What is the most hurtful thing a woman has ever said to you irl?
What is the most hurtful thing a woman has ever said to you irl?
The last time I remember a woman truly hurting me is when my ex got sick of me e-stalking her and sent me a message saying "if you try and contact me again I'll fucking kill you" or something along those lines. I booted up Saints Row 3 and jumped off the apartment tower after I saw that, and it was the most cathartic video game suicide I've ever done.
Made me take a long hard look at my life.
I remember this fat girl defended me. She got pissed off at another person I don't even remember why but she said "Don't speak to user like that"
She was my manager and I'm pretty sure she didn't feel that way with me but it made me feel really comfy for some reason. It made me feel human
>Hey user? What about you, do you have a gf? Hahaha I was joking :) Just look at you.
If my mother counts it'd be "If I know that you'll be the person you are today, I'd have choke you to death when you were a baby."
It still hurts me but I wish she'd do that back then if she knew.
my first gf i got sexual with broke up with me after 6 months bc she didn't like the size of my dick.
it actually went like this:
~ gf sucked my dick for the first time
~ next weekend she does it again under covers.
~ I feel her doing something weird trying to fit the whole thing in and then i felt her trying to measure the part that didn't fit in her mouth
~ next week we have a fight and she said " and you think your dick is normal???? "
~ 1 week later we break up
that hurt pretty bad I didn't dare to take a new gf for 4 years. Then I had 2 new girlfriends shortly after eachtother, one was a virgin we didn't stick together long because I really didn't like her at all. she didn't mind my dick..
I then had some courage again from that and shortly was with another woman but I broke it off with her too, she actually wanted a relationship but I don't know what happend
I still feel insecure about my dick regularly.. eventhough i know its average.
ps dik is ~14 cm
Wish I have had a different first girl friend cause I really misbsed out on a good relatinoship or two because of my insecurities I got after that ho left...
after me she had a new bf 1 month later, she broke up with him 3 months later, I guess she found out there's worse than me, she then had a new bf she stick with for another few month, then someone for 2 years, then someone new rn...
tl;dr : my first gf implied my dick was small while its more like average, that hurt me a lot, later girls were okay but I know im not big and im insecure about it still.
tfw 26 y/o
"Nah, I couldn't date you, I'd probably get bored of you."
>Only fear is that people will get bored of my existence
It hurt more and more for like 3 hours until I got the peace of sleeping off that pain, but the memory stays.
It's more what they don't say that hurts
>be me years ago, 16 y/o
>really insecure but finally find the courage to ask a girl out
>she gives me "the stare" (pic very much related)
>turns around and walks away without saying anything
>feel like shit for days
>I see you as one of the girls
by my oneitis
>my oneitis in middleschool straight up calling me ugly and no one ever wants to date me
first time ever being called ugly
or
>Kid in highschool class infront of me turns randomly around on a random day mid way through the school year and says "You are one of the ugliest mother fuckers I have ever seen"they tries to cover it up by saying he has tourettes
Which I know it isn't true because if he did that isn't what would happen.
>"Well maybe that is all you are, just a suicidal alcoholic"
truth hurts I guess. It didnt even make me angry, it just made me feel sad. She was also the only friend I ever made while in university so theres that
*in a fight
''dude it's not even big, I've had MUCH better remember my ex
And by the way I'm 6 inches so I'm not even small but I thought I was kind of thick so I used to be cocky about it
I hope you broke up with her, for your sake
Yeah I did. Not soon enough because I was a naive beta.
A girl from our social circle was like ''what the fuck? it's not small at all, you're BIG!'' in an enthusiastic voice
I'm like what
and she goes
''jen said you're small but it's pretty big''
that second was part asian though
I explained to her the difference between a #3 and #6 at her request, and she went off on me for no reason. I was absolutely devastated. But my mommy GM told me I did nothing wrong so I started to feel better.
"God I can't even look you in the eye without wanting to kill myself."
