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This. I know a girl who is crazy borderline and she's only been with 45 guys. I dunno what kind of girl is having sex with 150 guys in six months.

>still believing this in current year

I feel this way too. I treat my gf like shit because of it. I feel sorry for her because she was fed this narrative that women should fuck lots of guys to fight for feminism or whatever, and that there's nothing wrong with it, but I just can't.

She teared up asking me if I ever wanted to get married and when I said "no, never" she looked at the ground and said she never imagined she'd just be somebody's girlfriend forever.

If there are any real women out there, could you answer that for me. If it's your fantasy to meet a guy you really really like and get married and have a family, why would you spend your early 20s getting picked up at bars and casually fucking all of your coworkers?

I would fuck her if she was attractive but not gf her. if it's just one shag I don't care how many other guys she's had

>why would you spend your early 20s getting picked up at bars and casually fucking all of your coworkers?
Because of the narrative you just talked about, and probably because of peer pressure and our hedonistic culture.
How many guys has she been with? How old is she now?

Fuckoff. She doesn't deserve to be treated badly even if she's not wife material. If she's gf material she's wife material, they're the same thing. You're just a massive cunt trying to justify being one m8. If you feel that way about her you shouldn't have been dating her in the first place or should have stopped the minute you found out, stop being a fucking twat

wow get a load of this white knight

I went through a very similar thing. She made me feel bad but I told myself it's the future she chose. All fine and good to say you want to be a wife and get married, but you have no right to even try attaining that if you've had more than 0 prior sexual partners.I treated my practice gf exceptionally well considering she had been with 3 guys before me at 28. We dated 7 years, I just broke up with my practice gf this year. I'm about to turn 30 and it's time to start looking into settling down. I've got the job, savings, investments, etc.. Just need a qt wife to put some babies in and start a family with. There was a lot of crying on both parties the night I did it, but it's part of growing up, sometimes doing the right thing is hard, extremely hard. Now that it's Christmas season I'm tempted to buy her some nice stuff. She is on disability so she doesn't really ever have nice things. Part of why I liked being with her so much was so I could spoil her and she was genuinely appreciative of it. It's that provider instinct, and 7 years of history is not insignificant.

Some of the best vaginas I have fucked have been hookers, if they look after themselves do the right exercises it will feel great. No amount of cocktails going to make a pussy feel any worse, child birth does make a difference but it is recoverable

Why are you going to stay with her forever but not marry her, what is the point then? Being a slut is gross, but you sound cruel and if you can't get past her partner count it might be better for you both to part ways.
>If it's your fantasy to meet a guy you really really like and get married and have a family, why would you spend your early 20s getting picked up at bars and casually fucking all of your coworkers?
In general it is because different women want different things. There are many women that stay pure until they meet their husband, generally they also tend to be religious. There are some young women that are convinced that when they are young they don't care about that sort of thing, but then change their mind and become lonely when they get older and less easy male attention. There are some women, though fewer that the previous two types, that genuinely don't care about getting married and having a monogamous sweet life ever and are happy to slut it up for their whole life and have various "boy toys" and whatnot. There are other types too that want different things than what I mentioned, and for different reasons but I think I covered all the common ones.

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Not a white knight son, I made this post You're just full of shit if you are willing to date someone and treat them like shit and nobody deserves that.

It's pretty simple. This means she's not going to stay with you and she cannot truly love.

All relationships have harder times, but if she has absolutely no trouble jumping to another cock, both in a way of cock availability as well as the fact that she wouldn't really feel bad about it, then she's no good. Plus there's the issue of restraint. She clearly cannot hold her vagina closed so who's to say she won't fuck another guy when she's in a relationship and her vaggy itches?

I want a virgin not because I believe in the roastie meme or because I think they're tighter, it's because I want someone as equally inexperienced as me.

I know I want this, because I was talking to a girl who was interested in me, and we eventually started talking about sex, and she just got really mad at me for asking questions and said "sex doesn't mean anything okay it's not special" (I lost interest when I found out she wasn't a virgin). It basically confirmed everything I believe, that sex will never be special for these women like it would for me, that I'll never get to explore someone and have them explore me too in the same way. I'll just be a resin of something they've already seen, there is nothing they can give me that they haven't given before, and thus they'll never truly be mine.

