Would you date a girl who is extremely submissive/masochistic & wanted you to mistreat her, degrade her...

This but I'm the girl

I already do.
Accidentally hurting her literally hurts me (sharp pain in lower abdomen usually) but if I can tell she's into it on some level, there's nothing better.
She absolutely loves being bruised and would go further (cutting etc.) but she used to self-harm many years ago and I wouldn't want her to relapse because of it.

no because i would be bad at it and it would make me very uncomfortable

Nope. Been there.

She was a disgusting disaster of a human being. Things like these are usually indicators of childhood abuse, and unhealthy relationship habits.

What if she was a normal, respectable person outside of her sexual interests?

Not that user but...
The only way some one who needs/wants that is because they've experienced so much negativity in their psyche they need to maintain that level of "pain" to function as their body/mind believes that's what is required to function. You have to strictly regulate some one if this is the case for them to function as a normal respectable person. Most people aren't able to pull this off.

hahahaha
unoriginal

Probably still wouldn't. I can't trust someone who gets off on being a doormat.

>no actual evidence to back this up, just dumb speculation
Some people just have certain kinks or things that arouse them. It's about as harmless as gentle femdom. Or are you gonna say people into light femdom are "fucked up" too?

women that what to be treated like literal trash while being fucked or in relationships are a big turn off
they'd have to be at least an 8 out of 10 for me to let it slide. disgusting

>Would you date a girl who is extremely submissive/masochistic
Yes, but I would be VERY bad to her. It would be a legitimately abusive relationship.

No need to get defensive.

This isn't speculation-- this is tried and true life experience.

If you scroll up you'll see the question is phrased as 'extremely'-- and the person is putting forth the desire to be beaten, mistreated, and degraded.

That's not fucking harmless by a longshot. None of those are 'kinks'-- those are problems with deep roots that go far beyond mere sexuality.

Only if she is so submissive and masochistic she would date a robot NEET and let me force her to work for me.

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onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/j.1553-2712.1995.tb03278.x
tons of articles to show that
>pain is more important than something as severe as alcohol and smoking addictions
This implies what I implied that hasn't had enough psychological studies done the subject. There's also studies done on mice that show pain can become a "positive" thing for mice.

That's the only kind of girl I date. Most can't take it. They get overwhelmed and feel disgusted by themselves.

So you mean women in general? Out of the 4 women Ive had relationships with, every single one was an extreme sub and thought it made them super unique. They also all, every single fucking one, had daddy issues. 3 had b cluster personality disorders. That being said I go to a liberal arts school but still, I think women in general are subs, and women who pretend to be doms just haven't been dommed themselves.

No, I would slap her ass, fuck her hard and maybe strangle her a little without applying to much pressure. Females are all fucked up in the head if they think that deepthroating her while spitting on her face is making love.

my gf is like that and i have mixed feelings about it

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i would, i would love to beat a woman and degrade/humiliate her in bed then afterward cook her some dinner

Yes, but I'd feel bad and try to not do those things. Maybe I could be a bit rough, but I have limits.

Yes, as long as she communicates it well and not tries to draw me into fulfilling her kink by partnership aggro I would find that pretty hot actually.
If I can trust her to not use it against me after a break-up, and she trust me enough to know some limits, I have zero problem with it.

I couldn't do it. The thought of mistreating a woman that loves me makes me feel sick and sad.

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For a given value of 'date'

As long as she's a switch into mommydom and foot play too.

No, she'd be exclusively sub.
Would that be a dealbreaker for you?

Are you the girl we're talking about?

As long as she keeps the masochism in bed only, and is faithful and warm in all other aspects of life, then yes.

Date no, fuck yes and I've done it.

But it's impossible to respect someone who let themselves be treated that way. Besides it's not really my kink anyway.

Attention all dumb sadists:

Never do anything to a woman that will leave a mark like a bruise or a welt. She can change her mind about you any day at any time. She will then use the marks on her body to build a case against you alleging domestic abuse and/or sexual assault.
Ignore women or if you are too much of a fucking neanderthal, just fuck easy and with a condom.

