If you got a girlfriend would you let her have her own privacy, ie. that means not snooping on her phone?

If you got a girlfriend would you let her have her own privacy, ie. that means not snooping on her phone?

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I'd never date someone I can't trust.

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most probably yes, unless she ey trying to hide something very very hard.
also why the hell do u think i can get a girlfriend ye cunt

I don't see why this is even a question.
privacy goes both ways however.

As long as she uses my dick pic as her wallpaper, I don't give a fuck what she does on her phone.

>I'd never date someone I can't trust.
this

I don't snoop but locked phones are a no go. If she needs to see something that bad she can look through it on front of never and vice versa

That thread seems to have spawned two additional threads. It's certainly interesting to me.

What about couples who agree to share everything with eachother? Is that healthy? Is their relationship generally much different than those who don't opt to do this? Ironically I think they wouldn't bother to look much if they had free access to eachothers belongings in this arrangement. But it would still turn out to be a way to keep one another in-check, for better or worse.

On the other hand, I think having private off-limits spaces (virtual or physical) could be good too. The content of them is irrelevant. It's hard to explain but I think just having those spaces may sort of charge the relationship up more.

To answer the OP question: I wouldn't without her permission, that's clear. I don't think you gain much by doing so anyway. All those people who try to break into their partner's social media account confuse me: either you find they are not guilty and you feel terrible guilt for breaking their trust, or you find they are guilty and needlessly view the dirty heart-stabbing content in all its glory. You should have just broken up with them already if you had suspicions from their unusual behavior, which they took no action to reassure you when asked about it.

If I don't have a reason to not trust her I don't need to snoop around her phone and shit. I wouldn't date someone I can't trust in the first place. If she gave me a reason not to trust her I'd just dump her.

so then youre gonna have to go gay?

I wouldn't look through her phone, if I got suspicious I'd just ghost the bitch. Not like she'd be honest with me anyway.

nobody should be spending so much time on your phone that you care about this shit.
phones will give you a brain tumor

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Keylogging my girlfriend was the best decision fucking decision I ever did. I instantly fixed all the shit she said bad about me, got to know more about her interests and even fetishes and after 6 months doing this She texted her bestie telling me that I am a fallen angel and that she never loved someone so much before. HMMM IT'S LIKE WOMEN NEED TO BE CONTROLED IN ORDER TO BE HAPPY, ADAM'S RIB IDFK

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Lmao go tell her what you did and see what happens u creep

What fetishes? We need to know.

i wouldn't even be mad if i had a bf invade my privacy to improve himself, that's dedication

I'll invade your privacy any time you want baby.

I'd look out of interest mostly, I already look to see what everyone's doing on their phones and the first thing I do when I get access to a computer is check the search history. I don't know why I'd be any different for a gf

I gave my ex of 3 years that freedom. Was actually getting ready to propose but I came home from work and found her getting eaten out by a homeless crack whore from down the road. I threw her out the same night. You need to check what's up every now and then to avoid this.

Yeah, but only because I wouldn't give a fuck. I don't have LTRs so why should I waste the emotional energy being mad and paranoid?
If I don't fuck a relationship up accidentally by being the sperg I am, I'll do it intentionally in short order just to regain the comfort of solitude.

Only if she doesn't put off whore vibes.

Why do you say that? Gay people are even less trustworthy.

Shut up roastie. Your emotions are irrelevant.

If she does not snoop, I won't either.
When she starts with that shit, the gloves come off.

But I also go for "one strike-you are out" rule on even emotional cheating, so GL with hiding the orbiters.

I wouldn't allow my girlfriend to have a phone. Tried once, didn't work out.

>implying I woyld let her have a phone

Are you drunk? That's the standard, is it not?

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>I'd never date someone I can't trust.
So you're a faggot

Ah, a mans conundrum.

A mans propensity for obsessive possession and a womans propensity for slipping off to fuck other men in secret crashes into freewill and an individuals respect of privacy.

You can monitor, you can forbid, you can lock her away but the first moment you are distracted a guy will be balls deep inside her. There is nothing you can do to prohibit it happening so the best you can do is let go and when you find out you get out.

why do you guys think homosexuals don't cheat?

altering your behavior just to fit a woman is insanity and wimpy. When she leaves you, your life is over and why so many of you kill women at that point. She don't want you anymore so you make damn sure no one else will have her. Sick

Because homosexuals don't have exclusive relationships. They fuck whoever they can.

Ok but that seems like homosexuals are smarter and don't try to force someone to be monogamous when its against their nature. A straight man somehow believes a woman will be his forever after she fucks him once.

I'd let her have her own boyfriends, as long as I'm one of them and can introduce her as my gf. Even fatties would do.

If we're just dating freshly and casually, I'd let her do her thing.

If we're in a serious relationship, we have to have access to each other's phones, social media accounts, everything.

Privacy would be an excuse in this case.
Do you know what the true purpose of privacy is?
It's protection. You don't want certain people to see something they could use against you, make fun of you, etc.

The way social media and the internet is now, you couldn't possibly monitor everything they do anyway. Women are just hooked up 24/7 to an army of guys all chomping at the bit to have their turn and they'll always find a way in.
Just have to hope your girlfriend at least has a shred of moral standards, which is almost the same as winning the lottery these days.

Most girls entire social lives are online so I'd want to see it. I wouldn't care if she had a private diary or something but she could posting nudes and flirting with 50 different guys and youd never know if you didn't check her phone

As a woman, I couldn't imagine being that much of a tyrannical psycho to a guy. I hate seeing bitches not giving their man some space.
I'd expect that my bf/gf would be decent enough as a person to give me a good level of privacy. If you can't trust each other, your relationship will die.

