How many of you can identify with this feel...

How many of you can identify with this feel. I'm standing in the middle of my family thanksgiving party and I realize that all of my male nephews and cousins have pretty wives or girlfriends. Some of these men are short, some are kind of ugly. None of them make a lot of money, they are all blue collar guys. What do they all have in common? They are all normal Joes. It strikes me that the reason I'm alone isn't anything physical but rather it's my personality. I'm hideously uncomfortable around so many people even though they are family. I have one hell of a time making small talk, even with people I have known all their lives. Oh my god, I have a defective personality. I know, I know, how did I not know this before now.

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had the same realization going to an anime convention and seeing plenty of less conventionally attractive people with qt cosplay gfs

the reality is that lonelyness is a personality traits, not a state of being and there is absolutely no cure at all
you were made this way through childhood experiences which can not be taken back

have fun

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>loneliness is a personality trait, not a state of being
Oh fuck

bro you just got to work at it, is just like any skill: you practice it, yoh become good at it. I started where I could not talk to people watching them in their eyes and now I make friends with complete strangers and I don't creep them out doing some cringy stuff. I still have problems with talking clearly sometimes but I'm not on the "he's weird" point anymore

i cannot consider any story like this a success, you simply repressed your true self

>been asked out by 3 girls
>nothing after first date for any of them
>the weeb i got lunch with even told me to my face i was a weirdo
is this the ultimate blackpill?

same here OP
i never got a girlfriend because i thought my parents would get mad at me for liking girls
i feel so stupid
i deserve to die alone

sounds like shyness and insecurity. sexually successful men are sometimes overwhelmingly attractive, but are often shamelessly persistent and have no fear of rejection. you have to think of approaching women like a video game with infinite re-spawns - if you get rejected, you can always try again

there was a guy who i went to high school with, fat and unpopular, who got laid a lot because he would send literally any and every girl in our school messages, like the cliche "you're beautiful," on facebook. probably most girls ignored him. some may have lashed out. but if he mass messaged 100 girls in a week, he might get a couple in a moment of weakness or in the exactly right mood to fuck. bam. a lot of them were hot

I am a 21st century monk. I am in full retreat of mainstream society. I exist nowhere. I am nobody. I blend in, having the outward appearance of a normal person. In reality, my mind is delving deeper and deeper within itself. I didn't choose this life, it chose me.

>I exist nowhere. I am nobody.
does this mean you're a sovcit or just stateless?

>sovcit
I wish such a thing were possible. No, I am a phantom. You may see me walking the streets late at night. More than likely you won't. I am seen only when I want to be. I am heard only when I want to be. I exist only when it is beneficial. Living in a city has its advantages. So many people to blend into. I am free.

yes. true blackpill.
To get a girl you don't need to be Chad, you just need to be average Joe, but you aren't even that and you won't be because your personality is already formed and you will be repulsive wierdo for a rest of your life.

>if you get rejected, you can always try again
Not applicable, you PUA twit.
For some of us the is no infinite respawn only a steady getting more emotionally damaged by that shit.

Why not get a BF off of Grindr? The place is robot friendly and filled with NEETS actual robots and the lot, it would be better then being alone and you could boost your confidence by holding conversations and getting fucked

you gotta be kidding me
you resort to strangers fucking in the ass because you are lonely

Wait so your parents wanted you to be gay?

Why not? Its also better then being alone and a virgin user

Nice larping faggots. I never see that in real life. I always see more attractive men with ugly girls.

Not him but I made a account last night on Grindr to do this I have nothing to lose that and I want to stick my dick in a warm hole or get sucked off

I wouldn't let a robot fuck my boipucci but I would have zero problem fucking theirs at this point

keep living in your fantasy you fucking retard, it doesn't matter eitherway because both physical attractiveness and personality aren't fixable. just one stems from genetics purely and the other from upbringing too

>getting fucked in the ass
>not a virgin
if you're not the one fucking, you're still a virgin.
i fucked a sissy but i lost my erection multiple times before i finally came. pretty crap experience, no way in hell i'd be able to cum with anyone not CDing.

Not him but did you let the sissy stick it in your boiholes?

If you're not gay or bi, good luck. Even watching gay porn for months can't prepare you for a man's ass. Chances are your dick will shrivel up as soon as he takes off his pants.
I'm bi but I still felt humiliated the first time I went to meet a guy and couldn't get it up. The third time I was able to get it up but I lost it, only on my fourth time was I able to finish.

i offered because i felt pretty bad but he said he only liked receiving

Not going to deny it happens but only very rarely do I see ugly guys with attractive girls. My Chad friend was dating ugly girls and he is more attractive.

Imagine unironically thinking being short, not the most handsome, or not making a lot of money means you're not able of getting a woman to love and love you.
jeez Louis.

I'm one of 2 or 3 men under 30 in my family so I'll never know this feel. I come from a very feminine family.

I plan on getting drunk and watching straight porn while he blows me I'm not attracted to men so if I can stay hard i should be able to finish

Are you feminine? Sounds pretty hot

it doesn't? women are disgusted by fat men and poor men.

No, I'm not. faggot. Neither are the men in my family. One of them just got out of prison.

Well women are gold diggers by nature because of human reproduction. Women have the babies so they need to be taken care of and their children.

>family gatherings
>thanksgiving
I can't at all. I can't really compare myself to my family members, because in reality I don't know anything about them. Nothing at all. I saw them like 2-3 times in my life a long time ago.

If you're just getting blown, that would probably work. Just tell him you're straight and don't care to get romantic. Be up front. But if you expect to be able to fuck a guy, straight porn probably won't be enough to keep you going. (Don't be afraid to ask though.)

Every generation of my family has had a single male failure in the last 50 years. My great uncle died single at 48 from throat cancer and my uncle died from cirrhosis at 43. I have the feeling I'm next. My whole family is fucked and I feel like we are cursed.

>iknowthatfeel.jpg
Yeah, this is pretty much me. I'll be 32 in less than a month. I've never had a single romantic interaction with a member of the opposite sex. Ever. In the current year with the whole #metoo climate, there's no way any series of attempts by someone as awkward, clueless and ugly as me doesn't end with a prison sentence. At this point, I'm doomed to a life of solitude.

for my family there's only been one male per generation that reproduced while the rest turned into complete failures at life. My brother's already got kids.

This. Even, if by some infinitesimally minute chance that unicorns roamed the earth and I managed to find a gf, I'd be spending 100% of my time crafting and playing out a fake personal. Bee urself, my ass.

I'm sure that worked out well for him in 2010. It's the current year now, he'd be dragged off to the gulag now for regret rape.

The same for me. Anono when are you going to have a gf? Fuck off im not ugly but I am mad as fuck and nobody likes me

Not him, but you're both wrong. You're not changing your personality, you're just changing your mode of expression.

I bet both of you can be very social and communicative in social settings where you feel very comfortable. Getting over your social anxiety is actually about learning to be your "true self" in any social setting.

>I bet both of you can be very social and communicative in social settings where you feel very comfortable. Getting over your social anxiety is actually about learning to be your "true self" in any social setting.
You don't know the depths of my ineptitude, user. Even in such "comfortable" situations, I end up spilling the spaghetti and saying dumb shit.

>tfw no /fa/ cute blonde girlfriend
why even life

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lmao
>they think they can't change their personality because of their childhood and adolescence

hahahahahahahahaha. imagine giving all your power away to shit that happened in the past. so fucking weaksauce.

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