ok. I (m20) did confess my love to my best girl friend. She said that she does not feel the same for me. After a long break of contact for 2 months or so we agreed to be Just friends. I said yes because I dont want her to leave my life because I still love her but i start to regrett it because im super jealus if she got any other male friends that i only can think about she Dating them.
I have no idea whatsoever what to do now.
(English is not my first language and my autocorrect is in german so sorry beforehand)
yeah I thought about it. But I'm going to meet her regardless of that beacuse of work and things like that
Robert Gomez
just hang out with her for a bit but slowly ghost her until you stop caring about what she does and dont interact with her stop opening the wound buddy, let it just heal
Landon Wright
then instead of cutting it off hard do what says
Daniel Robinson
The thing is I dont want to loose her. not as a friend nor as something else
Hudson Hernandez
yeah but you get that you're just hurting yourself more when you lose her to some guy you realize that when she starts dating someone shes going to be the one ghosting you more often than not that's not really a place you wanna be in, at least I don't think so unless you really think you can manage to stop caring about her fucking chad instead of you then I wouldn't risk it
Liam Sanchez
So what are the chances of changing her mind ? like, playing the long run and making her so dependent of me that she does not want to leave me for some chad
Josiah Wilson
you only want her as a friend because she won't let you guys be more than friends so you're taking what you can get. this is not a healthy approach and will hurt you far more in the long run. trust me, i have been there and done that
Brody Perry
or just showing her in the long run that im the one she should be with
Jason Fisher
Ive never felt this shit in my life.
Ryan Powell
literally no point man that shouldn't even be an option you could waste years potentially down that path try to find women who are actually interested in you than trying to force it
Justin Ortiz
Move to a new place stop being a cuck but you are a German so I dont know if you can stop
Jackson Campbell
Have sex its simple and you can forget about her, best way to do this is Grindr pretend he is a girl and you are good to go
Julian Fisher
This is very solid advice.
Carter Jones
I am in the same boat too user truly it's the worst path that anyone can take, but unfortunately one way or another it's going to be time to get off the metaphorical boat
Basically, get out there and find someone that's better then her
