Question for anons that lost their virginity past 21 years old

it may sound like a larp but i actually gained a lot of self confidence from it. nothing went anywhere with that girl but things just clicked for me afterwards when i went to the club or a party. before, i was so confused at how to approach girls and was scared i was misreading signs. after, i could just kinda tell if girls were into me or not. looking back it was pretty obvious before as well but i just had so little experience and confidence i just shrugged them off. other experiences were fine, it still took me a few girls to really get halfway decent at fucking but i just told them it had been a really long time for me and they didnt really say anything. helps that i was also drunk for most if not all of my early endeavors and the girls were as well
thanks? for the sentiment but no thanks lol ive come to terms with being a late bloomer

I nearly lost mine at 19, and now Im still a virgin at 21- Browse help a virgin out, give advice for the first time, especially fucking wise. How should I move?

>Get a job at some of those international hotels or national parks where you live in dorms with coworkers
>Dont creep out the bitch hoes
>Get laid

This is how i lost it at age24 but got filed for harassment, got ganged and beat by 3 orbiters and got fired lel

I'm 26 years old, I lost my virginity one year ago when I was 25 years old, I was drunk, I was drinking with a guy that I met in a public course for work in electricity repairs, we were drinking under a bridge for like 3 hours, just beers, then we got out of alcohol, and decided to go to a liquor store that's next to a park, there we bought vodka and start to drink in the public park, it was a thursday in the night, so there was almost no one in there, only a group of old guys drinking that we later join to have a few drinks. My memory get hazy after this point, we somehow end up drinking in the house of one of this older guys, he had a niece that was about, 17 years old, can't even remember her name, after smoking some weed with the girl, my friend tried to seduce her, she didn't like my friend at all, I was really drunk at the moment so, I approached her, end up kissing with her after offering(obligating) her enough whisky, then when the old guys were all pass out, we go to one of the rooms and I just kinda fucked her without a condom and without a care, then we friend joined, she didn't want to have sex with him, but he was my friend so I somewhat convinced her, it all end up in a threesome, I wasn't able to cum even once.

The next day I woke up early and got the fuck out there, took me a while to realize where i was, after that I never spoke with my friend again of this.

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give me advice sensei, what did you learn about fucking? I_m really afraid of having a shitty first time, because here nearly everyone knows each other >_>

I was 24 with a prostitute. She was clearly repulsed by me, which made it an unenjoyable experience. I was disappointed by the sensation of penetration. She said I was hurting her a couple of times. I struggled to ejaculate by jacking off on her back while thinking about a girl from high school.

That was my fear but I stopped giving a shit after I realized that I still fucked. A lot of chads are bad at sex as well because they don't really care about the girls pleasure.

lol iktf. well some things i wish i knew for my first time would be to trim pubes and clean your dick a little beforehand. i didnt trim my pubes for most of my life because i was the only person seeing it and it was a huge fucking bush lol you dont have to shave but using some scissors to manscape is good. also since its likely the girl will go down on you, be sure to wash your junk beforehand. if you are both drunk or high or whatever and its heat of the moment it may be hard but try and find an excuse. this also helps the girl clean herself down there too since you can just ask if she wants to go first or whatever. ive never gone down on awfully stinky pussy but have made questionable choices. clean pussy is a lot nicer and i personally enjoy going down. also going down is much easier than i thought. you dont need super technique just lick around, im sure youve googled the clit by now, and when she makes noises or squirms, you know youre at a good spot. as for actually piv do your best to stay in. i know that sounds retarded and maybe its because im 'only' 6 inches but i slipped out a lot during my first few times because i kept going all the way out and it ruined the mood. dont make tiny pumps but work your way up to it. going deep is usually more enjoyable for the girl anyways so go as deep as you can and pull out slowly until you can figure out when to stop so youre still in but can thrust back as much as you can. also kiss/suck girls necks and shoulders and ears they love that shit

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I was on this app called whisper complaining about being a 23 year old virgin. 16 year old messages me and not a week later we're in a hotel room and fucked for 4 hours (foreplay included plus messing around, told me she liked being hit so I slapped her around some and she was legit dripping) then slept for 3 hours and fucked for 3 hours again the next morning.

Then I went for a long walk that night because I felt amazing.

I er... Didn't come is why I lasted so long. The first time I came in her was after like 20 mins

I raped an unconscious woman at a party

6 inches is above average bruh, but yeah is that shit really easy, should I not overthink it? Will I have 100% a shitty time, or can I be somewhat decent? Ty bro, I started lifting too/ I first wanna start with bodyweight

Damn, I really should have fucked when I had the chance

i wouldnt call having good sex easy but first times are so different for everyone that i have a hard time giving advice. the stuff i listed here is pretty rookie sex advice but its hard to even put that into play your first time if you are nervous so just do your best to have a good time and play it by ear. would def recommend going down on them though, really easy to get a girl wet/to cum with your tongue. good luck with your weight loss/fitness progress man, hope it goes well. its really a world of difference to be thin/fit

thx man, you're such a bro. I'm gettign started late, but better late than never.
I just have anxiety of sex, because of my age you know. I am afraid that at my age, 21, everyone fucked already and that they woul judge my performance.