Why don't you go save her then, captain save-a-hoe? I'm sure her oozing syphilitic gash would be more than happy to accommodate you and your wallet. She might even rinse out the last 30 guys' cum she took that day if you buy her a bouquet of roses.

you roasties are even cuter when you pretend like men aren't instantly repulsed by your hanging beef curtains

No one is saying user has to date her, but it is mean to stay with her and treat her as a lesser person. If he doesn't approve of her past they aren't compatible.

She wasn't forced to fuck many guys. She did it and was told it's fine. It's not. If her own moral compass didn't tell her it's not okay then she's not okay.

>If she's gf material she's wife material, they're the same thing.
Not the same thing. Gf isn't a commitment for life, you don't have children with a gf either. With a gf you can just break up any day and it's fine. You don't do that with a wife.

I'm surprised she still hasn't left you after this shit. But you did the right thing. It's normal to be unable to shake off the feeling of your gf being a slut because it's your own morality doing the job and again, it's absolutely fine.

Why are you guys all so deluded, almost none of you will marry a virgin and all of you will be cheated on. I know of two guys who married virgins and are now raising kids that biologically are not there own. One of these women even refused to admit saying that her husband must have cheated with another woman and carried some sloppy seconds sperm on his cock and brought it home to her pussy.

You know that virgin girls can have hanging beef curtains right?

Honestly I don't blame you, her intentions are questionable because of her actions, and intimacy probably isn't special and unique to her anymore, though there can be a change of heart. Giving a man my body is a gift to him, and vice versa. There's like some spiritual element to it honestly.

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>YOURE GONNA GET CHEATED ON, MAY AS WELL JUST ACCEPT IT AND NOT TRY TO FIND A WOMAN THAT ISN'T A DISLOYAL DEGENERATE WHORE

Fuck off cuck

The level of LARP in this one is unreal
You're a piece of shit. How can you expect a virgin wife when you yourself don't wait until marriage? You don't deserve it because you haven't restrained yourself either. If she took your virginity under the guise of her being a virgin, that's on you, you should've waited til marriage.

Everyone else in this thread talking about practice gfs etc are part of the problem and I FUCKING HATE YOU FAGGOT CUNTS. You don't deserve virgin wives you absolute fucking regards, you're part of the epidemic of men spoiling women under false pretences, I hate you all so fucking much, more than I hate these dumb whores that jump on whatever dick sticks up for them. I want a non religious virgin wife with my values but apparently there aren't people who just have morals for the sake of being good, they only have them under fear of hell.

It's no doubt better than she deserves. She's a broken creature but obviously he is able to look past that to some degree. That said, even the kindest soul has their limits on what can be tolerated. Gf is one thing but marriage is sacred, and she obviously didn't give a shit about that before. She should learn her place and be grateful for what she has. Deep down these women know it's wrong to sleep around and have premarital sex. That's why they are so sensitive about slut shaming.

My gf told me she had sex with several men.I don't care at all about it.why should I .She's the most loyal person I know.But muhh Slut. The only reason you guys think a person is a Slut because of sex is because the most of you are khvs .I had sex with girls beside my gf too so why should I hate her for smth I did too

Why do you deny the fact that virgin wives are likely to cheat?

A loyal slut gf is the best. Great sex anytime you want.

Are you in a gay relationship with a man you call your gf? Seems kind of hypocritical of you to judge her the same way you judge yourself and other men. Did you forget that there are differences between men and women?

Why do you deny that virgin wives are the least likely to cheat?

It doesn't exist though. I tried a few times. They're just not loyal.

But if he has no intention of marrying her it is cruel to waste both of their time. The kindest soul wouldn't be cruel in the way he was, a kind soul would just not date someone incompatible in the first place.

It's a possibility. I don't put it past them, but in my opinion, non virgin wives have already done their cheating before settling. If your body count is more than 1, then you've cheated on your husband, it just happened before you met.

