My gf refuses to stop having male friends. She claims it's normal for men these days to let their GF have male friends and that all her friends have male friends. She says I'm just insecure
Am I being unreasonable here?
My gf refuses to stop having male friends...
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is that your convo in the pick? if it is, you better be searching for other options because this shit definitely aint lasting
Yeah that's our convo
tbf you do sound pretty insecure. if you can't stand her having guy friends, you gotta check yourself son
Bullshit.
If she has male friends that is a whore, plain and simple
You are being insecure OP, but also your girlfriend is a whore who is probably cheating on you.
This post was made by volcel gang, stay pure you cretins.
agreed with this.
You should give her unwavering trust and be accepting of her choices. You trust her until she shows you she cant be trusted.
Then you drop her like a hot rock and move on. Right now, you seem really fucking insecure and will end up pushing her onto John's cock. You might as well go there with them, grab his dick and shove it in her because your shitty little jealous bitch boi texts will do the same thing.
I have male friends and I never had sex with any of them. They are all online and hundreds of miles away.
lmao this is the saddest shit
>you're fucking him aren't you
Yes you're being insecure no you're not being unreasonable but you are being ignorant to women if you think telling her don't to see a guy is going to help if anything she'll fuck him to spite you.
Yes her male friends want to fuck her yes it's problematic for them to hang alone. I'm assuming she's Young enough to think that's not a problem and you can't forcibly change her mind so your options are
Make her see how you feel by doing the same with females that are not her
Hanging out with them when she's around him
Leaving her because she's inconsiderate of your relationship boundaries
Male/female "friendship" is such a load of horse shit. Dump the slut.
she fucks him
drop her whorish ass
why do you guys project like this? not every single guy wants to fuck every girl that gives him the time of day. girls and guys can be friends -- y'all just weak as shit
you have to beat the shit out of her with the most leftist "art" you can find, maybe the pavement beneath the Eiffel Tower wroks. this is so she rejects her leftists ways and gets aroused nby your dominance
>roastie 456855
No it's not. I have male friends online. They are hundreds of miles away and we don't even cam.
Hopefully she gets bred and comes to feed you the creampie cuckenstein
Disregard everything else you have read. Here's the fucking truth.
>She has made you insecure because of her whore-ish tendencies.
>You're clearly upset and her response was to tell you to fuck off. She is a whore with no respect for you.
>She IS fucking him.
Break up with her and move on.
But not just that, you're not getting away that easily. Lets talk about you.
You are stupid and weak. You are stupid because you pick whores and you are weak because you let them make you insecure. This woman has had a direct knock to your confidence and how you carry yourself, but because you're such a fucking pussy you tolerate being told to fuck off and having your girlfriend behave like a slag.
Kill yourself and break up with her. I don't care which order.
Or, break up with her, and get your fucking stride back on to being the man you wan to be.
(Unlikely to happen, best scenario: you kill yourself)
p.s your gf IS a whore
Just ignore her and if she contacts you tell her to fuck off if she can't respect you. If she's not a whore, she'll stop it. If she is well then you'll know. It's a win win. Either way I think she is though lol
I think you should go back to being single until you can sort out your mental issues and insecurity
All men want to fuck attractive women and will if the opportunity presents itself ie she makes a move on him. It's programmed into the male brain. There are exceptions (she's not attractive, he's known her his whole life) it's a situation where you technically could trust a hungry wolf around a sheep the wolf could go against it's nature but for how long and why risk it
So OP cheats on his gf every day or what are you saying you retard?
Yes they do. You're the one projecting. Faggot.
This. Poor people shouldn't have any friends period. They can't control themselves. Only the wealthy class should have parties and communities.
Only turbo cheating sluts have Male friends dumb her whore as. Trust me
Wha are you even talking about woman
Last night she called me a 10 pump chump and acted cold all night, so if it seems like I'm insecure that's why. She's constantly ridiculing my sexual performance and ability to please her
There has never been a bigger red flag. Fucking dump the whore.
>"males will fuck every woman they come in contact with because they are dumb as dogs"
>thread is about OP being a faggot
you came to the wrong board on Jow Forums if you hate men this much, whore.
>Last night she called me a 10 pump chump and acted cold all night, so if it seems like I'm insecure that's why.
Unless you're some kind of sub fetishist, if you let her say that to you and live you actually deserve to have her cheat on you
Yeah if girls hang out with a guy "platonically" nothing will end well. Drop her, now.
>all the newfags falling for this retard-proof low quality bait
Male friends is still a huge red flag and women with them should be avoided at all costs and same with attention whores on social media.
This. You are better off making love to a gay boy than a straight woman.
You most be larping. She's obviously cheating moron block her number and ghost her
I mean, you are insecure. And you should be, because she's not giving you any reason to be secure. She's definitely cheating on you. That last text sounds like it's straight out of an NTR doujin.
You're being used for something and she fucks her sex boyfriend on the side l: if you have any ounce of manhood you'll block her right now and never talk to her again show her the same disregard she showed in that txt
I am about to tell you the magic words to deal with this bullshit for the rest of your life
"respect the relationship"
That's the ultimate way to dismiss all bullshit Insecurity accusations. You just identify moments where the other dude has demonstrated he does not respect the relationship and use that as your reasoning why them spending time together is unacceptable.