What if your bf went to a busy club every night with slutty girls everywhere who are trying to fuck him. That's essentially what you're doing every time you go on fb or instagram.

Other side of the equation is porn, porn might not feel like cheating to guys but it does to us. Even when these women enjoy validation from strange men its not like they're imagining having sex with them and lusting after them. Men on the internet are 100% worse and no man will ever understand what feeling insecure is like you can't change my mind.

how do you people think to say shit like this lmao

>mfw the trust issues of millennials and zoomers
none of your relationships will last long. even cucks are smarter than you.

u r gay fgt lol

I have a girlfriend, I know her phone code. I don't snoop on her phone. One time someone who she rejected messaged her in front of me. That was fun.

I'd harbour a relationship where I can trust my partner. If somethings off, I'll talk to them about and let them know that I won't be offended by the truth (I don't waste time putting emotional effort into people who don't want me) and act accordingly. If I somehow find out he's cheating, I'll just break up with him.
If my bf is worried, I'll be open enough to listen to him and I would even show him there's nothing to worry about. I'd rather have him talk to me about it than go behind my back snooping, that's just fucked.

27-30ish in age
5'5 minimum (could honestly probably overlook this. It's just preference he's a bit taller than me)
Not disgustingly obese (but I do like chub/ big dudes to a point.
Doesn't live with mummy.
Has a job (even a wagey one)
Likes cats.
Decent hygiene level.
Helps around the house and doesn't just leave shit at his ass for other people to deal with.
Kind, doesn't actually hate women.


Anyway I'm ugly and mentally ill so this is definitely asking too much

The difference is, you can ask a guy to stop looking at porn. And they probably will, provided you can deal with the increase in libido.
A guy can't ask a woman to stop considering cheating on him. Or ask a woman to let him control all of her accounts.

Luckily I can hide anything. I'm used to police state post 9/11 USA. It made me have to be sneaky.

So close and yet so far. Originally natch.

seems pretty reasonable, good on you

>26
>5'9"
>Chubby
>Live with mom
>Wagie
>Hate cats
>Decent hygiene
>Clean up and do chores
>Kind but also hate women

I dont meet your requirements and would still ghost you esp. if you really are mentally so ill say yes you are asking too much

>I'd harbour a relationship where I can trust my partner.
It's not as simple as "just find someone you trust" because for most people finding someone you trust is extremely hard. You said yourself you wouldn't date a guy who went out flirting with girls every night because you wouldn't trust him. So how am I a physco for not trusting my girl to be alone on her phone? Let's be real the only reason you're on social media is too get attention from men

Then you have literally nothing going for you. Well done. Nobody is at a loss here. Even if too much my standards are pretty just in line with what I have.

Except my body is pretty hot

I'm taken but

>26
>6'4"
>work out, have musculature but am of healthy and not lean bodyweight
>live at home
>hygienic
>Pretty much like all animals
>In grad school, don't have a job atm
>Clean
>Kind, love women


Would you say I'm in, at or out of your league?

could you please post your boobs?

Easy misconception about women in general.

They don't generally want attention/status from men, nearly as much as they want attention/status from women. Clothes/makeup is for girls to feel attractive in the eyes of other women.

Honestly trust was a huge thing for me, a huge problem for a long time. I ruined a lot of good relationships before learning to just sit back and realize that you can't control anyone else.

Also the worst part about being jealous is that you attract other jealous people, and will easily find yourself in the worst relationship of your life if you let it.

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Yeah I mean I can shift on things if everything else is fine. You're obviously going to move out when you can. case by case basis though, the other dude just sounds a cunt despite meeting some points.

>29
>6ft
>disgustingly obese (but losing weight)
>live with mummy and daddy.
>Has a job (albeit a pathetic wagey one)
>Likes cats.
>Decent hygiene level.
>Helps around the house (most of the time)
>reasonably kind, only slightly hates women

giv pusy pls thx

>Clothes/makeup is for girls to feel attractive in the eyes of other women.
LOL they still want the man's attention which is why they try to be prettier then other girls. Go hang out a girls house when no men around and they all have no makeup and look like shit, but nice try

Ha fuck. Wrong thread, I just realised. Was distracted cooking. I will respectfully fuck off now. My apologies

Being a homeowner on your own is retarded lel. Why waste money on mortgage/rent when you can live for free and then move out when you find someone and are ready to start a family? Americans are so backward

So you went from saying "if you can't trust your gf then your a physcotic loser" to "I don't trust anybody and you're stupid if you think I will". Nice 180 roastie.

I think you're too young and new to figure out who you're replying to. That was my first post in the thread cunt.

If you want privacy from your significant other you're untrustworthy. If you don't both have access to each other's phones then you're in a joke not a relationship. Don't be a fucking skank and then you won't have problems.

Why would I care what she does on her phone?

You do understand it takes years to figure out who someone really is, right?

If you need your partner to give up on privacy, you don't trust them and they're not trustworthy.
I know my husband is trustworthy which is why I'd never snoop through his phone.
I don't have anything to hide, but I also don't want to date a lunatic who thinks I'm secretly planning to suck dick every time I'm shitposting.

The only reason why someone would be so paranoid is that they're a skank themselves, to be quite honest with you.

This is retarded, and coming from an insecure shit place.

Yeah, realistically you could have the code to your spouses phone, but that doesn't mean you go through it constantly to find anything that could be misconstrued as infidelity.

God, why bother giving actual healthy advice to a bunch of autistic brainlets that will invariably ruin every relationship that they're in by being unironically a fucking cuck.

Hey idiot, you realize that the more insecure you are, the more your partner will realize you doubt your own worth on a massive level?

There is no better way to incentivize cheating than being overly jealous.

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Glad we're on the same page, fembot :^)