how does this feel?
is this a normal thing that happens in relationships?
How does this feel?
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>femme here
It feels nice being able to hold my boyfriend there. Its just a connection we feel and end up usually falling asleep together. It's nice and yes very often it's normal once real love is there. Once it's gone through the hardships and all the needed steps it is something truly beautiful
Not a girl, but this poster is right anyways. Dating someone for a while and developing that sense of closeness physically feels really nice, especially when you end up cuddling together and being comfy. My ex would always play with my hair when we were sleeping together when she held me unless she was the little spoon.
another fem here but i do that with most of my male friends
i assume they only keep me around so i can be their psuedo therapist/emotional soundboard and source of titty to feel some sort of maternal affection
Obviously never had a bf only guy friends i wanted to 'fix'
Cuddling happens a lot yes. It's not something I appreciate too much at the time, but once you lose it you realise how incredible it was to have that level of intimacy with someone.
It feels like putting on a warm jumper fresh out of the dryer on a cold winters day.
>Once it's gone through the hardships and all the needed steps it is something truly beautiful
What does this even mean? Relationships aren't meant to be hard during the infatuation stage, if they are you're an awful partner. Female gibberish. OUT
>i do that with most of my male friends
Is that normal? I've never cuddled with any of my platonic female friends.
>i assume they only keep me around so i can be their psuedo therapist/emotional soundboard and source of titty to feel some sort of maternal affection
yeah that would explain it, thanks Freud.
Well no, it's in the developing stage. There is never going to be a fairy tale relationship where everything just fits in perfectly. There will be moments you two will disagree, get mad at each other and avoid each other but in the end come together. You get back together because no matter what you still love that person. Many people don't make it past this and just let it go. That's where people get traumatized and feel relationships are let downs and that's not it, you just haven't found the one yet where all the love is returned
That and it's a hard concept for some to understand when it comes to unconditional love, especially considering where we are.
This makes me genuinely happy for you and your bf to be able to experience this but at the same time I want to fucking die knowing I'll never have this.
Thing is , I was just like you I felt hopeless and stuck in a relationship. I was being physically abused by my partner and left scared and as if I could never leave this pain until..he came around. He helped me get back on my feet and helped me stop that abuse. I ended up breaking up with my abusive ex and needed some time alone and he waited until I felt right. He made me feel like the most special girl in the world even though I thought I would rot away. user... dont focus on this loneliness you have now. Focus on yourself and your own self improvement so when the time is right that special person will be able to enjoy your happiness and give you happiness as well. Things take time and what I feel what you need most is you time, and focusing on your goals, your needs and your health. I promise :)
I hold my gf like that and it feels incredibly intimate, sometimes you feel true contentment. Nothing can replace it. Plus due to having a heart condition mine is twice the size of a normal one, she stays when she hears it she feel a lot of comfort
At this point I'd prefer being abused by some thot. At least there would be some kind of interaction... I'm 20 years old now and still a khhv, I literally never had friends and there has happened some stuff I dont wanna talk about that made me really bitter about life. I feel like it's all just a big conspiracy like I'm in some kind of truman show and nobody wants to have anything to do with me like it's all just a big prank. I'm so extremely starved of human interaction I don't even think you can begin to comprehend how I feel.
Why am I supposed to be happy in life when I have no reason to. You got a reason to enjoy life again because that new guy came up and helped you out in your time of need. Women don't bring that kind of sacrifice. If I don't make a move 99% of the time, I'm going to be alone forever. This is just the cold harsh reality. And to make moves on girls I need confidence which I never had in my entire life. I could go on about this but the text is already too long so basically what I'm saying is: the train has already departed and now it's too fast to hop on.
I DESERVE A MILKY MOMMY GF RIGHT FUCKING NOW
I wish I had a female friend like you. Although I'd probably fall in love with you and feel sad when you don't like me back.
>posts a picture that cute
>doesn't post source
hand over the sauce pal, google search just says it's a cartoon.
>felt hopeless and stuck in a relationship
>He helped me get back on my feet and helped me stop that abuse
>He made me feel like the most special girl in the world even though I thought I would rot away
That feel when I've helped girls who felt down so many times, only for them to be like "wow you're the best friend I could've wished for". Only for them to start talking less and less, eventually getting a bf. Now a 28yo virgin and I don't bother with girls anymore. It just ends in my heart being stepped on when I think I had a special connection with someone, and I don't want that feel anymore.
Seeing the pic in OP's post makes my chest literally hurt because I long for some love back so bad.
Is that man crying? If that's so I can't imagine something nicer, a woman you love holding you while you feel like shit and you being comfortable enough with her to let her see you like that.
I'm not one to answer your question but beauty like that probably doesn't exist in the real world.
When I first slept with my femboyfriend(no penetration yet) we were pretty much embracing till the morning in between play sessions.
