Do you guys have friends?

>begin transitioning
>lose all friends

I talk to my body pillow and drink a lot of alcohol ;_;

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I don't have friends, but I do have a girlfriend
It's kind of a difficult situation 'cause she has lots of friends

I have never really had a true friend besides my childhood friend. She passed away from a heart tumor when we were 6/7 years old. All the friends I had after that were "friends". You know, the kind where you're all cool and there's no drama, but they'll never see you as the friend you see them. I couldn't fall on any of them and no one noticed when I vanished from the state without word. I had a "best friend" for nearly 3 years, but she never saw me as her best friend, despite me being there all the time for her in every day. It was almost like I was just there to fill the void of silence from all her absentee friends. She always saw the one chick (that I had met like 4 times in 3 years because she had a kid) as her best friend. So, no matter that I was there like every day for her for almost 3 years (and this other chick only knew her for like 1.5 years before me). Not to mention her mom didn't like me for some reason and always made me feel like an asshole loser. I never understood why since I was nothing but nice to her. She told me that she didn't think my life was going anywhere and I was holding her daughter back, so I left them both in my dust and, 1.5 years later, I now have a brand new 2018 car, a new house in a great neighborhood, and a real best friend that I plan on marrying.

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>murder
jfc. how.

how does she look at you. Isn't that a giant red flag for women no disrespect intended

In the line of duty. Major American city with a crime rate like Detroit's.

are you actually a trans person with dysphoria or just a autogynophile freak

Nah. I don't bother initiating conversations with people online or make plans to hang out so the only time I had friends was in education where I had to see them every day. Plus I have nothing to say when I'm hanging out IRL so why would they want to bother making time for the robot when they can hang out with their normie friends instead.

nah. absolutely nada
never had a best friend either.

A couple, but they have been losing interest in keeping in contact with me.

Friends are the key in starting your own family, family is nice and all but you can't exactly start your own with your mom or sister

Had shit friends all my life. I was the group therapist, on call when they needed something but only if they needed something.
Met new people, they are friends of my boyfriend. He knows how to pick them. They are the best people I have ever known. Better than most of my family

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I've talked to a few people online for a while if that counts, doesn't last long though, haven't had a person I'd call a genuine friend in my life though for just under 10 years now.

If you consider it a silver lining, people with a fetish will jump to befriend you.

Does it bother you to spend all the summers alone not talking to IRL people for months at a time?

I lost all of them when I was 12. Can't even speak properly because of the lack of social interactions.

Not the many and I'm not that close to them. But I would say there are people who consider me a friend yes.

How do you define a friend.

I'm mask my autism to a point where I can shoot the shit and make smalltalk with anyone around me.

But are there actually people in my life who i care about and who care about me?
I dunno

Of course not, maybe I'm so used to being alone that I've lost whatever drive normies have to seek out social interaction. I can have plenty of fun by myself walking through nature in summer or playing videogames. I like the quiet and solitude and independence. I would be happy if I was the only person upon this earth.

families are shit and for fags
fuck yourself normie

Teach me small talk please Its the only thing that's stopping me from becoming normie.

I thought I didn't and nobody cared... but I just got invited to a housewarming party.
I don't have the energy or will to go.
I'm starting to realise that my lonliness is all my own fault... I get chances to go out and see people and I either don't go or make excuses every single time.

If I have friends now, I won't do soon if I don't actually try.

People fuckin' love to talk about themselves. Almost always.

Just feign interest in whatever inane bullshit they use to justify their petty existence and ask a load of follow up questions. people will love you for it.

No. Not even online friends.

I have one e-friend

only friends from work that I see outside of work sometimes
I also lie to them that I have normal friends in my neighborhood but I lived here for 10 years and don't know anybody

Yeah, I am with you man. Shcizoid pd is a blessing in some ways but a curse in others

Like two but I only talk to them at work.
>reason why i cant be a NEET

just go my dude they invited you therefore they want to have you around. I was in your shoes once

No. I've had internet friends in the past but they all ghost eventually.

no. haven't had any for years. never had any online. i just lurk usually .

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I'll be anyone's internet friend.
Regardless of how fucked up
or how mundane
you are.

Yes, few close friends that I've known for 6+ years. Love them very much.
Besides them, my social life is 0

>asks you to pretend to be a woman
No, thanks.

>even wanting to be friends with a male
Why?

I have a bf although i've never had a friend

Be my original fren pls

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she's mad in love.
I guess she likes a loner

Not really.
By the end of your mid twenties everyone is either married or getting married and has kids. They have their own little bubbles they stay in, their own worlds. The rest of us get to rot as alcoholics or we just kill ourselves.

Same, really. Right around the time hipster faggotry started I isolated myself in a dark room, back when you had to get anime through torrents.

Used to be lonely from very early , i had a best friend in primary, he started bullying me for no reason and one day pushed me down a hill, destroyed my confidence that was already low because everyone was kinda mean to me except a few, had no friends in middle school except the last years 2 of it, made another best friend but then highschool started and i was alone again(he kinda left me) for the first year of it (had a "Friend" but was just a Guy i already knew) then the 2nd year came and i made a very good friend, probably the best one and friended 3 grills who are friends with each other, 2 years later i still have them, theyre my longuest lasting friends and i Hope they stay because theyre the only ones, im shit socially so having few but very close Friends is very good for me, but the more time goes on the more i wish i had a gf to eventually marry

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Not a one, amigo

yeah but i don't really like hanging out with them

i moved away and now nobody is asking to hang out with me

it's nice, i don't know why, but i prefer it this way

i had friends in high school but once i graduated i never spoke to them again

same with uni, honestly

what causes a person to be this way? i can't remember a time where i actually wanted to hang out with someone...

i'll be your friend in an original way

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Stross#5548
Be my friend

>tfw just said bye to a (female) friend who has been distant for a year after being the most amazing person to me in my life

No friends here. Not really too concerned about it.

