You'll never be the bf in this story

or you just aren't deciding to look and therefore you aren't getting a girlfriend.

Been there done that, literally cried in my ex-gf's chest because she wouldn't have sex with me (as someone who had just climbed out of robothood i had issues, and guess what! She also had them, so she wouldn't have sex with me no matter what)
Then we broke up because i felt she didn't love me/wasn't attracted to me and having a gf but remaining an incel nonetheless was fucking me up psychologically because i felt worthless and inadequate. She thinks i just wanted her to be my sexual toy though and hates me now, it's sad because we never got to understand each other's issues, nor tried to help each other overcome them.

I'm in so much pain. It keeps getting worse. Someone please help me.

>I will never cry again
I am absolutely okay with this.

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If you cry Infront of a woman shell lose respect for you and leave you. Unless youve got a really good reason

I think if you haven't buried any sort of emotional fragility by age 10 at the latest you are embarrassing

Did this happen to you? I don't think this will be original

I'm not wrong and yes it happened to me. She didn't leave me in an instant but she grew after that episode and ended up cheating on me, then I broke up with her when I caught her.

wow i would've knifed the bitch to death

i was that crybaby on my gf's huge voluptuous tits one fateful day years ago... she said she'd never leave, that she loved me and wanted to be with me forever. that she wanted to marry, that she wanted to have my children. that she wanted to drop it all and go get married now. go buy the ring she kept saying. and i didn't do it. 2 years later she broke up with me and after 2 years of dating she was dating someone else within the same week we broke up. women are not human my friends, they don't feel a thing.

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She got pregnant by the guy, ended up with an autistic son, and ballooned up to like 250 pounds. I'd say I dodged a bullet t b h.

feel like ill never be with a female (male), and honestly id rather not.

Sometimes karma does exist

Well why didn't you buy the ring

like thats how it should be, if it were supposed to be any other way it would've been that way already.

Fuck you. Fuck everyone who says I don't try. I literally got rejected by some girl like a week and a half ago. Trust me I fucking try shit just doesn't go my way

ive been that guy in several scenarios it's a key element of my character that i establish with girls who want to sleep with me

>and i didn't do it. 2 years later she broke up with me
Not trying to play devil's advocate or anything as thots should burn in hell, but didn't she just run out of patience/feel that you weren't serious enough so she couldn't expect stability from you, then ran away to choke on someone else's cock?

>just doesn't go my way
and why doesn't it go your way? even if it doesn't then don't give up. i don't know how old you are but you can still have time, its not inevitable unless you're like 50 years old or something along those lines.

I was young, stupid. Thought she was the first of many. There's something that happens to you when you believe a girl loves you. Anxiety and depression melts away. You have been accepted and you're not worried about the future, you just want to exist in the present. I was 20 years old and I had a beautiful woman. I was dumb and naive, if I could go back in time I probably wouldn't do it anyway, she was an airhead, dumb bimbo type. Would've left me no matter what I did

So she said she loved you and wanted to marry you, you said no and then she stayed with you for two more years? user you are the bad guy here, not her.

Where do people find gfs? Like me for example

-I have a part time job that i dont like but its all i could find

-i go to from home to work and then back home

-don't go out otherwise

-i have no friends

-still live with my parents

Like where do i even get a gf?

>user how about we get married
>lol no way fag
>thinks you're afraid of commitment
>surprised she leaves you
I'm sorry user, but this is seriously your fault at this point. She got sick of waiting. There's no excuse for you.

Her plan was "buy me a ring" and then we'll move to California with no money and no degrees, and try to live there, in one of the most expensive areas of the country. Meanwhile I was working an amazingly easy job where I got to play Oldschool Runescape 8 hours a day and get paid 15$ an hour for it. It was not a realistic proposition. I was only 20 years old, I thought I had my whole life ahead of me and I thought she would stay with me until it made more sense for us to actually get married. I was 20 and she was 19.

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Im gonna be honest user, i think you fucked up. Should at least gotten married. Would have been better than being an r9k autist.

>Crying in front of your woman

You should've known better nigga

Peak denialism, you're the biggest kind of cuck there is.

'I like it when you hold me?' what small time.

>Have lazy eye
>Felt awful about it my whole life
>Finally get gf
>She looks into my eyes one time when we're in bed
>She calls my eyes beautiful without being prompted
>She's the first person ever to have done that in my life including family
>Turn into a wreck

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>Would've left me no matter what I did
mmmmmmmmm, You seem retarded so this might be true.

>Guys, I know it was love but I was making $15/hr and playing Runescape, c'mon
Jesus fucking Christ user, I'm sitting here with my head in my hands dude, god damn.

That's really sweet.
did it work out for you guys?

>buying_gf.jpg

We're 4 months in and going strong. Someday in the future I will get surgery and I don't think I'll ever trust the affections and attentions of another girl. Most would say 'I would've still loved you the way you were beforehand' and I don't believe them because only one person has loved me the way I am now; her.

Nobody will be the bf in this story because women aren't that nurturing or sympathetic towards men in real life and it's made up.

Here's hoping some of us bots can make it, eh?

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>lazy eye
Could be worse, i know a japanese manlet who is quite popular among girls, dunno if he actually gets any pussy though. Godspeed, user.

Im fucking 20 and Ive never had a gf. Been rejected all 4 years of high school and just got rejected last week by another girl. And as for Tinder, i don't want a tinder gf since tinder is only for whores. I banged one girl but still I just want a gf not some whore

How do I get passed the crippling fear that if I insinuiate I want sex with some tinder thot that our conversation won't get screenshotted and posted to some private Facebook group which shames men and put them into a group kin to the untouchables of India? This is my biggest fear.

