lets say i hypothetically had a GF how do i make her blush and possibly make her obsess over me would obviously be looks match
Lets say i hypothetically had a GF how do i make her blush and possibly make her obsess over me would obviously be...
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more emphasis on the make her blush and make her squeal (in happiness) than other
>do cute sincere dates like walks in parks, or something like that
>doesn't need to be lots of money as long as you clearly express your feelings behind it
>be affectionate and take care of her
>if you're giving gifts, price doesn't matter as long as you express your feelings with it / show you're doing it out of love
>if you want the obsession thing, girls tend to blow up once they're in a relationship.
>keep looksmaxxing and staying fit, and she'll cling to you out of desperation op
putting emotion behind things is important women crave emotion it's essentially their fuel putting emotion behind the gifts given is a great idea and being more caring and genuine with dates was pretty smart
>girls tend to blow up once they're in a relationship
explain?
>lookmaxxing and staying Jow Forums
OFC fasting as we speak
OP here i actually posted a thread yesterdayon learning to lower my standards not that my standards are high but if i am HAPPY with lower standards why not be that way life will be easier if i can love someone with lower standards and still feel happiness why shouldn't i?
any advice on how to lower standards?
>blow up = get thiccer.
also, based Jow Forums poster. lowering standards is easier if you tend to view the relationship as something like a hobby, or treat the girl essentially like a pet
>girls react positively to being treated like pets
>not in a condescending way, but they love praise, affection, attention and semi unconditional love
talking to them lowkey like pets works too.
>verbalizing praise for small things
>compliments often, but only if they're sincere
>essentially, try to make her want to please you by saying stuff like
>'oh it makes me really happy when you dress up' / 'i really love when you dress up for me'
>'i'm so happy you always take good care of your figure, i know you'll never let yourself go'
>compliment her / pavlov her with affection when she does things you like
>give complete absence of emotion if they do something you dislike. easy peasy
like negging, but with praise basically
>gets in relation ship
>BUBWUBUH
>gf gets thicc
wtf
otherwise good info tho based poster
not every girl gets thicc in a relationship, but a lot do. girl i'm currently dating i met in the gym, so we workout together. generally speaking, if you date a chubby girl expect her to get chubbier. if you date a fat girl, expect her to go full landwhale. if they think they've got you on lock, they'll let themselves go and become disgusting. let her know in subtle ways that you'll immediately leave her if she becomes a landwhale.
>looksmatch
don't
just wait for an ugly girl to hit on you
oh yeah makes sense i though you meant like giant fucking ass and thighs although not unwelcome sounded off
this makes sense tho and thx good advice too
also i really want a GF who can be open with me and i mean OPEN how do i make her comfortable around me? i know that showing her things you take interest in and taking the risk of being judged for your interests and hobby's shows her that it's safe to share emotions and interests with each other but i might need other advice
okay so first of all
>love her dearly and PLEASE treat her right
if shes upset about something, make sure to be patient with her and provide comfort. girls tend to push others away when theyre upset, but having someone who is stubborn about not leaving is really... really nice.. she will appreciate it enough
>find out what type of affection she likes and absolutely shower her in it
>be sure to show interest in her and dont ever stop (ex: check up on how she is often, ask how her day went, make talk centering around HER)
>if she gives to you, please give back to her (be it physical gifts or anything else)
>if you fight, maybe give it some time but ALWAYS come back and talk things out and comfort her
of course, it should be a two way street and she should treat you as well as you treat her.. dont settle for a shitty girl, anons! please make sure she is happy and you are too !
you can't really "make" her feel comfortable, but taking steps like making her feel secure every time she shares something, even if its something small or that you secretly think is dumb will make her more likely to open up to you in the future with more in depth / complicated topics like past trauma etc.
sharing interests is a good place to start, and initially keep it mildly normie tier, with small hinting at more weeb shit. if she reacts badly to the hints, you'll know not to reveal more. if she reacts positively, you'll know to open up a bit more too.
share stuff about yourself too, but things that initially won't hurt you too much if you reveal it. if you create the illusion of yourself being completely open with her about all your secrets, she'll likely reciprocate because she'll assume that you'll share something back
>if she does, share something too, but always something a little more weaksauce in terms of emotional blackmail material
>that way you're always the one supporting her and validating her feelings rather than the other way around
>i.e. be a strong person she can lean on for support, to make her dependent on you
This was very obviously written by a girl.
I kept looking for the old woman optical illusion in your picture but it wasn't there.
tits or gtfo
tru
>love her dearly
OFC
>what type of affection
how would i figure this out wise user
summary but
>giving affection and often
oh yeah of course i plan on trying my hardest to make her happy and long term as well relationships are an eternal bond that will always be the center of my life and im glad that it will be
based. yeah good point never over do it
yes i agree. now give me pussy
make her feel super special and important don't talk or tweet about how hot you think other women are :)))
yeah i honestly agree with this i mean i dont use social media and i really want to hug her a lot
is it fucked up that i have a minor fantasy about having a gf be really sad because she thinks i dont love her and then i reassure her but then she wants me to make her pregnant just to prove it for the commitment to her and obviously i do (how bad is this?)
what about how hot other guys are tho
also the :)) kind of implys that this a exact scenario happened to you and im assuming it did?
Is this real? Are there women interested in this? Or is the point of this post that you resent him?
Rule broken!
>Don't ask for something unless you are reasonably sure you'll get it.
It's real,
and it's also hard as fuck to actually implement
pic absolutely related
this is great advice if your goal is to make her go cheat on you with chad
thanks for snapping me out of fucking nice guy mode almost lost me if i fucking shower her she'll realize im worthless
Im going to believe there are people like you out in the world
Believing people like that are out there greatly increases the chances that you will find them.
this is what worked for me.
>in bed:
Treat her like a cumslut, fuck her right, gow down on her. Make her cum at least 3 times any time you have sexual relations.
>Out of bed:
Be fun, be nice and tender but most important, be the man.
But well... do the best you can bro and try to be happy.
i would orgasm stay in and just continue until it started hurting physically just breed her and hold her close and its like its a race to orgasm first
but out of bed i would hug her a lot always want her close
>how do I pet an abused dog with rabies
LOL
LOL THAT'S WHAT THIS THREAD SOUNDS LIKE YOU STUPID FUCKING SON'S OF BITCHES
LITTLE FAGGOT BITCH
MURDER-SUICIDE
You obviously want to support her. That's not bad. As long as you don't end up sabotaging your partners so you can help them, that fantasy is fine.