Is it weird if I am fine with dating a woman who has slept with tones of other women as long as she has never been with a man?

Unless you keep track of your woman 24/7 she will cheat. no woman will be content with one cock all her life. Just keep track of all of her spending, check phone records, gps track her and install cameras in your home and dont let her go shopping alone or go to work and you might just be safe

>waste of her time
Why doesn't she leave him then? Oh that's because she's enjoying things the way they are.

It is. She's mentally ill.

Not even that works. I personally fucked a girl that was tracked by her husband in such ways. She went "shopping" and I picked her up and a mall and we went to our place to fuck and then I'd bring her back to the mall.

You're just as disgusting for having a 'practice gf' as the worst slut is. You're a despicable person that used someone for your own warped sense of emotional maturity. She's still a person, in fact, 3 guys isn't even that bad, and you used her for your own selfishness. You did not treat her well; relationships are supposed to be selfless. You have absolutely know leg to stand on. The concept of a 'practice gf' is sociopathic as fuck. People (especially people you're supposed to grow close to) are not pawns to be used.

You have no self-awareness and I bet she feels awful for being viewed as something for your own means to an end for SEVEN YEARS. You strung along someone that probably thought they had a future with you for SEVEN YEARS.

Assume I'm a girl, I don't give two shits or a flying fuck. I hope you're able to sleep at night.

Sounds like he didn't do anything close to that then. Are you telling lies again or just stupid and think you managed to squeeze a sneaky shag in during that 25th hour of the day when he wasn't keeping 24/7 track of her?

>Why do I feel this way?
Why are you hetero?
Your propagation instincts are telling you she is trash

He had a GPS tracker on her car, kept track of her spending, checked phone records. Didn't let her go shopping alone but kept track of her at being at work.

There is a reason why nail shops, massage and fitness (boot camp, yoga etc) is becoming so popular. Women go with partner man see its happen hangs around bored as shit. Woman goes by herself for all future visits, now she has a cover a few hours window of opportunity that she can make use of.

It's ridiculous that women spend hours at shopping malls. No wonder their men don't want to participate in this shit. Which lets them do other shit.

I said I felt bad for it. Even if you ignore her being a raging slut like that she hasn't exactly been a saint. I'm a very emotional man and cling to my ideals. I cognitive dissonance it away with the simple fact that men and women are different. She performed admirably in the role of practice gf, which is why I kept her as long as I did and passed up a few opportunities with girls I would have considered wifing. I am actually very self-aware. I know it's sociopathic to have a practice gf, but I spoiled her ass while we were together. It was very clear that she was to fulfill my sexual needs even when she 'wasn't in the mood'. I treated her well and she didn't want for anything when we were together, aside from a ring but I've already explained why that couldn't happen.
It's sociopathic for a girl to think she can slut around in her youth and still get the husband, picket fence, and 2.5 kids after she hits the wall. People will do what they can get away with. It turns out I have to money and connections to dump and move on to bigger better things. At the end of the day you are responsible for your own lot in life, it's up to you what you make of your brief time on this planet.
I work nights so I actually don't get much sleep while the sun is down. I somehow managed to find a girl with similar background to me, super religious, homeschooled, only she saved her virginity for marriage. She's been putting me through emotional hell with the back and forth game. I'm going to put a ring on her eventually but there has been a lot of tears shed and anxiety. It's not easy but sometimes all you can do is trust in the journey. For once in my life I'm having to work for it and put in effort to get the girl, call it karma if you like. This is the difference between men and women though. We know what we want and will move mountains if that's what it takes to fulfill our dreams and aspirations. Girls for the most part just take whatever floats by.

So he drove her to the mall and then got in the car with you and her? Then he just waited in your car until you were done fucking her and drove them back to the mall? Sounds hard to believe.

Why do you deserve the Christian virgin girl as opposed to a nice Christian virgin boy that isn't a sociopath?

>Let's say a girl has sex with 150 men in 6 months

Then she is a hoe. The math ain't that fucking complicated.

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This is why we need pic related. A majority of the world's problems could be solved with one small cut.