"Hey depressed (asked for help with something idr)"
>the table she was at laughed
I was in the middle of a mild anxiety attack and just ignored her. She was well known to be a complete bitch but nobody called her out because she was simultaneously funny..........
fucking highschool
If only I realized it would have been socially acceptable to tell her to fuck off for saying shit like that
"You need to learn to fuck"
It was true. I stepped my game up after that
"I love giving you a bj. My ex was so big it hurt my jaw and gag me"
She actually thought this was a complement
>you look like a pigeon
yeah I know don't rub it in
Sounds like the best thing that has ever happened to you.
fuck
what did you do to deserve that
Women always insult your dick when they break up with you. Bro of mine is 7.5in and it's happened to him several times. They're shitty creatures and you should literally never care about what they say. Most of the time they're trying to manipulate you.
"People don't change, user."
>Friends with a girl
>Spring semester we both have a night class and she asks me to drive her hom
>End up also picking her up
>Become good friends and hang out a lot
>Continues into fall
>Ask her out
>She says no
>Wait a couple weeks
>Ask her again
>She blocks me from everything and asks someone else to pick her up
>Now hates me
>I would have sex with you if you werent you
It was more than one girl.
Yikes
What does that even mean dude?
>implying that I talk to girls IRL
What does that even mean? Whats the context? People change all the time
Mother told me she regrets birthing me.
In middle school I was walking to the school library and a girl called me creepy completely unprovoked. My self confidence has been shattered ever since.
>middle school 7th grade
>went to private school, so my class was fairly small
>new girl joins our class that year
>instantly crush on her
>try to talk to her
>my autism probably creeped her out
>sort of give up after a while
>one day, eating lunch at a table with a bunch of friends
>girl sits at the table
>everyone is talking about who they would date in the class
>friend of mine jokingly says "I'd totally date user" (we're both male, so this was a funny thing)
>girl then says out loud, so that everyone could hear "I'd rather be lesbian than date user"
>go home that night and cry
>You have a small dick.
Damn, I'm Asian and that hurted.
>Let's stop dating, because you don't fuck me
I really liked her, still haven't fucked her..
He namefagged on an anonymous message board.
>roastie does dumb shit
>tell her she does dumb shit
>ok but you are ugly
>i am not kidding, you are really really ugly.
this happened a few years ago
I told my ex she was my reason to live, her response was "that's pretty sad". She dumped me about 4 months later for another guy.
Never ever let yourself be vulnerable in front of a woman, they're like sharks.
My gf has said that to me many times and I her. I think it matters more if you feel the same way than 'being vulnerable in front of a woman', it also depends on the kind of woman. Women are generally nurturing (they have to get it brainwashed out of them) so they do enjoy taking care of you some of the time if you don't take it overboard and want a mommy gf.
I once went to a prostitute and after failing to get my dick erect she told me that I truely need to find a real girlfriend. I was cringing for an entire week .
The following happened a few years ago. Basically, a girl I didn't knew pulled out a prank by telling me if I wanted to date her. My autism kicked in and immediately started crying. I don't cringe anymore to this event
I didn't want a mommy gf, I was just depressed and anxious and thought she was dating me out of pity. Not surprised it ended like it did.
what's this weak shit
>cringe
She wasnt the first human, nor last to say it to me, but it was most hurtful to hear it from her for some reason
I used to talk and act like a dumbass thinking i was funny when i wasnt but at least i had fun
I was at a party at a bar with my cousin and some of his friends, naturally the 9th wheel, when he asked if I would go get him and his girlfriend a drink, he'd get me one too. So there was a huge crowd if people kind of just standing in front of the bar, literally just blocking it, so I squeeze my way, tactfully, I thought at least, into the front of the bar. Its loud so I cant hear much, but I then turn and this drunk woman is literally screaming in my face at full volume.
