Lonely female thread.
Please don't ask the exhibits for contact information.
>roommate invites me to church
>says there are a ton of well to do boys with futures
>cute and clean too
>okay fine
>there are like 50 girls there
>only a few boys and they're all tied down
I don't believe any of this. Haven't been to church since I was like 9 though. Excluding funerals though but that doesn't count.
>Lonely female
Literally impossible. Go to a coffee shop and even if you're a 3/10 some fucking guy will strike up a convo with you, vittu.
that's not loneliness. artificially limiting your dating pool isn't loneliness
Just a reminder: your dating pool is who is willing to date YOU, not who you are willing to date.
the only person I talk to is extremely abusive pedophilic sociopath because noone else would keep talking to me and I can't leave him because I'm so lonely. I also have schizophrenia, PTSD and autism because of which noone likes my bitter personality. That's not even the end. I'm also fat.
"some guy" won't do.
Just go date a drooling retard, or you can't claim to be lonely. See how retarded you are?
I'd happily date a Downie, but they run away crying when I enter a room.
Bullshit, go shitpost elsewhere, troll
>I'm also fat.
I used to be kinda fat. Thank god I'm not. Fat girls are barely even human beings to most men.
This though. I want the right guy, not just any guy. I'm untouched, why just ruin that?
I think I figured out why you're so lonely and bitter towards women.
>the absolute state of rosties
"i-i swear im just as lonley as you guys! it's SOOO hard that chad down the street with his 800k job won't ask me out"
God is a lie and 3d women are even more bullshit
just because I'm an edgy incel doesn't mean shit, you probably WISH you could date me
l-louis?
>"some guy" won't do.
reminder: your dating pool is who is willing to date YOU, not who you are willing to date.
ITT: unsuccessful gold diggers larp as loners for betabuxs
When did this board get so many chicks, I thought this was the incel board.
LIAR LIAR LIAR I've been in different churches and girls in the 18-25 range are a rare sight.
>hurr, if you won't date the first guy you come across you cannot be lonely, durr
You're such an idiot
I'm not really all that experienced with churches. I wonder if the type of church makes a difference.
Is there a drooling retard who is both willing to date me and capable of consent? As long as they're a kind person I want to make them happy. I doubt they exist though.
I am not Louis. You confused me for someone.
I think I'm around 5/10, no guy that I don't already know has ever randomly struck up a convo with me. And I'm too autistic to do it myself.
you wont find orbiters here, get the fuck out roastie
Female here need help, what to wear to increase the chances of getting approached?
I already told people to not ask for contact so I clearly don't want orbiters.
Probably something to show off your butt if that's what's good about you or your boobs if that's what's good about you. You know how men work.
You know there is people like that, you just don't want them because you are a hypocritical bastard
Is it possible to attract men while still dressing somewhat conservatively?
My boobs are average a little on the small side, my butt is also average though How do you know what's good about yourself?
of course taking into account not tk overdo it and dress like a fake slut
Like the other user said just wear whatever accentuates your tits or ass. If you have neither or if neither is a standout try to go for something classier. Wearing a dress and some non obnoxious jewelry is good, some nice perfume helps as well. Although, as far as attracting a specific type of guy clothing cant help too much. It may help a bit but due to the fact that youre a woman and wont approach guys you have to deal with what you are offered.
I mean I dress conservatively and I made this thread so.
You know what your good features are. You didn't learn how to show yourself off?
threadly reminder that women are inhuman empathy impaired soulless psychopaths
>Fat girls are barely even human beings to most men.
Wrong. Most people don't view other people as human beings. It's just most guys aren't willing to fake being nice to manipulate a fat girl into getting pumped and dumped.
>I'm untouched, why just ruin that?
Oh, you're touched alright. Touched in the head, why else would you be posting here. Anyway, go back to posting on crystal cafe, that site needs the userbase and you'll never be accepted by the people that make this board genuinely interesting so fuck off.
Not all, only the vapid ones. Same goes for men. Blaming all your issues on women is seriously brainlet tier.
That might be the case, which church type did OP go to?
It was a baptist church. Everyone there was either still living at home or attending a few local christian universities.
