Be me

>be me
>last semester of college
>take one in-person class, hoping this can be a last chance to make friends or meet ~a girl~
>get assigned groups first day of class, grouped in with a rag-tag patch of misfit incel looking guys after actively being rejected by a couple normie groups
>fuck everything
>skip a couple weeks
>find out 10/10 girl who missed first day of classed also got forced into our group
>get to know her over the semester
>we become friends slowly, start texting every day
>she's so my type it hurts
>one day she's late to class
>calls me frantic, asking for help
>she's being vague, we don't know eachother too well so I figure she wouldn't call me if it wasn't serious
>leave class, drive 20 minutes to pick her up
>she's drunk, totaled her car, dodged a DUI but very shook
>she immediately hugs me and slips under my arm, I hold her hand and walk her to my car
>take her home, smoke together and spend hours talking
>she is extremely grateful, thanks me legit a million times
>keep texting all day every day for the rest of the week. She's flirty, sends me cute pictures of her with her mom asking "Isn't my mom hot?"
>I do some digital stalking and find she has a 'boyfriend'. She had many chances to bring him up and never mentioned him, pretty sure she's talked about him with me before saying 'oh my friend xyz'
>if they were good together, why wouldn't she call him after her accident?
>Couple weeks pass of us talking every day, supposed to see her in class. She hasn't replied all day, this is unusual for how things have been the past month
>Doesn't show up to class. Hours turn to days, no reply no read
>two weeks pass. she hasn't been to class, she hasn't responded. finally a reply
>she sends me this
It really hurt me when she fell of the earth and ghosted me.
I don't know how I should reply to her or if I should even reply to her. I've gotten some great guidance here before, what would you say? I'd still marry the fuck out of her but I don't want to act beta

Attached: 2.png (1571x805, 132K)

>user doesn't take advantage of grl he likes when she is emotionally vunerable then gets mad when she moves past him

okay

Attached: 1315625368311.png (445x431, 11K)

I fucked up bad, huh? :(

Attached: 1543045060782.jpg (494x391, 75K)

>but I don't want to act beta

You already acted beta by not making a move when she first starting dropping flirty hints

The ship has sailed sorry user, do whatever you want

Attached: 1296481093751.png (210x230, 3K)

God bless, your perspective is valuable to me. Thanks for taking the time to reply!
Also, hope you have a happy holiday season

Attached: 1543076033089.png (1080x1333, 1.66M)

>if they were good together, why wouldn't she call him after her accident?
from the looks of it she did, but he didn't pick up for whatever reason

looks like she's got her own issues possibly depression and doesn't wanna bother other people with, so she isolates.
dude just ask her out for coffee

Tell her you've been sad too, maybe you can be sad together. Make up some trivial sad thing, get her to talk about why she is, make a move if it feels right. More than likely she's sad about her relationship, wanted to see if you notice her absence, then set up scene to have you take her. Just play along to her narrative, chicks dig that.

I hadn't thought of the isolation like that, thank you for deconstructing it for me even though she kinda explained it plainly too.

Thank you user ~

Attached: 1543028834531.gif (416x410, 876K)

Thanks bro, I was hoping for a response like this. I'll try this in an hour

Ah, the good ol' "I'm always here to talk if you need anything" line. I feel for you user, something similar recently happened to me