My dumb bitch therapist doesn't understand how hard dating is for men. Her advice to me was join Tinder...

Issa joke user. I didn't actually expect you to rape your therapist.

But I have a crush on her and also I like women therapists because I feel more comfortable with them. Also, I don't get a lot of female attention in my life and seeing her is like a bright spot in my week.

I know, I'm just playing the straight man.

>Tell her that you dont care about casual sex
It's not even about that. No guy that has trouble getting female attention in real life is going to get any action on Tinder. It's only for the top of men to get laid. That's what she doesn't understand.

Well if you feel comfortable with her why don't you tell her that. And if you don't feel comfortable telling her that then see a different one.

>going to college to tell men who are bad with girls to download tinder

Our conversation didn't end at her suggesting Tinder. I did tell her that it's not a good app for men and neither are all the thousands of dating apps/websites. She then told me dating is a numbers game blah blah and that she's sure that I'll find someone that is attracted to me and enjoys my company.

This being a "numers game" is such bullshit. I've been relatively active on several dating sites for about a year now and haven't gotten a single message back

My therapist suggested I ask a girl to the movies. Did so and got one to say yes and she ghosted me the day of.

Same therapist suggested I look at meetup.com

Nothing on there I'd like. Fuck therapists.

Just quit the therapy, easy.

No harm done

why do you seek guidance from someone doesnt know you and more inportantly doesnt care?

>female therapist
why would you expect a woman to have an inkling of what a man goes through with dating? they are two very different worlds, and women aren't going to understand any of it

>more inportantly doesnt care
This is what's been bothering me lately and I planned on talking about it in my next session. I wanted to ask her if she cared as a human or if it's just her job to care and why she decided to be a therapist. But also I realize that I can't really trust anything she says because no matter what it is her job to care.

>said yes
>ghosted on the scheduled day

Why the FUCK do they do this? Why?
Just say no and fuck off.

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Keeping an emotional distance is a baked-in part of the therapeutic experience. It's supposed to be like that; the point isn't to give you a new friend, it's to get your thoughts out of your head so they can be examined.

Whoa senpai its not like you have any other choice Grindr does have cute traps

Ask out other robot girls (males) fuck women

Yeah I understand that but she also does not keep an emotional distance. She is actually really emotional. She cries and tells me she really wants to help me. She says stuff like "Keep your happy thoughts and aspirations with me, I'll believe in them for you, I just need you to feel better". I think she's kind of new at being a therapist.

Its not good, I honestly expected Chad to get tons of matches but apparently not.

The amount of effort I had to put into swiping even as Chad was too much effort for me

Women are gay. I think that's it. Women are just all lesbians and they pretend to be straight. I think I figured it out.

Join tinder and keep telling her that you're being constantly rejected and it deepens your whatever. Which wil probably be true

I already did join tinder and I told her that and I told her I was constantly getting rejected and it was terrible for my mental health then she said this

if your therapist does not know the dynamics of dating in this generation, I doubt if she is an actual therapist.
A therapist needs to empathise with their patients. And that includes looking at things from the perspective of their patient. I doubt a middle aged roastie would even comprehend the hardships a non-chad male has to suffer , much less give therapy on such matters. Get a male therapist. Female therapists are lazy women who in their teens wanted an easy job and they have the female privilige of "women are good listeners !" meme.

Where do you get chad pics for that? I wanna try that out to get some free dopamine likes

>female therapist

Found your problem. I've seen multiple therapists and psychiatrists and the females were always awful. They cannot empathize with you. They did not have to work to achieve friendships or relationships. You won't get anything useful from them, just "lol bee urself and everything will just work out magically" platitudes.

>My therapist suggested I ask a girl to the movies
Whats the point of movie dates even? Unless you're going to get coffee/drinks afterwards, you're gonna be able to talk to her for like 5-10 minutes tops before/after the movie. And don't expect to go seeing kino either. Its flicks or movies at best. Atleast you don't have to sneak in through the falconry room to evade the "no singles"-policy

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they unironically think you might assault her over text

>therapist advising you to use tinder
not even an incel but literally fire her

Show her the original vid of this. It's down in the related/recommended section.

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actually it's common for therapists to visit other therapists, it's a part of the job

liko to oj?
youtu.be/fp8flaHWO9k
cant find the oj