The intimacy is absolutely amazing, I love feeling his soft skin/
The image search didn't give me anything. I need a source on this, PRONTO!
this.
bump for source.
Originally, Dumb roastie
>is this normal
In general yes but not for you tho. You are gonna be alone all your life.
>i do that with most of my male friends
I hate you type of people. Stop making me get attached and catching feelings for you when you don't intend on having a deeper connection with me. STOP LEADING ME ON I HATE IT
>never had a bf only guy friends i wanted to 'fix'
AAAAAAAAAAAH YOU'RE THE WORST
Back when monogamous relationships were enforced by social pressure, religion etc. But these days, I wouldn't even classify this level of genuine intimacy 'normal' anymore.
I wanna suggest cuddlecompanions.
Yes you gotta pay money $$
To cuddle a girl but, sometimes you might find someone nice.
It's a great feeling. It really is. I cuddle a cosplayer girl every couple of months. She's very nice.
While no doubt others are going to view you as pathetic for paying for cuddles. It's better then going an entire life without affection.
I had a pseudo gf.
She had an abusive ex. After like 3 years she left me to stay with him.
It hurts too much. She would rather be abused by him then loved by me.
That's a special kind of pain right there.
Again I gotta shill for
cuddlecompanions.org
Some Anons won't find anyone, and some Anons might get lucky.
>tfw girl i've been talking with online said when we meet irl we could cuddle
>tfw she did a 180 once she got into a romantic relationship with someone else
I understand it, but it makes me feel awful. We weren't dating or anything so I can't actually get mad but I just wish she never suggested it at all and got my hopes up
Yes
Feels good
Was just doing it a minute ago with my gf
>1 cuddler in my country
>she looks like this
Yeah never mind thanks
Cuddles and all that stuff feel nice but when its over you will still want more, it's never enough. I've cuddled a few girls in my life, it was such a good feeling, one even let me rub her ass and shit. But the next day the extasy of the moment is gone and you are back to feeling like shit
THIS WEBSITE IS SHIT
SHIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIT FUCK YOU NIGGER
She looks like she'd be annoying if she tried to talk but she might be good at cuddling ya know. Cuddling isn't all about looks I think.
lucky user with gfd gf here
my default position is under her arm mushed into the side of her tiddy while we cuddle and watch youtube vids
You can do this and it is comfy but don't do it if you are planning on actually staying with the girl long term because as soon as you start doing shit like this she will lose respect for you and won't be long before she is off.
If you're paying $160 to cuddle for 2h with that, you're better off walking into a cowshed and do it for free.
>160 dollars to cuddle for 2 hours with some ugly tumblr hambeast
RRRRRRRRREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
WOMEN HAVE FAR TOO MUCH VALUE
WE MUST DESTROY THE BETA ENABLER
Looks like shit, most of the people there look old and/or fairly unattractive. It just makes me cringe. Cosplay person got really lucky
Based Ohio bro but yeah...fuck us both.
Yes apparently cuddling is normal I tried it with my bf for the first time a few weeks ago and omg its actually the best and it makes so much sense. I was unsure before then cause usually I dont like touch and I kinda flinch away even when its like people Im comftorable with lol but its actually amazing when its someone you love. Being in a relationship is actually great like I thought it was way overrated and I rejected people in general but that was actually dumb and yeah making yourself lonely on purpose is a bad decision btw
Are you ohiobro? You can't be worse looking than either of them. Will you cuddle with me?
>$160
Holy fuck nononononoonononon
You have to be 18 to use this site
This is such female bullshit.
You know how often me and my male friends get mad at each other and cause each other pain and suffering? Fucking never. You lot are so fucked in the head that you think it is okay to walk around spreading negative vibes to those around you because 'that's just part of a relationship'. No, it fucking isn't.
I know, it's hilarious. Can't imagine her having many clients, but never underestimate true betas I guess.. I'm a late 20s virgin, but I'll rather buy something nice for $160 and fap than having to die under that cow.
I'm a guy, user. I don't want to cuddle with other guys, sorry. tfw soc ohio threads are always filled with old people and stoners
I am 19 just shy and autistic
Fucking hell I want to set you on fire.
I'd cuddle with a cute young guy. I'm not even gay, I'll just take what I can get.
I've always enjoyed it. I try to fall asleep like that if it isnt too hot. Recently I've been working on our new house alot and also working in general and just having alot of late nights. Been getting a little sick so the other night just just held my my head there and ran her fingers through my hair. I dont even remember how quickly I fell asleep but it was instant
I'd rather let a slightly attractive whore suck me off in 5 minutes for $160 than cuddle with that thing for 2 hours
>tfw gf's abusive ex killed himself so she can't get back together with him
If you are ever so lucky to get to sleep next to a girl and you wake up before she does.
Cuddle her. It's the best feeling ever and she'll really really enjoy it. It feels so heavenly.