Only a retard would try to turn that around and say that you're being insecure if you can demonstrate that. Luckily these dudes are always desperate idiots who are not sly at all and it wil be extremely easy to demonstrate.
It will also make you appreciate people that DO respect your relationship, like your good male buddies.
Op you need to grow up. Women want to make babies, not date them
lmao wtf you are a nut OP
>ugh fuckk off
Drop her right fucking now
Everyone except robots have male friends.
>literally have one friend
>its a girl
>she sees me as a best friend (out of 3, I'm the only guy)
>we hang out alone all the time but I've never done or hinted at anything past platonic friend level
>started dating some guy last month
>she, apparently, made it clear with him that I wasn't going anywhere
>he just dropped her randomly today
>I probably had a bit to do with it
lel
yeah op is a larper and probably mimicking the other user who made a thread of somewhat the same genre.
>Best buddy John
>I told you not to see him
yeah nah.
Nothing wrong with male friends, my best friend is female and we've never done anything because she's loyal as fuck and dating my other best friend.
However you've told her not to hang out with this person and she calls him her best buddy even though she knows you don't like him?
Dump her
>we're busy rn
It's already over.
so why the fuck does this shit thread has so many replies? It's obviously so fucking fake, stop replying to yourself OP you fucking faggot.
Good on him. It's kinda gay to have female friends unless you've fucked at some point otherwise it hurts my ego. All women must desire me.
She is cheating.. just leave her and walk away from that relationship.
I'll give you the benefit of the doubt that you aren't just some paranoid controlling freak. If her friend *actually* hates you (and you're not making that up or jumping to conclusions) and she's still seeing him, then she blatantly is choosing him over you already.
t. responded to the thread
kek'ing
>being this much of a huge faggot
>being this much of a nu nigger
>nobody ever gets cucked
Its normal to have opposite gender friends.
But if she talks like THAT she's fucking him. If he is a BEST BUDDY and they dont have any long history being friends, shes fucking him. Also "we're busy", holy shit lol
Yeah you sound insecure. I dont blame you though. Drop the fucking whore like the trash she is and save yourself the embarrassment
Women do have male friends, and it is definitely insecure of you to want her to not be with any of her male friends, but the way shes acting about it makes it obvious that you two arent compatible
It's unreasonable to tell a woman who she can and cannot see, you're not her father.
It's unreasonable to think your girlfriend is cheating on you for no fucking reason.
Having friends of the opposite gender is pretty normal, you can talk about boundaries to have with her (for example, not seeing her friends one on one, etc). But you ruined the relationship.
Leave or stay and get what you deserver but please don't make another trash tier thread like this when you find out for sure you're actually getting cucked
I can't get my girlfriend to make friends even if I try.
>ugh fuckk off
If you had any balls you'd know that the correct response to this would be "we're fucking over, eat shit"
This is either fake, or you're a giant pussy.
Begone FAGGOT, us straight men are out here trying to have actual long term relationships, we aren't just hounding for friends and flings. You wouldn't understand so fuck off.
>Its normal to have opposite gender friends.
hahahahahaha no
She has no respect for you and doesnt care if you break up with her, aka she isnt that into you. Its not normal unless she has something like bpd, and she will be cheating. I had a girl do this to me, so I starting hanging out with girls. This bothered her sooo much but she couldnt say anything. Then she made the rule that would couldnt hang out with them if they slept together. Ok, then I was accused that we had or they wanted too. Then she made the rule only if she was there or I was there when hanging out with the opposite sex. All this was over a week period but it was stupid I had to do it. Looking back I shouldve just ended it.
Of course this is backseat hindsight, but I can see underlying issues before that text session. The best thing you could of dont would be to make time for yourself.
If this guy really was an asshole, perhaps you could of kicked his ass when the time was right. She will cheat or be faithful whether you tell her to or not, but st the end of the day, all one can do is hope. She is her own person and its her choice if she wants to be a decent one or a piece of shit.
But, its looking like you should move on and learn from this misfortune, as mentioned by this user Sorry, user. I really am.
I see a seasoned gentleman
It is though. Rare maybe. I have quite a few female friends I have no interest in even when I'm single. Less than guy friends obviously though.
Most "guy friends" are beta orbiters though
10/10 post. Has to keep it separate from my las one out of sheer appreciation.
I usually try to share my shit life experiences here for the sake of countering blackpills, but this was something I could never find the proper words for until today. Honestly, I feel that I can progress in life now. Thank you.
fucking incredible shit here
c'mon, let her have male friends. People were meant to be free
This relationship is dead, user. If she wasnt fucking him already she certainly is now that you have her a reason.
Not OP. Tried this a plenty. She still took the side of the other guy citing how he wouldn't act out that way, it wasn't like him. In fact she was always in the defense of other men and never took my word on anything. Now she tells me we're over because of "abuse" and spends all her time with that and other male "friends" who did nothing but talk shit on both the relationship and me throughout the years.