Honestly at risk of shitting up your thread, I'm not being a hypocrite. I don't know how to approach women at all. I'm lonely because I'm incompetent and fear rejection, not because I won't date some frumpy fembot. For that matter, I'd prefer someone like that. It's much easier to relate.
Not that I was the original faggot you were replying to, but I'll stop shitting up the thread now.
No one will have me because I'm fat. That and mentally ill. If a girl was nice then I'd happily approach but I am not appealing to anyone.
im a guy and i have no clue how it works, but some girls know how to wear clothes that show off what they have in a non-slut way. it's hard to explain, but they do it in a way that gives us a little taste of what their body looks like
and you're unable to understand you skank
but nothing new there
you're just another thot that complains about not beeing courted by 30 diffrent 23y/o millionairs
>only the vapid ones
literally every single woman on planet earth is vapid.
Not an argument. You are just a raging incel at this point, typical
Dress in a good sweater, look sweet, maybe tightish jeans. Unless you just want Chads, then yeah wear basically nothing.
I know some who aren't. See how easy it is to make a statement with no evidence? Stop blaming other people for your issues you incel.
>You are just a raging incel at this point, typical
you literally might as well have added
>fufufufu
to the end of your post lmao. Anyway not that person but it's definitely a valid point that women have a much easier time with dating then men.
>femanon thread
>"it's not for attentionwhoring though guys so please don't contactfag"
>proceeds to larp as Christ-tard
nah
Having an easier time =/= finding a decent partner
Just because it is easier for girls to attract attention does not mean they get the attention from the guy they would fit most.
You can't actually believe OP is female.
ILL BELIEVE WHAT I WANT
ITS REAL TO ME
I think it's because a good body just looks good in any kind of clothes. If I wear a normal sweatshirt, it won't look nearly as good as it would on a girl with normal/big tits.
There are cute girls who date big guys, it's not a secret. Truth is you probably don't even put in any effort to find someone
so put pads in your bra and trick us
>Lonely female thread.
Hahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahha
ITT: male bots projecting their insecurity and failure to adequately present themselves to any girls due to cowardice
i see its that time of the month
I'm at least an 8/10 and I am lonely because I'm extremely picky with my guys and must be heavily emotionally invested before anything escalates. not all of us want to get split open by a random chad like a disposable cum dumpster.
>lonely female
>but don't ask to talk to me and help me be less lonely
you fuckin wot m8
>a drooling retard
that what roasties think of you unless you are Chad lookwise and making at least 6 figures
I do go out of my way but I think it has to do with the country I live in. I might have a better chance in america. The bipolar thing tends to be a turn off though.
Why dont you try online dating instead of church hopping just a tip
>Having an easier time =/= finding a decent partner
Yes it does because....
>Just because it is easier for girls to attract attention does not mean they get the attention from the guy they would fit most.
Look, I know the difference and it's still implied they have an easier time. It's possible to sign up for a dating site, black list all incoming messages and YOU put a slight amount of effort into finding decent looking guys to message and talk with, find out if it's would be a good idea to go on a date and do it.
I understand girls get literally flooded with so much shitty pathetic desperate male attention but it doesn't mean you're a helpless baby retard because of it! Get creative about it and no going to those minimal lengths to find the right guy is NOT the same length of effort guys have to go through to compete with other guys and get female attention.
Um, don't you know that you just HAVE to spread your legs to the first guy you meet, otherwise, HOW CAN YOU BE LONELY *gasp*
Not him, but maybe T or P?
>youre a woman and wont approach guys
Srsly fuck these stereotypes. There are many guys out there who rate personality higher than your looks or that are just too shy or not paying enough attention to approach you.
There are several girls with whom I either became friends or had a relationship, which approached me.
So have a look who might be interesting, start chatting with some stupid question and if there's a connection, it will go from itself. Also if he's interested in you, he'll try to keep the conversation going once it started instead of friendly answering and then minding his own business again. However, might take 2 - 3 questions. Body language is also a good indicator, but if he wasn't even able to approach you, he might be too socially awkward to show the according body language.
>>but don't ask to talk to me and help me be less lonely
There are a large number of people who enjoy self-pity. There's a reason that the idiomatic expression used most often in this context is "wallow in" self-pity. They literally drench themselves in it and luxuriate in it like it's a hot tub.
