Guys its finally happening! I'm going to sex a female for once in my life. Fucking excited but what the fuck do I do? I have no experience so how would I go about doing this.
Give me all the advice that could possibly help me.
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Guys its finally happening! I'm going to sex a female for once in my life. Fucking excited but what the fuck do I do...
It's not that big of a deal desu, dont hype it. Just roll along with what she is doing and you will be fine as long as you dont cum after 5 minutes
Depends on the girl, op! Give us more fucking info instead of assuming every girl wants the same shit. Whats her personality?
go slow, kiss her gently all over her neck and down her body, eat her pussy, slowly enter her after she starts squirning and make sure to go slow and try to last
Don't get too excited or you'll cum before slipping the pp in her
Before you put your dong in, she has to cum first
How the fuck do I not cum in less than 5 minutes
Almost immature? Older than me by like a year or two (but she doesn't know that). She almost acts like a 'failed popular girl' if that makes sense. Also stoner
How the fuck do I do this exactly
Being a bit drunk usually helped for me when i started sleeping with women, other than that just change positions as often as you can and go down on her before you stick it in.
Oh fuck I'm going to have to go down on her before the fuck. Damnit
It's actually pretty nice desu and if u lucky she'll blow you after you are finished with her ^^
Yeah, id say you just ask her straight up, like
>do you want me to be gentle?
In a nice voice, because girls get flustered at that for sure. And to not cum in 5 minutes, just practice on yourself amd try to not cum. Hell, time it!
Since she is a failed popular girl, she would probably like it rough so just learn how to put hickeys, kissing, neck, play with her nips for a bit, dont go straight in, tease her a bit by trailing down her body slowly, kissing and or stripping her diwn urself, before getting to the holy grail
Don't rub her clit autistically fast, make sure to not have fapped for a week, so you feel your hands moving naturally, ask her what she likes, kiss her often
How would I go about that though, how exactly could i bring her to orgasm via mouth
How old are you OP? How do u know you'll get the sex? Have you ever kissed before?
>Virgin not fapping for a week
>Not cumming in 2 min
Pick one.
Agree on the rubbing part,
disagree in the fapping part if you can just fap like 45 min before you start fucking her so you are not that excited and horny
lick her clit kiss and suck her lips lap your tongue up and down her clit
I fucking hate this rule, being well into the sexing with gf
I make her cum vaginally most of the time, but I never want to risk it
Am I gay if most of the time I dont really enjoy eating her out/fingering her before?
But you see, I dont have that kinda time. Its tomorow
Its not acutally hard, just look it up so you got the theory down.
And like other guys said dont rub her clit too hard, take it slow and easy. In my experience they like rubbing their clit slowly more than the actual fingering itself
If you dont have time, tHEN DO IT NOW! FUcking go practice dude, prepare urself
>Am I gay if most of the time I dont really enjoy eating her out/fingering her before?
yes
You may be in some serious trouble bro
Damn
This is originally rough.
Jerk off furiously in the days leading up to it. If you don't already, you probably do. It'll give you death grip and it'll take you an hour or more to cum with anything but your own hand. Unless you're a smoker, do some cardio and make sure you're not entirely unhealthy, it'll make everything work better. When I've been smoking for extended periods of time for some reason I either cum in seconds or just don't get hard.
So bro give us some details
>How old are you
>You've ever had a girlfriend
>Did you talk about sex with her yet
>Is it just a one time thing ?
don't go too fast. If you feel like you're gonna bust, take a break.
be confident when youre pounding it home. good luck to you
What is the story user?
this a million times. Ive slept with a lot of women and the thing that causes issues is me being in my own head. Enjoy the moment, if you slip up or fuck up its honestly more normal than youd think.
good luck and congrats on finally getting laid.
Doesn't matter if she came first
girl here. if u feel like youre gonna nut, pull out and finger her/go down on her for a while. changing things up feels better for her. also try a lot of different positions. if ur nervous about eating her out, trace the alphabet w your tongue. also have her play w her clit while ur fucking her, she should cum from that
I enjoy it when I'm doing it, but it's an effort
You can probably watch some female-oriented porn where they take things nice and slow if you need a visual.
I personally start out with a makeout session, slowly undressing her and caressing her body. Then slowly proceed to lick her nipples and slowly make your way downstairs. If she's dripping wet, use her juices to moisten up your finger and start GENTLY rubbing her clit, barely touching, and getting more intense as she gets more aroused.
Then you should eat her out. Starting slowly, and then picking up the pace. THere are a ton of videos you can watch on techniques. If she likes blowjobs, make sure she gives you one before you eat her out so you have time to recuperate.
Eat her out until she begs for your dick.
Use lube if needed.
Learn how to put on a condom in advance, unless you want it to rip (basically, make sure there is no air at the tip, and you should be fine). Unless you're craving those sweet-sweet STDs.
>if u feel like youre gonna nut, pull out and finger her/go down on her for a while
good advice
I don't think it matters that much if you nut in less than 5 minutes desu, just have fun