I dunno if that's what happened but, I kinda want it to happen.
i meant that actually happened to me
Oh well, lucky you.
How....convenient.
>no fembot gf to hold me in her asshole.
Got to cuddle a girl.
She subtly moved my hand to her breasts she liked me touching them.
Of course she chose someone else over me.
You guys know once she breaks up with you you will be her 'abusive ex' right?
Fucking noobs.
nah like he genuinely used to hit her and scream at her and call her ugly and shit
How have you not killed yourself yet user? That sounds painful as fuck. I feel for you. I wish girls weren't such fucking teases and lead people on
I hate cuddling
>always uncomfortable position no matter what
>always too hot
>trapped in that one spot so you can never readjust
Worst thing about sex is girls want to cuddle after
So in other words you go suck another guys dick and split up, then the faggot takes you back.
And I'm sure she'll tell people you did the same m8
nah but he actually did though, admitted to it and got in bother for it
Fair enough. I mean she will probs still say same about you regardless.
i thought i would never have this too. hated the way i looked and was generally dysfunctional with people. but oh well, surprise, surprise, not everyone is necessarily looking for the opposite. hang in there buddy and focus on yourself. if i found love, u can too. and if not, so many other things in life are worth it
Despite what girls claim when they are outside, it should not be. Or there is a high chance you are out of a relationship soon.
Most girls can't stand admitting it, and loudly yell they want a sensitive guy "that can cry too!", but will yet lose attraction when you feel weak to them too often.
Good on you if you find the rare exceptions, but I wouldn't count on it.
Indeed. Or just buy a couple of games from that money and enjoy them a lot longer than 2h.
please post more images like the one OP posted but without the mean look
I wanted to die from that.
She honestly expected me to stay friends with her.
I regret pretending it was okay for three months.
Hence, I support paying for sex after that.
pretty much the most comfy feel
I hope you find someone who treats you well in the future user. Good luck
fuck
>tfw no bf to hold and comfort
This.
Why the fuck are women so childish and retarded?
No
Vulnerability usually marks the death of a relationships. The foids don't like it.
>failed normies and fake chads actually believe this
she looks so bored.
(ofcoruse this isnt original)
>closeness
Sure thing man, that's why she dumped your ass, you two were getting too close. Now you know.
this is unironically the only reason i like girls. only reason i have a girlfriend. i broke up with my last girlfriend as soon as she stopped letting me cuddle with her titties. i am only in it for the titty cuddles
they stop mentally developing around 12
they're eternal children
Yup, this is exactly what she meant.
Thanks user.
You as well.
I actually wanted to ask about thios.
The man looks very submissive in OP's pic. I don't think any woman expects to have to comfort their man like that on the regular, or even once or twice at all.
I don't know how really fucked up relationship roles are for Millennials and younger, but I think every woman still wants the man to be The Rock.
She looks like sad nigga hours. Nah I don't date sad bitches.
>People still believe that women browsing this board.
>People still orbit "women" here.
My fiance likes to use my boobs as a pillow every once in a while. I'll do this thing where I gently run my fingers over the top part of his forehead and into his hairline until he falls asleep. It's cute to see him so relaxed. I love cuddling
>was very comfortable with my ex
>would often end up in weird but nice positions when cuddling
It's weird when you're in a relationship with someone you are really comfortable around. Everything just feels so nice when you're with them and you sprawl out in any way you can so long as you are both holding each other in some way. I'm someone that is very neurotic so when I think back about how effortlessly I was with being intimate with my ex I begin to realise how close we actually were.
I want this more than anything, but i'm legit autistic so it will never happen.
>tfw no gf to hold and cuddle
>boyfri-
POP
the fact that you think it's a good idea to be giving hope to somebody who is hopeless is so insulting and infuriating and leads me to believe you never really felt what you think you felt or pretending to feel the same as others for attention. please kill yourself.
Its good to see a fellow fighter still fighting the good fight. After all the bitter struggle you still have strengh to bang the faggotry away.
>Why am I supposed to be happy in life when I have no reason to.
i like to shill buffalo 66 here and on /tv/ sometimes, the film's probably more relevant now than it was back then
Sometimes when she's on top she takes a break from kissing me and just holds her chest to my face like that. it's rather arousing
It feels very, very, very good.
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>website is USA only
>i live in germany
See this post is mine so you can read how fucking lonely I am. I NEED THIS BUT IT'S USA ONLY MAN FUCK THIS GAY EARTH
>Be me.
>Hanging out with best friend.
>Go back to her place after getting food.
>Watching a movie together on her couch.
>I end up falling asleep.
>Wake up some time later.
>My head is in her lap and she's gently brushing my hair.
Its been a couple of days and she hasn't said anything about it. I'm kinda confused.
How are you even confused about that?
More curious as to why she did it, and confused regarding me own feelings towards it.