That type of person isn't saying "Woe is me, I'm lonely!" because they don't want to be lonely any more. They're saying it to deliberately coax themselves down into a state of self-pity, so they can wallow.
That's why these "fembots" *hate* it when someone asks them for contact info in their "woe is me" thread. It's interfering with their wallowing.
Men do this too, not just women. With women it's just exposed easier and faster, that's all.
1% of guys I meet are not offputting.
0.01% do I actually feel like I'd want to go out of my way to see them again. it really isn't as easy as people make it out to be, not for those of us with standards and who want a dedicated and fulfilling relationship with someone.
Thing is it isn't even just about looks. Yes, appearances matters, for both men and women, but nobody wants a Ken doll to marry and have kids with. So many guys get frustrated about dating because they look at these supposed Brads and Chads and think that is how they need to look and behave, but it really isn't because those guys only attract dumb, slutty girls. The girls you guys want seriously feel intimidated by the Chad type and would, and often do settle for more average looking guys with great, caring personalities. Problem is society today encourage girls to look up to those slutty types and think they have to act like them, too.
You can dislike the stereotype but it exists for a reason. Girls dont approach guys because they are deathly afraid of rejection. Guys dont like it either but they are at least more so conditioned to accept it. A girl approaching a guy and getting rejected is like death for a girl. Besides that a girl likes to be an object of desire she wants to be wanted. I wish more girls would approach guys but the reality is it just wont happen.
.t sociopath who doesn't get it
>it really isn't as easy as people make it out to be, not for those of us with standards
That's exactly the point being made against you, though - that your difficulty is entirely self-inflicted because you're vain and think you're better than 99.99% of the men in your dating pool.
That's *your* number.
>99% of women I meant aren't worthless twits. And 99.99% of them aren't worth my time.
If a guy said that, what would you conclude about him.
Well, they probably won't go to someone and tell him into his face that he's the guy of their dreams but rather start a convo to see if there's interest and then let him take the lead. Just my experience so far.
>your difficulty is entirely self-inflicted because you're vain and think you're better
>Not wanting shit men means you are vain
who hurt you, seriously
lol fuck that's sorta creepy, I actually think I'm dealing with that issue. What am I suppose to do about it make myself look dumpy? I just have a chad face and resting bitch face for pictures. I only ever act authentic to myself though and I'm definitely eccentric.
And I should have clarified better, what I meant when I said "decent looking guy" I meant the whole picture, his profile, how he talked, his interests. If all those things seem decent to you then genuinely put in the effort to have a decent conversation and see how it goes.
Something that accentuates the physical traits that are your most attractive, without coming off as too slutty. That will scare away the boys, because you will be out of their league
Which part of what I said wasn't true?
Do you dispute that there are people who enjoy self-pity?
If you feel 99.99% of guys are shitty, it might just be you.
>>Not wanting shit men means you are vain
Thinking 99.99% of men are beneath you means you are vain, yes. How can this even be beyond dispute?
Its a possibility that that could happen but it still does basically show that the girl is into said guy. A girl wouldnt just talk to a random guy out of nowhere without being at least a little interested in him.
Although that could be confusing for a guy depending on how she approaches and the context of the situation. Like I was at a grocery store yesterday and the cashier that was my age asked me if I had an inuyasha shirt. I told her no it was yu yu hakusho and she was like oh ok cool. Obviously I didnt take it for more than her just being curious about my shirt cause it had like a lowkey anime design. There is the possibilty she was interested in me but I dont assume anyone in retail or service jobs gives a fuck about a customer beyond a sale.
Fat girls are human beings to me, but they are physically unattractive, so I would never go out of my way to approach one. Helping one out because they are my friend? No problem though. The sooner you accept that women have attractive body parts, which studies show both men AND women notice first rather than the whole person, the sooner you can get over the reeee why are men so shallow mentality.
Chances are you aren't Chad at all. Biggest indicator, in fact, that you are not Chad is thinking you are yourself. If other people indicate it, then there maybe something to it.