no prob user, only wish i could do more since i know exactly how that feels. keep at it and take steps forward one day you can look back on your anxiety and smile after getting over it. im not sure how i feel about being honest to your partners about your virginity desu because while i feel honesty is always the best, i lied my ass off and just told everyone i wasnt a virgin/everyone just assumed it and i let them think so. if youre like me you can just play it off by saying its been a while since you had sex if you nut too quick and that you really like her/think shes really hot and came quicker than you wanted. usually that makes them feel pretty good and you can go again

aight thx. I'll prolly focus on working out for now, sothat I can get my life a lil bit in order. I'm in uni, but don't like going out, occasionally meet up with people, but mostly neet away. I wanna learn an instrument and work out, later become good at lacrosse

I lost mine when I was 21. I was getting pretty desperate, so I went on OK Cupid and started talking to literally any female no matter what they looked like. I ended up matching and messaging with a fat gross girl who was still in college. After messaging for a couple of days we went to see a movie together (I don't even remember what movie it was). We made out in my van, but we did not have sex on that first night. (In hindsight she probably would have if I had just asked her. We were both too nervous and inexperienced to push it further). Instead, she wrote her address on a scrap of paper and gave it to me.

A couple of days later I went over to hang out at her place. She lived in an apartment and had two roommates that went to the same college as her. I met her roommates briefly, and then they left to go get dinner or something. We then started making out on her bed. We both got naked after a few minutes and we tried to do it missionary style. However, due to her fat distribution and the lights being off, it was difficult to find the hole. So, she climbed on top of me and rode me for about 15 seconds until I came.

The whole experience was quiet and awkward. We talked in bed next to each other for an hour or so, and then I left. 1/2

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try to go to parties more often. itll be uncomfortable but forcing yourself to go will help. pregame with your friends before you go and dont get stupidly drunk so you can try to flirt. anyways good luck again user, we're all gonna make it

yikes, cringe, and everything else that goes with it

I stopped drinking, cuz of meditation and working out. Yeah I'll try however
, thx

It took a year of being on tinder, but at 23 I found an asian chick who wanted to play video games together and then she invited me over after a couple weeks of online chatting. It was my first kiss and all but I definitely lied about being a virgin and went the fake it till you make it route. Even if it was obvious to her, it at least let me act more confident.

Yes, yes. Tell me more oregano.

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she prolly consented, because she didn't wake up

Next week, we went bowling at a run down bowling alley and then got dinner. We went back to her place again and her roommates were there again, but this time they did not leave. We all talked as a group for 30 minutes or so; then my "girlfriend" and I went to her room. We started making out again and she started taking off her pants. I remember being hesitant and saying "Your roommates are going to hear us...". However, she insisted on having sex. (In hindsight, she probably wanted her roommates to hear her having sex loudly through the walls.) I lasted slightly longer this time, but it was still no more than 30 seconds. I remember her saying "Really...?..." in a disappointed tone after I told her that I had already came. That comment hurt my sexual confidence for a while after that. In the future, I would turn down several women who were trying to seduce me because I was afraid that I would disappoint them sexually.

Two days after the "Really...?" incident, we were in her bed again. This time, I could not get an erection at all. She tried rubbing her breasts on it and sucking it, but nothing worked. I told her, "We don't have to have sex tonight". She laid down next to me and we talked for a few minutes; then she started crying. Obviously it was because she was too unattractive to get me hard, so I tried to deflect the issue and console her as best I could. After she stopped crying I left in the night, saying that I had work in the morning. That very next morning I broke up with her over text message. I have never spoken to her again. 2/2

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I know dude. It was rough, but things have gotten way better now. I learned how to control my stamina, use foreplay, make things hot and interesting, etc. I am way less awkward now (at 27) than I was when I was 21.

Are you swedish by any chance? oreganalio

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Swede user did nothing wrong

lost my virginity at 18 suck it nerds

As if it wasn't painfully obvious enough the people who make fun of robots are just above loser themselves

Interesting story, thank you for sharing.

Lost mine at 21, i always had the idea that my first time had to be special so i blew off a few girls before 21. But when my crush of 2 years went back to her ex i felt like a loser 21 year old virgin. So i texted this girl who i met on world of warcraft to fuck because i knew she would say yes. Met her in a diffrent city, we smoked some joints and then things got handsy. She was really hot with D cup tits, skinny and a good ass. But i couldnt get an errection (???). We were laying down in bed and she wanted to go on top. But my dick was not hard enough, did it without a condom too because my dick was too soft to get it on.Then we switched to missionary and i got a semi hard one. We had sex for like 1 minute before i came it was pretty embarrasing. She was very understanding tho, but she did not know i was a virigin. At 23 i have had a relationship of 8 months and fucked 2 diffrent girls. So theres always hope!.

21 y/o virgin here, I've been so close a few times in the past. Three times, the gates of Valhalla were opened to me. And three times I failed. Well, probably more than 3 but you catch my drift.

I just always find a way to fuck it up, either through my own ignorance and stupidity or simply by circumstances just not being right. Chances to redeem myself come along so infrequently that when they are there I straight up don't know how to handle them.

Is it me? Is it just the simple fact that I'm a virgin what's stopping me from changing that?

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Lost it at 21. I just went on tinder at a pretty large anime convention. There are actually a lot of average weeb chicks looking to spend romantic time with dorks. I'm tall, fit, and clean, so I was a step above most of the dudes there. I think that kind of thing only works if you've put at least a small amount of effort into your appearance. But my autism didn't stop me at all. I remember the girl being really awkward and weird, so she probably wasn't that shocked at how I acted.

megakeks

HAHAHAH, do robots actually tell themselves this? I constantly think back to all the girls I shagged in high school and college, less so about my career at PwC lmao. At least admit to yourself that you're a loser, that level of cope is just sad

Anons, why do women act nicer to you when you acted annoyed by them and uncaring?

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