stop. It will save you so much hurt in the long run. They don't and will never care about you beyond how much status you have and what you can provide for them.
She stopped talking to you because she either was contacted by or approached a guy who is more valuable than you. That's it. This is how women operate. She won't tell you until it's a sure thing, because she's unsure of her own status as it relates to the new guy and she wants to keep you as a backup, but you made that too annoying by pestering her so she just cut you off entirely.
The only way to keep most women is by lowering their self-esteem until they think that you're the best they can do. Don't treat her like she's perfect, criticize her constantly (but matter-of-factly, don't seem affected by it) until praise from you is like a ray of sunshine. Comment on how attractive other women are. Be a chauvinist stereotype. Believe me, I've been dealing with insane fucking bitches like this since I was 13. The only way to deal with them is to just not give a fuck and treat them like they're mentally ill children.
love only exists in the movies.
I think you guys are right. I feel so regretful right now. I hate myself for being such a faggot. I overthink things and always imagine the worst and I just end up screwing myself over.
I want to try to sincerely apologize and leave her alone if she doesn't instantly get back to me, and hopefully she'll eventually forgive me. I'm just afraid of her drifting away, it's hard.
I feel relieved talking about this though, so thank you for that as well.
Eat my ass
jesus dude stop being a fucking loser. have a life. you should've been leaving her on seen for months.
you're literally groveling on your knees begging for her pussy. PLEASE MA'AM COOCHIE.
you've already lost because she's as dry as the Sahara now. you can't make her wet, someone else already is.
like what the literal fuck. whenever a woman texts me i always ignore her. i save any communication for face-to-face.
Sad thing is you're right. I'm just too sensitive and emotional to be like that, as much as I wish I could.
The incredible part of this story is literally none of this occurred in real life. You had a short intense relationship with zero physical contact. Fucking madness.
Hey seriously, stop listening to these fuck ups insulting you. Do you really think these people have wise experience? Try to apologize and be honest, that you were scared and you dont know how to act in relationships. Be the grown up here. You have normal feelings and I understand you, my first relationship was horrible because I just didnt know what to do, but guess what ? I learned and so will you I promise. Don't hold on to her and live you, your life, your dreams and your comfy hobbies
Honestly, me too my man. Every relationship I've had after my first couple of failures I've felt like I was playing a part. It's disgusting how well it works, and it's made me unironically hate women. I'm practically volcel right now at 22 because I don't want to share my life with an emotional vampire who I can never show vulnerability to without compromising her attraction to me. Sex just isn't important enough to care about that much. Maybe I'll settle down with someone in my late 30s, after they've hit the wall and have calmed down somewhat. Until then it's just not worth it.
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>>several months go by and we're basically in a relationship, we text everyday and call at least a few times a week. Nudes have been shared etc..
>>however last weekend I notice that she's taking a long time before replying to my messages even though she's online
Several months go by and you haven't gone out on a date and fucked yet, and you wonder why she got tired of your dumb ass? God damn you're blind, deaf, and dumb.
Watch this channel and learn how women work. This guy is your new fucking teacher.
Oh, and I forgot to mention. Texting everyday is fucking needy as hell. Women look at you like you're pathetic if you can't go a handful of days without talking. Get your mind right, dude.
ayyy
always thought it was funny that the woman in that painting looks gooky
fucking lol cool story bro
Yeah I know, it's been a wonderful, weird, amd painful ride desu. I don't know why I always get myself into these impossible situations.
Thank you user. Your words mean a lot.
I can understand where you're coming from, but I'm personally still pretty naive with women IRL as much as Ive been "redpilled" about them by the internet.
I also long for something greater than sex.
She lives across the country
To be fair she initiated our conversations as much as I did. Also she was always the one to ask if we could call.
>She lives across the country
LDR doesn't work
Welp sometimes it does and if you really love the person then why not hope for the best?
>I also long for something greater than sex.
I do too, man. I'm sure there are women out there who don't behave this way, but in my experience I haven't found one. Literally not a single one. I hope you find your true romance, I really do. I hope you find someone you can talk to about anything, who you'll never suspect of betraying you and the life you build with her, who you can honestly say loves you as you love her. I just doubt it will happen.
But hey, go ahead. Prove me wrong. I'm rooting for you user. I'm just too tired of the struggle to try and find that unicorn myself anymore.
Kill yourself user. It sounds like you haven't even met her in real life, yet you've become infatuated.
>if you really love the person
have you even met?
it seems you only think you are in love but you are wrong bucko
She was that person until now man. That's why I've been so confused. She's the only woman (romantic interest) who I've ever been able to be myself with and I just lost her. It's honestly amazing how compatible we were, and I'm not just talking about music.
Anyways, thank you man. I hope you also find happiness down whichever path you decide to follow.
>Women look at you like you're pathetic if you can't go a handful of days without talking.
>talking to the girl you like everyday and want to be with is considered needy and pathetic
god why are the majority of women so vile?
Holy shit are you that much of a loser? I understand you haven't had a gf before her and that she's your first but holy shit, have some dignity and stop botching about it. She isn't into you anymore, retard, move on.
>Being mad when someone does not respond to you
You deserve everything.
Take this as a lesson in how to not act like a beta bitch and never get attached to someone who doesn't like you in return. She was some vapid thot who got bored with you.
You already lost, you behaved in such a needy fashion, that's woman repellent, you showcased all your insecurity.
She ignored you? you ignore her, your willingness to let go signals manliness and she might or not come back.
But as things went you are fucked.
Stress not, she was talking with 10 other dudes at the same time.
Go to theredpill reddit and read the 'New Here?' and 'Theory Reading' sidebar material, no excuse in the age of the internet being illiterate in man/woman dynamics psychology.