Anyway, nothing wrong with a cute guy who acts a bit eccentric, nothing to be afraid of. A girl would rather have an interesting guy than a good looking guy who has zero personality or traits.
>If all those things seem decent to you then genuinely put in the effort to have a decent conversation and see how it goes.
Easier said than done, user. Not here for no reason. Only ever met one guy who was literally perfect and he was taken, which is apparently always the case..
By the way, her math is just completely stupid. 1 in 10000 is good enough. If I count every person I know I won't reach 5000 despite the fact that I've been somehow much around and even further, that number is without selection of age, sex...
>If other people indicate it, then there maybe something to it.
They do. It's literally infinitely easier for me to date an 8/10 stacy than my ideal type of girl. And I don't think of myself as chad, I just have a decent face, socially I can be decently charismatic/funny but that's pretty much the limit on my chad qualities.
Honestly don't you think there is a possibility you're being a little close minded? I get what it's like to not click with some one right off the bat and then getting the motivation to talk with them more in the future is almost completely not existent. But people have off days, you have to keep in mind that maybe you or them weren't just in the mood and it wasn't lucky. Not saying go out of your way to force something to work I'm just saying don't be so intense when it comes to being picky.
There is no such thing as a "lonely female"
Go fuck yourselves
Riight, because we can summarily solve our loneliness by dating wonderful gentlemen like yourselves, right?
>Yeah I have many friends and guys hit on me every time, but can't you see I am still lonely?
you only met one guy who was >literally perfect?
>and he was taken?
Come on, that whole attitude is bullshit. Seriously, I don't care what you look like. When I talk to a woman, I listen very, very carefully. I bet if I talked to you one on one, it would probably feel like pulling teeth and I'd get so bored I'd just give up.
But wait, you deserve a literally perfect man. Be honest, what is the most recent interesting thing you've done or said?
You don't know what being lonely even feels like, your life is a constant stream of compliments and good company. And all posts itt confirms this,
>Waah I am so lonely!
>Well just leave your house and guys will hit on you
>NOO! I don't want them! I am so lonely waaaah
You are like a baby.
>Be women
>Everything in life is handed to you, from social life to food and shelter
>Still find a way to bitch and whine about life
inb4 this basic bitch never answers me.
Post your pee bottles
this is your brain on incel
Well if someone's working in the third sector they have to be nice to you. However, cashiers don't need more than a fake smile at most. You already decided to buy it, she doesn't need to fake any more interest.
How about trying to figure out if she was just nice or interested?
Gonna give some low-level tips if you want so, if not then not.
Exactly, Plain Jane consider Average Joe to be a subhuman, similar to retards.
Return to cuckbook and stay there roastie bitch
>what is the most recent interesting thing you've done or said?
not him but what the fuck kind of autistic question is that. why don't you try answering it yourself?
>you only met one guy who was >literally perfect?
Why is that so difficult to believe? I am sure you have come across some girl that was perfect for you in your eyes.
>Come on, that whole attitude is bullshit
What, should I have wrecked a relationship instead? I don't know what you are getting at with this attitude of your own.
Why wouldn't you want the perfect partner for yourself, why sabotage your own happiness rather than searching earnestly for someone who will fulfill you? Are you taking your own life advise? Have you already settled for some girl who, when you talk to her, feels like pulling teeth? No? Anyway, you are free to stop chatting if you're so bored, I don't particularly care if I live up to your idea of being interesting.
I was considering going back next week with a different anime related shirt and seeing if shes working. Maybe go to her line and see of she talks to me again.
Lose some weight if you are fat.
So the only perfect guy you ever met was already in a relationship? Maybe, just maybe that's what improved him from good to perfect. Therefore you have to either steal some girls bf or find a good guy and put some work into it. It's your decision, I'm neither one of your parents nor your conscience.
i honestly wouldn't know where fembots could meet good guys. the guys at my brother's church are all shit. the guys in my school department are all shit. the guys my sisters are dating are all shit.
the only quality guys i've met were in student government at my school and they probably have really high standards.
(not her) That sort of thing isn't always about pickiness, sometimes it's having a hard time relating to anyone. I'm autistic and someone either has to have a very interesting personality and decent conversational skills or I can't care about them. Anyone else is tolerable at best.