Did I ascend, can someone explain what happened?
>be me
>meet with girl for some time
>sex happened few times
>be yesterday
>girl invites to a dinner out
>don't really want to go cause autist but say ok
>mid-dinner
>the topic if official or not springs up
>says she doesn't want to date but wants to keep being friends with extras
>say I don't want that
>girl looks at me dumbfounded
>say dating or nothing
>girl starts sobbing and weeping at the fucking dinnertable like she's starring in a romantic movie
>don't really know what to do cause autist so remain unaffected
>sobbingly asks if we can at least stay friends
>redflag.jpg
>say no
>tell her I'm leaving
>leave without a second thought
>be today
>6 missed phonecalls 26 texts
>block her number
>feel the most powerful I felt in my entire life
I feel like I could wrestle a bear into submission right now, what's going on?
Did I ascend, can someone explain what happened?
>be me
>meet with girl for some time
>sex happened few times
Well there's your problem. Now fuck off.
well done OP. She just wanted a standard issue beta orbiter. Someone to drive her around or feed her after she has been dicked by chad.
She acted like gf material, don't judge me.
Are you the same bottom feeder from the last thread who I congratulated?
No the problem is that you aren't a virgin yet you're still coming here
I'm glad that you decided to flex on her like that though, shit's alpha. You must have given her that GOOD good she actin' like that. You've done nothing wrong, so take pride in your decision.
I may not be a virgin, but I'm still dead inside, I'm still autistic in most social situations.
everyone is dead inside. You acted like a man. Now go and enjoy the spoils of your victory. Fuck her good and make her swallow it.
Probably not, haven't posted here in a few days.
I don't want her anymore, also if you didn't read the greentext, I deleted her contacts, I unironically feel like lifting right now.
Congrats I guess, everybody starts somewhere. I personally prefer to gather up a nice harem and avoid a proper relationship. Different strokes.
Good.Keep climbing up autistic user.I wish you the best climbing out of this abyss.
Uhhh friends with benefits is the best option, why would you throw that away? There's literally no obligations and you can have several on the go at one time. I get that you got a cool alpha feeling but you just stopped any further opportunity of sex. Fucking "friends" is what chad does. It's a dream for a girl to suggest that, usually you have to be the one to. Autism
pretty based and good on you for making clear what you want, good luck for the future
but also LEAVE THIS FUCKING BOARD ALREADY YOU FUCKING CHAD NOW NOW NOW REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
Because she could hook up with others and so could I, I enjoyed being comfy with her, not a pump machine.
I don't think the Chad boost is permanent user, all things considered I'm still a major loser, I just learned to hide it, this is my sanctuary.
>I enjoyed being comfy with her
Thats what friends with benefits is mang, like with mine every month or two we get together, talk about our lives and cuddle, eat some food, watch a movie, bone and then spoon to sleep. Then she leaves in the morning and I don't see her again till next time. It's like the top bit of the muffin every time. It's not some unemotional transactional thing, it's more like having a GF but in intermittent bursts.
Denying women is one of the most highest T things you can do. Now fuck off normalnigger.
I don't think I'd like that, it's like using a public toilet.
>T things
wat?
Testo
otiginalo
We're not talking about a gloryhole here. This is a person that you like enough and they like you enough for it to be worth it. Obviously if you didn't care for each other at all you wouldn't sleep with them again after the first time, that's a one night stand. You liked fucking them the first time didn't you? Why wouldn't you keep liking them if they're a nice person? I'm probably not talking to the OP though (or someone who has had sex)
>that you like enough
But here's the problem, I don't like her in a way that I'd be ok with fwb.
that's fine then. I feel like the name is a bit misleading because you tend not to behave toward each other like you would with a good friend. Ideally the feeling of responsibility should be very light, like you wish them well but their life isn't really impacting yours too much. I will say that the first few times you have sex with someone may not be indicative of the potential. I have a fwb where the sex wasn't super exciting the first 3 times (partly because we didn't have feelings for each other obviously) but once the trust is established it has the potential to be really great
Unironicall great. You have reached a higher level and are a bit closer to God. When you are judged this will be accounted for .
You have grown and become stronger in the saga of your life.
I mean sex is fun yeah, I just wanted something to connect with it.
You did perfectly well. Fuck her!
dear diary,
today i was proud of user
You don't know what ascension means you stupid faggot, fuck off
lol you talk like a fag
short stoic sentences, very Chad
Life will have a lot of gifts to offer to you. Godspeed.
yeah a fag that gets girls. actually i'm just really tired and should be in bed rather than wasting my life online. have you ever had friends with benefits?
>Unironically suggesting to share a girl with others.
And this is how you get stds.
Every time you have a one night stand you're potentially 'sharing a girl with others'. The only time you're not is if you're in a strictly monogamous relationship. I always use protection because I'm not stupid. Although I'm fairly sure she's not sleeping with anyone else at the moment, but I wouldn't care if she was.
nah, but OP makes reasonable points. I don't like the idea of using pair bonding to just watch TV and stuff. I've had one gf though, we talk still once in a while but I wouldn't want sex again since passion has gone.
sry I called you a fag, you seem genuine
I suppose the mentality is different. You win her over in a one night stand versus keeping her around when fwb.
fwb is literally having a fuckdoll. If I liked my fwb I'd pursue dating and stop fucking others.
did you pay? or did you leave her with the bill
That's the thing, upto that point she was datematerial for me and quite frankly I don't feel like sharing someone who I have romantic interests for.
She invited me out, thus she would be obligated to pay in any case. She probably took a cab home or sucked someones dick for a free ride, none of my business.
No it isn't she could search for better person and she she find it she will stop fucking with OP. Then he will be just wasting time because because she will avoid sex with him and only use him as emotional tampon.
Ex tried to be fwb with me while she started to seeing someone other. After 5 days I realized it and cut all contacts. OP saved like month of life.
>No it isn't she could search for better person and she she find it she will stop fucking with OP. Then he will be just wasting time because because she will avoid sex with him and only use him as emotional tampon.
Can confirm, wish i could've realized that earlier
t. became tampon for 4 months