Sometimes. I'm mostly a sub and enjoy that stuff myself but occasionally I just want to fuck a girl so hard she's crying while I lash out at her and beat her and choke her and threaten to kill her with a knife while she calls me daddy and begs me to stop until I gradually convince her that she deserves this and everything awful in the world and more. Consensually, of course.

I've talked to girls about it and they always think it's hot. It's depressing after I cum and realize that these whores are all the same, I can repress my sexual desires and respect myself as a human being, yet women cannot and crave being treated as objects, which in turn makes me think they are just that. I just wish I could believe that women are human.

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The risk is worth taking. Nothing gets me off like giving a masochist girl a good beating. If I let her change her mind it would be on me anyway.

>I'm a sadist and I enjoy hurting & abusing people to spill my semen, but this makes me better and more "human" than women, who I've decided are subhuman for sharing my kink.
Fucking hell, you're one of the biggest faggots I have ever seen. Fuck off you little cunt.

Absolutely, and I'd make her call me daddy while I did it.

all men here are misogynistic so of course they would

ehh, the women I've been most abusive towards have been the most loyal, subservient and kind with no hint of doing anything like this. It was only after I just started being nice to them that they turned on me(for not being how I use to) lol.

You love it so joke's on you.

Good job making me cringe

It's too much work to keep smacking someone around and degrading them. It wouldn't last.

depends on what she does if I don't. I would use her I guess, but I wouldn't abuse her.

Yes and I'd utterly destroy her. By the time I'd finished with her, her butthole wouldn't be able to close properly.

Isn't a blowjob pretty degrading? All girls are submissive and want to be degraded to certain point

You cringe now but I'm the one with a gf and six dozen girls thirsty for daddy's milk on any given porn/dating site.

why not
(it's not like, I would do it to her then)

Roastie has zero reading comprehension and becomes instantly enraged. Typical.

This is exactly my kink which is why im single despite being decent looking(6-8/10)

I can't say for sure, but if I really liked/loved the girl, probably not. Free use, degradation, bondage and some sadistic stuff are big kinks of mine, and of I liked the girl enough I could probably survive on those. I would like to play with her feet at the very least, but I suppose there's no reason I couldn't.

In an instant, yes.

>tfw you will never collar her, force her to walk on all fours and eat from a dog bowl
>you will never surprise her during her day, abduct and ravish her
>you will never roleplay a kidnapping in an airbnb for a week, using her how you like
>you will never record her saying her most humiliating desires and tie her up to listen to them for hours
>you will never cook dinner together and cuddle
pls be in Australia

>I just want to fuck a girl so hard she's crying while I lash out at her and beat her and choke her and threaten to kill her with a knife while she calls me daddy and begs me to stop until I gradually convince her that she deserves this and everything awful in the world and more.
Goddamn, user, that turned me on. I wish I could get a guy to kill me without getting him in trouble.

Fuck no, why are women so boring? You're not special because you like this, all women want this. You're basically asking if someone wants to date a woman.

This

OP describes every girl I have ever fucked.

Depends
Do girls who want them function normally?
Can they turn the switch off?

only if she is slim thick

Hell yea, ill beat a bitch half to death , ill poke her in the eye, ill choke slam her, ill give her a wedgie not to mention also an indian burn.

No for realsies, i would get such a power trip and get my rocks off. Sent me a link if your the hoe OP

Yeah, that type of shit gets my dick diamonds. When it comes to public displays of abuse though I would tone it down. She may like it, but I don't want onlookers thinking I'm some wife beater. I'm actually chatting with this girl I work with and she always brings up kinky submissive shit around me so I might need to take the hint.

This pretty much. I mean I am a switch so I don't mind submissive women at all, but they are so over-saturated. We need more dom women. Or women that are into dirty messed up hand holding and hugging

Same bro

Halarious and original

>would you date a girl with serious mental illness and issues

Yes, and I already do

I take that risk, and liked the results so far.

>Ignore women
lel faggot

No, I find submissive women to be a huge turnoff. Yes, my life sucks in part because of it.

Nope, that doesn't interest me in the least.