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Oh shit, I meant that he did let her go shoping alone. Sorry there mate

Its all a cover. Yeah they do enjoy spending hours shopping with the girls but its also great for them cause they have someone to back up their story on the days they give shopping a miss

That's a tough one to answer, which is why I defer. She is way past her prime now that she is literally 30, but it's not like we get to pick our oneitis. I know without a doubt that there isn't a better man for her than me, and I will spoil her crazy estrogen riddled ass. At this point it's almost not even about what I deserve, but what she deserves. I want to make her happy no matter the cost, so long as me being with her is part of that happiness.

I feel bad for you, user. I legitimately feel bad.

Kek lady the age of information is here go google vaginal reconstruction
Tits time stamp gtfo

I agree, he doesn't deserve it at all. I hope she cheats on him, he deserves it.

ty, fren. I'm not exactly in a place to give advice, but you can learn as much from a bad example as a good one. Get money, stick to your ideals, and try to do better is all I can say. Wishing you the best.

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And I hope you find the strength to leave that woman. She doesn't deserve you nor what you want to give her.

I say that as someone who fell in love with a slut too and it backfired, which was obviously going to happen.

>Why do I feel this way?
>I'd like to think I hold opinions based on logic and this attitude makes no fucking sense.
>The only thing that comes to my mind is the fact that personally I'm not interested in casual sex, therefore I wouldn't feel attracted to someone that is - but this feels like a retarded grasp at straws.

Because if she's been with 150 guys before you, and you're looking for a relationship, it's more likely that you'll have problems because of the number of guys she's been with. The two of you clearly have different opinions on the importance of sex. You don't like casual sex, and she very, very clearly does.

Plus she's always going to be comparing you to them (whether consciously or not), leading to a larger chance of her being dissatisfied with your sex life. Even if you're really good in bed, what are the chances you're better than every single one of the 150 other guys that she's been with?

I think of it like a company. Imagine there is a company that shows no promise and has filed bankruptcy 150 times. Compare this to one that has shown nothing but promise, amazing returns, and it's all there, fundamentals are rock solid. If you don't have to option to diversify, which one will you invest in? Who in their right mind would pick a woman that failed to maintain a relationship, not once, not ten times, not 100 times, but 150 times over someone who has their shit together and has a perfect track record? If you are even the least bit inclined towards long term thinking you will pick the good virgin girl over the busted up worthless slut who can only make your life worse.

>If it's your fantasy to meet a guy you really really like and get married and have a family, why would you spend your early 20s getting picked up at bars and casually fucking all of your coworkers?

Because modern society tells women they can have both. They can spend their early 20s fucking all the guys they want and then settle down later in life and still have a happy marriage.

That's not entirely true, but the effect that fucking a bunch of guys before getting married has isn't intuitive or obvious, so women aren't learning better.

Yet here we are. I do feel bad for the sluts who were duped in this way, but it sets a bad example for the next crop of future wives if these bad people sleep around and still get the husband. Justice is blind they say. Maybe it's not """""fair"""" that she becomes a cat lady or eternally stuck in that practice gf limbo but it is far worse a crime to feed into the machine and let them get away with it scott free.

>It doesn't exist though.

It does exist, but it's basically luck of the draw. You need to find a girl that's a virgin or has had at most 1-2 previous partners but who really likes sex and is enthusiastic about experimenting. The problem is, that you don't know if she's enthusiastic about sex and willing to experiment because she hasn't gotten a relationship for it, so you're basically hoping you get lucky.

Where the hell did you get that image from?
>google comes up with "nudity"

You're mistaking a slut with a kinky girl. That's not the same.

I think it comes down to two cases.
1. Girls that don't want to ever settle down but eventually their beauty fades and hormones tell them to marry and get children.
2. Girls who consider it a wasted youth if they haven't fucked and partied.

>Why do I feel this way
It's your biological instinct telling you that maybe this woman is not a suitable person to be the mother of your children.

This. It's the same feel girls feel in case of manlets or guys that just aren't "it" for them.

They aren't easy to find. If only more people were into it.

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What about a girl who is a virgin but has ERPd with tons of guys? Just text, no voice or nudes.