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On the contrary, the issue is that they feel too much. All they do is feel, and so they have no sense of permanence or loyalty or commitment. The moment they stop feeling a certain way they can and they will disregard everything they might have said or done up until that point and capriciously chase their next feeling like a dog off its leash. They have no capacity for distancing themselves from their feelings and being logical about their decisions because they've never had to experience emotional compromise in any real sense of the term. They just feel, fall in love, feel, leave, feel, fuck, feel, fall in love, feel, feel, feel, die. They're the living embodiment of chaos.

I have never been religious at all in my entire life, but this post right here has made me a firm believer that there is some higher being watching over the world.

Well thought out and presented. Based and redpilled.

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>Been rejected all 4 years of high school and just got rejected last week by another girl.
high school doesn't matter imo. even if you did have a gf in high school the probability of you guys actually staying together would be low anyways.
> i don't want a tinder gf since tinder is only for whores. I banged one girl but still I just want a gf not some whore
you could always try meeting a girl through hobbies or even just by going out. i can't give you the best options since i've never been in a relationship either and plus i'm gay so.

Pretty straight, for starters

It's sad, really. They're like children. They have a dim awareness of consequences and higher reasoning and how much control their wild, weak emotions hold over them, but they're just too powerless against pussy tingles and feefees to resist once they come a-knocking. Just look at how self-aware some of those Tumblr and Twitter memes are -- they know they're morons, but they just can't help themselves.

there's no difference
at some point you just decide to stop looking like an ass in front of everyone so you just fuck off and do your own thing. fear of rejection turns into total acceptance of failure. ditch hope. it's dead weight

alright so you want to die and not giving your all in life. that's fine but don't go complain to others about how you failed to do something when you didn't decide to try enough. it's fine even if you're useless right now. as long as you keep looking towards the future, i'm sure a day will come when you'll find your worth and decide to start to try again.

Might as well just stop trying, it's true. If the sentimental garbage normies spout is accurate, then I'll probably just stumble into a relationship while not even looking for one, right? hahaha

dipshits

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M8 don't be a cunt to him. Look where you are. If you don't want to hear about
>tfw no gf
maybe don't open a
>tfw no gf
thread on fucking r9k.

you made the right choice user. 20 is far too young

20 is too young for a man to get married anyway

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i never said directly that i cared about other anons specific anons that complain about no gf, though obviously it is annoying and brings nothing to the board but then again its the identity of the board of being a robot though nowadays most people that post here are either redditfags or normalfags and true robots are the like 5%. you missed the whole point of what i was saying and you just nitpicked out that out of what i said.

>tfw in toxic relationship

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don't you have a r9gay thread you should be posting in?

I never gave a fuck. I just asked for a hookup immediately

To be told a lie you've heard many times already is one thing, but a lie of this calibre isn't often told quite like this. I'd get really mad if I were the dude in that story.

no because there's nothing going on worthy of posting anyways. i like helping people.

Had an intense dream last night
>know this girl at uni with a mommy body
>dream that I was in the middle of having sex with her
>pull off her sweat pants and say "god you're so pretty"
>lick from her pussy all the way up her back
>actually taste the salty sweat
>flip her over and about to put ween in her
>she turns into an xbox controller
>wake up blueballed
Every fucking time too, I never get to fuck the dream girls anymore.

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Makes me want to die. Luckily things have been pretty good for me lately so I'm temporarily immunized to it.

>she turns into an xbox controller
I fucking LOST it!

well hell. if it makes you feel any better i'm only giving up on pursuing relationships and instead working on myself. and i would like to think i've been doing okay recently, but apparently not well enough to be out of r9k

they probably already broke up a long time ago desu

Orininally thankful.

Femanon and this post turned me on instantly. I want to make a humble man feel secure enough to crumble in front of me, just to hold him and build up his self esteem stronger every day.

Do you ever wish you could feel so chaotic? Their extremes are further than your own, perhaps it makes life feel that much more vivid.

You'd be a very small minority if that's the case
Godspeed femanon

well that would probably be a reason why relationships wasn't working in the first place. i mean if you cant love yourself how can you love another person

I have a strong attraction to juxtaposition. Something about a man being able to show his unfiltered emotions around me makes me fucking diamonds, for some reason. A rowdy obnoxious guy, or a humble silent man relinquishing his boundaries and fully sharing his emotions with me is like the ultimate bond.

One of my co-workers told me to ask out another co-worker yesterday, one whom I've suspected of being into me for a little while, and I guess my other coworker sensed it too. I'm too indecisive to do anything though, and I've got eyes for someone else (that has a bf)

I'd say go for it. It's kinda shitty to say buggers can't be choosers, but you never know, you may fall for her.

my dad tried to kill himself because of me when I was 14 and I am 6'4 skelly, would you go out with me?

yes dear, I don't see how those qualities would ever make you undeserving of love and affection. I want to hold your body close to mine, creating warmth between us and kissing your neck and collarbone.

You deserve to be loved, and feel vulnerable.

Accepted it at this point.
Don't really care desu.

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Nobody has ever loved me because Im retarded and emotionless. I would also like to kiss you.

Well put, user
Women certainly "feel"
Quite a bit
However, the strength and volatility of their emotions can easily overcome any potential rational evaluation of the event to the point that their emotionally-influenced responses ironically end up affecting their emotions even more negatively
To get more stereotypical, they crave emotional extremes, high or low, which is why we witness the love for "drama" among women