>WHO THE FUCK DO YOU THINK YOU ARE
>FUCK YOU YOU PIECE OF SHIT
>I BET YOU HAVE A SMALL DICK STRONGARMING YOUR WAY IN FRONT OF ALL OF US
And I was kind of amused because I didnt think she was talking to me, suddenly she starts fucking punching my back, and I'm just like, wow. I got the drinks and gave them to my cousin and walked home.
>"Dating you was just an experiment to see if I could see you as anything more than a friend. Turns out I can't. So lets just go back to being friends, it shouldn't be too hard to rewind anyways."
Curtosey of my first and only ex. On the bright side, it's a lot easier to ghost someone once you realize they're a fucking psychopath.
It means I look good but I can't talk to girls.
nothing. i've never talked to a woman irl before.
people constantly call me a fag or shit but im not sure i care so much anymore
>God killed the wrong child
Thanks mom
>'Don't act like you have anyone other than me in this world. If I didn't stomach putting up with you little shits you'd both be living on the streets right now. But by all means, take your waste of space sister and leave. Enjoy the shelter. That bitch will be working the streets by the end of the month, and with your attitude, you'll probably end up dead. But hey, at least you'll be out of my hair.'
I have still yet to meet anyone as vile as my own mother.
>Many years ago in like grade 7 I think
>Knew a girl who seemed nice
>Not like friends but could chat easily
>Sitting behind a group of girls in class
>Hear them whispering about a party for the nice girl
>Mention inviting pretty much everyone
>My heart flickers, I barely get invited to parties at all so im excited to go
>but then someone asks nice girl this
>"wait even user? Are you serious?"
>Nice girl says eeww gross of course not
>She doesn't say it in that high pitched way where it sounds somewhat funny/cheerful but it sounds like genuine disgust
>They're all laughing, saying I really am disgusting
>One of them notice me and say "aha oh shit he's right there"
>They're killing themselves laughing while looking at me and still saying how my hair is so ugly and my face is hideous
>up to this point, I had never been bullied or even thought about my looks
>I'm not saying I'm good looking but I wouldn't think I'm gross, I wasn't overweight, no acne, hair was straight Brown and cut short, nothing to stand out I thought
>it feels like an eternity but it was probably 30 seconds
>Feel the tears start to swell up inside so walk off to the bathroom and cry inside a stall alone for ages until a teacher comes looking for me
>girls hand out invites the following day to everyone except me
>apparently it's a blast
>friends the following week ask me why I didn't go since the whole class was invited
I haven't cried since then, honestly think it damaged me since every time since where I know I'm meant to be emotional, I just don't feel anything
Small wonder Hajime no Gal failed.
"I'd date you if you didn't have a baby face."
coming from my brothers girlfriend.
In which I replied "Thanks bitch."
Nothing really hurts me that much from woman, as they're essentially the worst examples of humanity. Little girls opinions I value though since they're less tainted. But they usually like me.
>youre my first male friend
I know it was in grade 7, and responding like this wouldn't have occurred to you, but you should have just said "Nobody asked you, bitch."
Did it really l thought it was pretty decent.
Nothing because a girl has never talked to me
>'Holy fuck you're weird'
That one stung.
>'You dance so white'
Funny, but it still hurt at the time.
These were both gf's.
I don't love you anymore user.
We aren't getting back together ...
I was a social pariah in school, so pretty much everyone bullied me. In middle school the girls would say I was ugly and disgusting a lot. Got called lots of names. If there was a group project and I would be put in a group with them, they would complain and refuse to work with me. Guys did it too sometimes but females always did it.
It only really bothered me in middle school.
Similar sorts of things happened in high school, but I was too checked out to care at that point, and I've been too checked out to care what anyone says ever since.
>These we-
Stop embarassing yourself
>You're ugly
7th grade and some girl literally pointed at me from a few feet away and said that to my face.
Also had my entire job saying how ugly I was behind my back for an entire year or two.
>"I only do that because I am your friend"
comes to mind.
Youre nothing but a dirty gypsy you have no place in society