I also hate the hate the idea of guys taking virgins for practice with no intentions not commitment to them. All they are doing is creating more and more non virgin women while still expecting to find a virgin Bride settle down with later. It's un sustainable model.

Women should be better at choosing their partners. Basically now everything has sped up so you don't get to date a girl for long until you both fuck. This is kinda bad because I could honestly wait longer until sex but we've come to the point where if I don't fuck a girl within 3 dates, she'll move on to another guy who will, because I was "uninterested".

So are they shopped or did someone actually remove their clit? The no inner labia is nice, but I'd hate not being able to pleasure my gf because she's missing her clit. Not that I'll ever have a gf, but still

What's this female castration? I wouldn't want this on any one

It's quite worrying as a virgin in my late 20s. No girl I'm gonna meet will still be a virgin. I once had a nice time with a girl, but I didn't fuck her. Feels like she moved on because she thought I didn't see her in a sexual way or something.

Honestly I'm 25 and it's a nightmare at this point. 99% girls aren't virgins, and have had at least one long term relationship. The other 1% are insane.

This. I blame society. Both sexes need to get it right, there's a literal gender war rn.

>All that
>But y do I feel like I don't want those sloppy seconds?

Because you have innate attitudes of sexual jealousy as a male - these are darwinian in origin. You do not want to be possibly cucked by another man. End up raising his spawn with your resources. Of course, now we live in the 21st century feminists and fucking manginas will argue that you are being a silly billy by worrying. There is now all sorts of contraception etc available and genetic testing too so you can't BE cucked liked this...so your natural feelings and steering you wrong and you should put a ring on that used up cunts finger.

However....

In a few circumstances our natural instincts can actually steer us right. True, they mostly steer us wrong in this day and age (for instance, the urge to eat FAR more than is good for us comes from the days when sugar and fatty food was an utter rarity. Eat it down now because tommorrow you might be starving) But here you're being steered right.

If she's preggers with chads kid - in a lot of jurisdictions YOU are going to be made to raise it. Or it will be ILLEGAL for you to genetically test the kid
If she's laid 150 guys she might give you an incurable STD - there's no recourse for that - you're just fucked
She almost certainly has now been psychologically broken as a decent person. She has learned that her vagina is some sort of diamond prize, and the moment you won't give her something just because she asks for it she's going to get mad. She is, like many modern women, spoiled as fucking fuck. NOT a good life partner.

You feel the instinct not to wife the whore VISCERALLY. But your subconscious (always working away in the background) also has literally logical reasons for not wanting to do so.

Ignore all manginas. Ignore all feminists. Ignore all cucks - never fucking commit to a whore. There are a dozen reasons, logical and otherwise not to do so. End of discussion.

28 here and I feel you completely. Although I'd mind less if they had a long term relationship, she could've had many flings before/after. Experiences we will never have.
When I was your age I had a chinese housemate. We cuddled up and watched movies together 3 times. She was really cute. I had never even been further than a hug and here I was chilling with my head on her (clothed) boobs.
One day we were talking about sex and it turned out she was a 23yo virgin. I told her I was a virgin as well. Then in a later conversation she said she'd never have sex with a male virgin, because she feared it would hurt her because he wouldn't know what he was doing. I got so turned off by this that I pretty much stopped seeing her. She probably got pumped and dumped through tinder shortly after, just to lose her virginity to an "experienced guy" who probably doesn't even give a shit he just deflowered a girl.

All my friends are getting engaged and I've never had a relationship in my life. It seems only the single moms and insane ones are left, as you said.

If your concern is your wife cheating on you and virgin isn't enough, just don't marry at all

So to summarise you are interrested in a whore but you are afraid your own norms and values make her repulse you to go beyond 2nd base?

First of all you need to wait for 6 months for an accurate test.
Second, your feelings aren't a huge mystery. You have really really bad self-esteem. Work on your feelings of inadequacy.