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No and anyone who does needs to go back to facebook.

>you can't exactly start your own with your mom or sister
But you literally can.

At this point they are just family. My mother claims all 4 of them. So not really

I think I had some when I was younger, but I'm probably too much of a piece of shit for people to put up with for very long.

Yuno posters are all friends of mine.

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I managed to make a few last year. Two of them in particular are very dear to me

Not anymore, I'm too old to make friends now.

:(

Can I be your friend user?
I recently started transitioning too but I didn't have any friends beforehand

>No. I've had internet friends in the past but they all ghost eventually.
Can you please explain this to me, why does this happen? I just want someone to talk to about anything and everything.

I recently bought the D&D starter set, never played before, I got a character sheet all made but nobody to play with

I have 2 good e-friends. One I've known for 5 years, the other I met some months ago. I have some other people on my Steam friendslist that I used to play games with years ago but we drifted apart and we just occasionally chit-chat for a couple minutes a few times a year.
No real life friends at all. Haven't had any since primary school.

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How to get e-friends?

Nope. I have old friends from going up but none since I moved 2.5 years ago

they moved, one would cockblock me going out so i would play video games with his brother. another friend would come whenever he wants to. he has problems he quit his job for some reason.

why not simply kys?

I met both of them through online vidya. I don't know if it's the best place to actively look for friends though because typically most players are really young. Also a lot of people just don't pay any mind to most people they play against. I just sort of lucked out really.

same it's been proven spending just 48 hours alone can cause permenent damage. That's why prisoners who've been in solitary almost always come out worse then they were before

yeah kinda but i dont meet them outside work.
and inb4 i know they are friends and this is not coping

I have people to hang out with and nothing more. I'm not even really sure what to expect with friends, I've never really had anyone that I'm able to talk openly with about personal issues and I get the impression that no one I know does either, difference is they don't need that in their lives.

I learned how to pick good friends too late and now I'm fucked for it

You can't talk to N. P. C.s. They just fill up space with token phrases and as soon as you bring up a legitimate topic they won't know what to do and revert to their original programmed responses.

Haven't had any for years, I've got a (long distance) gf, so that's something I guess

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>48 hours alone can cause permanent damage
Not necessarily, 48 hours of total isolation involving no stimulation, and now knowledge of time.

yes in some ways, but they date back at most 2 years and as soon as I am physically away the contact crumbles almost instantly. I feel like I'm more of a burden to then and they just accept me out of pity.

No and I will never have anymore friends because they're a waste of time. I punched every single one of my friends in the face and blocked them out of my life. They didn't like The Godfather, so I had to teach them a lesson.

No.
I'm almost done with uni too, so if i become a NEET i won't even talk to anyone anymore besides my parents

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Do you want to be my friends anons?

I sort of have friends I guess, there are people that I could hang out with but no one really ask me to hang out with them so I usually don't, I wouldn't really consider that a proper friendship

>but family stays forever
Wrong. My only friends were my brother and cousin, and my brother turned into a mentally ill faggot and my cousin got addicted to heroin.

yeaaah you go yourself

No consequences, basically. Ignoring someone irl is actually difficult and makes you feel bad (because it is). Blocking someone means you can just not think about their suffering

had
but because of insecurity
i lost them
it's fine tho i don't care about it now

Yes, only because of this one guy I met my freshman year of high school. That was also when Black Ops 2 came out so we bonded super hard over that game. The summer after freshman year we did nothing but play Call of Duty day and night. One of the best times of my life hands down. He introduced me to the rest of my friends since he's not a fucking autist like me.
Even when I went into a major depressive episode this last year and tried to cut everyone off to isolate myself, he basically forced me stay friends with everyone. Without him I probably wouldn't have any friends and never would have any again for the rest of my life. I don't even think he realize how good of a friend he's been to me.

How to get invited to parties with no friends?

I thought I did but my fantasies just made it seem that way.

One good friend for three years.
she's the best but I feel like I disappoint her, and to be quite honest I don't think she see's me as a friend.

it's hard to trust people or believe their word.
though I do care about her despite my paranoia

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I have a very few friends, they tend to be socialites with a thousand friends and they're always far more important to me than I am to them.

I haven't had a best friend since I was in 1st grade, I went into homeschool after that and we drifted apart and I never really developed my socialization skills through childhood as a result of the homeschooling. I wasn't in a crazy cult or anything, I just wanted to sit at home all day and read books/play with Legos/whatever instead of socialize and my parents allowed me to.

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had a few friends in hs. They either became chad, dropped out, or developed closer friends though hobbies I wasn't a part of.
Finishing in uni soon and the entire time I've been here I've completely isolated myself. My social skills have completely atrophied. I'd be too scared to find friends at this point anyway lest they discover how pathetic I am.
thx for reading my blog

That's an awful moment realizing that you have no friends and wondering where they all went.

No, I used to but nowadays I'm too insecure/anxious and I don't open up to people which just makes them leave me after a while. Don't have a single online friend either.

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I had this same issue and she always wanted me to meet her friends so we broke up. have you met hers?

not even one in my entire life

discord servers

Nope, I had friends but my ex tried to fuck them and instead of dealing with the drama I just ghosted them all. My last friend just had a baby and is too busy now, I'll find some new peeps eventually though.

You probably lost your friends because you're autistic and annoying and that was the last straw for keeping you around.

if you're failing at making friends in uni you're just fucked honestly.