>People were meant to be free
Not while in a relationship you whore
If she says they dont act out that way, and then when they do she doesn't acknowledge it or defend it.
Drop the roastie.
Of course even when in a relationship, you don't stop having friends just because you get a boyfriend.
It's reasonable to set boundaries together, it's unreasonable to think she needs your permission to do shit.
if this is real and not just a fake text then yur a cuck
>fuck off were busy right now
Drop her like a hot rock you're getting NTR'd
Women understand what men want and no matter what their motives and intentions may seem it's to fuck them. Every woman knows this and she's playing dumb she obviously doesn't care about you or your feelings.
>all of these fucking disgusting normalfaggots
oh muh insecurity, fucking neck yourself you dirty betas. When a guy is "friends" with a girl 99% of the time it's because he wants to fuck her and the otherv 1% he's a fucking faggot. Just because you reddit betas enjoy the idea of getting cucked doesn't mean OP has to enjoy it as well.
Dump the bitch and get the fuck off my board you dirty normalfaggot losers, and start lifting too. Get your testosterone up you fucking loser
Last gf tried this crap on me and having 1on1 hangout with her male friends. I kept telling her if you respected me and this relationship you wouldnt keep doing things you know I find disrespectful including argueing about it with me as if hanging with guys trying to fuck you is acceptable or respect worthy. Needless to say she thought she was gonna double down on it and I would like a beta chump take it and accept it. She was shocked as fuck when I said fine you wanna keep disrespecting me than you can do so without me in your life. She tried for awhile to get me back but eventually one of the just friends was her bf proving i was right in my concerns and dumping her for being a disrespectful no honor no loyalty whore. Good riddance to anyone that thinks their feels matter and yours can be mocked or disrespected and that's ok. It's never ok so move on and forget this joke a person you should be refering to as ex-gf
if john isn't a literal faggot, i'd be worried about him being her "best buddy". it's not unusual for a girl to have orbiters/"male friends", but she should be keeping them at a distance.
She is gaslighting you.
>having a gf with friends
The literal only people my gf ever interacts with are her immediate family. It's pretty great.
Lol you guys falling for this bait?
This is facebook tier shit
get off my board normalshitter dont you have some titties to be sucking?
>male friends online
That doesn't mean a damn thing in this circumstance. A guy can't put his dick inside you through the internet.
I>You should give her unwavering trust and be accepting of her choices. You trust her until she shows you she cant be trusted.
I tried doing this but I fuckin knew something was going on. Turns out I was right and she confessed to kissing her friend in the moment and I broke shit off with her.
So yeah, trust her but don't let your guard down.
>trusting women
Biggest mistake ever.
Listen OP I have been in more or less this exact situation. Gf wouldn't stop talking about this one guy friend of hers till I told her to stop. Surprise surprise, a friend of mine found out she had been doing things with him for a month. If this keeps up, DROP HER.
She broke up with me after being together for 8 years and instantly started spending all her time with those "just friends." I'm in mental ruin because the girl who I met all those years ago and spent many good years with was and still very much so is everything to me. My life has essentially lost all purpose in my eyes.
You need to find a new girlfriend right now, she literally told you to fuck off. Are you gonna take this disrespect, you cuck? You're a cuck if you stay with her, she can do whatever she wants and she knows it. it will tell the world you'd rather be a cuck and with a girl than have the fortitude to be single and have self-respect.
This is kind of a double edged sword here.
Back when I started dating my girlfriend (we've been together for 5 years now) she also had some guy friends I was sure were trying to fuck her.
I tormented her a lot until she just ghosted all of them and would only talk to me (I was extra controlling and possessive).
After a while I realized she never made guy friends again, and whenever a guy would talk to her, even for education, family or work related subjects, she got really defensive and awkward.
So I might have crippled her ability to communicate with men because of my actions, even though to be really honest, she never gave any of the guys I was angry about any sort of opening for anything.
Sometimes I regret that, and feel that I should have acted differently.
She has male acquaintances after that, but from what she tells me she can barely hold a conversation with a guy without him getting annoyed at her lack of responsiveness and backing off. Needless to say, she now has no male friends (and VERY few female ones too).
I feel like a dick.
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My gf has guy friends and i have girl friends. Most of her guy friends are gay tho, although one is definitely in love with her. I dont really care if they hang out desu because i trust my gf and i trust the guy
>Talk to girl and her bf
>He is an insecure cuck like OP
>He goes through her phone at night, and wakes up everybody in the house and cries to her mom
>She's told me she has wanted to fuck someone else just to spite him because he doubts her so much
>Yet he never tells her to stop talking to me despite the fact we trade nudes.
You need some fresh poon, man.
No one gives him the opportunity to FAGGOT
What happens when the girl tied to the poon isn't 1/10th as interesting and as in mental synch as we were? How do I cope with knowing I'll never have the girl I know for a fact I was destined to spend my entire life with. I don't want poon as gay as that sounds. I just want her because she was family to me.
Girls do not have male friends, they have FwB and orbiters.
There is not such thing as a platonic friendship.
how deluded do you have to be to think this relationship could last for over a week longer