Honestly, I fear girls who have been in a relationship because all they want is a smooth transition and likely still have feelings for that guy. I mean it's hard to shake off feelings you had for someone that long and all the memories you've had together. Since I'm so inexperienced in relationships I make a lot of mistakes and no girl really wants to give me time to learn. They all want an out-of-the-box experience. Fucking sucks really.

Here's a tip though. NEVER admit to being a virgin. For all you know, you've fucked two girls but it didn't work out between you two. Until you actually fuck a girl that is.

>I've got the job, savings, investments, etc.
And you want to throw that all away when she inevitably divorce rapes you?

>raging slut
She had been with 3 guys by age 28. Obviously that is not ideal, but compared to most modern women that is pretty damn good.
And with all your talk of women slutting around and then settling down, you are the one who sleeps with girls with no intention of marrying them.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
The bigest fat virgin post EVER. Go jump off a bridge incel.

>Since I'm so inexperienced in relationships I make a lot of mistakes and no girl really wants to give me time to learn.
This frightens me too. With my lack of experience I fear she'll not have the patience to put up with learning me things. Especially since men are expected to take charge in everything.
>NEVER admit to being a virgin.
Well normally I wouldn't, but since she was a virgin as well I thought it would add an extra dimension to it. It seemed she would appreciate the fact that I was one. But I guess I cockblocked myself.
When I think of it, it should be a better experience with a virgin when you're both older. Because I wouldn't just jam it in like a guy who's had sex plenty would do.

This is the grossest fucking thing I've seen so far this month. Genitalia is so disgusting looking. Fuck you for posting this.

The barriers to sex in her mind have broken down. Having sex with a different man would be so easy for her at that point, like an alcoholic knocking back just one more beer.

Having sex for the first time is a big thing for just about everyone. Having sex with a different person for the first time is also a big thing but, after that the desensitization starts to set in.

Considering that 5-10% of pregnancies are cases of missattributed fatherhood and ~50% of women will cheat on their spouses you really have to perform a bit of a risk assessment when choosing your women. The ideal betrayal proof girlfriend would have a strong moral compass, make good life choices, have high self-esteem and be adverse to high risk behavior.

Women with high partner counts are less likely to exhibit these qualities according to statistics, anecdotal evidence and plain reasoning. If a girl has a high partner count she must have some pretty good reasoning other than "it was fun lol, don't judge".

You've also got to consider that you will be sharing the same space in her head with a bunch of other men to whom you will no doubt be compared to on a regular basis.

You sound like a massive cuck nigga.

>5-10% of pregnancies are cases of misattributed fatherhood
>50% of women will cheat on their spouses
Going to need sources here.

>Women with high partner counts are less likely to exhibit these qualities according to statistics, anecdotal evidence and plain reasoning. If a girl has a high partner count she must have some pretty good reasoning other than "it was fun lol, don't judge".
What if she was a low self-esteem chubby girl was told by her dumbass, male larping Sex and the City watching friends that you have to try before you buy to get a bf and she should've 'got out more', wasn't exposed to much conservative thinking, leaving her open to pump and dump and she feels intense regret and shame and beats herself up over it, racked up a decent but not insane count and only wants to remember you?

You know, pretty much the female version of a 'robot.'

That's a dreadful metaphor. Filed bankruptcy? that could MAYBE be counted if it were attempted and failed relationships each time. With that frequency you'd think she was just wanting to get off, huh? The virgin girl equivalent is somebody who never had any experience in running a business whatsoever, You're all over the fucking place here.

That is not a very desirable woman user. There is more to betrayal than cheating. How will such a woman raise your kids? How on earth will she be there for you when you need her emotionally? If you can get her to like herself more and lose weight then there's no problem but, such a project is no simple task. If she wants to put all of that behind her then you will need to help her overcome the woman she was.

Huge dicked guy here i do tear and stretch pussies they mostly recover but not all the way and an average dick never feels the same again for them, ive heard it from many. laughing at all the dicklets and girls trying to delude themselfs that the vagina stays exacly the same it dosent.

>When I think of it, it should be a better experience with a virgin when you're both older. Because I wouldn't just jam it in like a guy who's had sex plenty would do.
kek
At least you're not lying about being a virgin
No hymen, no diamond.